Xiu Erdai's daily essays

08756 - have fun

"So a person's essence, or in other words, the degree of identification with Yunxia Sect and the degree of compatibility with Yunxia Sect, will really change?"

Pei Wuyao: "I think it will. After getting along for a long time, if you don't look at each other with distaste, then you will highly agree with each other. After I have lived in Yunxia Sect for ten years, I don't need to announce the results of the selection conference. I can do it before the exam starts." Judge whether I can pass the exam and whether I can enter the inner door."

I said to Sect Leader Jiang: "My apprentice...he has a strong desire to control. He even wants to judge himself instead of the selection meeting."

Head Jiang expressed his innocence: "It was not infected by me. Pei Wuyao's desire to control is only aimed at himself, and the scope is much smaller than mine. To be precise, Pei Wuyao's mentality is only focused on controlling his own life. The general mentality of a high-level cultivator is that he is special in that this mentality was born relatively early. It is not in vain that you put the word 'enlightenment' in his name."

Me: "Your unintentional compliments are not enough to distract the topic."

Head Jiang: "Oh? Then I boasted a little more carelessly?"

Me: "Be serious. I want you to help me with some tricks. I'm not sure how to teach Pei Wuyao. In addition to talking nonsense that he can't listen to, there are also ways to correct his basic movements, Apart from basic theoretical knowledge, it seems that I can't do more?"

Head Jiang: "Then don't do it. Master can do more or less for apprentices, and some apprentices don't need too much interference from master. You see, I will accept a group of apprentices soon, but Obviously, it is impossible for me to spend a lot of time to formulate study plans for them one by one. At most, I will only arrange jobs for them like managers. I may exchange a few words with some of them who are particularly talented, but most of them I will definitely Let them figure it out for themselves."

Me: "Your non-selective apprenticeship model is different from the one I selected thousands of times. Your candidate for the heir to the head can correspond to my prudence for Pei Wuyao."

Head Jiang: "Then you'll have to wait at least a few hundred years to see how I cultivate an heir. Now I'm still enjoying the joy of taking power for the first time."

Me: "Everyone says you kept a low profile too much after taking power."

Head Jiang: "I feel that this seems to be a compliment to me, and I feel honored. I feel that I am more integrated into the aura of Yunxiazong, and my every move will no longer be too sharply noticed by outsiders. When outsiders want to When they see what I am doing, they will unconsciously be attracted by the overall situation of Yunxiazong or certain departments, and ignore me, or feel that my sense of existence is vague, but in fact the overall or partial situation they see is But it all includes my arrangements."

Head Jiang: "Now and in the future, I am everywhere in the Yunxia Sect's management network, and I am no longer obtrusive, and I begin to have a real sense of controlling the Yunxia Sect. It is not that I hold tightly and dare not let go, but that the Yunxia Sect naturally , must belong to me."

...it's scary.In comparison, Pei Wuyao's obsession with self-control is indeed a conventional cultivator, not a mental illness of cultivator management.

08757 - only zero and countless times

After thinking about it for a long time, I finally could only remind Pei Wuyao: "It's okay to try to take full control of your own life, and it should be, but it's too late, don't break yourself."

Pei Wuyao: "How is it broken, or is there a danger of breaking?"

Me: "For example, when you encounter anything, you only want to complete it by yourself. Even if you need to spend a hundred efforts to complete this task alone, you will not cooperate with others and only spend a total of ten efforts to complete it. , It’s a waste of effort and half the effort.”

Pei Wuyao: "Waste is really bad, I will pay attention to calculation."

Am I talking about waste?

Pei Jianzhuo: "From the general point of view of monks, 'avoiding waste' is indeed a big topic, which is much more widely discussed than 'whether to cooperate' or 'too much to go'."

I anxiously asked my brother for his apprenticeship experience.

Brother: "Do you think I taught Zeng Qi very smoothly? At least Pei Wuyao can follow your train of thought when he is willing to listen to you. At most, he is a little bit off the point, but Zeng Qi's IQ, I say something, he thinks something else." He is obviously a pure sword cultivator, but people always misunderstand him as a weapon cultivator. It would be fine if he directly minored in weapon cultivation, but if he is seriously asked to refine a weapon, he will be in a mess, and he will know how to play foolishly all day long."

Brother: "I'm considering whether to take in a new apprentice. I've tried my best with Zeng Qi, and it won't help if I continue to work hard on him. I want to take in a smart apprentice and see if it's my way of speaking that's the problem." , or the apprentice's comprehension ability is problematic."

Sure enough, there are only zero and countless times for many things.Either he didn't want to accept a serious apprentice like his father, or he was very difficult before accepting his first apprentice like his brother, so Yunxiazong had to repeatedly exert pressure, but after teaching an apprentice, he would take the initiative to think about it. Accept an apprentice.

Me: "Choose one from among the new disciples?"

Brother: "It can be considered. In the past ten years, all the children who have been interested in Yunxiazong are in it, which is much more reliable than finding a needle in a haystack all over the world. Except for Pei Wuyao's special situation of being restricted and isolated from the world, how many people in this generation don't know Yunxia Sect? How many people are suitable for Yunxia Sect but don't apply for Yunxia Sect?"

Me: "There are indeed some people who are suitable but don't know that they are suitable."

Brother: "I just happen to not want to be foolish this time."

Me: "Then this batch of new disciples is really the most suitable for you to choose."

