Xiu Erdai's daily essays

08836-world

Me: "I think it's because the aura of the environment, the subtle movements of the speaker's body, and the subtle changes in tone of voice during face-to-face communication cannot be reflected in words, and communication may also cause distortion."

Head Jiang: "That's part of the reason, and the other part is that only when a group of people gather in the same space and form a sense of group participation, can 'negotiation' become a dynamic and continuous process, allowing all the thinking present Entering into a more similar rhythm, then there is a greater chance of a deal. But there is also a greater chance of digging out irreconcilable mistakes and omissions."

Head Jiang: "In a word, the act of 'gathering together to discuss' makes the originally scattered individuals gather into a relative and temporary whole. It can be seen as a temporary gathering of many cells into a creature. This creature can move. Doing what a few cells alone can't do makes negotiations more targeted."

Me: "Is this also a way to create the world?"

Head Jiang: "If the definition of 'world' is broad enough, then, yes, this is also a type of world. All regions and groups that are slightly isolated from the outside world can be regarded as the world. An office, an A storage bag, a jade slip, a fantasy in the head, a conversation... are all worlds."

Me: "It sounds very metaphysical. Or should I say, this is metaphysics?"

Head Jiang: "For everyone, the 'world' can be divided in different ways. Whether you are willing to admit that a certain area is a world also has personal subjective emotions. It is more idealistic and more casual. It is indeed metaphysics."

Me: "Can metaphysics equal idealism?"

Head Jiang: "In the development of history, 'Metaphysics' has been endowed with many meanings. Positive longing, negative slander, keeping a respectful distance, is closely related to life, all-encompassing, and of course it can include idealism. Do you believe in metaphysics? Which kind of definition it can be, metaphysics itself doesn't care."

Me: "The definitions made by humans will only confuse humans themselves."

Me: "Do you have any Yuanying-level work that I can do?"

Head Jiang: "Are you simply bored by yourself, or do you feel sorry for me being too busy and want to share it for me?"

Me: "Are you busy? I mean, are you busier than when you were a big brother? I can't see it." So "distressed" is of course out of the question.

Head Jiang: "Yes, I have been working intensively since the day I officially became the head until now, and I can't predict when the current work intensity will drop slightly. The work intensity of being a big brother... I don't think there is any need to count on it in a hundred years."

Wow... still don't see it.

08837 - special status

The main reason is that the head of Jiang seems to be in a very good mood, without the slightest anxiety or pain of being crazy busy, it seems to be playing a particularly interesting game, forgetting to sleep and eat, staring, unable to extricate himself - maybe he is indeed When playing games by yourself?

Me: "Why do you have time to chat nonsense with me when you are so busy?"

Head Jiang: "Because I have a premonition that you will offer to help me while chatting. Then, after confirming that I am really busy, do you feel distressed?"

Me: "...you just say what you want to cheat me." I really can't feel sorry for you, I think I need to feel more sorry for my next self.

Xiao Sui muttered: "So why don't you leave quickly? Hide back to Yaofeng, don't allow Jiang Weixiao to enter Yaofeng, don't answer his communication, isn't this over? Jiang Weixiao can only abduct the master, not force .”

Mao Qiu: "Then Pei Lin will really feel sorry for Jiang Weixiao. He can't bear the official setbacks of the head of Jiang, who is in his power and should be in high spirits, in his own territory."

Xiao Sui: "I don't believe that Jiang Weixiao has any serious work in his hands that requires the master to nod and agree. If there is such a thing, Jiang Weixiao just say no? Why wait for the master to apply first Is Jiang Weixiao such a passive person? He obviously thought of a small thing for the master to do when he saw the master taking the initiative, and he insisted on comparing the nonsense thing that can be done or not with the master. Admitting to feel bad for him to relate."

Xiao Sui: "This is molesting."

Maoqiu: "Either you, Pei Suilin, drag Pei Lin back to Yaofeng and lock him up, or you accept Jiang Weixiao's teasing of Pei Lin. Anyway, Pei Lin enjoys it."

I didn't enjoy it either.

Pei Jianzhuo: "You think this represents Jiang Weixiao's closeness to you. Jiang Weixiao, who is getting more and more tactful and busy, only retains a boyish, playful and leisurely attitude when facing you. You enjoy this special treatment , you like yourself to be special in Jiang Weixiao's heart."

I admit it, just as I like the special place I have in my father's and my siblings' hearts.Because they have a special place in my heart, if they unfairly give me special, I will be lost.

Pei Bing: "Big brother."

Xiao Sui: "Are you really not going to develop in the direction of friends with guns?"

Don't worry, head Jiang is obsessed with work, so he has no time to develop unnecessary relationships with me, a little idiot who lacks work temperament.Could finding a friend with benefits be more exciting and more exciting than finding a new job project?

08838 - Initiative

Xiao Sui: "Jiang Weixiao thinks like that, so what about you, master? Do you not want to develop further with Jiang Weixiao, or is it because Jiang Weixiao has no such intentions, so you put your own thoughts Pinched off?"

