no longer ordinary friends

Chapter 39 Femininity Consciousness

"In court, if you are too emotional and swearing, it will indeed arouse the judge's disgust, especially in marriage and family cases. Judges are also human and have emotions. You can ask the lawyer to say some unfriendly words for you. You just need to show your helplessness. It's good to be pitiful." Zhou Zhicheng added.

But the woman was still struggling: "Will the judge really believe that I am mentally ill?"

Zhou Zhicheng smiled: "No, the judge will look at the evidence. Your son is less than two years old. If you want to fight for custody, you can basically get it, unless there is evidence that you abused your son or is contagious. sickness with children."

When the live broadcast was about to end, two men ushered in the live broadcast room, which was quite strange.

"I just want three male lawyers to answer," said the first man.

Zhou Zhicheng agreed, which is normal. Many people think that the same gender is easier to understand each other, and women are generally more willing to find female lawyers for divorce.

Before he could start speaking, he choked up a little bit of aggrieved: "Lawyer, what's your name? I'm talking about the oldest male lawyer."

Zhou Zhicheng was about to drink water and almost choked.

The oldest lawyer, Jiang, said, "My surname is Jiang."

"Lawyer Jiang, judging by your age, you should be married, right? Why do you think women treat us honest men like this? I hand in my salary, take care of my family, and take care of my children. I have never done anything sorry for my wife, but I My wife is going to divorce me recently, she dislikes me for being too plain and dull, and she likes the smooth talk of men outside, what should I do?"

Jiang Xianghuai has lived for more than 30 years, and he has never cared about other people's emotional life. He even messed up his own feelings. He really didn't know how to answer, so he had to tell the truth: "I'm unmarried."

The man was a little surprised: "Huh? You can't find a wife in our village at your age."

The people next to me really held back their laughter until their stomachs ached. Zhao Yanjia said, "To tell you the truth, he really can't find a wife, and they don't want him. Although I'm not married yet, I'll give you a suggestion, a woman with a wild heart It's over, I can't control it, let's divorce, the next one will be better!"

The man said dully again: "Then I can't change my personality, if I look for it again, will I be disgusted by my stupidity?"

"There will always be someone who appreciates your personality. Look at how many girls in the live broadcast want to find someone like you." Ye Bai said.

The man seemed to be crying: "Do women really only like romantic men with sweet mouths?"

Lu He advised: "Some people like romance, and some people like to live a pragmatic life. It's all their own choices. If you can't make it, let's separate."

The second man said: "My wife and I both earn 1 yuan a month. My wife has just given birth and wants to hire a [-] yuan confinement wife to take care of her for a month. I think my wife doesn't understand life. It’s sky-high, the monthly salary of the two of us is only [-], we quarreled, and my wife wants to divorce, what should I do?"

Zhou Zhicheng asked: "Then who will take care of your wife's confinement?"

The man faltered: "I want my mother-in-law to come, my mother is not in good health, and I have to go to work."

Hearing this, the barrage exploded, crazily insulting the man.

Ye Bai was speechless: "Your mother-in-law also has her own affairs, you love your mother, do you feel sorry for your wife who just gave birth? How many times can you confine yourself to confinement in your life, you can't bear 1 yuan, you want your wife to be left behind for the rest of your life sick?"

The man was also a little angry: "Why are you so hypocritical? Why don't you just have a baby? Just rest at home for a month."

Zhou Zhicheng asked: "Your wife wants to take care of the child by herself, is this called rest?"

"Anyway, I just don't want to part with 1 yuan."

Zhou Zhicheng didn't speak, and even Mai's men probably scolded him when they saw the barrage, and suddenly became angry: "It's you lawyers, these independent women who cook chicken soup to harm people! Women used to be so hypocritical, confinement is even more difficult Ask someone to take care of it? My mother said she went to work in the fields within a few days after giving birth to me."

