Xiu Erdai's daily essays

09172- Stop loss in time

Dad: "Pei Wuyao said his, my actions are mine. When you take Pei Wuyao's words into consideration in your actions, whether you increase the chance of doing things that match his words because of those words, or Reducing that probability means that you did not stick to your own will, but you were led by Pei Wuyao. If you follow him because you love Pei Wuyao, that’s all. If you don’t want to be influenced by him but are influenced Your master..."

Me: "Sooner or later, I will lose all prestige."

Dad: "Prestige is still a secondary issue. The key is that the relationship between master and apprentice has become a struggle and rivalry. Although there are indeed masters and apprentices who like that way of getting along, do you like it? If you don't like it and Pei Wuyao likes it , the final result is that you feel awkward because you followed Pei Wuyao's wishes. Why did you accept this apprentice? To add trouble to yourself? Can't you see yourself living comfortably? "

Me: "The master-student relationship should still be based on the comfort of the master. Especially at this time when I am two levels higher than Pei Wuyao."

Dad: "If Pei Wuyao can cross the gap between two big levels and affect your decision now, making you dislike him and not letting him go, he is indeed a very promising character. It is better to change to a master of the same style who can deeply tap his potential."

Me: "Although Pei Wuyao is still a new disciple to Yunxia Sect, he has been my disciple for ten years. If I let him change his master now, his cultivation will take a long detour."

Dad: "It's only ten years. And the most hard work for Pei Wuyao in these ten years is not to be your apprentice, but to be familiar with Yunxiazong, so changing a master who is also a disciple of Yunxiazong may be a detour for him for a year or two. Right. If you want to change it, of course, the sooner the better, you can change it as soon as you find something wrong, and you can’t bear the sunk cost now, so don’t you feel bad about changing it after 100 years?"

Me: "My new apprentice hasn't started yet, but you actively encouraged me to abandon the old apprentice. Although I dislike Pei Wuyao a bit, I don't dislike Pei Wuyao to the point where I want to break the relationship between master and apprentice. I am still with him. Within the range that can be adjusted. Including the recommended apprentice this time, Pei Wuyao was just a recommendation, and did not force it. He just gave me the preferred options, not helping me fill in the answers. In other words, he was just trying to guide me, not control me .”

Dad: "It's fine if you can convince yourself, you don't need to convince me. After all, he is your apprentice, not mine."

Me: "I think you are quite pampering Pei Wuyao, you seem to like this grandson?"

Dad: "Disciples and grandchildren are like toys. When playing with toys, you don't need to be too serious, and you don't need to worry about your brains. Just fiddle with them casually. It's very easy. I really like relaxation."

09173 - no essential difference

Me: "Do you like to relax?"

Dad: "What is the basis for your questioning?"

Me: "face?"

Dad: "Have you had less contact with people who are serious on the outside and soft on the inside?"

Me: "It's true that there are people who smoke, drink, have big tattoos, and talk like a yell, and they can't walk when they meet a cat. But with the strength you pumped me, and the viciousness of the penalty clauses for the discipline department, the soft side of your heart may Especially... not straightforward."

Me: "It is that you may really like to be relaxed, but if you directly say this love, I feel that there seems to be a conspiracy. It is the same as the head Jiang who laid out his action plan and told me in detail."

Dad: "The conspiracy is also based on facts. At least your mother does often describe me as gentle."

This is true.

The old man didn't bother with this topic, he turned to: "How far have you studied and studied the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage?"

Me: "Before I picked up the Kunlun Nascent Soul-level textbook, I thought I could get something more real this time, and I could have a pleasant discussion with you, but when I finished reading that set of textbooks and observed me After observing all the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stages, I found that maybe there is nothing to say. It’s just the Nascent Soul Level exercises, the Nascent Soul Level knowledge, and the Nascent Soul Stage monks.”

Me: "Compared with Yunxiazong's Nascent Soul Stage and casual cultivator's Nascent Soul Stage, there is only a difference in focus, but there is no essential difference. In other words, the difference between any two Nascent Soul Stages is enough Great, every Nascent Soul stage is special enough, so the specialness of the Kunlun group is... that's what it is."

Me: "If you take the Kunlun faction issue into consideration, the Nascent Soul group does not appear to be too united, that is, it does not appear to be too much like a whole. Even though they use a unified textbook, the learning status of different individuals is still...different. into the world."

Dad: "In the sense of learning and teaching, is the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage a complete transition? From simply being taught to purely teaching people, has the Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage completed this transition?"

Me: "Maybe, maybe not. I say 'yes' because there is indeed such a transitional meaning; I say 'no' because Kunlun's Jindan stage can also be properly taught, and Kunlun's God Transformation Mahayana stage can also be taught. Constantly learning. Teaching and learning, never one-sided learning or one-sided teaching.”

