The reborn dad is hard to be

Many things in the world must follow 100% theory. ——Li Zifei On the second day of the opening day of the Cangshan Leisure Center, Li Zifei slept for a whole day, and he was really tired during this time.

Leaning on the bed and opening the newspaper, Li Zifei first drank a cup of Tieguanyin, read the headlines, and then got up to get dressed.Now he has fully adapted to Yuchi Wenru's British concept of life, but fortunately, at least the tea he makes is green tea, and the meals he makes are Chinese.

As soon as he walked out of the dining room, the phone at home rang, and Yuchi Wenru answered it quickly.

It wasn't until Yuchi hung up the phone that Li Zifei asked suspiciously: "Why is that kid Tiansheng calling home?"

"Master Tiansheng forgot to take his homework." After speaking, he went into the room to help Li Tiansheng pack his homework, and then called Zhou Fengqiao to ask him to deliver it.

Li Zifei frowned, why can't this kid change his carelessness!

"Master, three parents left you phone calls today, and I hope you can help teach their children." Yuchi Wenru took out his little notebook again, stood beside Li Zifei, and spoke while he was eating. listen to him.

"They really linger!" Since "Mom Baby" magazine became popular, the column "Sunshine Mom, Sunshine Baby" has also become popular, and Li Zifei's parenting experience has become a must-have classic for families. What I said is only applicable to some ordinary families, and some special cases are not involved. After all, every family is different, and one method cannot be used to govern all families, right?

What troubled Li Zifei the most was that he didn't know where they learned about helping Wang Qingshi teach the prince. Now, no matter how old their children's parents are, they would call him if they had minor problems at home, hoping that he could help.Come on, he's not superman, he can't solve everything!

Rubbing his forehead, Li Zifei felt that things couldn't go on like this. He wanted to train a group of people, and then he didn't have to do anything, just sit there and have psychological counseling!

"How many parents have asked me to find a solution so far? What ages are the children?" Li Zifei wiped his mouth and looked up at Yuchi Wenru.

"A total of fourteen parents, the children range from elementary school to high school." Yuchi replied.

"Well, you help me classify, put the same age group together, don't need to teach anything, just let them exchange children to experience each other's family life, twice if it doesn't work once, three times if it doesn't work twice, after a few times They knew that the children in the other party's family were worse than their own children. It turned out that the other party's children would speak ill of their parents in front of them, so they were worried that their children would also speak ill of themselves, so I don't need to teach them in the future. You just know how to get along with children.” Li Zifei’s method is almost nonexistent in China, but in Europe and the United States, some public welfare organizations often hold such activities. After the children are exchanged, they will see their own shortcomings from other children. Gradually, I will educate my children.

"How are Tianci and Tiansheng these days? They've been really busy recently, so I'm sorry for them!" He breathed a sigh of relief, Li Zifei was really too busy recently.

"Master Tianci's homework is still very good, and his relationship with Master Liang Dong has always been good, but the last time I heard from Master Liang Dong that Master Tianci failed the physical examination." Yuchi Wenru put away his notebook. Do not record.

"Unqualified for sports?" Li Zifei blinked his eyes and chuckled, this kid really has a strong brain and simple limbs!Think about Liang Dong's stunned head, who can only shake his head. There is really a saying of complementarity in this world. That Liang Dong is a master with well-developed limbs and a simple mind. A school too!

Li Zifei didn't pay much attention to sports. He himself is not a well-developed person. In his previous life, he played golf at most. In this life, if he played tennis, the rest of his eyes were completely black.Rubbing his chin, Li Zifei seemed to have heard Ou Yangguang say that there was a very good cartoon "Slam Dunk", and it was about basketball anecdotes of passionate young people.Well, you can buy it for Tianci to have a look and inspire him.

"Young Master Tiansheng is still the same as before." Regarding Li Tiansheng, their whole family has suffered a lot.This kid doesn't know who he learned from. He has been talking nonsense since he was a child. When he sees a boy, he calls him a handsome brother, and when he sees a girl, he calls him a pretty sister. Two-thirds of the kindergarten children are his harem. One of them was also his subordinates. Ouyang Yangguang and Zhao Na had corrected him countless times, but they just couldn't change it. Li Zifei also had a headache about this kind of thing, although everyone seemed to be very fond of Tiansheng's childish language. I like it, but I can't guarantee that Tiansheng will fall in his mind. This is the correct concept. Li Zifei doesn't want to see an abandoned baby in front of the door when he opens the door. The name of Li Tiansheng's child is written on it.

"It would be great if Tiansheng could be as worry-free as Tianruo!" Li Zifei sighed.

Yuchi Wenru didn't speak, but gave Li Zifei a hard look, three children and two geniuses, aren't you satisfied?

