Parent ID test package

45. Catering personality

Jing Zhe struggled for half an hour at dawn the next day before getting up. He went downstairs for a run to walk the dog. After work, he stopped by the vegetable market. He bought a live chicken and made soup at home. I used a picnic blanket and a few bottles of sparkling wine in the trunk of the car.

When he returned home, Fang Deyue had already brought back the notice and held it up to the tip of his nose to show him.

The hard cover was bound and sealed, with more than a dozen pages interspersed with some charts, and a line of words was marked in red, "...to cater to the personality tendency?"

"Didn't you see it?"

Jing Zhe shook his head blankly with question marks all over his head.

He originally thought that an obedient child would be the best, not crying or making trouble, doing whatever it is called, worry-free and considerate, like the screaming and disturbing people in the neighborhood he had seen, who sat on the ground and cried loudly because he didn't buy snacks Compared with the bear children, their family Yuanyuan is simply a perfect baby.He was worried that Yuanyuan would cry when she was in the same room with a stranger, but Yuanyuan was also very good when she was with that expert. He never thought that the proposal would make such a conclusion for this child.

The densely packed small characters below explain this psychological term in a simple and easy-to-understand manner. Simply put, it is oversensitivity to the feelings of others, suppressed desires, dare not express one's needs, low self-esteem, and is also called a flattering personality.It is not ruled out that the parents are too strict and have a strong desire to control.Parents are advised to lead by example, encourage children to speak out their true thoughts, and reduce beating and scolding.The next line is marked with small red words, and there is a red exclamation mark icon - Note: Mental abuse is also a domestic violence, which also constitutes a crime.

That line of writing seemed to have slapped him hard, and Jing Zhe's face was flushed with burning pain.

He thought he was done, raising children is not the same thing, he himself came here, this line of words used the precision sharp tweezers in surgery to lift the veil of hypocrisy, revealing the rotten mud underneath.It was days and nights, trivial things, every look, every word piled up a rotten garbage heap, it wasn't because he took Yuanyuan away, the root system didn't exist, and it wasn't because he provided Yuanyuan with a good life, so there was no trace to follow of.

Fang Deyue said, "It's not your fault."

"...I really didn't notice." Jing Zhe said dully, "I really..."

Fang Deyue pursed her lips. He wanted to pull Jingzhe's hand, but in the end he hid his hand tightly behind his back, "It's just a tendency. This level will not have much impact on the review. He is still so young." , It will gradually get better in the future, the textbook has mentioned the solution to cater to the personality, I have memorized it, and according to the above, there will be improvement."

"That's not the problem..." Jing Zhe smiled wryly, "I just think I've failed as a parent, eh..." He scratched his hair into a mess with a face of shame, "I have to study hard too! Otherwise, what will I do if you are not here in the future!"

He avoided Fang Deyue's sight, seemed a little overly flustered, hurried into the study to find teaching materials, and said to himself: "Is this the book...child psychology...?"

Fang Deyue said: "It's useless to look at it."

Jing Zhe stopped and turned to look at him, "Then what's useful?" He reminded Fang Deyue of those people who blankly wrote formulas on application questions in the examination room, shaking their pens faster than others, but their eyes were panicked, thinking Write down all the formulas you know on the answer sheet to fake the solution to this question.

There was still a trace of a smile on the corner of his mouth, but his eyes were empty.

Fang Deyue opened her mouth. "You're not Xu Wei. A child knows hot and cold. He knows who treats him well and who treats him badly. He can't pretend. You see he thinks you're going to send him back and he's crying like that...you treat him well. He, he will not let you down." He paused and said, "You have no problem."

There are no perfect people in the world, and naturally there are no perfect parents. Those who can release kindness and love can at least be qualified parents.

Children do not have the right to choose their parents. In this world, being raised by qualified parents is like winning the first prize in life.

Jing Zhe looked at him and nodded silently.

With the proof materials, Yuanyuan's enrollment was quickly completed. It is not far from their community, and it is closer through the back door. Yuanyuan is in a small class and comes with the report. Yes, the teacher is also very gentle. Over the years, the examination certificates issued by the Committee for the Protection of Children’s Rights and Interests are hung in the most conspicuous place in the lobby. Jing Zhe has experienced the examination of parents’ certificates, and knows how meticulous and perverted those people are. It's cumbersome, but it's reassuring to find out about others.

The night before, Jingzhe bought him a whole body of outfits, ranging from books, shoes, to socks and handkerchiefs. He was even more nervous than himself, and even specially copied a piece of the opinion letter on a small note, planning to give it to the teacher tomorrow. I'm afraid that people will treat Yuanyuan badly.

"Yuanyuan, uncle sent you to the kindergarten. It's definitely not that he doesn't want you. There are many children there. You can play there happily, and uncle will pick you up at night, okay?"

Yuanyuan tried to carry his small schoolbag, Fang Deyue knelt down to adjust the length of his straps, and he nodded.

"If you don't like it there, we'll find another way, but if you have anything to say, you must tell uncle."

Yuanyuan was silent for a while, and said, "Will you definitely come to pick me up?"

"Of course, we pull the hook."