Xiu Erdai's daily essays

09064-Pursue self-confidence instead of conceit

Shan Yuncang: "In the face of ordinary people's mentality of looking at me for fun, I really don't want to say more, but Daoist Pei is different. Although he is also curious, when he defines a gossip as fresh information, he will feel a little more indifferent , makes me feel as if I am facing a jade slip of information. It seems that after I have finished speaking my heart to this jade slip, the jade slip can stay quietly in a safe corner and will not be easily read by others. See, it seems that I can still ask this jade slip to delete what I said, so that it will continue to be a secret for me.”

Me: "Thank you for your trust."

Shan Yuncang: "You have a very good reputation as a tree hole. Even though you often ask around and want to find out everything, most of the time you stop after listening to it by yourself, and you seldom listen to what you hear. Then spread it. Basically, you will only share this information when Yunxia Sect disciples or your friends need this information to do more serious things."

Shan Yuncang: "You don't find fun in other people's private affairs, and you don't feel pleasure in spreading other people's private affairs. In your opinion, knowing other people's private affairs is just for you to understand this person better, and when you need it. Accurately grasping this person's behavior patterns, and perhaps relying on those private affairs to contain the opponent's actions when hostile. It is based on the consideration of the interests of being prepared, not looking for psychological superiority from "others are not doing well."

Me: "Speaking of the sense of superiority, many people, including the top ten disciples, have mentioned that they have felt your sense of superiority and overlooking from the Kunlun disciples."

Shan Yuncang: "I admit that I was really complacent when I was low in cultivation, but then I suffered because of it. Almost every Kunlun disciple has stumbled on this matter, and some are to a lesser extent. It was a small matter of embarrassment at the time, and soon everyone except themselves would forget it; some, such as me, will still be caught as an example after hundreds of years, but the main problem is embarrassment; It's miserable, and according to your Yunxia Sect, you have suffered irreversible losses, such as seeing your friends die, or making mistakes in your cultivation that seem irreversible."

Me: "The Kunlun textbooks have always emphasized, explicitly or implicitly: to be confident, to believe that you are the strongest, and to be sure that you are one of the best."

Kunlun Yuanyingqi: "Yes. Many low-cultivation disciples regard this as blind conceit. In fact, the self-confidence emphasized in the textbook is based on real strength. Fight with ten people, win more than ten times, and ten people team up Even if you can't beat yourself, you can of course be confident that you are stronger than these ten people. But if you lose five times in ten fights and insist that you have won half of them in the wheel, you are already very powerful, and the loss is only because the enemy has more people , that would be ugly."

09065-The man of the hour must have a burden

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage: "Kunlun pursues absolute strength, not relative strength. It is a clear first place without argumentation, rather than a reluctant first place that requires a lot of verbal confrontation or even black-box operations. Barely obtained Face, it is even bigger loss of face to Kunlun."

Me: "This is also arrogance and superiority."

Kunlun Yuanyingqi: "If you can't do it, but you emphasize it and force others to admit it, it is an annoying superfluous sense of superiority; if you can do it, and do it undisputedly well, it is momentum, ability, necessity, and should."

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage: "Kunlun low-cultivation is disliked by people because of superiority, just like Yanxingmen's low-cultivation who is disliked because of strong opposition to gender discrimination. Both actions are not in place but the attitude is expressed. It is caused by too much. There are not many brushes in hand, but they are busy giving orders. Who cares about us? After the strength is in place, the same attitude can be recognized by outsiders."

Me: "Forcibly cultivate an attitude first, and then slowly increase your strength? Before the strength is improved, have you been enduring the rejection caused by the mismatch between strength and attitude?"

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage: "By the way, train the courage to face the whole world. You have also trained this by constantly provoking in the sand school."

Me: "I was forced to do so after being noticed by too many people. This item is not included in the serious training of Yunxia Sect."

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage: "However, when you are caught in such a confrontational situation, Yunxia Sect's handling methods are very mature. Yunxia Sect disciples do not have to train this, but when encountering such a situation and want to fully carry out this kind of training, Yunxia Sect Zong also has the ability to escort you perfectly. You, Head Jiang, Mei Shuanli, Elder Qi Xi, and possibly Elder Pei Ji, Elder Yu Zike, Elder Guanghe, and other influential figures are all like this."

Me: "Mei Shuanli is counted? The attention Mei Shuanli gets is... more supportive of him?" Thank you for feeding me, thank you for saving me from hunger, etc.

Kunlun Yuanyingqi: "As long as he is a man of the hour, there is no possibility of pure praise, and his evaluation must be positive and negative. Even the human-shaped chance spreader in Kongsu of the Sky Gate is also questioned, although most of them are They secretly express their disdain in private, but there are also those who express their disdain publicly like Fellow Daoist Yunxia Zonglong Jingxing."

Kunlun Yuanying Qi: "Oh, yes, Fellow Daoist Long Jingxing is also one of the people who took the initiative to train to face the world's technology. Of course, compared to the situation where Kong Suan's mainstream attitude was all exaggerations, Fellow Daoist Long Jingxing is a big Area was scolded, but some people praised Fellow Daoist Long for his true temperament, courage, and self-confidence."

To be honest, Uncle Long has offended so many people and is often tripped up by others, but never doubts himself, and just continues to treat the world as mentally retarded. This firmness of mind is indeed worthy of praise.If Kong Suan had the firmness of Uncle Long, she would not have been crushed by fans all over the world to stagnate her cultivation.

