Memories that grew up with you

For Wang Yibo, Ms. Wang is both a mother and a friend.But what kind of person Wang Mama is, Wang Yibo can't tell.

When he was a child, in his impression, Mother Wang was a strong woman who always wore a lady's suit and worked all day except for holding him to sleep at night.Occasionally, Ms. Wang is free and tells him stories before he goes to bed, but most of the time, Ms. Wang is busy.

When he grew up a little, he saw Mother Wang cry for the first time, and she cried very sadly.It was that day that Wang's mother carried him to pull his teeth.He was not in great pain, but Mama Wang kept crying and kept saying to him:

"I'm sorry, baby. Mom is sorry for you."

Then my mother was not so busy, she seemed to be with him most of the time, always being kind to him and encouraging him.My mother listened to him, what to do with him.It goes on like this, from the time he was in elementary school until now.

But there were also a few times when he seemed to see a strong woman from long ago.Like that day when his mother spoke in front of the agent of the model agency, Wang Yibo saw the excited and powerful side of his mother who usually smiled and talked.

Today, my mother spoke to Xiao’s mother on behalf of him and Xiao Zhan. I don’t know which version it will be?Wang Yibo followed his mother upstairs, thinking about it in his heart.

This time, when Mama Wang knocked on the door, Mama Xiao came to open the door with her own hands.Seeing Mama Xiao, Mama Wang smiled and said:

"Sister Xiao, long time no see."

Wang Yibo was a little surprised, he didn't expect that after the last meeting, Xiao's mother changed from "Xiao Zhan's mother" to "Xiao sister".Mother Xiao didn't know what it was like, so she simply invited them in.

In the living room, Xiao Zhan didn't sit where he was before, but was already sitting on the side of Xiao's mother.Wang Yibo looked at him and had a lot to say, but they really don't have a chance to talk now.Mama Xiao sat down, beside Xiao Zhan, stretched out her hand and said to Mama Wang and Wang Yibo:

"Please sit down."

Mama Wang asked Wang Yibo to sit opposite Xiao Zhan, and then sat herself opposite Mama Xiao.Wang Yibo and Xiao Zhan were nervously waiting for the two mothers to speak.Mother Xiao waited without saying anything, and Mother Wang spoke first:

"Did they both tell you?"

Instead of answering her question directly, Mother Xiao asked her:

"Let's not talk about what the two of them are talking to me. Now that you are here, what I want to ask is what do you want to say?"

Mother Wang looked into her eyes and said:

"Well, I came today to apologize to you."

Both Wang Yibo and Xiao Zhan were surprised, but Xiao's mother was very casual and asked:

"Apologize? Apologize for what?"

Mama Wang said clearly:

"First, I apologize because I contacted you for the first time, asking you to let Xiao Zhan come to our house for dinner, New Year's Eve, but I didn't tell you clearly that my son was already in a relationship with him at that time.

Second, I apologize because we had the opportunity to meet later and chatted for a long time, but I am still hiding from you that they are in a relationship.Third, I apologize because no matter what, I will support my son and Xiao Zhan to continue to be together. "

She said it sentence by sentence, and Xiao's mother didn't become gentle because she apologized three times, but instead asked her:

"They were in love, you knew it from the beginning?"

Mama Wang nodded and said:

"Yes."

Mother Xiao asked again:

"Then why didn't you persuade them to give up, but let them go today?"

Mama Wang smiled at that time and asked Mama Xiao:

"Sister Xiao, tell me, why should I persuade them to give up? Did they do something wrong when they fell in love?"

As soon as this question was asked, Wang Yibo and Xiao Zhan felt that the atmosphere immediately became very tense.Mother Xiao showed her anger for the first time, and said to Mother Wang:

"Two boys falling in love, will this society accept it? You don't have to tell me you don't know how much discrimination they will face when they are together. Why do you still support them to take this different path?"

Faced with such a big aura, Mama Wang was not too scared, she kept smiling and said:

"If they both like women, I'm not going to tell them to like men. So they naturally like a boy, and I'm not going to tell them to change their sexuality.

You are right, the current society still discriminates against homosexuality, but first, not everyone is so discriminatory, and now there are more and more people with knowledge and progressive ideas.

Second, it's not that because so many people discriminate against gays, that attitude becomes a matter of course.

Discriminating against the sexual orientation of others is an attitude without knowledge. We should try our best to oppose it, instead of letting ourselves do things that are not suitable for our nature because of being discriminated against by them. "

After listening to what she said, Xiao's mother didn't change her face, and asked her:

"They are only in their teens, what if they are sure they have the wrong sexual orientation? Have you ever imagined that after a period of time, they have been walking this way, suffered so much hurt, and suddenly one day realized that they actually don't like men, and I like women.

Even if they break up at that time, the pain and hurt in their hearts will never be forgotten, and it may destroy them.At that time, did you get hurt for them? "

Mama Wang stopped laughing at that time and asked Mama Xiao:

"Sister Xiao, I'm sorry I have to ask, you are a straight girl, right?"

Mother Xiao was very surprised and said:

"Why are you asking this?"

Mama Wang said:

"It's okay if you don't. I'm mine. I'm straight and I like guys. But when did I know that? It was when I was a teenager. That's when each of us knew our sexuality time.

