Jean Love

Every blind date after that, either I took the initiative to tell him, or he asked me.In short, he basically knew everything, but he never asked the details, only the result: "How is it? Is it okay?"

"So what if you can? What if you can't?" Asked a lot.I am very annoyed.

"If you can, just send out wedding candy, if you can't, keep working hard." He smiled hippie, as if I was really in the way of him, and he wanted to push me out so much.

Sometimes, I myself want to get rid of myself in a hurry.However, this is not buying vegetables in the market after all.It's about a century-old relationship, not only with your heart, but also with each other, at least you have to talk about eye relationship, if you don't have eye relationship, turn your head and run away from ten meters away.In such a situation, it is not only embarrassing, but also hurts self-esteem too much.

It just so happens that this happened to me!

The most impressive one during the blind date was the third time in the spring of 2004.In my hometown town.

Chen Hui, from our same village, worked in Guangzhou in his early years.I lived frugally, saved a little money, built my own house, made a girlfriend, and lived a good life.

When the factory's performance is not good, he knows how to accept it as soon as it is good.As soon as they came back, the two parents-in-law joined hands to grow yellow smoke and chili peppers at home, working tirelessly from dawn to dusk.

In the past two years, he contracted projects by himself, took care of some people, helped them build houses, his wife took care of his husband and children at home, and he also planted some rice, peanuts, peppers...The small days are also prosperous.

It is said that if you work outside for a few years, you will look like a young master after returning home. You can't do this, and you can't do that.They are good examples.An example worth following.

During the days at home, after dinner in the evening, I often go to his house to sit.Watch TV, drink tea, chat.

According to seniority, he should call me grandpa, and according to age, I call him brother.He is several years older than me, but we have a lot of common language and we can chat very well.His wife is also a virtuous and kind person.I heard that I was trying to find a mate, and I also wanted to build a bridge and lead a thread.Very enthusiastic.

That night, as usual, I drank tea and watched TV with Brother Chen Hui.After washing the newly changed clothes of the whole family, she shook her hands on the ground, rubbing the front and back of her body.A plate of fried red melon seeds was brought out from the back room and placed in front of me, then I pulled up a stool and sat beside me.

"Mao Ya, why don't you bring your girlfriend to show your sister-in-law?" She called me by my baby name, tentatively opening the topic.

"How can I have a girlfriend? Who did you hear that from?" I yelled.

"You are so educated and you are a boss outside. How come you don't have a girlfriend? You want to hide it from us, right?"

"I really don't have one. If you want a suitable one, just introduce one to me." I am afraid that people will praise me for being educated in person, especially for "boss" and "rich".Because my identity is far from these.So as soon as I heard this, I immediately imagined a scene - I fell from a high altitude, my body was smashed to pieces, and my shape was tragic.

However, most people like or are used to using similar compliments to cut to the chase.

"Are you very demanding?" she asked again.

"No, it's usually fine." I said.

"The specific appearance requires a very beautiful one, right?"

"Facial features are correct, no lack of arms or legs is enough."

"What about culture? Those who haven't read much, but are good at doing farm work, okay?"

"No problem. A woman's lack of talent is virtue. It's even better if she can do farm work. She can help my mother a lot..."

When I said that I could help my mother, my mind wandered: "Isn't this exactly what I'm looking for?" I thought very selfishly!

"When I used to work at the Huanan Garment Factory in Guangzhou, I had a colleague from my mother's family. He was very nice and close to me. Now he is at home and has never been married. He is very tall. Tian at home Here, I have nothing to say about doing farm work, and I am honest, but I have no education, and I may be two or three years older than you. Do you think it is okay?" The sister-in-law introduced a lot of them and breathed a sigh of relief.Stretching out his right hand, he picked up a handful of melon seeds on the plate with four fingers and placed them in the palm of his left hand.Send them to your mouth one by one.Eyes on me, waiting for my reply.

