Xiu Erdai's daily essays

2168_ cherish a relationship

Case Gao: "... When are you going to think about it? After the fortune teller competition is over? At that time, if you decide to check it out and start reading our draft report, when will we publish this issue? Don't think about it, read it directly, and then you should remember what should be deleted and added first, and then you can look at his share after Pei Lin finishes his, if his share is not much different from yours , you just pretend that you haven’t read it, even if he has full power to decide; if there is a big difference, you can point him out. (n) Is this considered a balance?”

Senior brother: "There is no consideration. Because he made a backup of what he is doing seriously without the consent of Junior Brother Pei. When he sees that he is not doing well, he immediately takes out the backup and asks him to do it. He will feel guilty." Not happy. Even if it is related to the sect, he will not intentionally mess it up, but next time there is a similar thing, he will not participate from the beginning, because the behavior of 'others make backups in advance' reflects the No trust, Junior Brother Pei will not give another chance to trust those who don't trust him."

Case Gao: "What does it mean to 'give him a chance to trust'?"

Big brother: "That is, if I have already shown with actions that I don't trust him to do things well, then I will never have the opportunity to say 'I believe you can do this well' because he doesn't." He will do things related to me and him again. Oh, no, as disciples of Yunxia Sect, there are too many things related to both of us. He should avoid it completely, but even if he has to do it, he will only do business Office."

Gao An: "You think too much."

Big brother: "Treasure the relationship with a certain person, and naturally think more. The establishment of trust, steadfastness, dependence and other emotions depends on long-term, bit by bit accumulation, but destruction can only be done in one action or one sentence. Or a careless one. 'We have a good relationship, so I did something to hurt you, and you should forgive me', with this mentality, no matter how good the relationship is, sooner or later, I think it should be 'because of our relationship. Okay, so I will do my best not to hurt you'. Fellow Daoist Gao, what do you think?"

Gao An: "I think...you are really playing tricks on me."

Big Brother: "I'm discussing a part of my Tao with you."

Gao An: "I'm busy preparing a new issue of the publication, and the time is tight enough, so don't delay with me, okay? If you're hesitant, you can ask Fellow Daoist Pei, you're guessing here. What do you mean? Asking, communicating, communicating, this is the way to maintain a good relationship. Guessing? Can you guess once or twice hundreds of times, and you can guess again and again? If you guess wrong once, you may hurt you Cherished people, so don't be too confident, when it comes to other people's affairs, you should seek the opinions of the parties!"

2169_guess

Eldest Brother: "Fellow Daoist Gao's words really touch my heart."

Gao An: "I'm so angry that I want to put you in a sack... Hurry up and ask, and I'll give you an answer immediately after asking. Look at the two contracts that have been signed, you are a bunch of nonsense."

Eldest brother: "Since the signing has been completed, let me make a brief conclusion: I don't check, and I will report what Junior Brother Pei asks me to report."

Case Gao: "...Jiang Weixiao, anyway, the contract has been signed and the dust has settled, tell me the truth, whether Pei Lin has explicitly hinted at you, the key is whether you have guessed or directly seen the contract between the two of them the true content of the

Elder brother: "Explicit, implied, I saw directly, etc., except for the method of 'guessing', their contract will be directly voided? Because 'I didn't get any instructions' should be the main premise of the contract's establishment .”

Case Gao: "It's possible that you cheated on the contract."

Eldest brother: "Stupid or not? Did you get dizzy looking at the bullet screen? How dare you say this kind of slander in person? I can tell you clearly, I guessed it myself."

Gao An: "How did you guess it? Is there any flaw in my words or in the actions of the two of them signing the contract?"

Big brother: "I won't tell you, because this kind of flaw may be used a second time."

Gao An: "Then you can at least tell me, is the flaw in our Baodao or Pei Lin?"

Eldest brother: "You still want to frame me?"

Gao An: "No, I believe that Pei Lin has no intention of cheating subjectively, but, based on your understanding of him, objectively, as long as there is something wrong with him, you will be able to detect it. This is the biggest flaw."

Senior brother: "I did see something from Junior Brother Pei, but it has nothing to do with the content of the contract. What I saw was that I should not use any means to find out the content of the contract before it was signed. But this is not so much about Pei Junior brother’s flaws, it’s better to say that he gave me a warning, it can be said that he reminded me of this on purpose.”

Gao An: "How did you remind me?"

Big brother: "This is a tacit understanding between me and him. I can also tell you that he doesn't answer my communication. Yes, I tried to contact him by communication, but I couldn't get in touch. You can ask any senior for confirmation."

Eldest brother: "And then, I can give you a piece of advice. This time, Junior Brother Pei didn't want to cheat you, because you acted very well this time, and because you don't cheat this time, you will lose, so he did not cheat you this time." Behavior is very restrained, even the loopholes that you can't think of, he kindly blocked for you. However, if you try to cheat him, you will find that you have been cheated instead."