When Zhou Fengqiao came back, Li Zifei took the car to the Cangshan Leisure Hall. When he left that day, he didn't ask how the sales were going. He slept all day yesterday, so he happened to have time to check it out today.

It was already six o'clock when Li Zifei came home, and he also ate dinner at Jiang Haiwei's place. After listening to his nagging all afternoon, the topic couldn't be separated from Han Ruiyi.

"Sons, I'm back!" Handing the clothes to Yuchi Wenru, Li Zifei first hugged Li Tianruo who was sitting on the sofa and kissed him hard, then stretched out his face to let Tianruo return his mouthful, and then ran to Next to Li Tianci and Li Tiansheng who were doing their homework, each of them kissed, and then stretched out their faces for them to kiss back.

"Father, I heard that you asked Uncle Zhou to buy cartoons today?" Tiansheng put down his pen and looked at Li Zifei with piercing eyes and asked.

Li Zifei was overjoyed, probably only this Tiansheng in the family really looked like a child, "Yeah, I heard it's pretty good, let's buy it and watch it together."

"It's great, Dad, let's watch it now!" Tiansheng jumped to the ground and dragged Li Zifei away like a TV.

Li Zifei looked down at Li Tiansheng's homework, and found that the boy had only written three words, so he pretended to be angry and said, "Those who haven't finished their homework are not eligible to read it!" Then he pushed Li Tiansheng back on the chair .

Hearing Li Zifei's words, Tiansheng's head drooped, he lay down on the table slowly, and reluctantly picked up the pencil.

Seeing Tiansheng return to the chair obediently, Li Zifei smiled proudly, not caring about Yuchi Wenru's contemptuous eyes, humming a little song to harass Tianruo.

"Brother, I don't know how to do this question." After a while, I heard Li Tiansheng's voice asking Tianci.

"It should be explained like this..." Tianci replied after taking a look.

Li Zifei nodded, Tianci is really competent as the eldest brother.

"Brother, how do you write Yuan?" Li Tiansheng asked again.

"Write it like this." Tianci replied.

Li Zifei nodded in satisfaction, looked at his watch, hey, when can I finish writing, let's watch cartoons together.

"Brother, I saw Liang Dong walking with a girl today, do you think they are dating!" Tian Sheng suddenly asked.

Mouth!Someone likes that idiot Liang Dong?No, no, it should be, how did this kid Tiansheng know the word "partner"!

"...No, that's his aunt..." Tianci paused.

Jiong, Tiansheng, your eyes are too difficult to use!Li Zifei wiped his sweat.

Tianruo kindly handed over a handkerchief, and Li Zifei was moved and kissed him again.

"Brother, I can't write with a pencil." Tiansheng handed the pencil in his hand to Tianci.

Tianci took it naturally, and then picked up the pencil sharpener to sharpen the pencil.

... Li Zifei was speechless.

"elder brother……"

Li Zifei lifted the table, "Li Tiansheng, you can't stop for a while!"

Li Tiansheng was startled, and turned his head to look at Li Zifei timidly, not understanding how he had offended his father.

"You said you left a total of ten questions, and you asked your brother four, and you can write six? Including the Chinese homework, it took less than half an hour to finish it. Look, you have written all of them. How long has it been? The pencil can’t be used, and I don’t know how to use a pencil sharpener, otherwise why should I buy that for you?” Li Zifei felt that he hadn’t supervised them for a while, how could Tiansheng become like this!

Tiansheng opened his mouth, he didn't expect Li Zifei to be so angry, Tianci hurriedly wanted to explain, and directly asked Li Zifei to give the organization a move, turned his head and said to Li Tianci sternly: "Tianci, I Knowing that you have good intentions, you think that you are an elder brother, and the younger brother's request should be satisfied, but you are not helping him at all, but harming him."

Maybe he scolded Tiansheng, but he didn't feel so irritable. He eased his tone and said, "What should you do if you encounter problems that you don't know when you are doing your homework?"

Tianci was stunned for a moment, did not expect Li Zifei to ask this question, thought for a while and replied: "Put it there, and read it when it is finished."

"Then why did you do that? Why didn't you ask first, and then do the next one after you learn it?" Li Zifei guided him.

"Because it will interrupt my train of thought. After I finish asking questions in the middle, I have to concentrate on the next question." Li Tianci answered very quickly this time.

