Xiu Erdai's daily essays

04052-Sense of Security

Zhou Qingxing: "You must be able to carry it with you to feel that the physical things belong to you?"

I thought about it, but couldn't find a counterexample, so I nodded.

Zhou Qingxing: "I think this is a sign of your lack of security. You may feel that something was given to you. If you don't take it away immediately and put it elsewhere, it will be taken away by others after a while." gone."

Me: "Well, that's almost the same feeling. At the same time, I don't want to worry about the real-time status of those 'things that belong to me' that are not in my hands. If I can't see them in real time, I will treat them as if they don't exist."

Zhou Qingxing: "Do other humans in the main world think the same?"

Me: "Cultivators who are used to using storage utensils can do it more or less well, but I should be the most serious person you have seen, because among all the monks who came here this time, I have the best storage utensils... I think It is the best, even compared with the elders, it is so good that it is especially suitable for me."

Zhou Qingxing: "Can I call you monks too?"

Me: "Yes, this is the way we are more used to addressing. But maybe mortals will come to you in the future. Even if the time is limited to the present, there are spirit beasts like Pei Ao, so if you want to call us As a monk, you have to memorize the types of spirit beasts, mortals, etc., and be able to distinguish them."

Zhou Qingxing: "'Humans in the main world' didn't include spirit beasts?"

Me: "You're right. However, if you call spirit beasts as human beings, the spirit beasts won't mind, but if you call mortals to monks, some monks will be very annoyed. Monks are more cautious than spirit beasts."

Zhou Qingxing: "Then when I can't tell the difference, I call them monks?"

Me: "It seems that some monsters don't accept this name, but monsters also don't belong to the 'main world humans', so, okay."

04053 - mental age getting younger

Zhou Qingxing: "Will mortals accept being called a monk?"

Me: "Some are unacceptable, but most mortals will correct your mistakes peacefully and will not get angry unless you are wrong again after being corrected."

Zhou Qingxing: "Does this mean that mortals are more broad-minded than monks, or does it mean that monks are stronger than mortals in your definition?"

Me: "Both. For some monks, being called a mortal is a kind of humiliation, as if denying his achievements all the time, because 'cultivation' is the greatest or even the only achievement in his life for him; For many ordinary people, they often encounter mistakes in addressing in daily life, such as being called brother by someone older than themselves, uncle by someone less than ten years younger than themselves, passing by a store to look casually, and being asked to buy something People mistakenly think they are shop assistants...too many, get used to misunderstandings, and learn to be tolerant.”

Me: "A monk looks at a monk. Even if they are strangers to each other, they can basically tell whether the other party's cultivation base is higher or lower than your own, whether the other party is a casual monk or a sect monk, and if it is a sect monk, which one is it? The sect, what occupation it is... or just calling it a fellow daoist in general can always be considered right. Cultivators are used to good names, so it is easy to think that you are deliberately finding fault when you call the wrong one."

Zhou Qingxing: "It's like when we are used to precise data, and you don't mention the data when you describe it, we will feel that you are avoiding it on purpose."

Me: "We always speculate about others from our own point of view, and then feel happy and sad for the conclusions we speculate."

Zhou Qingxing: "It's really stupid."

Me: "Well, the dumbest things are always done by smart people."

Xie Qinwei commented on me: "You can talk so well with a real kid, your mental age is getting younger and younger. Should I say congratulations?"

Me: "Compared to you repeatedly in love, I think I can accept a congratulations. Guess what your little gift will spell?"

Xie Qinwei: "If I knew in advance that the so-called 'little gifts' are such things, I would definitely not come. I guess, I would either spell Jinger, or a heart, or spell this secret realm The beautiful scenery here. The scenery here is really good, rough, full of power, but with a sense of restraint and neatness. Have you visited the dead house? Except for the shopping in the game."

Me: "I didn't go around much in the game. I just looked at the real map when I read the information. But I probably know the maps of the whole world."

Xie Qinwei: "Did you cause an occupational disease when you made maps?"

Me: "Maybe? Anyway, it doesn't take much trouble if you do it casually."

04054 - need to balance

Xie Qinwei: "Going for a walk, the actual contact is still different from looking at the pictures. Because of technical problems, even the holographic images that claim to be high-fidelity are still far from the real ones. Just like when we look at the jade slip records, It is obvious that immersing the spiritual consciousness in it seems to be like experiencing it personally, but after experiencing it personally, I realized that 'like' and 'like' are not always 'yes'."

