Xiu Erdai's daily essays

04236 - make yourself comfortable

Me: "I don't care about the blank expression, but I can't judge whether it is suitable or not. What is not suitable for children? Bloody? Pornographic? Violence? Then let children observe the composition of blood? Understand the formation process of fertilized eggs Does it count? Does learning to protect yourself from violence count?"

Me: "I think that as long as it is an objective existence, there is nothing that children cannot touch. The only thing to pay attention to is that it must be described in an objective manner, without adding the describer's own feelings of praise or disgust. No beautification, no To uglify, what is the fact is what it is. The fact does not need to be avoided, even if it makes people uncomfortable, but 'uncomfortable' is also a natural emotion, why should it be cut off from children?"

Min Lun: "Maybe it's because children are more fragile?"

Me: "Is it objective fragility, or do grown-ups think they are frail?"

Me: "Before they are instilled with social cognition, children will not have prejudice against the world. For example, they are happy to play with ugly bugs. For example, they will not scream when they see bloody people, because they do not People who understand that bugs can be poisonous and seriously injured may have dangerous pursuers behind them."

Me: "The world that children see at the beginning is a truly objective world. It is what it is, without additional meaning. It is the absolute objectivity that adults can never repeat no matter how hard they try. This way of perception should be cherished."

Me: "While there is no prejudice, try to meet as many people as possible."

Me: "It seems that Xiao Zhou is not interested in this topic. The fluctuation of spiritual power is so slow that he seems to be falling asleep. Do we still have to stimulate psychological trauma? Hate lasts longer than love? Pain grips the soul more than comfort? Abuse is more powerful than sweetness." Longevity?"

Min Lun: "No, it's just that you haven't found the point that makes him love. Maybe he doesn't know what that point is yet."

Me: "What if I found it?"

Min Lun: "That's part of his Tao. Enduring love is his own Tao."

Me: "What about persistent hate?"

Min Lun: "It may also be the Tao, if that fellow Taoist prefers self-torture. But for the most part, monks still like to make themselves comfortable and yearn for positive emotions, and those negative emotions are just to help them find a positive ladder. "

Duan Yanzhou grasped one word: "Comfortable?"

Min Lun: "Yes, comfortable. Many people say that I was able to change my life against the sky through hard work, but in fact, I think that hard work is true, but hard work is not necessarily true. Maybe it was hard when I first started practicing, and You are the same now, there are many uncertainties, but when I decide to go on the road of cultivation, it doesn't matter how hard it is."

Min Lun: "I don't have time to think about whether it is hard or not. Cultivation has occupied my full attention. Every moment I am thinking, 'What else can I do to make myself stronger'. When I am free , I will perceive myself and be happy for my real progress. I am more convinced every day that I can go on the road I chose, and go very far.”

Min Lun: "I don't think I have changed my fate against the sky. I just tried my best to use my talent. Maybe my talent is not good, but I have explored it as much as possible and let it expand to to the point where it meets my needs."

04237 - awesome career

Min Lun: "Sometimes I feel lucky that my spiritual root is like this. As senior brother Pei said, if you want to take the road of cultivation with such a spiritual root, there is only one way to see it. There is no other choice, no other Interference, as long as you decide to go, you can be firm, because there is really no way to move."

Min Lun: "I have only two paths. One, keep going, and two, give up cultivation. I don't want to give up, so I can only go down this one path. No matter how many obstacles there are, I can only one by one. Breakthrough. I have only this narrow road, and there is no room for detours. I have no choice, so I must be firm."

Min Lun: "My talent has given me firmness. When you have no choice, you will find that there is nothing impossible to break through. Your potential is greater than you thought."

Min Lun didn't leave after talking about the experience he was imparting, but practiced his sword beside him.

Min Lun: "Anyway, I practice swords everywhere. If I practice here to give Xiao Zhou a little more insight, then here it is."

When Duan Yanzhou watched Min Lun practice his sword, he really felt something, because the fluctuating spiritual power of my words changed the direction of fluctuation because of Min Lun's sword, which seemed to be more suitable for Duan Yanzhou to control.

Me: "Sword cultivator is great, isn't he? If you are so firm, you will have more courage even if you just watch from the sidelines."

Duan Yanzhou: "Yes."

Me: "Do you like sword repair?"

Duan Yanzhou: "I like it."

Me: "If you don't think about whether it is possible, do you want to become a sword cultivator?"

Duan Yanzhou: "...I don't know. Can't I?"

