healer love letter

A girl came to the Kangle Psychological Counseling Center, with big eyes and ponytails, fresh and transparent makeup, and pink eye shadow to make her eyes look innocent and cute. She came to make an appointment for psychological counseling, and the appointment was Li Ying.

The girl's name is Liu Ying, and she looks quiet. Sitting in Li Ying's counseling room, she doesn't want to speak. Her eyes are big but she doesn't look very interested. She often stares at a certain place in a daze.

In the face of silent visitors, Li Ying needs to use psychological counseling skills to guide her to speak.Li Ying asked her if she wanted to play with the sand, and after getting her consent, she took her to the sandbox game room.

Psychologist Carl Jung said that sandbox games are a kind of concentrated extraction of life energy of body and mind.It is characterized by the use of sand, water and sand tools in intentional creation in the doctor-patient relationship and "free and protective space", thereby stimulating healing and personality development.

The advantage of sand table therapy is that by creating sand table scenes, shaping and experiencing the unconscious content, so as to make the unconscious content conscious.

A standard sand table psychotherapy room has about 1600 different types of sand tools, 2 sand boxes and 4 sand shelves.The visitor can put any sand utensils she wants in the sand table, and the psychological counselor will observe and take pictures and records.

At the beginning, Liu Ying didn't know what to do with the sand set. Under the guidance of Li Ying, she began to place the sand set on the sand table.

The first sand tool she picked up was a pyramid. After putting it on the sand table, she picked up a sheep's head bone and a poisonous snake and put it next to the pyramid.

Immediately afterwards, she began to place the crucified Jesus. The statue of Jesus put down the altar and flowers not far away, facing the direction of Jesus' pain.

Li Ying wandered around with the tip of her pen, constantly writing down observation records.

Generally speaking, Liu Ying's sand table intention is full of the breath of death, but in many cases, the symbolic death does not mean that the visitor wants to end his real life, but may be a painful death in a certain sense.The Jesus, the altar and flowers she put down are expressing the hope of rebirth.

Explain that she is facing extreme pain now, but she wants to be healed.

After the first sandbox game ended, Li Ying made an agreement with her to come once a week, and told her that when she came next time, she hoped that she could touch the sand with her own hands, just like when she was playing with children when she was a child. Use sand to pile up your favorite things.

When Liu Ying left, her condition didn't improve much, she still looked listless, her big eyes were full of emptiness and numbness.

After Jiajia saw Liu Ying leaving, she turned to Li Mengyue's back and said, "Sister Mengyue, this visitor today is so beautiful."

Li Mengyue was sorting out the files on the desktop, when she heard the sound and looked up, she saw a figure passing away quietly, she stretched out her hand and patted Jiajia's arm. "You just like being nympho."

Jia Jia propped her chin and leaned on the information desk, her eyes showed a look of pity. "I don't know what kind of psychological problems she has encountered. She looks very unhappy."

He said with a sigh.

Li Mengyue was startled.

Jiajia has just graduated from university, and she has memorized a lot of theoretical knowledge, but she has very little practical experience.The profession of a psychological counselor needs to accumulate over time, and needs to update one's theoretical knowledge through constant contact with visitors.Written knowledge is summarized through the subjects, but no matter how large the test group is, it is impossible to cover all human beings.There are no two identical leaves in the world, and it is even less likely that there are two people with the same mentality in the world.Therefore, there is no way to become a qualified psychological counselor just by learning theoretical knowledge.

However, Jiajia seems to have a strong ability to empathize with others. She often sees other people's emotions at a glance, and can empathize with others' negative emotions.

Just like now she looked at the back of Liu Ying leaving with her chin on her chin, and sighed that she was so unhappy looking at it, with a sad and sighing appearance.

Li Mengyue suddenly wanted to witness Jiajia's growth, and believed that her future would be bright.

These days without Boss Gao's company, Li Ying's lunch is ordered by Jiajia. Occasionally he helps Jiajia pay for it, and orders her a cup of milk tea she likes.