"Very good, since you understand, why didn't you say that to Tiansheng?" Li Zifei pointed at Li Tiansheng.Seeing Li Tianci's bewildered face, which then turned into guilt, Li Zifei went on to say: "At first I thought Li Tiansheng's forgetfulness was his nature, but now it seems that he shouldn't be, we are all used to him. I don’t clean my schoolbag by myself, I don’t know if the pencils in my pencil case can be used, and I don’t tidy my clothes by myself. These are the main reasons why his life is illogical. There is a theory in psychology called 100 % theory, that is to say, parents help their children to do 20%, then he will do 80% by himself, if we do 80%, then he can only do 20%, so as time goes by, it will cause him to be unable to take care of himself. So from today From now on, including Yuchi, I also heard that you don’t need to clean up the clothes of the three boys, let them do it themselves, especially Li Tiansheng! You can tidy up your own schoolbags and sharpen your pencils by yourself. Homework, set the alarm clock, first let Tianci see how long the daily homework will take, and then you must finish it within the specified time, and you are not allowed to write anything that cannot be finished. If the teacher punishes you the next day, you will be punished. Punish it! You can do whatever you like between finishing your homework and before going to bed, of course you can watch TV or play games.” This is the so-called hitting a sweet date with a stick.

Li Tiansheng, who was quite depressed at first, immediately regained his energy when he heard the last sentence. Without saying a word, he directly took the pencil sharpener in Tianci's hand and sharpened it himself, and quickly started to do his homework.

Regarding Li Tiansheng's performance, Li Zifei was quite happy. Although his family's Tiansheng's personality... cough, not very good, but he never quarreled with adults, which is also a good advantage.

Seeing Li Tiansheng doing his homework seriously, Li Tianci walked to Li Zifei's side in frustration, and stretched out his hand. Li Zifei knew that this was the gesture that Tianci wanted to hug, so he hugged Tianci naturally.

Although Li Tianci is already in the first grade of junior high school, he is only nine years old now due to skipping grades, so he is naturally much shorter than his peers. Li Zifei easily put Tianci on his lap and sat down, "What's wrong? I think it's caused by myself. A bad habit like Tiansheng?" Li Zifei could easily understand what his son was thinking, who would call Li Tianci a perfectionist!

Li Tianci nodded sullenly, Tianruo next to him stretched out his hand to hold Tianci's hand, a happy smile cracked his round face, grandma called "Brother", and Tianci immediately laughed.

Glancing at Tianruo appreciatively, Li Zifei kissed Tianci's forehead, and said, "It's not your fault, in fact, Tiansheng is a normal child, but you are so sensible, I don't need to worry about anything. I don't have any sense of accomplishment as a father. Let me tell you quietly, after today's yelling, I feel like I have regained the feeling of being a father. In fact, I am quite grateful to Tiansheng for giving me this opportunity in my heart. "

Hearing Li Zifei's words, Tianci rolled his eyes dumbfounded, and Tianruo also rolled his eyes to save face.

Li Zifei didn't care at all, and said while patting Tianci's back: "Tianci, although you are an elder brother, the premise is that you are my son, you are still a child, you have the right to make mistakes, you are not omnipotent, You can’t do everything, and you can’t help your younger brother do everything well. As an older brother, you can lead the way in front of your younger brothers, but you can’t walk behind them. You can protect them, but you can’t help them stand in the way. You can help them when they are injured. Bandage, but don't hurt them. One day your brothers will leave me, leave you, form their own family, and become someone else's father. At that time, do you still need you to protect them? Do you understand when I say that? ?”

Li Tianci looked at Li Zifei seriously and nodded vigorously, "Father, I understand."

Li Zifei rubbed his head appreciatively, "As expected of a godsend, he is really my good son."

"Dad, I finished my homework! Can I watch cartoons?" Li Tiansheng interjected out of time.

"Son, it's amazing! It's pretty fast if you don't write it! Now that we've finished writing, let's start watching cartoons! Let me tell you, this is recommended by Ou Yangguang!" Li Zifei praised it in a timely manner Tiansheng snorted and whetted everyone's appetite by the way.

Sure enough, he was a child, and he got a little excited when he mentioned cartoons.

One episode finished...

"Brother, let's go play basketball tomorrow!" Tiansheng looked at Li Tianci excitedly, wishing he could go out now.

Seeing his younger brother's happy face, Li Tianci also smiled and nodded, "Okay."

"And me." Tian Ruo waved his hand beside him, indicating that he wanted it too.

"Okay, as long as you can shoot the ball!" Li Tiansheng looked up and down Li Tianruo's height and laughed.

Seeing the interaction of his three sons, Li Zifei raised an eyebrow at Yuchi Wenru, what, it worked!Let's just say that I'll take Tiansheng to watch it together, and I will definitely ask Li Tianci to watch it with him later, I'm really amazing!

Yuchi Wenru nodded pertinently, and had to admit that Li Tianci did have the potential to be a master when it comes to educating children.