Me: "Yes. The profession of sword cultivator is very inclusive. There are very few people who cannot be a sword cultivator. If someone chooses another profession, it is often because that person is more suitable for that profession, rather than completely walking away from the profession of sword cultivator. Can’t go on. So we can see that many monks of other professions will learn some skills related to sword repair, not necessarily a minor, but they are rarely ignorant.”

Even the genius of the little master uncle who has problems with everything except law practice has personally practiced the profession of sword repair-no matter what the result of the practice is.

Me: "If you don't know what profession to choose, you might as well practice swords first. If you only practice basic sword moves, it will not affect your future career choice at all. It can also strengthen your body and equip yourself with a certain ability to protect yourself. There are often conflicts in the realm of comprehension, and it’s impossible to know how to fight at all, it’s too dangerous.”

04238-The determination to choose but not to choose

Duan Yanzhou: "I have practiced, my parents taught me. But the feeling of my own practice..." He looked at Min Lun and said, "It's different. Senior Min's feeling of practicing sword is different from that of my parents. .”

Me: "In terms of firmness, your parents are not as good as Min Lun. By the way, have you ever seen Elder Gao Yi practicing sword?"

Duan Yanzhou: "Who?"

Me: "Sword cultivator Elder Gao Yi. You probably haven't seen it. I have a video record of her practicing sword. Although it is far inferior to watching the scene, it is still stronger than watching Min Lun."

Min Lun put away his sword, sat back next to us, and asked me: "Are there any video records of the elders' daily training in the Library Pavilion? I haven't seen them."

Me: "Yes. But Jindanqi generally does not have permission to watch it. This restriction is a bit strange. If Jindanqi can protect himself, he can watch the elders practice swords on the spot, but the permission to watch video records is generally not enabled. , although it’s actually useless to watch, because the video recording and the live version are really different. If anyone is interested in the daily training of the elders, you can ask when the elders train and go to the scene directly. Emphasis again: The premise of allowing to watch the scene is to protect yourself."

Me: "Of course, Elder Gao Yi is not in the range where a large number of juniors can watch. Elder Gao doesn't like crowds. I saw and recorded this through the back door. Elder Gao's daily sword practice is really good, simple and complex. .”

Me: "I think if it's not that Elder Gao doesn't like to be surrounded by crowds, in fact, every time a freshman starts, the juniors should collectively watch Elder Gao practice his sword. , everyone can do it, but it can be so strong that there is no upper limit. It is the simplest and the most powerful."

I projected Elder Gao's sword training video onto the snow. The three-dimensional video has a high level of solidity and cannot fool Min Lun, but in Duan Yanzhou's eyes, it should be no different from a real person.

The total duration of the video is about three hours, all of which are basic sword moves, repeated out of sequence, the same, different, stable and random.

Duan Yanzhou looked as if he was about to stop breathing.

Min Lun said softly, "It's really amazing."

Me: "Every elder is amazing, the ultimate in a certain direction."

Min Lun: "Given Elder Gao's innate conditions, she actually has many choices, but she put aside all of them, and only single-mindedly followed a path that does not require so much innate conditions. Being able to choose but not to choose, this kind of firmness is more powerful." It's admirable."

Me: "If you can cultivate to the stage of transformation, then there will be no difference between you and Elder Gao in terms of results."

Min Lun: "The premise is that I need to be able to cultivate to the stage of transformation, and if I can't, what hinders me is the difference between me and Elder Gao."

04239 - a secret

Me: "Every elder's Tao is different. Of course you are different from Elder Gao, but the difference is not the reason to judge good or bad. Come on, I have always been optimistic about you."

Min Lun: "Thank you. If I send your words to Shazhuan, it will inevitably be another bloodbath."

Me: "I'll tell you a secret."

Min Lun looked at me for two seconds and flatly refused: "No, I don't want to hear it."

Me: "My secret related to you."

Min Lun: "Then I don't even want to listen to it. It's just a little trouble for me if others know what you said just now. If you tell your secret, I feel that my life is in danger."

...I think so too, so I never dared to say it.How much I want to tell the world: "I also have a crush on others. Those Taoist friends who are ostentatious in front of me but are ignored by me, don't comfort yourself by despising me for not being weaned. You just don't conform to my aesthetics. I His eyes are too high to look down on you."

But it's not good to bring the topic to Min Lun, who knows what some lunatics with fake fans and black names can do.In fact, if someone picks up this topic, I'd still use Elder Peng Qinru to block the gun. Anyway, I was really tempted by Elder Peng's beauty for a little while.

When the video of Gao Chang's sword practice ended, Duan Yanzhou didn't come back to his senses for a long time, and it took him a while before his heartbeat finally slowed down.I put the record jade slip together with the projector in front of him, and said to him:

"give you."