Abnormal Diagnostic Manual

Personality Disorder 03 (Narcissistic Personality Disorder)

Li Wan has liked Ji Mingyang for a long time. As soon as she entered university, she heard about the name of this senior. He was so handsome and outstanding that both men and gods were angry. From the upstairs to the cafeteria, it is comparable to the scene of grabbing train tickets during the Spring Festival travel, and there is no one around her who does not have a crush on him.Nonsense.This was Li Wan's first reaction.

Li Wan came from a good family background, and she was beautiful. She had suitors from childhood to adulthood, and she had such an outstanding brother in her family. Naturally, she was skeptical of this legendary figure. In the debate competition, Li Wan was completely defeated.

It was a debate about women's rights. The second debater, Ji Mingyang, spoke sharply and was in high spirits. He defeated his law school opponents and finally won the final title and the title of best debater.Ji Mingyang's way of defending women's rights was the beginning of Li Wan's heart. It was also the first boy who caught his eye under the light of his brothers since he was a child.

Li Wan, who grew up with Sheng Ming and Qi Yu, had a straightforward personality since she was a child. She didn't behave like ordinary girls who would twitch and pretend to attract boys' attention and make boys pursue her in turn. Li Wan took the initiative to pursue Ji Mingyang. .

Li Wan blocked Ji Mingyang at the door of the dormitory, and confessed quickly, and Ji Mingyang readily agreed without any surprise.

However, it was supposed to be about the story of a talented man, a beautiful woman, a fairy couple, but Li Wan felt something was wrong as she walked.

Because when two people are together, they don't talk about love like ordinary couples. Li Wan listens more to Ji Mingyang's eloquent "speech" and listens to his outstanding deeds and lofty ideals. Wan would get angry if he got a little impatient, as if Li Wan's girlfriend's duty was to be Ji Mingyang's saliva basin, following Ji Mingyang's proud spout of saliva all the time, and also had the function of helping him dry his mouth.

And Ji Mingyang didn't pay much attention to himself.

When Li Wan was sick and couldn't watch Ji Mingyang's competition, Ji Mingyang didn't care about her condition at all, but expressed regret and dissatisfaction for not being able to watch his majestic appearance.

Li Wan couldn't help wondering if Ji Mingyang had moved on.

Li Wan's suspicion is not groundless, because Ji Mingyang is always a flashy body charmer. This recognition comes not only from the words of the girls around Li Wan, but also from Ji Mingyang himself. Ji Mingyang will always tell Li Wan tirelessly. Today, a few girls stuffed him with love letters, and a few girls brought him lunch boxes.

Even if she has no love experience, Li Wan still feels that something is wrong with Ji Mingyang.So when this boy stabbed Ji Mingyang with a knife, Li Wan faintly felt that the relationship between them should come to an end.

Sheng Ming and Qi Yu came from far away from Li Wan. When the boy rushed over with a knife, there was no time to protect Li Wan. Fortunately, Zhou Nan appeared from nowhere, captured the boy, and took the knife away. .

But the boy seemed to be falling into madness, and while struggling crazily, he cried and yelled at Ji Mingyang: "Ji Mingyang, you are not human! You bastard! I told you about me and you treated me like this! Go to hell! Unrighteous villain!! Bastard!!!”

The boy was crying heartbroken, and the people around were stunned by the incident. Fortunately, it was meal time, and this place was not on the only way to the cafeteria. The audience had already dispersed, watching this There are not many people involved in a farce.

The school leaders quickly took it away and found out what happened.

It turned out that Zhang Yuanwei, the troublemaker boy, was a junior in the Chinese Department and a patient with borderline personality disorder. He also admired Ji Mingyang.

Ji Mingyang is a person who never refuses others' confessions, girls and boys as well. He is confident that there is no creature in the world who is not obsessed with him, so Zhang Yuanwei's confession can't scare him at all. Hi, it's a testament to his own appeal.Because Zhang Yuanwei's appearance is not a weak little white flower, but a tall, strong and powerful man, but he is strangely suffering from borderline personality disorder.

Borderline personality disorder generally has a higher incidence rate in women, although it is rare in men.Ji Mingyang is very interested in Zhang Yuanwei, so he acts as his psychiatrist while dating him.

Just like in the play, Ji Mingyang accompanied him patiently, and tried his new treatment theory on him, and then, without telling Zhang Yuanwei, changed what happened to Zhang Yuanwei into a script, earning fame and fortune for himself.

Zhang Yuanwei is the same as Li Wan in the play, but even more miserable than Li Wan.Li Wan's father in the play does not know that his mother takes drugs and has promiscuous sex on his own. Zhang Yuanwei outside the play is not only that, but also a homosexual. He was raped and abducted by his uncle from the age of 13 to this road until he was 18 and left home to study University.

