Xiu Erdai's daily essays

04652 - Speaking Style

Yan Gui: "Why can't I tell if she's serious or joking?"

Me: "There is truth in the joke. I don't particularly mind it, but I mind it a little bit. I expanded the element of mind, and expanded the element of joke."

Duan Zhe: "Second Young Master, your current speaking style is different from your usual one. Will Xiao Zhou be like this after joining Zhong Su's family?"

Me: "When you're not on Zhongsumen's territory, it's much easier to talk."

Ai Yiqi: "Yes, you don't have to worry too much, Fellow Daoist Duan, you didn't find my words difficult to understand when you were with me outside Zhong Su's gate before, did you?"

Duan Zhe: "No, actually sometimes I still find it difficult to understand, but it's not that difficult to understand."

Yan Gui: "Speaking of which, sometimes Xiao Zhou really makes me find it difficult to understand. I used to think that it was because he is a four-spiritual root and will definitely leave my life, so those poor communication are for the future. We are preparing for the separation, but if he is placed in an equal position with me, in the position of the top ten disciples...is it because of the huge difference in occupations?"

Yan Gui laughed.

Duan Zhe: "In the future, there may be opportunities to crack the secret realm together."

Yan Gui: "It may take many years. Will this idea be overturned again?"

Me: "Maybe Xiao Zhou won't be able to enter the Zhongsu Sect. Even if he does, he will be trapped in the outer sect and will stop at the foundation-building stage for the rest of his life. After all, he is only a four-spirit root. The proportion of spiritual roots in the sect, the four spiritual roots... can only be said to exist. But if you can look at the status of 'outer disciples' without prejudice, then you can still look forward to it."

Yan Gui: "But the secret realms that the outer disciples go to and the inner disciples go to, the difference is quite obvious."

Me: "The difference caused by cultivation is more obvious. Even if you enter the Zhongsu Sect and become the seventh great disciple, the cultivation speed of the four spiritual roots will not increase by leaps and bounds. You are now two levels higher than him, and wait for him to build a foundation." In the end, you will almost reach the Nascent Soul Stage, and whether he can enter the Golden Core is the key to whether the difference in cultivation between you can be reduced to a large level."

Ai Yiqi: "There is still a chance of the four spirit roots entering the Nascent Soul, and there are examples in the Zhongsu Sect."

Me: "But there is no example of the transformation period in Zhong Sumen, so the convincing power is not strong enough."

Ai Qizaki: "There used to be."

Me: "Once upon a time, Jianzong still had the five spirit root transformation stage."

Ai Qizaki: "Anything is possible."

Me: "Sometimes it's more difficult."

04653 - has a special talent

Duan Zhe: "Second Young Master, is it interesting to chat like this?"

Me: "No, I'm more interested in talking about something delicious."

Ai Yizaki: "It's okay, let's talk about the cooking methods of food."

Me: "On the site of Zhongsumen, the topic of sand sculptures can also become literary and graceful. The aura of the school is really strong. So you two don't have to worry too much. Even if Xiao Zhou becomes a disciple of Zhongsumen, he will return to Yunxiazong to visit His way of speaking will also be like Yunxia Zong when you were there; but if you come to Zhong Sumen to visit him, you will have to endure his Zhong Sumen style of talking in circles."

Yan Gui: "Do you really think that Xiao Zhou can enter the Zhongsu family or not?"

Me: "Both are possible."

Ai Yizaki: "Looking forward to a good result, but actually encountering any result is acceptable."

Yan Gui: "..."

Me: "If you ask Xiao Zhou himself, he will say the same."

Yan Gui: "But he will be disappointed when he says that. He still hopes that he has a good spiritual root and a good cultivation talent, but he is forced to accept the reality."

Me: "And in being forced, he gained the nourishment for thinking, which will allow him to reduce the opportunities and degree of passiveness in the future. I'm not sure whether Xiao Zhou's IQ is high, but I'm sure he has a special talent :think."

Me: "Most people think about the same problem over and over again. The more they think about it, the more numb their thinking will be, and they will be unable to think of new things until they put the problem aside and can't think about it. But Xiao Zhou can think over and over again, every time Understand a little more. There is only a little bit each time, but every time there is a little bit, and it keeps adding up until he has figured out the problem to the extent that he can accept the answer, and then he will think about new problems in a similar process."

Me: "He will not be numb. As long as he has an interest or a need for a problem, mainly a need, he can keep thinking about it. Even though the initial stage has some meaning of forcing himself, his compulsion has paid off, and he can continue to think about it. Let him suddenly see. From compulsion to relaxation."

Me: "Because he has Jindanqi's parents, because his parents are both disciples of Yunxia Sect, and because I have paid special attention to him, so if Duan Yanzhou is admitted to Zhongsu Sect or any other sect, as long as he In public appearances in the realm of comprehension, he will inevitably receive some special scrutiny. For many people, such scrutiny will cause discomfort, and Duan Yanzhou's feeling in this regard is no exception. However, Duan Yanzhou can take that share Digest the discomfort and let the discomfort become the nutrient for him to move forward."

04654-excellent

Me: "The more things that are closely related to him, the more he can focus on thinking and make greater progress. If we want to help him practice, we only need to provide him with such thinking materials. Including letting him be paid attention to , being questioned by others, expected, despised, praised, excluded, whether it is good or bad, as long as it is related to him, it is useful to him.”