The elder brother first communicated with Zeng Qi, who was on a mission outside, and threatened him: "I'm going to take in a new apprentice, and you will be self-reliant in the future."

Zeng Qi obviously didn't listen to the second half of the sentence, and his face was filled with surprise: "Ah, I'm finally going to be a senior brother? Among your apprentices, I am a senior senior brother, and I have to take care of my younger siblings. What kind of meeting gift should my elder brother prepare for my younger siblings? "

The elder brother cut off the communication blankly.

08758 - Shipwrecked

Me: "You should correct him: Yunxiazong doesn't call other disciples "big brother" except for the position of big brother who is the heir to the sect." And the name "big brother" makes me have a psychological shadow.

Brother: "Do whatever you want. I'm going to find a good apprentice."

Alas, raising children is really hard.How can there be a perfect and well-behaved one?You can see that our father is very thorough in his thinking, he does not expect his apprentice to bring him a good mood, it is completely with the idea of ​​"in order to make up for my lack of apprenticeship, even if we encounter difficulties and obstacles, we can only admit it by holding our noses" The spirit of sacrifice ponders the matter of accepting disciples.

And so far only pondering, no practice.

The master instructed us: "Don't teach your apprentices with the mentality of 'responsible for the life of the apprentice' and 'the apprentice is obedient to you', you should teach the apprentice with the mentality of 'fighting'. Fight wits with the apprentice, and play with the apprentice through applause. time, get rid of the arrogance of the apprentice, and let the apprentice deeply understand the difficulties in the world early."

Me: "...then one day when the apprentice's cultivation base is higher than yours, does it mean that you are bullied by the apprentice?"

Grandmaster: "In fact, generally speaking, it is difficult for apprentices to cultivate to the height of crushing the master, especially the disciples of the sect. Generally, the apprentices are at most a lower level than the master. Because the sect's perfect disciple selection process determines that the disciples with good qualifications will be awarded Excellent masters, such as Ran Xun and Ran Jin, directly worship the elders as their teachers, and with the ceiling of the Yunxia Sect, the chances of these two becoming higher in the future are very small."

Master: "For another example, when Jiang Weixiao was apprenticed to his teacher, his master was indeed in the Nascent Soul Stage, and Jiang Weixiao himself might become the God of Transformation in the future, but when Jiang Weixiao became the God of Transformation, Zhou Jie had already entered the God of Transformation The chances are not low. The chances of Zhou Jie and Jiang Weixiao becoming the God of Transformation are basically the same. Considering that Zhou Jie has practiced so many years before Jiang Weixiao, in terms of probability, Zhou Jie should also become the God of Transformation before Jiang Weixiao. After that, Zhou Jie will always be a little higher than Jiang Weixiao's cultivation."

Grandmaster: "If your father didn't cultivate at an unbelievably fast speed, if he would enter the God of Transformation after I became the God of Transformation, I would obviously not be bullied by him."

Me: "Anyway, you just capsized."

Master: "We can't be intimidated by small-probability events. Be confident, you can become the god of transformation before Pei Wuyao, maybe you can also enter Mahayana, and then Pei Wuyao has no hope of making a comeback in your hands."

Me: "No, I still hope to have a harmonious and friendly master-student relationship."

08759-Obsolete

Master: "Want to make a bet? Bet on when you beat your apprentice for the first time, I bet within ten years."

Me: "...No gambling."

Master: "Look, you are very self-aware."

Me: "I don't have the habit of bullying the weak."

Grandmaster: "Treating apprentices is not bullying the weak, but helping them grow up."

Me: "Is it for the good of the apprentice?

Master: "Of course that's not the main thing. The point is for the master's own good mood. But you'd better let your disciples believe that your oppression is for their own good, which will help your oppression go smoothly. It's a pity that such deception It won't work for too long, children's innocence period is very short, and they will soon understand that oppression is pure oppression, whether it is good or not is another matter, alas."

I'm sorry, Master, I can't accept your educational philosophy.I believe my master didn't accept it either.

Pei Jianzhuo: "The old people always have a lot of dross that is behind the times, and we have to extract the essence from the dross."

Master looked at me: "I sense your dislike for me."

Me: "I just suddenly understood why the master can't teach the disciples on behalf of the disciples, and why even if the master sometimes needs help from others to teach the disciples, he would choose to assign his own other disciples or brothers and sisters, and would never consider knowing very well. A dear master who owns the way of cultivation and thinking. It’s not that I’m embarrassed to bother the elders, but that it’s not suitable for me.”

Master: "Do you think that I can't tell that you are disliking my religious theory for being outdated? You just dislike me for being outdated."

Me: "Except when I'm deliberately provoking, I generally don't shoot. Old age doesn't mean outdated. I think... I really appreciate Elder Yang Chelu's way of teaching disciples."

Grandmaster: "That's because you haven't been in close contact. Except for the temper factor, Yang Chelu's apprenticeship method is similar to my master's, which is the kind of master's authority and unquestionable tone. It does not bully the apprentice, but it is very emphatic. Honorable and humble. Disciples are humble."

me?"

Master: "It is expressed in a polite way, but it is really what it is in essence. If you don't believe me...you have no chance to try, and Yang Chelu will not teach you as an apprentice. Modern fashion encourages education, fashion teachers In the early years, when I was a child, the mainstream attitude was that a teacher is a teacher, and a student is a student, and the relationship between superiors and subordinates cannot be confused."