Li Wan in the play had a few boyfriends for a short time, but Zhang Yuanwei outside the play was always deceived by men. He was taken care of by a rich businessman, chased and beaten by the rich businessman's wife for several streets, and he had sex with a group of boyfriends who played in a band. Almost got sick from it.Zhang Yuanwei committed suicide every time he was dumped by a man, but unfortunately survived.He once thought that the bright and angelic Ji Mingyang he met was his salvation in this life. He believed in and relied on Ji Mingyang with all his strength. When he was with Ji Mingyang, he could calm down and stop thinking about hurting himself and others.

However, Li Wan and the doctor in the play are happily together, but Zhang Yuanwei outside the play is deceived by Ji Mingyang. He is just Ji Mingyang's experiment, a stepping stone for Ji Mingyang's fame and fortune, and a shame for the men Ji Mingyang has dated. Yes, by Ji Mingyang's side There is also a girlfriend who is so bright and beautiful, but I am a plaything that I can't talk about, hahaha.

Zhang Yuanwei cried and laughed again. During his speech, the doctor repeatedly prevented him from hitting his head against the wall or the table.

Zhang Yuanwei mouthed to Li Wan who was outside the glass window: You must die.

After leaving the police station, Li Wan was devastated. On the one hand, she couldn't accept that her vision was so bad. The only time she was emotionally involved, the character of the object was so unbearable.On the other hand, he was saddened by the betrayal of this only relationship, and Ji Mingyang actually got entangled with others while interacting with himself.

Qi Yu kept enlightening Li Wan, but Li Wan didn't seem to listen to a word.

At this time, Ji Mingyang was not in a good mood. Although the incident did not cause any serious problems due to the timely containment by the school, there is no impenetrable wall in the world. Rumors always spread faster than positive ones. He is always sensitive to the fact that others see him differently. .

Ji Mingyang is a very strong person. He has been excellent all the way since he was a child, and with his extraordinary appearance, he thinks that there is nothing wrong with him being superior. He doesn't think there is anything wrong with writing a script based on Zhang Yuanwei's story and making it public.I am a person favored by God, and the meaning of other people's existence is to bow down and look up to him.

The essential feature of narcissistic personality disorder is such an excessive sense of self-importance, combined with episodes of low self-esteem.The narcissistic personality will brag about his talents and achievements, predict that he will achieve great success, and expect attention and flattery; but at the same time, he has a very fragile self-esteem, constantly verifying what other people think of him, and then reacting to criticism Reflection of anger and disappointment.

Ji Mingyang himself is a person with narcissistic personality disorder.Extremely self-centered, demanding of others, demanding attention, worship, and obedience, but never seeing their own shortcomings, never giving back to others, and lacking basic compassion for others.

When Li Wan returned to school, she found Ji Mingyang and broke up with him.Miss Li has her own pride, she chases people first, she can only blame herself for being blind at the beginning, and she has to dump the other party first.

Ji Mingyang laughed out loud, and said in disbelief: "Li Wan, you are fucking sick. Who do you think you are, you broke up with me, and have I ever dated you? I'm afraid you have a histrionic personality disorder and are extremely loveless. "After finishing speaking, he left without dust.

Mr. Ji is really good. If Qi Yu was present, we would all applaud him. The quality of being able to bite back in the face of danger is very suitable for their industry.

The essential feature of histrionic personality disorder is dramatism, which expresses one's emotions exaggeratedly, in order to attract the attention and sympathy of others.They will cry a lot because of a movie, and they will desperately want to commit suicide because their lovers work overtime and don't go home for dinner.

There are some similarities between the narcissistic personality and the histrionic personality, both wanting the attention of others.

What the narcissist wants is admiration, while the showman wants attention above all else.The narcissistic personality needs people to admire and praise themselves all the time, while the performative personality wants people to pay attention to and love themselves all the time.Histrionics often cry and make suicide threats, but narcissists do not.

Histrionic personality disorder is more common in women, while narcissistic personality disorder is more common in men.

Freud believes that the occurrence of narcissistic personality disorder is due to the failure to pass through the oral period and the Oedipus period (see Chapter 3), resulting in that the emotions that should have been vented and satisfied at that time were not well vented and satisfied .Their excessive attention-seeking behavior is to satisfy feelings that were not satisfied at the time.Patients with narcissistic personality disorder suffer from low self-esteem and emptiness due to rejection by their parents, and they use "narcissism" as a compensation for their sense of self-worth.

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Anyone who is interested in this aspect can take the Enneagram Personality Test.