Zhao Yanjia was furious when he heard it. He was taught to respect women and understand his mother's hard work since he was a child. He said back: "A man like you, you get anesthetized and circumcised, and you cry for pain. I want to kill someone, and when it's someone else's turn to have a baby, I start talking sarcasticly, so it doesn't hurt you, does it?"

The man scolded angrily: "Then why do you want me to pay for it? Why don't independent women pay for the confinement woman themselves?"

Zhou Zhicheng's tone was calm: "Your wife has a job, and her income is the same as yours. Even if she doesn't, she is using the joint property of the husband and wife. She has already borne a huge price for childbirth. If she has to pay all the childbirth expenses alone, then What do you want? Is giving birth to her alone? "

"Are you going to say that the child was born for a man? She gave it for herself."

Zhou Zhicheng smiled: "Well, then I suggest that your child take your wife's surname."

The man was stabbed in the sore spot again, and was furious: "Children who don't have a man's surname are all abandoned by men. We men are not rare."

Several lawyers were silent, only the bullet screen scolding him was so fast that it was almost invisible.

The man continued to scold: "No matter how painful a woman's childbirth is, she still needs a man to cooperate with her. Both parties pay the same. Don't come out to harm people like a lawyer like you. Which woman doesn't have children? Exaggerate the pain and give birth warning?"

Zhou Zhicheng saw so many bad people, he was not irritated at all, and still had a smile on his face: "Well, you had a good time, but your wife was pregnant in October, her pelvis was oppressed, she was obese, she had stretch marks, she was tearing, she was painful, she leaked urine, Bearing these irreparable traumas, and being insulted by you like this..."

That person was so angry that he cut off Lianmai directly.

The live broadcast is over.

Zhao Yanjia was still angry: "How can there be such a man!"

Ye Bai glanced at him: "You will still let your wife suffer the pain of giving birth in the future."

Although Zhao Yanjia doesn't have a girlfriend, he is very conscious: "The reproductive right belongs to her, and I will respect her. I have taken a course in feminist law in university and got an A+, isn't it amazing?"

He was elated.

Zhou Zhicheng just sighed and said: "There are many good men, but there are also many men of this type. At the beginning of this year, my high school classmate wanted to come to me to represent him in his divorce case. He was the champion of our class and worked in Beicheng. They are high-income intellectuals."

Because of his high education and high income, this person looked down on Zhou Zhicheng, who worked in the county. During the two hours of consultation, he was basically the only one who gave her opinions. Proficiency, but also to test her ability.

Zhou Zhicheng told him euphemistically: "It's just a TV show. The reality is that no lawyer will memorize the law every now and then. It's unnecessary and impossible. Memorizing the law doesn't mean you're a good lawyer."

He couldn't listen to it at all, and later complained about his wife, saying that she claimed to have lost her job, her good figure, and her private life because of having a child, and now she is seeking compensation from him for divorce.

He didn't need Zhou Zhicheng's answer, so he came to a conclusion: "For women, childbearing is only a profit but not a loss. Women exaggerate the cost of childbearing, in fact, to strengthen the 'PUA' of men, so that women can benefit from society and men. To seek more benefits is to squeeze men, if women really don't want to have children, why are so many women going to treat infertility?"

After listening to Zhou Zhicheng's report, Zhao Yanjia was a little puzzled: "Ah, this person never thought about it. Some girls say they don't want to have children, but they actually want men to conceive for ten months and give birth by themselves?"

Zhou Zhicheng laughed out loud.

Ye Bai came to a realization: "How can you be so thorough as a man?"

Zhao Yanjia: "My sister said that her mother-in-law wanted her to have two children and three children. She said that she also likes children. The premise is that the man will give birth to her. If a man can give birth, she would like to have five children. It scared my brother-in-law to the stomach. It hurts."

Zhou Zhicheng met Zhao Yanjia's mother, Jiang Xianghuai's aunt, and it was not surprising that she could raise such a lovely son as Zhao Yanjia.

Speaking of which, Zhao Yanjia's mother and Jiang Xianghuai's mother didn't look like sisters at all, they were almost two extremes.

