Xiu Erdai's daily essays

07788- bullying

Mu Jianzhi: "We have introspected, and the more we introspect, the more we feel that we still have a lot of shortcomings. Even though we are indeed better than our counterparts in the mortal world in many aspects, they do have a small area that is better than us. Strong, if we put too much emphasis on our strengths, wouldn’t it be easy to lose the opportunity to learn from their strengths? Many mortals tend to be weak when facing monks. No matter how strong we are, they will not dare to show their strengths We hope that our mortal counterparts will proudly show us their superiority, even if it is a small advantage, and show it triumphantly."

Mu Jianzhi: "It's not like in a serious exchange that you only say that you have done a detailed analysis and proved to be extremely valuable key features, but just casually say a little bit of pride. For example, there is an extra tick, this If there is a layer of color missing, it may not be correct, and it may not have the value of reproduction, but on a certain piece of jewelry, it is just a little bit amazing."

Kaneshi Ki: "We like to see half-experts who are not very professional showing off to us."

Me: "So that's it, I'm narrow-minded."

Mu Jianzhi: "No, we also like Mr. Pei. You confidently point out what you think are our shortcomings. Although it may not be completely suitable for us, it is indeed a direction of thinking. We can all learn. If you don't learn everything, you can learn from it. Pick and choose and learn a little bit from each.”

Me: "Although it is a virtue to be humble and learn, sometimes you still need to be stubborn and arrogant. Too much priority on others may blur your own core. For example, you can reply to me arrogantly now, 'we will Like to learn from others and put others first, can you manage that?'”

Mu Jianzhi: "That's what the Foundation Establishment Period said to the Golden Core Period?"

Me: "...it seems impossible. But it must be possible for mortals, right?"

Mu Jianzhi: "It seems to be very bullying?"

Me: "Actually, monks often appear to be very bullying. They are arrogant when they meet low cultivation levels, and humble when they encounter high cultivation levels. They lack arrogance and are all soft bones."

Mu Jianzhi: "Did you include yourself when Young Master Pei made this evaluation?"

Me: "Of course. You see how arrogant and self-righteous I am to you now, and I keep advising you to change according to my will; but when I face the stage of Huashen Mahayana, I will be very cautious in my words and deeds-of course. I'm not very cautious about the Nascent Soul Stage, because I'm confident that I can safely save my life under the Nascent Soul Stage."

07789-Security

Mu Jianzhi: "Did you not seem to be very humble when facing the Mahayana Stage of Transforming Gods in Shazhuan?"

Me: "Sha Zhuan doesn't count. Who knows what the actual cultivation level of the person who claims to be able to speak in Sha Zhuan is. I acquiesce that the idlers who are against me in Sha Zhuan are all about the same cultivation base as me. Even if they are not, they should be regarded as .”

Mu Jianzhi: "But, what if the other party is really powerful?"

Me: "Don't guess, only the ones that really show the lines of spiritual power."

Me: "You really don't have to be afraid, even if you really have a big fight with someone who is much higher than you in the place of Zongwang, as long as you don't speak too much foul language, as long as the content you express in the quarrel is so If the point is reasonable, then the other party will generally not trouble you offline."

Me: "Generally speaking, everyone defaults to online matters being resolved online. Even though sometimes you may see dating offline fights, but a careful analysis will reveal that, firstly, both parties to the dating have the same cultivation level; secondly, after the fighting, The two often became friends; in the end, the number of real fights was very small compared to the number of quarrels."

Me: "It's so small that it's almost the same as when you accidentally ran into a tantrum when you went out today, and then got into a fight. How many times have you said that you have been so unlucky in your life? At most, you have been pinching the frame on the Internet for decades. It’s just going to be unlucky a few times.”

Mu Jianzhi: "However, many seniors have warned us not to speak too extremely when we have disputes with others on the main network, and we must leave ourselves a way to regret it."

Me: "Well, many low-cultivation monks have been educated in this way, and many current high-cultivation monks have also heard this kind of education when their cultivation bases were still low. Therefore, everyone will habitually leave some leeway on the main website. It’s not easy to start a real fire.”

Me: "Why do you still not believe this expression? How many times have you heard of people who were murdered because of quarreling on the main network and really died? Get rid of those who have been proven to be rumors, or have no evidence to prove it is true part, how many are left?"

Me: "Based on my years of experience in spying on the Shazhuan and Zongwang, I can tell you responsibly that there are far fewer people killed by disagreements than when monks communicate face-to-face. It was all premeditated. That is to say, one party had the intention to kill first, and then deliberately provoked the other party in the main network, and then locked the target position when the other party was angry and unstable, and then killed the other party. No Changing the communication method of the main network will also kill them.”

Mu Jianzhi: "The main network is not so safe, right? How do I remember that there are quite a lot of injuries related to the main network?"

Me: "There are quite a lot of fights in the main network directly with spiritual power threads. If you disagree, you can start the fight. After the fight, it will cause some damage to the spiritual power threads. But after all, the spiritual power threads that enter the main network are only At that point, even if you want to enter more general net sieves, you can’t install it, so even if that part of the spiritual power thread is seriously injured, for the monk himself, it is just a small pain, and it will be fine after two days of treatment.”

Me: "Non-irreversible damage means no damage."

07790 - Don't fool yourself

Me: "Do you believe it, if you behave much better when facing mortal buyers, the chances you get to communicate with mortals may actually increase?"