The black pepper beef tenderloin rice bowl I ate the day before yesterday, and the sausage rice I ate yesterday. I really didn’t want to eat rice today, so when Jiajia came to ask him what he had for lunch, he asked if he could skip the rice.

Li Ying caught the momentary feeling of loneliness that flashed across Jiajia's face.

"Don't you like noodles?" Li Ying put down the interview record in her hand, closed it gently, and looked at Jiajia.

"No." Jiajia's eyes rolled wildly. "I just want to eat meat, there is too little meat in the noodles."

Li Ying couldn't laugh or cry when she heard this. Didn't everyone say that girls lose weight now and don't smell like meat at all?

"Then you order a shop that sells chicken legs, order me a lighter noodle, and add an extra chicken leg for yourself, I invite you."

Jiajia blinked quickly, looked at Li Ying, as if looking at a fairy with a holy light, and consciously put a circle of worship filters on Dr. Li.

"Then I will decide now."

Gao Le felt that this year's exhibition was really boring, but it might have been so boring before, but Chen Er was bored away, and he didn't experience it personally.

At the very beginning, Gao Le participated in industry salons. They were all people who opened western restaurants. They sat together in the name of communication and learning. In the end, it became a bragging conference. This matter is settled, my friend's tax bureau, it's just a matter of a phone call.

In the end, he didn't see who his friend was.

Who can make up stories, Gao Le thought to himself, my friend is the God of Wealth, if you have nothing to do, give me a rain of Mao Zedong, and the red bills are flying all over the sky.

Watching people come and go at the exhibition, I suddenly miss Dr. Li very much, especially that kind of thing. I don’t know that Dr. Li didn’t dream of me last night.

After the week-long exhibition ended, Gao Le booked the air ticket, went to the airport in the afternoon after the morning, spent a lot of money to buy business class, and called Li Ying happily. "Doctor Li remember to pick me up."

Li Ying checked the time, it was the weekend and he didn't go to work, and she was reading a paper at home.Boss Gao's carpet is so comfortable that his legs are numb after sitting with his bare feet all morning.

Hanging up Gao Le's phone, watching the time and going out, he didn't come out at the airport, so he stood in the parking lot and waited for a while.Fearing that Gao Le would be cold after getting off the plane, Li Ying didn't turn off the engine, let the heater continue to blow, thinking about what kind of expression Boss Gao would have when he came out.

After waiting for about ten minutes, Gao Le, who was pulling the suitcase, came over, frowned and looked at Li Ying, who was buried in the book behind the car glass, thinking that Dr. Li really loves to study, and he never forgets to bring a After reading this book, I feel ashamed that I haven't touched a physical book for many years.

Gao Le came over and tapped on the glass lightly. Li Ying looked up from the book, looked at Gao Le, and bent her eyes.

The glass was lowered, and cold air broke in through the window.

"Have you been waiting for a long time?" Gao Le asked him.

"Not long." Li Ying closed the book and put it down, ready to open the door.

"No need." Gao Le reached in and touched his head, and pressed down, as if to comfort a child. "You don't need to get out of the car, I'll just put your luggage away."

After speaking, Gao Le clasped his hands again and asked Li Ying to come closer.Li Ying half stuck her head out of the window to listen to what Gao Le had to say.

Caught off guard, a kiss fell on the lips.

Li Ying looked at Gao Le shyly.

Satisfied, Boss Gao smacked his lips, as if tasting the aftertaste, he pulled the suitcase to the back.Put your hand on the car logo and press it, gently pull it, and the trunk lid slowly rises.

"Damn!" Gao Le didn't let the box go and ran back, with little stars in his eyes, looked at Li Ying excitedly and asked, "Did you prepare those flowers?" His tone of voice was like an eagle, flying upwards. in skyrim.

Li Ying nodded, and couldn't help raising her mouth in an arc. She put her arms on the glass frame and rested her chin on her arms. "Like it?"