Xie Qinwei: "Looking at the God Transformation Tribulation in the Jade Slips and the real onlooker, even if you are watching the God Transformation Tribulation from a long distance, the feeling is much different. Even if you are limited by your ability to express, you can't tell the difference, and you can't tell. What did I realize in reality, but I just know that when I experienced it in reality, I realized more, a lot more."

Me: "But have you ever thought that if you hadn't read the jade slips of Huashenjie and studied the related theories of Huashenjie, you probably wouldn't be able to realize what you are now just relying on 'personal experience' so many."

Me: "There is an old saying that 'reading thousands of books is not as good as traveling thousands of miles', but when the later generations spread this saying, they often ignore that only those who have read thousands of books and traveled thousands of miles are qualified to compare the two." "Scrolling books" and "traveling thousands of miles" have never been a choice between two topics, but should be done both."

Me: "Learning without thinking will lead to failure, and thinking without learning will lead to peril. Many things need to be considered, not one or the other, not to mention one and belittle the other. You can praise a certain thing because you like it, but if Criticizing another thing just because you don't like it seems to serve no purpose other than highlighting your ignorance and narrow-mindedness."

Xie Qinwei: "Hey, hey, can you stop using 'you' for your personal pronouns? It feels like scolding me. But I didn't belittle your behavior of reading materials. I just said that reading materials and Looking at the real thing, it feels different. If you insist on liking the former, I can't interfere with you, and I won't force you to do the latter. I'll find a topic to chat casually, so as to divert you from laughing at me for falling in love and being stupid attention."

Xie Qinwei paused for a moment, then came to his senses: "Hey, you were the one who laughed at my favorite love first, why did I fight back and laugh at you, and I still have to explain to you that I didn't laugh at you?"

Me: "Because your brain is not enough?"

Xie Qinwei: "Anyway, after you read the information, if you have time, you should still visit the site. It feels different from the scenery in the main world. I know that there may be similar scenery in some places in the main world, but the area is too large. Small, but if there is not enough volume, some feelings will not emerge. It is like a scaled model, no matter how exquisite and realistic it is, it is still different from the real scene. It is not that the model is worse, but that they are two different things , will bring different perceptions to the viewers.”

04055- seems to touch the real sense

Xie Qinwei: "Look at both sides, you can get more than double the harvest. If you are short of time and lack of energy, of course you can just choose the side you like more to watch, but if you have spare time, what's the point of watching double copies?" Not good? In particular, although the intelligent creatures here are huge in size, they are small in number compared to the area of ​​the secret realm, and the population density is very small. In many places with good scenery, there are not many people at a glance, which is more natural. A sense of grandeur."

Xie Qinwei: "This is different from tour groups, promotional words for scenic spots, or petty bourgeois chicken soup. You are not looking for something to broaden your horizons, cultivate your sentiments, and discover the true meaning of life, but it is very realistic and helpful for cultivation. Here There is no aura, so it makes me focus more on training my mind. I clearly feel that my suspended upgrade speed has increased a little bit, so that I was splashed with cleaning fluid again."

Xie Qinwei: "As evidenced by the amount of cleaning fluid, if my perception at that moment were placed in the main world, I would have at least raised a small level, but now I am forced to suppress it. It's okay to suppress it, maybe after I go back It can be upgraded to two small levels in a row."

Me: "Aren't you thinking too much?"

Xie Qinwei: "I have a factual basis. One small level comes from the perception of the scenery of this secret place, and the other small level comes from the running-in between me and Jing'er. When Jing'er and I started falling in love, it was a passionate wind, very strong , and then slowly turned to reason. After entering this secret realm this time, it was a bit forced to decide to separate at first, but when Jinger and I cut off real-time communication and only communicated by email, it seemed that And there are some new insights.”

Xie Qinwei: "The perception about cultivation."

Me: "Taoist."

Xie Qinwei: "It seems to really touch the real meaning of this word."

Me: "What did you say in the email?"

Xie Qinwei: "Everything. I even talk about topics that I don't usually touch. Exchange the landscape photos we took, write sentiment notes, share thoughts, look forward to the future, complain about the breeders, and comment on your behavior in the same guild... Also discuss What does it mean to be a Taoist companion?"

Xie Qinwei: "It is calmer than love, but also more stable and practical; it includes love, but not just love; it is full of emotions, and it is more ponderable than emotions."

Xie Qinwei: "Do you want to try? But it's not something you can try if you want to. You have to meet someone who can try with you first. 'Fall in love first, then become a Taoist couple'. In the process of falling in love, two people It’s a way to become a Taoist couple when you’ve got to the point where you can cultivate and blend together; there’s another kind of Taoist couple, which is ‘you don’t need to fall in love to become a Taoist couple directly’.”