09066 - life stress

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage:

"When the outside world has a certain amount of comments on a certain person, on the premise that the person concerned has no principled bad deeds, nor can he say that he has made any irreplaceable contributions to the world, these comments actually only represent the comments of the commenter. mood, the interests of those who stir up the muddy water, and whether it is a compliment or a curse for the person being commented does not make much difference."

"In public, Kong Suan is basically praised and flattered, but those praises and praises are all to gain opportunities, which is a pressure on Kong Suan. She often prefers that everyone does not believe in her ability to guide by chance, and that everyone scold her."

"Your comments, Fellow Daoist Pei, have always been mixed, but because you can ignore the public and sort out those comments with an attitude of purely collecting information, they are not pressure on you. Your family leader Jiang is better, not only using Hei's remarks, and using those black emotions. I can't count how many Jiangmen Hei fell into Jiangmen's new pit because he was too excited when Jiangmen was in charge, and then they While being thoroughly used by Sect Leader Jiang once again, he accumulated more resentment towards Sect Leader Jiang."

Me: "Since Head Jiang became the head, hasn't he seriously tricked anyone? He's been too low-key since he became the head."

Kunlun Nascent Soul Stage: "Well, and because the head of Jiang helped many people—including Hei who helped him—to realize their wishes when they were conceived, so now many blacks are still embarrassed to continue to be the head of Hei Jiang, but let them It is also impossible to turn fans at this point. If the head of Jiang keeps such a low profile from now on, it is possible that his hacking will be at most a few words of insulting him, and will not be a large-scale hacking? Then after hundreds of years like this, it may be the mainstream Will the public forget that the head of Jiang once had a large number of gangsters?"

Me: "Shazhuan is also silent, our generation has become the front wave, let us hope that the back wave will show its prominence as soon as possible."

Kunlun Yuanyingqi: "Speaking of which, after conceiving a baby, I really feel old. Even though Yuanyingqi still needs to attend classes in Kunlun, it seems that he can continue to use the status of a junior and a student, but it seems that he has stepped into it half a step. The society feels the pressure of life and cannot continue to play carelessly."

Me: "I'm a graduate student. Once I screw up my project and offend my boss, I may ruin the rest of my life; it's not like elementary and middle school students, even if they don't do their homework, write exams, or quarrel with the teacher, they just turn their heads and correct their attitudes." After getting a good score in the test, you can still be praised as 'a good boy who knows his mistakes and can correct them'."

Me: "But Yunxia Sect disciples don't have a lot of pressure in this regard. Let alone the Nascent Soul Stage, it is better to continue to be childish in the Transformation Stage."

09067-value

"Childishness" here doesn't just refer to Elder Qi.My father, Elder Huigu, Elder Wang Linguo, Elder Qi Xuewei, Elder Yi Ruo, Elder Gao Yi, Elder Lian Yongjia, including the oldest Elder Guanghe, all show childish faces from time to time.It's not the free and easy willfulness of an old child who sees through everything, but the youthful spirit that has the courage to continue to be rash and sharp because it has not been completely interrupted.

As long as there is a choice, the Yunxia Sect is not willing to let the disciples suffer too much, or even if they suffer from poor defense outside, when the disciples return to the Yunxia Sect, they will be comforted, have sweets to eat, and some people will listen to complaints.When it can be guarded, Yunxiazong will not withdraw the defense without saying hello and let the disciples face the wind and rain alone. Even if they need to kick someone out to experience some setbacks, they will first scold fiercely: "If you don't move by yourself, you will have to go out!" I was beaten."

For disciples who have experienced several setbacks and education but do not become stronger but become more flustered and afraid, Yunxiazong will compromise: "Forget it, forget it, it's not that I can't protect a timid one, let him play in a safe place Just don’t hold back and don’t make trouble for others.”

Why are Yunxia Sect disciples willing to dedicate their loyalty to Yunxia Sect?Because Yunxiazong disciples believe that Yunxiazong will not betray this loyalty; because they think it is worth it; because they feel that they will get a response and return if they entrust their feelings to Yunxiazong; because they believe that no matter what kind of temperament they are, as long as they can Doing things that are beneficial to Yunxia Sect will surely give Yunxia Sect a place where they can rest in peace.

Elder Gao Yi, who didn't necessarily have a word of communication with other members of the same sect for a year, because she occasionally noticed a small infrastructure that could be reinforced when she was staring at the Yunxia Sect's large formation, and then reinforced it with her hands, so she can feel at ease that she is beneficial Yu Yunxiazong, even if he has no sense of existence, he is worthy of the treatment of having an independent mountain.

Because Hongfeng thought too much in the early days, he was always dismissed by his classmates for his low IQ and did not take him to play, but he went to the mission office to pick up the missions, did every mission seriously, and diligently watched his task load Continuously accumulating, it seems that there is a chance to break the record of the amount of tasks for the disciples of the Jindan period. He also feels that he has at least made a positive contribution to the reputation of the Yunxiazong mission office, and is worthy of his status as an inner disciple, so he is also an inner disciple of the Yunxiazong. Disciples should feel at ease.

A group of Zidan Artifact Talismans randomly selected the same sect as test products in the whole sect. Most of the time, the Disciplinary Department did not punish them, which caused countless disciples to complain. However, this group of refining professions can confidently say: "We give Yunxiazong has made a lot of money, much more than you guys."