I took a sip of tea and stopped for two or three minutes to see Brother Chen Hui's face.He nodded at me.Look at sister-in-law's expression again: "Sister-in-law is so enthusiastic, then ask her out to meet."

"Well, okay." She stood up and put the few melon seeds left in her left palm back on the plate.Clap your hands, go to their family's calendar to look at it, and then say: "The day after tomorrow is fair day, I'll call and ask her out to go to the market, and you two can meet at the market, okay?"

On the third day, the three of us, brother Chen Hui drove the motorcycle.When we arrived in the town, my sister-in-law separated from us and went to find her friends. Brother Chen Hui and I waited together, as if waiting for organizational arrangements.

When my sister-in-law came back, she pulled the collar for me.The right hand points to the street selling fruits and vegetables.Tell me: "Look, that one, the one wearing a red cloth floral corduroy jacket, black pants, carrying a few plum seedlings is the one, go over there."

Having experienced many times before, I have become less restrained and shy.I strode directly towards that person. I was almost there. Before I could see what the other person looked like, she turned her head and walked towards another street on my left without looking back.

Hey, it's unlikely, right?so shy?I followed her all the way.I think, at least to make sure the other party saw me.Now that we are here, this is the most basic respect for each other!

Walking to another stall selling fruit seedlings, she stopped, bent down, and picked and picked.I slowed down and took two steps forward. She was indeed at least a head taller than me.He has big hands and feet, a strong body, a round face and a wide forehead, and a red and black complexion. He is indeed a peasant.

"Did you buy so many fruit seedlings?" I looked directly at her face, her eyes.

"En." With just one word, he stood up and walked away as if avoiding it again.

From her disdainful eyes, I got the answer I wanted.To be honest, at that moment, I didn't feel depressed, but looked at her gradually receding back, feeling a little pity in my heart.I don't know if it's for her or for myself!

Later, this woman married into our village, married to my companion who herded cows and drove ducks together when I was a child.

My companion is also tall and tall, speaks carelessly, and does things rough.The villagers called him Sweet Potato.He is the second eldest in the family, and has four siblings. He is the only child in the family.

Later, she and my mother became very good friends, so good that they talked about everything.

The year before last, that is, in 2010, I got divorced. The main reason for the divorce was because I could not have children.Whether it's a man's or a woman's question, I don't care.Maybe both are problematic.I heard that I went to many hospitals in the town, city, and province for examination and treatment.It didn't work, and a lot of money was wasted, which made the parents-in-law and the mother-in-law very dissatisfied and very unhappy.As a result, they left.

Now I still occasionally call my mother, saying that she is working in Zhongshan.When it comes to her, my mother is not without emotion: she regrets it!

When I said this recently, I saw both pride and sympathy in my mother's eyes.

And I, very inexplicably, suddenly thought of Titan Konjac.A very rare, very beautiful, very smelly, extremely extreme flower all in one.It seems that I am one of them.

There is nothing to regret, your own choice, your own way!

The rats chasing on the roof woke me up, and the spiders hanging from the edge of the yellow beams were sniffling.A piece of dust that couldn't be held fell down and landed on my face, and I wiped it off with my hands, it was wet.Afraid that it was urine from a spider, I quickly got up and wiped the right side of my face, only to find that it was also wet.Thoughts wander among reality and phantoms of the past.I accidentally spilled tears.

Life is like a drama, and for some people, a blind date is a part of it, and in this drama, I don't want to be the protagonist at all.At most, it's a trick, or it's a simple cutscene.

At some point, my four-year-old niece came to my side and tugged at the corner of my clothes: "Uncle, uncle, grandma told you to eat." In a childish voice, she looked cute.

I rubbed my eyes, straightened my clothes, twisted my waist, picked her up, and went to the living room.The whole family, except the younger brother, younger sister and elder brother work outside.Grandma, father, and mother are all in the hall, waiting for me to come up and start lunch.