This accusation is quite unjustified.You know my thoughts, maybe you will dislike my other thoughts as nonsense and ignore them, but if I have a budding heart for Jiang Sect, will you be completely unaware of him who has always been highly guarded against him? ?

Xiao Sui pondered for a moment, and said that he reluctantly accepted my whitewashing.

I have never been hacked in this matter, how can it be called whitewashing?

Maoqiu: "Because although you really didn't have such feelings towards Jiang Weixiao when he checked that you didn't mean it, but if Jiang Weixiao wants to develop a relationship with you, it's almost impossible for you to refuse. You have never refused anything that Jiang Weixiao asked you to do. The initiative of your relationship has always been in Jiang Weixiao's hands."

Head Jiang himself said that the initiative has always been in my hands.The things he asked me to do were things he was sure I would not reject, and he would never give me anything that I didn't like.He only showed me things that I was bound to agree with, so he made it look like I agreed with everything he showed me.The implicit order and the explicit order are actually different.

Mao Qiu: "There is a big category between 'like' and 'rejection' called 'dispensable'. That is, if you have the opportunity to do it, you can do it, and if you don't have the opportunity to do it, you don't miss it. I think developing a relationship with Jiang Weixiao For you, it belongs to the dispensable type, and if Jiang Weixiao wants it, you will not refuse it. The current failure to implement it is entirely the result of Jiang Weixiao's intention."

Maybe... Really?

Xiao Sui: "...heh."

Head Jiang: "I want to cheat you... stay with me and work with me for a month. After that, you may add more time depending on the situation."

Be vigilant.

Me: "What exactly is the accompanying method?"

Head Jiang: "You go where I go, and you properly participate in my conversations with other people. You are always in the same space as me. There is no space between me and you. I look up at any time. I can see you with my naked eyes. You don’t need to understand what I’m doing, you don’t need to share my affairs with your hands, and you don’t need to be brainy when you participate in conversations, as long as you exist in the space where I am.”

Me: "Used to adjust the atmosphere? To change the direction of activities in the dynamic process of a negotiation situation?"

Head Jiang: "Includes these, but more than that. Some things cannot be expressed in an overview language, because its content includes the entire incident."

08839 - essential things

Me: "In the future, I will encounter more and more incidents that cannot be summarized?"

Head Jiang: "To be precise, it should be that among the events you are willing to pay attention to, such types that cannot be summarized will occupy an increasing proportion. Because those that are easy to summarize, you have already experienced or spectated at the stage of low cultivation. I have experienced many ways, not to say that I have experienced it [-]%, but it may not be an exaggeration to say that I have experienced [-]% of it.”

Me: "'Audit' counts in this?"

Head Jiang: "Of course. From 'never heard of' to 'heard of' is from unknown to known, from 'heard of' to 'experienced' is from entry-level known to more familiar known , In fact, most of the time the former is a qualitative change, and the latter is just a small increase.”

Me: "Isn't that much?"

Head Jiang: "Unless you encounter something you have never heard of when you experience it personally, otherwise, yes, not too much. Especially for high-level practitioners, simulate the things you have heard and heard in your brain in detail, let yourself Walking through the simulated world with my little consciousness is very similar to walking through the main world with my physical body. Pei Yue certainly doesn't think that what happened in the main world is more real than what happened in the amusement house in the guest garden."

Me: "However, Pei Yue lost the motivation to live in the amusement house before he programmed himself a mission system, and in the main world, even if there are no missions that must be done, he still plays and looks forward to the arrival of every day." .”

Head Jiang: "So there are still some quantitative changes."

Me: "It's just a matter of quantitative change between being lazy and active?"

Head Jiang: "From a macro point of view, there is indeed no major difference between life and death; when it comes to individual organisms, although the issue of life and death is crucial, in fact, choosing between life and death is often just a matter of thought. A little bit, you may go to death; a little bit of encouragement, and you may be bright. Compared with "you were born in this race" and "you have such a temperament", it is really not a very essential thing."

Me: "Character is closer to the essence than life and death?"

Head Jiang: "A monk can become a ghost cultivator after death, but no matter whether he is alive or dead, his core personality will not change fundamentally—only the explicit style may become extreme due to extreme emotions."

Me: "You seem to be saying that ghost cultivators belong to 'death'?"

Head Jiang: "Based on my understanding of Ghost Cultivator, it is indeed not alive, at least it is definitely not continuing the life of the original monk."

Me: "Just inherited the obsession of the original monk?"

Head Jiang: "For a monk who chooses to become a ghost cultivator, it is more important to let his wish come true than to die. That is, in order to carry out his own way, he can accept death."

Me: "But, most of the monks who choose to become ghost cultivators are low-cultivation. Low-cultivation people still don't have a clear understanding of their own way. Becoming a ghost is not based on rational choice, but is... strongly driven. Emotionally driven."