09174-foothold

Me: "But I'm not sure now, whether my original thinking was too narrow, or my recent thinking is too floating. I seem to be more and more unable to distinguish between different events, different groups, and different words... The division. Repercussions? While I’m proud of myself for breaking some boundaries that should be broken, I’m also annoyed by breaking some boundaries that don’t fit, at least right now.”

Me: "Pros and cons, light and shadow, always coexist."

Me: "Are you kidding me when you said you were interested in my research project?"

Dad: "I can see the points that interest me. I don't think it's my fault that you can't see the same scenery. I don't need to tell you why I am interested in those."

Me: "Oh. My reading comprehension of Yuanying-level textbooks has been handed over to Zangshuge."

Dad: "I've seen it."

Me: "Actually, I should have given you a copy at the same time I handed it over to Cangshuge. After all, I promised to share it with you before, although I know that after I handed over this information to Cangshuge, you would like to read it." You can see it immediately, and maybe the next second after I hand it in, you and Elder Huigu will finish it together. However, the meaning of this is not the same as that of me handing it to you. Not giving you a copy seems to mean ... Either it means that I am avoiding you, or it means that I no longer put you at the top of my heart. In short, I have not continued to be a good son. "

Dad: "Stop. It was necessary for you to reflect on the possible confusion in your thinking earlier, but in the end, your foothold was too biased. It was so biased that you ignored all the problems that you should have retreated and reflected on. Can't get it back."

Me: "Should I retreat?"

Dad: "If you find out the key points of your introspection, it's suitable for you to shut up. If you're not sure, don't shut up just to be good or not."

Me: "But I think whether you are obedient or cute is also very important to me."

Pei Jianzhuo: "It seems to be biased again. The cuteness of a good son and the cuteness of the public's cute things don't seem to fit together? Isn't it the same?"

Fuqiu: "When the definition of words is broad enough, can they also be of the same category?"

Xiao Sui: "This shows the confusion of the master's understanding of the meaning of the word, that is, it has gone back to the above-mentioned breaking of the division where it is not suitable to break the division, indicating that although the master has divergent topics, he has not completely broken away from the main core. .”

Pei Sha: "Broadly speaking, mentioning any topic in the main world can be regarded as related to the most important core issue of the individual creature. As long as the circle is large enough, there will never be a deviation from the topic."

09175-Try to make willing

Pei Bing: "Aside from other things, when Pei Lin understood the words in the main world, he over-understood the scope of the meaning of the words, and it became bigger and bigger. It must be Pei Sha who instilled the language of time and space into Pei Lin."

Pei Sha: "Wok. Ga."

Xiao Sui: "What?"

Pei Sha didn't continue talking, and only sprinkled words like "hehehe" and "hahaha" in Xiao Sui's space with a happy mood.

I asked Dad, "If I understand every word broadly enough, won't I be able to communicate normally with other people?"

Dad: "You can still communicate with those who can understand you without speaking, and can directly read the lines of your spiritual power. Even, if you meet enough predestined people, you can still teach your apprentices in this way. "

Me: "If you know that others will not understand you before you open your mouth, so you just don't open your mouth and use actions to signal others? Elder Tianzhuo...it doesn't seem to be the case."

Dad: "Be in control of yourself. When you don't want others to understand you, speak incomprehensible words; when you want others to understand you, speak normal language. You can be confused, but when you don't need to be confused , When chaos becomes your hindrance, you must be able to block chaos. Controllable chaos is a way of cultivation, uncontrollable chaos may be a demon, or it may be a dead end.”

Dad: "Also, I'm just expressing my own views on chaos, which may not apply to you. I can't teach you now."

Me: "I think it's okay."

Dad: "Let's end this exchange."

Me: "Wait a minute, Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage learning method, when you said you were interested in this before, what exactly were you interested in? I thought you were interested in a complete transitional level, but now it seems You have observed enough on this point that my observations may supplement your formation without worrying you very much."

Dad: "It's true that I'm not very worried, I'm just looking forward to it."

Me: "Is it expected that after I understand Kunlun's transition method, I will also establish it for the Yunxia Sect...to add bricks and tiles to the existing transition method of the Yunxia Sect?"

Dad: "For a long time, the Yunxia Sect has always hoped that the disciples would do things for the Yunxia Sect willingly. Willingly dedicate their loyalty to the Yunxia Sect, and willingly sacrifice their own personal interests temporarily so that the Yunxia Sect can gain more benefits as a whole, and work willingly , accept students willingly, and willingly change from the mentality of the junior to the mentality of the senior. If you can’t be willing for a while, find a way to make you willing. Try not to force it.”

Dad: "Are you still obsessed with wanting to be a child and refusing to grow up?"

Me: "I want to have a lot of authority as an adult, but I also insist on being a child in certain people and in certain situations. I think the two can exist at the same time."