"I love it so much!" Gao Le leaned forward to kiss Li Ying again.

Sitting in the car, Boss Gao was still excited, saying that a little farewell is better than a newlywed. Unexpectedly, after the little farewell, Dr. Li had a qualitative leap, and he knew that he would buy roses to tease himself.

Boss Gao was very pleased.

He sat unsteadily in the car and wanted to touch Li Ying in a while.Li Ying has to watch the road ahead when driving, and the car coming from behind when making a turn, and she also has to be constantly harassed by people next to her.He threw out the salty pig's hand that was stuck in the hem of his clothes, and said in a rather strict tone, "Driving the car, don't make trouble."

Dr. Li said don't make trouble.

The word "don't make trouble" seems to have always been sensational and ambiguous. Saying these two words is not like a helpless move to dissuade the other party. Instead, it is like a catalyst in a chemical experiment, and the sound of the horn on the battlefield urges the soldiers They seized the enemy camp.

So Boss Gao started to play tricks.

Li Ying had to keep patting Gao Le's troubled hands away with one hand, while holding the steering wheel tightly with the other hand, without daring to blink, she stared straight at the road ahead.

"I won't bother you anymore." Seeing that Dr. Li's face was getting serious, Gao Le was afraid that he would get angry, so he accepted it as soon as he saw it.

The scenery outside the window is constantly moving backwards, the afterglow of the setting sun is not completely hidden in front, the burning sun and dyed clouds are in the sky, and there seems to be the fragrance of flowers in the air.

Boss Gao rested his head on his hands, looked sideways at Li Ying, saw his lips from his eyebrows, and then slowly lowered his eyes to see his Adam's apple and fingertips.Li Ying held the steering wheel with her slender hands, and her cold white fingers contrasted with the black on the steering wheel. Gao Le sighed, why our Dr. Li even has prettier fingers than others.

The ancients said that beauty is in the eyes of lovers, sincerity does not deceive me.

"But why did you remember to buy me flowers?" Gao Le's posture was lazy, and the smile on his face was also lazy.

Li Ying turned on the left turn light and was about to turn left. She looked at the rearview mirror on the left, turned her head slightly, and a beautiful line of neck muscles was drawn on her neck. Gao Le's breathing suddenly stopped.

This is too beautiful.

Li Ying didn't have time to take into account Gao Le's wolf-like eyes, and she didn't take her eyes off the rearview mirror.He said, "Don't you like flowers?"

Boss Gao likes flowers, but every time he sends flowers to Li Ying, he has to think about it for a long time. He is afraid of publicity and vulgarity.

Dr. Li saw that he was a person who did not often buy and send flowers. The first time he sent flowers, he gave roses and put them in the trunk as a surprise. Boss Gao had to admit that he was happy the moment he opened the trunk. The fiery red rose, like a burning flame, is incredibly warm.

It seems that Li Ying's heart hidden under Li Ying's cold appearance can be seen from the flames, and perhaps it can also burn like a raging fire.

"What's the matter?" Li Ying didn't hear Gao Le's voice after walking straight for tens of meters, she quickly turned her head and found that the other party was in a daze, with a confused voice.

Gao Le turned his head and looked at Li Ying slantingly at Li Ying, who was covered with a soft golden veil in the setting sun.

"Do you know what roses represent?"

Li Ying thought that Gao Le was asking about the language of flowers. He had heard Gao Le lecture Jiajia before, saying that the little girl must know some knowledge about flower art, at least she must understand the flower language of common flowers. When her boyfriend sends flowers in the future, she will understand the other's intention .

But Li Ying didn't know this, and didn't try to understand it at all.Sending roses is learned from the movie plot, it seems that sending roses is indeed more common.

Li Ying could only honestly shake her head, saying that she didn't know.

Gao Le's smile became more gentle, and he spoke with a calm voice, but Li Ying's earlobes were red.

Boss Gao said, "Love."

The author has something to say:

It's love!