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Qin Anpei explained the specific situation to the passer-by, who looked up and down the man contemptuously, pulled Qin Anpei back a few steps, and said, "When you meet him, you will be unlucky for eight lifetimes."

The man pointed at the passer-by lady: "What are you talking about? Oh, I see, you are with her, that's why you can't see this green tea whore clearly!"

"Whatever you say, I'm leaving, young lady, hurry up and leave too, I've been with this kind of person for a long time..." The passer-by young lady leaned closer to Qin Anpei's ear, "There will be problems with IQ."

Qin Anpei bid farewell to the passer-by, then waved to the man in front of him, and turned his back to him: "What you did was not aimed at me, but a misunderstanding of the entire female friend. I must tell you clearly."

"Obviously you are worshiping money, and everything will be fine if you return the money to me."

"It's your business whether you invite me or not. At that time, I clearly refused. I said I didn't want it. You insisted that you were a man. Now you are not, so come to moral kidnapping? Flowers are a competition between you and your rival in love. What's the matter? Your competitive spirit hurt you, but you blamed me, how dare you say it? Your behavior is not only an insult to me, but also an insult to all women!"

"I have an independent personality and economy. I was blind to choose you. At that time, it was your choice whether you consumed for me. Now I am free to pay or not. It is not my rule that men must pay, and I never I didn't use this as an excuse to ask you to pay the bill everywhere, but you insisted on using this unwritten rule to force yourself, so what does it have to do with me?"

Social platforms have misled people. There is nothing men should do. Paying for sincerity is the original meaning of this behavior, not moral kidnapping of men.

Fundamentally, it's insulting to women.The stereotype effect leads people to think by default that women should be protected, should have no financial income, should stay at home as full-time wives and take care of the family, so men should pay for it.

But it is not. Women should have their own income, be independent, and strive for self-improvement.

"I repeat, women are not accessories of men!"

After speaking, Qin Anpei walked away.

Passing by the bookstore, she hesitated for a moment.Under the scorching sun, she had to choose between entering or not, and finally pushed open the door and walked in.

The thoughtfulness of the shop owner left her speechless. She didn't know how to respond for a while, so she stood there in embarrassment, faltering for a long time, and then said that she chose to get away.

Entering the bookstore, she saw a person with his back to her, sitting next to the bookshelf reading, and felt that this person looked a bit like a person—Qi Yan.

Qin Anpei didn't like the embarrassing scene of admitting the wrong person, so he walked over from the side, picked up a book, and secretly observed while covering his face.

This person looks like Qi Yan, but Qin Anpei is not sure, this person is Qi Yan.

The person next to him was wearing rimless gold-rimmed glasses, and he didn't say a word. The gentle and refined temperament exuded from the inside out was completely inconsistent with Qi Yan's style.

She was only focused on observing the person next to her. She was so engrossed in her thoughts that she didn't notice that person's gaze turned to her: "Financial management? What problems have you encountered recently?"

"Yan... Brother Yan?! It's really you! You—you—"

Qin Anpei was stunned for a moment, then followed the sound source, lowered his head and looked at Qi Yan in a daze, his eyes full of disbelief.

Qi Yan quickly glanced at the page number of the book in his hand, stood up calmly, put the book back in its original place, and then turned his head.

As if she had anticipated what Qin Anpei was going to ask, she lowered her eyes and smiled, raised her eyes again, pushed down her glasses, and replied: "The halo effect case happened, I should have guessed it."

Qin Anpei looked at Qi Yan suspiciously, waiting for her to explain.

"In psychology, the 'halo effect' is often referred to as the 'halo effect'. As the name suggests, if someone's halo is too strong, other subtleties are often easily overlooked."

While explaining this effect, Qi Yan also explained his behavior in disguise.

In the eyes of outsiders, her "halo" is domineering and cold, while the more familiar girlfriends think that she is reticent, but kind and brave, and protects them in her own way.

But in any case, her aura is too strong, so that when she sees her quietly reading, she spontaneously feels that the adjective "gentle and refined" does not match her.

Behind this incident, there is a hidden problem, our one-sided cognition of others.

No one can fully understand another person, not even relatives, lovers and confidants.

But if you want to get closer to the whole of that person, you might as well stand in her perspective and deal with the problem with her style, and then you will know what kind of secrets are hidden behind her actions.

Qin Anpei nodded and lowered his eyebrows, silent for a long time.It seemed to acquiesce to her words.

Silence pervades the surrounding air.

"It can be said that 'if you don't know fate, it's hard to enter lightly'. Isn't it fate to meet here?"

"Xu Xuzi, you are here!"

Tang Xu came just in time!Qin Anpei applauded her in his heart.

"I happened to pass by. In addition to the attraction of the book, my sixth sense told me that there would be surprises when I went in, so I came in and took a look."

She noticed that Tang Xu's eyes lingered on Qi Yan's face for a while, and the astonishment on the former's face was fleeting, replaced by a relieved and understanding smile.

Tang Xu has always been like this, so tolerant.Seems to respect everything forever.

Tang Xu ended the conversation with a smile, and took a book from the shelf, which was exactly the one Qi Yan put down.

Cleverly changed the subject. "An Pei, do you want to read this book? It's a collection of poems, you might like it."

Qin Anpei took the book from Tang Xu's hand and answered with a smile.She looked down and saw that the book in her hand was called "Chen Nianxi's Poems".

She looked up again and asked and learned that they were all here to read books.

Spots of light passing through the lattice windows fell on the ground, and colorful spots of light reflected from the glass fell on the wall.

The ability to travel through millennia.Travel across time and space and have a dialogue with the ancients.

Qin Anpei was about to leave, but she felt guilty for not spending money. At the last glance, "Puppy Money" that Zhang Yang had mentioned to her was selected.

When she got home, she sat at the desk, looking at the unopened book, lost in thought.

After hesitating for a long time, she finally found A4 paper and a black pen, unwrapped the wrapping paper, and opened the book she bought.Arrange the typesetting in your mind, and sort out the effective content and favorite sentences in the book while reading.

Time always flies so fast when you're extremely focused.Looking at the time, it was already very late.

It took her a week to read the entire book and take notes.

During the time of reading and after reading the book, she changed the arrangement, abolished the full schedule of the weekdays, and left free time for herself.

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