When Zhou Zhicheng was in college, she also took feminist law as an elective. At that time, the consciousness of women in China was awakening among the younger generation. She realized that the unreasonable gender prejudice she felt faintly when she was a child was indeed society’s attitude towards women. Prejudice, not because of her sensitivity.

After being with Jiang Xianghuai, she once saw a comment on the Internet: "No man will like feminists."

At that time, she was lying on Jiang Xianghuai's lap playing with her mobile phone, and she showed it to him. He sneered: "The incompetent is afraid of the rise of women."

"What about having a baby?"

He didn't answer right away.

She puffed up her cheeks: "So, you also want a son? Do you want to have many babies?"

He lowered his eyes to see her angry appearance, the corners of her eyes were slightly curved, she seemed to be in a good mood, and said with a smile: "Do you want to have a baby now, huh?"

Only then did she realize that what she asked was his opinion on having children, not the children they had.

Her cheeks were hot, she got up and sat on him, pinching his cheeks.

He laughed muffledly, curled the corners of his lips, and had bright black eyes. He kissed her and said slowly, "I only want you."

She just lay on his body like that, listening to his heartbeat, she looked up at him, her jaw line was sharp and sharp, her Adam's apple moved slightly, she touched it with her hand, and then her stomach growled.

He suppressed his smile and went to cook a bowl of noodles for her. She sat on the sofa wearing a blanket and watched him cook noodles in the kitchen wearing an apron. The soft light cast a dim yellow light on his whole body.

It's a home away from home.

She ran over and hugged him from behind.

He looked back at her, and she said, "You should be a good father."

Yes, he also hopes that he can be an excellent father.

A few people packed up the live broadcast equipment and got off work. It was almost early morning.

Zhou Zhicheng invites everyone to have barbecue.

It’s still the familiar Fat Brother’s barbecue stand, the small tables and chairs at the door are full of customers, just like the night market, with cigarette butts and wine bottles all over the place, and a group of drunk and high-spirited people.

The bald men at the next table are playing boxing games, and on the other side are a group of students who just finished their evening self-study.

The fat guy tidied up the table quickly, wiped it casually with a rag, put away the sticks, and promised a discount on drinks tonight.

Except for Jiang Xianghuai and Zhou Zhicheng, everyone drank.

Zhou Zhicheng's feet were almost healed after these few days of recuperation. She originally wanted to drink some wine, but Jiang Xianghuai kept taking the beer in front of her.

She frowned, but he said it in a high-sounding way: "If they are all drunk, how can I send so many drunkards home by myself?"

Ye Bai would go crazy when he was drunk, last time she hugged Zhou Zhicheng and cried, now she hugs Zhao Yanjia.

Zhao Yanjia immediately pushed her to Lu He, who was disgusted by Lu He, and quickly avoided it. Ye Bai didn't react for a while, and was about to fall to the ground, and was pulled back by Zhou Zhicheng.

She cried angrily: "There are no good men in the world. My boyfriend dumped me, and you guys did the same to me."

Zhao Yanjia said: "There are many good men, all of them are here." He thought for a while, and added, "But not yours."

Ye Bai cried even louder.

In the end, it was Jiang Xianghuai who sent everyone back safely. When he returned to the hotel, he went to take a shower. When he came out, his phone kept vibrating.

Zhou Bingcheng seemed to be drunk, and his voice was dull: "Are you asleep?"

Jiang Xianghuai said slowly, "I won't answer your calls when I'm asleep."

"I broke up," he said.

"Did you still think about confessing when you came back last time? The confession failed?"

"No confession, but she doesn't want me anymore."

Jiang Xianghuai didn't know what to say.

Zhou Bingcheng asked: "You broke up before, how did you get over it?"

"Just get through it, after it's over, go after her." Jiang Xianghuai said truthfully.

Zhou Bingcheng was stunned for a moment: "Are you still chasing?"

"Ah."

Zhou Bingcheng smiled wryly: "But, she and that man seem more suitable, I can't give her that."

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