2170_ Anti-pit?

Gao An: "It's so mysterious. Pei Lin is not as vase-like as the rumors say, and has solid hard power. I believe this. After all, he was taught by Elder Pei Ji himself; but if you want to say that he is very good at playing?" I don’t believe in scheming, because his growth environment determines that he doesn’t need to play tricks with others, he lacks actual combat experience in this area, even if he has some skills on paper, they will definitely go wrong when they are practical.”

Eldest brother: "Your analysis is fine, Junior Brother Pei's scheming is indeed appalling, but it's not scheming that he wants to cheat you."

Gao An: "What is that?"

Eldest brother: "Try it, didn't I arouse your curiosity after all I said? Haven't you always been very curious?"

Gao An: "...The key to countering the scam is not him, but you. You want to use him as a bait and ask us to do some troublesome things. We will not be fooled again."

Big brother: "Oh, really? I'm looking forward to seeing how long you can hold back your curiosity."

Don’t say that senior Gao An didn’t get accurate words about the anti-pit issue from the big brother, and I didn’t get it either. When I asked the big brother about this, the big brother answered me:

"You have a sense of crisis like a small animal and a small eye for revenge."

…Let’s take it for granted that you are praising me, but, “These two can only mean that I have a greater chance of avoiding being scammed, and that I will devote myself to revenge after being scammed, but it does not guarantee that I will succeed in revenge.”

Eldest brother: "I didn't say that you will definitely succeed in turning back."

...You didn't say the word 'definitely', but the tone you said to senior Gao An, 'If you want to cheat Pei Lin, you will be cheated by him', obviously meant to cheat you successfully.

Instead of delving into word games with him, I asked him how he guessed the content of the contract, and how I hinted him not to directly probe the content of the contract-did I hint?I hinted at how I didn't know?

The elder brother answered this matter well.

Big brother: "When Gao An first contacted me, I actually didn't realize that there was something wrong with the contract you signed at that time, and my answer came immediately after Gao An asked me, it must be based on your decision. Sure, I don’t need to check. Because as long as you find something uncertain when reading their draft report, you will definitely ask me or the elders, and it is impossible to pass up the opportunity to ask questions.”

The direction of your trust is really appropriate...

2171_ hypochondria

Eldest brother: "But when the answer was about to come out, I suddenly felt something was wrong. What was wrong was, what kind of contract did you sign with Zhang Feng? At the moment when the competition was about to end, the contract you two signed was indeed Most of them will only be related to the report of Bao Inquiry. This point Gao’s statement is not in violation of your actions, but why did you sign it in public, which is equivalent to publicly telling everyone that you are signing a contract related to the report? The specific content of the contract is completely blocked?"

Eldest brother: "You always know whether a matter will be reported publicly, but if you don't, you will directly refuse to let Bao inquire about it. If Bao inquires and refuses to delete the content of the report according to your wishes, you will threaten with force They can either ask me, your brothers and sisters, or Elder Huigu for help. But to sign a contract? Write clauses for what can and cannot be reported? How long is the clause? I won’t argue with Bao inquiring about every word carefully.”

Me: "So the mistake of Senior Case Gao is that he clearly stated that Zhang Feng and I were discussing the specific content that could be reported, and the live broadcast showed that Zhang Feng and I were signing a contract. The combination of the two and Senior Case Gao came to you , it became that Zhang Feng was signing a detailed contract with me on behalf of Bao inquiring about the content of the report, and normally, it was impossible for me to write such a trivial contract."

Eldest brother: "This is not really Gao's mistake, because even if he avoids mentioning it, I will still ask about the specific content of the contract signed between his junior brother and my beauty junior brother, and I will not say it until I ask. The evasion of it also makes me suspicious.”

Generally speaking, you are too suspicious, and if something goes wrong, you have to think about it one, two, three, four, five.

Big brother: "But at this point, I just suspect that there is a problem, but I haven't found a specific direction. I just suspect that the contract you signed with Zhang Feng may not be related to the single issue report of this fortune teller competition, at least not purely Yes, but I still don't know what exactly you and Zhang Feng are signing. But since I already have doubts, I will habitually drag on the high cases that arouse my doubts, and don't tell him the affirmative answer for the time being."

Habitual...

Elder brother: "Then Gao An has been urging me to give an answer as soon as possible. Of course, his urging reason is very good. They are usually so anxious when the publication is approaching. This time it is not just because they want to sign the contract. Get my answer beforehand so that they can adjust their plans. At that time, I didn’t realize that what you were signing was a bet, and the key to the outcome of the bet was my answer.”

Me: "If you tell them that you won't check for me before the contract is signed, will they really let Zhang Feng stop signing the contract?"

Big brother: "Yes, they will, they will."

Me: "Shameless."

Big brother: "No. You didn't add this clause into the contract, so it's reasonable for them to do so. You see, they have considered and prevented you from cooperating with me in cheating."