You and I were both young once, teenagers, and you know what I mean.When I found out that I like boys, I didn't ask myself, am I really straight?Am I sure?I believe that if Xiao Zhan likes a girl, no matter he is thirteen or 14 years old, you will not ask him, 'Xiao Zhan, are you really sure you like girls?

Maybe one day you will find that you are actually bent'.Then why do you suspect that they are definitely the wrong sexuality?This has nothing to do with their age.The main reason is that you have this suspicion because the object they like is a man. "

Wang Yibo and Xiao Zhan were both dumbfounded when they heard this.These things related to age are still understood by older people.

Mother Xiao twitched the corners of her mouth and asked:

"Before you told me that you were a lawyer, and you were so good at speaking. At that time, the business was good, right?"

Mama Wang shook her head:

"What I told you just now was from the heart, not because of eloquence, but because of my mother's heart. Sister Xiao, if you are angry today, I understand. If you disagree with them today, I also understand. Because I I know you have a mother's heart too."

Mother Xiao sneered and asked her:

"You have quite a lot of tricks. Do you want to impress me now?"

This sentence is actually quite stinging.Hearing what Xiao's mother said, Wang Yibo suddenly felt that his mother was wronged, so he said:

"Ms. Xiao, my mother is speaking to you sincerely. Why do you say that about her?"

Mama Wang, Mama Xiao and Xiao Zhan all immediately turned their attention to Wang Yibo.Wang Yibo was very excited, looking into Mama Wang's eyes.Mother Wang stroked his hair, sighed and said:

"Silly boy, the adults are talking, you are not allowed to interrupt. Apologize to Xiao Zhan's mother!"

Wang Yibo lowered his head and said to Xiao's mother:

"I'm sorry to interrupt your conversation with my mother. But please don't say things that make my mother sad."

Mother Xiao nodded, and said unhappy:

"I listened to my mother and bravely protected my mother. Your son is not bad."

Mama Wang took this opportunity and hurriedly answered, saying:

"The same goes for Xiao Zhan. Because he wanted to protect you, he kept it from you for the past few months."

Xiao's mother glanced at Xiao Zhan, but Xiao Zhan lowered his head and dared not look at her.Mother Xiao asked Mother Wang:

"How do you say this?"

Mother Wang said:

"Isn't he afraid of making you sad? But why is he so worried? It's because he understands your heart as a mother. Isn't it because you are afraid that they will be hurt by others later that you oppose them?

Isn't it because Xiao Zhan hurts and doesn't want to see Xiao Zhan walk this difficult road?Xiao Zhan emotionally decided to be with Yibo, and he himself was mentally prepared to face social discrimination in the future.

But I believe that what he is most worried about is not how difficult he will be, but how you feel when you see him having these difficulties.He is not afraid of being scolded by you, not afraid of being beaten by you, but afraid of seeing you sad. "

Xiao Zhan never looked up.After listening to these words, Xiao's mother was silent for more than ten seconds, and the sound of breathing became obvious. She asked Xiao Zhan:

"Is what Yibo's mother said right?"

Xiao Zhan bit his lip and nodded slowly.

Mother Xiao sighed and said to Mother Wang:

"It seems that my child has been in your house for too long. You know him better than I do."

This is not Mama Xiao's feeling alone. In fact, Wang Yibo also feels that Mama Wang knows Xiao Zhan better than him.This point, he never thought about it.

Mother Wang shook her head, smiled, and said:

"No. It's not that I know him better than you. It's because he loves you so much that I can see it even if I'm blind. Didn't you tell me before that if you asked him to sleep more, he wouldn't listen, every day I have to get up early to prepare lunch boxes for you.

This son of yours, if he eats something good when he eats at our house, he will ask me how to make it, teach him, and then go back and make it for his mother.

He never told me that he loves you, but as a mother, I can feel this filial piety very clearly from his behavior. "

At that time, Wang Yibo saw that Xiao's mother was about to cry, and Xiao Zhan kept lowering his head, wondering if he was about to cry too.Xiao's mother suddenly took Xiao Zhan's hand and held her tightly.

Xiao Zhan trembled, looked up at him, his eyes were really red.Mother Xiao said to Mother Wang:

"Mom Yibo, since you said that, I will tell you the truth. You really touched me. In the past few months, I have seen the relationship between my son and your son. I know that they really care about each other. I know Yibo is sincere to my son. But I still can't support them.

I asked them a question just now, but they couldn't answer.I'll tell you now.At their age, you and I both know that they don't know anything about life.Even if a man and a woman fall in love, it will not take a few months.Facing the challenges of life, youthful feelings are the most likely to become their heartbreak.Teen couples are the easiest kind to break up.But the two of them have to face more difficulties than male and female couples.

To what extent?Maybe even you and I don't know about the difficulties of being gay, which we haven't faced.What I'm afraid of is that one day, they will be so beaten by life that they can't even stand up, but there is no other person by their side. They want to cry, but they don't know where to cry! "

After hearing this, Mother Wang also reached out to the side, shook Wang Yibo's hand, and patted it gently.Mama Wang looked at her son, at Xiao Zhan, and finally, facing Mama Xiao's eyes, said:

"If there is a day, let the two of them return to our arms and cry. There is nothing left, at least there is a mother."