Pei Bing: "Sounds familiar?"

Xiao Sui: "Yu Qiao?"

A non-crazy, gentle and upright Yu Qiao?

I consult the elder brother.

Eldest brother: "There is nothing wrong with Yu Qiao's way. It is actually a routine to use people's attitudes as nourishment. You just have to be careful not to shake your own true emotions when digesting other people's emotional feedback. Don't look at Yu Qiao. Qiao sometimes seems to be very crazy, but his self-control ability is not malfunctioning, in this regard, if Duan Yanzhou really goes this way, he can learn from Yu Qiao."

Me: "The main world already has enough emotional material for Duan Yanzhou to absorb, so there is no need for the emotions of non-contact creatures in the secret realm?"

Big brother: "Naturally, but it's not inevitable. Take it if you have it. The more training materials, the better. Yu Qiao didn't go crazy because he was too closely related to the secret realm."

Me: "If you don't consider the factors of the secret realm, senior Yu Qiao is actually a very good monk, right?"

Eldest brother: "He is, firm and sober. Even taking into account the factors of the secret realm, Yu Qiao is an excellent monk. If he is not good enough, he would not have been bound to me for so many years. I still have seven One of the bonus effects of Yunxia Sect."

Me: "Does my mentioning Yuqiao make you feel uncomfortable?"

Big brother: "I don't think I have. It's just that I have some emotions. Things are different. The relationship between me and Yu Qiao used to be really good, but now it's too complicated. Duan Yanzhou's current situation is more complicated. I hope He can make his own path more and more concise."

Me: "I think he can."

Big Brother: "How much pressure are you going to put on him?"

Me: "Do as much as I can, I think he can bear it. In fact, I can't add much, because first of all, I want to ensure that those troublemakers in the Shameng will not hurt him. I mean physical, spiritual, spiritual, and soul damage. I want to make sure that Shameng’s pressure on Xiao Zhou is limited to verbal and mental pressure. I have full confidence in Xiao Zhou’s ability to resist pressure in this area. After all, he has supported him since he was a child. A genius who regrets the pressure on the spiritual root."

Me: "The ability to think. The ability to keep thinking. The ability to keep thinking. The more you think, the clearer you become. Genius."

Me: "Xiao Zhou's growth will definitely help me understand Confucianism Xiu better, and at the same time, maybe he can also make you better understand the relationship between Yu Qiao and yourself?"

04655 - a long, long time to be steady

Big brother: "Emotion? I have no doubts about the relationship between me and Yu Qiao."

Me: "Is there no way to talk about Yu Qiao?"

Senior brother: "No. I broke up with him when we were both sober, without any doubts. Just because there were no doubts, it was irreversible, and there would be no redemptive action, because both he and I Know that our differences are fundamental and principled and cannot be erased."

Me: "But Xiao Zhou and you are unlikely to have fundamental and irreconcilable differences. It is basically impossible for the top ten disciples to have such serious differences. The fundamental interests of the top ten are the same."

Big brother: "Because Duan Yanzhou and Yu Qiao, the Tao may be similar, but not exactly the same. No one's Tao will be exactly the same as another person's."

Me: "As long as it can arouse my emotions, let me love people and things, regardless of friends or enemies, this way..."

Big brother: "All can be used, but not necessarily regardless of friends and foes. Positive thinking because of liking, and positive thinking because of dislike, the former is to get closer to liking, and the latter is to stay away from dislike. Yu Qiao doesn't care about likes and dislikes, so he treats The two are equally close, but Duan Yanzhou, his likes and dislikes may be clear, it depends on whether he can be clear for a long time."

Big Brother: "When the Tao is connected with intense emotions, the biggest obstacle is that intense emotions may disturb one's vision and confuse one's direction. If Duan Yanzhou can stay awake, the four spirit roots... the four spirit roots will be opposite. Difficult practice progress may just help him to wake up. When the steps are slow, he has to think more and more carefully to make each step more practical, as long as he does not search everywhere and try 'shortcuts' in a hurry. "

Me: "No. If he wants to take a shortcut, he won't think about the same question thousands of times. Duan Yanzhou is very down-to-earth."

Eldest brother: "He needs to be so steadfast for a long, long time."

Me: "Come on, let's work hard together."

Me: "Let me ask another heart-wrenching question. The difference between you and senior Yu Qiao is not an unchangeable way, but a subjective choice?"

Big brother: "Yes. If Yu Qiao and I have the same heart, then we can erase our differences. Even if it is not easy, there is a way, but I am not willing to talk to him. Our importance in the other party's heart is not worth it. We have made big enough changes for each other. Yu Qiao is unwilling not to be close to the enemy, and I am unwilling to put things that may or may not enter Yunxiazong into Yunxiazong."

Me: "If Yu Qiao regards you as a Taoist partner, will he change his own way for you?"

Senior brother: "The Dao of Taoists will inevitably affect each other, even if you don't want to change, you will definitely lean towards each other. Everyone's Dao is unique, but what kind of Dao is the only one is not a definite number until the monk dies. The monks are firm but not stubborn, walk their own way firmly, and adjust their own way in response to changes in the world and current encounters, so that they can walk more smoothly and steadily."