Kaneshi Mu: "There are not so many masochists among mortals."

Me: "It has nothing to do with masochistic interests. The main thing is that most people, including mortals and monks, tend to think that talented people should be arrogant. If a person is very powerful and very gentle and humble, most of them will be evaluated as 'perfect' It doesn’t look like a real person’, it can be seen that everyone subconsciously thinks that strong ability and good temper are not suitable for compatibility, once they are compatible, it is equivalent to a miracle.”

Me: "In this world, who doesn't want to let their temperament be unrestrained? But most people are afraid of offending others, afraid of getting into trouble, afraid of being put on small shoes, afraid of endless annoyance after a moment of pleasure, so they will suppress themselves. Putting on a mask, making an apology, and echoing opinions that they disagree with. When these people have sufficient support, such as becoming an indispensable top technology expert in a company, they will throw away their masks refreshedly and return to their positions. Own."

Me: "It's not because I've been praised too much and I don't know how to advance or retreat. It's because I know that others don't dare to offend me now, so I don't have to be afraid of offending others; it's not because I'm too immersed in professional knowledge and IQ is overly exerted, which leads to arrears in EQ. , but I don’t feel the need to wrong myself and give full play to my emotional intelligence for the sake of those around me.”

Me: "What is emotional intelligence? Being able to talk, handle things, and make people around you feel comfortable when getting along with you. Some people feel happy when they achieve the above results, which is a win-win situation; but the prerequisite for some people to achieve these is If you hold yourself back, you will drop the pick if you get the chance."

Me: "Which kind of disciple do you belong to? I think you should basically belong to the latter, because the former tends to become management talents, and your sect lacks this."

Me: "Humility from the heart is a virtue, but pretending to be humble for other reasons... It's okay if it's to deceive outsiders, but it's bad if you wrong yourself. Ordinary social animals wronged themselves to please their superiors and get a promotion and salary increase , it is possible that one day in the future there will be no need to continue to curry favor with others, but if a monk goes against his will to accommodate others for a long time, it is often difficult to improve his cultivation, and he will not make much money and there will be no future."

Me: "Cultivators must not deceive themselves. If you don't enjoy accommodating others, then don't try to accommodate others. You would rather cause some troubles and suffer some injuries than damage your own heart. Cultivators can avoid danger, but they must not be afraid It is dangerous; you can be kind to others, but you must not be afraid of offending them."

Me: "Cultivators can be afraid, but they can't let fear, especially the same kind of fear, control themselves all the time."

07791 - Lack of aesthetics

Someone in Shameng overheard what I said to Fei Shidai, and then they expressed ridicule, confusion and bragging:

"Pei Lin, didn't you go to Feishidai to do the monster mission? Why did you change it to teach Feishidai disciples? Is it your turn to teach other sects?"

"Master Pei couldn't get a teaching qualification at the Yunxia Sect's teaching place, so he poured out his desire to teach in other sects?"

"The top ten are amazing? Is the third-rate sect very cheap? A junior disciple of the top ten can teach the third-rate sect from the outer sect to the elders? Young master, have you figured out the difference between sects and sects before you open your mouth? Yunxia sect's set It's good to run in the Yunxia Sect, but if the third-rate sect copy it, it will be disbanded."

"Young Master Pei's cultivation level is higher than that of the elder with the highest cultivation level in the Fei Jewelry Bag, so it's okay to give me some advice? Anyway, I would like to listen to the guidance of seniors with higher cultivation bases than me."

"Pei Lin's cultivation level is higher than that of the elder with the highest cultivation level of the Fei Ornament Bag. It only means that Pei Lin can give some pointers to some individuals of the Fei Ornament Bag, but he must not directly point out the entire sect. When the sect forms a whole, the sect also has Cultivation level, the living monk with the highest level of cultivation in this high-level sect. That is to say, if the Fei Jewelry Bag sect turns into a spirit monster, then it is a spirit monster at the Nascent Soul level. Where does Pei Lin come from at the Jindan stage His qualifications dictate to Nascent Soul Qi?"

"Young Master Pei didn't talk about the whole body of the Fei Jewelry Bag, did he? He was indeed chatting with each of the disciples of the Fei Jewelry Bag. For example, talking about the posture of the sword. Where does it involve the whole Fei Jewelry Bag? Pei Shao has nothing to say about the accessories. Aesthetics, he himself admits this. Young Master Pei never pretends to understand."

"I think Mr. Pei's aesthetics are pretty good, and the ice sculptures are so cute."

"No, if you observe a few more of those ice sculpture ornaments, you will find that they are all cute materializations of real things, and the so-called cute materialization is just turning acute angles into arcs, simplifying complex patterns into circles or balls, etc. , there is no sense of design in it.”

"Nonsense, Shao Pei's cat ice sculptures have many, many different poses. I even collected pictures of cat ice sculptures in the sandbox, but I didn't find two cat ice sculptures in exactly the same pose."

"That reflects Pei Lin's ability to collect information. Pei Lin has been raising cats since he was practicing Qi training. He has kept cats until now. He has not only raised one, but he has even worn cat skins himself. During such a long time together , How many poses of cats has he seen? With his memory, can he memorize all the three-dimensional versions of poses? Then when he needs to freeze, he randomly selects a few paragraphs from the memory bank, softens or Putting it together with other cats to make ice sculptures, does that have anything to do with creativity?"