go back and love you again

I always feel that from the day when Zhao Yitong and I entered the house together, Wang Xueqing was a little absent-minded no matter what she did, and she always asked Zhao Yitong if she missed her father, and what would you do if her father didn’t come back? It's not that simple. I secretly investigated the news that Wang Xueqing's husband was there before. I only know that the conditions there are very difficult. I also admire the men in this city who are willing to work hard to pass on knowledge to the children in the mountains. I have been I sent someone to investigate there, and later it was reported that a woman often appeared next to the man, who seemed to be a local from the mountainous area, and often went to and from the school with him, I didn't care, thinking it must be from that school Teacher, the two often chatted together because of their speculation. Now it seems that it is not that simple.

So I asked people to follow closely recently to see if it was as I imagined.The annual winter vacation is coming again. I did not go back to the United States to celebrate the New Year with my parents. I was afraid of repeating the mistakes of last year. I chose to stay at Wang Xueqing's house. I was very excited to celebrate the New Year with Wang Xueqing for the first time.Wang Xueqing was also very happy, and of course Zhao Yitong was also very happy.

Wang Xueqing's parents also came over on New Year's Eve. When they saw me, they were very surprised. Wang Xueqing told them that my parents live overseas and have no one to look after them. They treated me like their granddaughter, no worse than Zhao Yitong, and took me and Zhao Yitong to the street to buy new clothes and snacks. At that moment, I felt that I really returned to my childhood, but I didn’t love me so much at the beginning. In the evening, Wang Xueqing cooked a table of sumptuous meals, and the five of them enjoyed themselves around the table. After the meal, they set off fireworks with Zhao Yitong. This New Year is the most satisfying for me in 5 years.

After the Lantern Festival, the school will start, and the situation in the mountain area has also made new progress. As I guessed, that woman and Wang Xueqing's husband are not just friends of the opposite sex. It's like being in love with each other. Although I thought it would be best for him to divorce Wang Xueqing at first, but later I saw that Wang Xueqing was doing well, and Zhao Yitong also needed a father. What should I do now that such a situation happened?While I was racking my brains these days to find a way to explain to Wang Xueqing, Wang Xueqing talked to me first.

"Tong'er, if I divorce him, do you think it's appropriate?" She stood in front of the floor-to-ceiling windows and said these words calmly.Ever since my grandparents called me Tong'er Tong'er on New Year's Eve, she also called me Tong'er, and I naturally knew that he was referring to her husband, but why did she suddenly say this to me? Do you know the situation of her husband over there?

"Why did you suddenly want to divorce him?"

"Because he has another woman over there. He came back to talk to me a few months ago. He said he wanted to divorce me because I was not woman enough..." When I heard this reason, I really wanted to Lol, what a lame excuse.

"He said he would not take custody of Zhao Yitong..." Wang Xueqing added.

"Then do you love him?" I anxiously waited for her answer.

"Don't love it, otherwise why my heart doesn't hurt, I just feel lost. I just don't understand that he was determined to chase me back then, spent so much thought and energy, and it was him who finally said divorce. What's the point of chasing me?"

"Men are inherently cheap animals. The more you obey him, the more uncomfortable he will be, and he likes women to fight against him occasionally." This is my experience after dating in the United States. It seems that men do not distinguish between nationalities. Everything is cheap.

Wang Xueqing finally turned her head around after hearing my words, but said something like this: "You are not Ouyang Tong..."

"Uh... Anyway, Zhao Yitong's emotions are the most important thing now, have you completed the divorce procedures?" I changed the subject in a timely manner, but fortunately she didn't continue to ask.

"Well, for today's procedures, Zhao Yitong's side I started to do his ideological work a few months ago, and the effect looks pretty good, but what will happen in the end, he has to digest it himself, so I still want to invite you Help, after all, you are all children, so he can listen to you better." When I heard her say that you are all children, my head was full of black lines, but as long as I can help Zhao Yitong through this difficulty, Let me just be a kid for once!

At the beginning Zhao Yitong knew that his parents divorced and his mood was very low for several days. Although the 9-year-old child did not understand the concept of divorce very well, he subconsciously knew that he would not see his father in the future, or it would take a long time. I saw my father once. Although he has been used to living without his father for more than a year, this is completely different from not seeing his father. I checked the information on the Internet and learned that some comfort is counterproductive. Diverting his attention, but this is not a long-term solution, as long as he is touched by the scene, all his previous efforts will be wasted. The best way is to completely dispel the uneasiness of not having a father in his heart.So I found a lot of cases about how a child from a single-parent family grew up to be better than a child from a normal family, and I found an appropriate opportunity to tell him. It really worked over time. When he is so good, he will no longer show that inferior expression, but will retort: ​​My mother is better than your father, and what is more gratifying is that he will also say: I have a sister who knows everything ,do you have.

Wang Xueqing watched her son recover to his original appearance bit by bit, and looked at me with eyes full of gratitude.

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