The reborn dad is hard to be

When a child learns to refuse, then he has begun to learn to think. ——Li Zifei Although Li Zifei was a workaholic in his previous life, he was frivolous when he was young, and he also read many novels, movies, and comics.Regarding rebirth, he also longed for it, but at that time he thought it was a fantasy, it was the fantasy of human beings "rehabilitating" themselves, and now he believed it.

He has always wondered, the same person, even if he is reborn, what changes can happen, at most he knows something similar to prophecy, and some other knowledge, how can there be such a big change in life?But now he has a little understanding, it is not knowledge, not prophecy, but state of mind.

After one death, Li Zifei's heart was at peace. A person who has even experienced death, what else can't he face peacefully?

The wrong pursuit in his previous life made him understand the true meaning of life.

A family of tens of millions is not as filial as children, and a house with thousands of houses is not as good as a harmonious family.

So in this life, he doesn't want to be rich and powerful, but only needs a warm and harmonious family; he doesn't want his children to become dragons, but only wants his children and grandchildren to be healthy and happy.

Seeing Li Tiansheng lying on the car window looking out happily from the rearview mirror, Li Zifei's heart was filled with happiness.

While waiting for the red light, Li Zifei's cell phone rang, and when he turned it on, it turned out to be the phone number from Tianci Kindergarten, and he was taken aback.

"Hi, I'm Li Zifei."

"Hello, Mr. Li, are you Li Tianci's father?" There was a gentle woman's voice on the other end of the phone.

"Yes, what's the matter?" Li Zifei's hand holding the phone turned white.

"Don't worry, Tianci is fine, it's just that I had some disputes with the children and started fighting."

"What? Is Tianci injured?" Li Zifei jumped out of the gas pedal anxiously, running through a red light.

"No, it's just to see if you have time now? Can you come over?" The woman's voice was unquestionable.

"I'll be right there."

After hanging up the phone, Li Zifei looked at the street sign and found that this place was not far from Li Tianci's kindergarten, so he drove over without a doubt.

Along the way, his heart was full of ups and downs. When he arrived at the kindergarten, Li Zifei hurriedly picked up Tiansheng and Tianruo and walked in. His heart was full of the indifferent expression of Li Tianci wearing glasses in his previous life.

Seeing the sign of the faculty office, Li Zifei stopped, took two deep breaths, and kept telling himself that he must restrain himself, must understand things, and must give Li Tianci a good guide, so that he cannot become the same person from his previous life. that look.

Putting down Tiansheng, he reached out and knocked on the door. When he heard the answer, he opened the door and walked in.

A young woman is sitting on a chair, and two children are sitting on a bench next to her, one is a godsend, the other is also a boy, and a woman is sitting next to the boy, wearing business attire, who seems to have come from work of.

"Hello, you are the father given by God!" The young woman stood up with a gentle smile on her face.

Li Zifei nodded, thinking that this should be a godsend teacher, "Teacher, hello."

As he said that, he walked towards Tianci. Li Tianci's body was stiff at this time, his head was lowered, and the clothes on his body were a little wrinkled, but luckily there was no injury.

Hugging Tianruo, Li Zifei squatted down, grabbed Tianci's hand with one hand, and called his name in a low voice.

"Father." Tianci replied in a muffled voice.

For some reason, Li Zifei suddenly calmed down when he heard Tianci's cry. He was about to speak, but the teacher behind him spoke.

"Mr. Li, it's actually not a big deal, but when children fight, I'm afraid that if they fight again in the future, they will be injured and it will be broken, so I invite you to discuss how to avoid this kind of thing from happening again in the future. "The young teacher's voice was very sincere, with a hint of concern in his tone. The young mother next to him didn't answer, and the teacher went on to say: "It's not a big deal. It's just that Song Zilei wants to see Li Tianci's pencil case. Li Tianci Not allowed to watch, the two fought back and forth, and finally got into a fight, fortunately I went over early, otherwise the two children would have been injured." The tone was congratulatory.

Li Zifei frowned, ignored the young teacher's hospitality, and instead praised Tianci softly: "Tianci, Dad is very happy, you have grown up!"

Saying a word, Tianci, the teacher and the young mother raised their heads to look at him in surprise, but Li Zifei didn't care, and put one knee on the ground, letting Tianruo sit on his other leg, wrapping his arms around him, and He touched Tianci's head with one hand and said, "I don't know why Dad is happy? Because Tianci has learned to refuse. If you learn to refuse, you will learn to think. Then tell Dad, why don't you show Zilei the pencil case? Yes. Do you not show it to Zilei? Or do you not show it to anyone?"

Tianci was stunned for a moment, and when he heard Li Zifei's question behind him, he hurriedly grabbed Li Zifei's sleeve and explained anxiously: "No, no."

Li Zifei nodded knowingly. The six-year-old child still couldn't express what he meant exactly, but Li Zifei already understood. He turned his head and looked at the other stubborn child with a smile, and said, "Zilei, Tianci likes you very much. Please also continue to like Tianci."

As soon as the words were finished, I saw that the child's face turned red, and he turned his head away awkwardly, and the young mother's chuckle came from his head.

What kind of hatred can a child with a big fart have? Speaking of it, this is a bullying incident, and the reasons for bullying are nothing more than two, like and dislike.As soon as Li Zifei entered the door, he saw the little boy named Song Zilei secretly looking at Tianci. No matter how he looked at it, he looked guilty. He thought that the little boy must like Tianci from his family, and then he wanted to attract his attention. After a while, it turned out that Tianci was not a kitten, but a tiger, and finally touched the tiger's buttocks, and both of them suffered, alas!It seems that not only my own children, but other people's children are also very cute, awkwardly cute!

"Then, tell Dad, why don't you want others to see your pencil case?" Li Zifei turned around and patted the dishonest Tiansheng's little butt, still asking Tianci patiently.

Tianci was shy for a while, then said in a low voice, "It was bought by my mother."

For a moment, Li Zifei's heart was tied together, he half got up and hugged Tianci, said "I'm sorry" in a low voice, and kissed Tianci's hair, Li Zifei felt a little sad, always thought that Tianci had accepted his mother's love. Leaving, he didn't expect his mother to be the most important thing in his heart, but it's true, after all, she has raised Tianci for so many years, and Li Zifei is just a new father, so he can't compare with him at all. To be honest, he is a little jealous.

"Tianci, it's my father's fault. Although there will be only my father in the future, my father will love you as well as my mother. I will love Tiansheng and Tianruo, and we will be happy together. Dad, please work hard with me, okay?" Shen Sheng Word by word, expressing my love for him to Tianci, asking for his opinion like a man facing another man, treating the child as an adult, giving him the necessary respect and power, making him understand that he wants to When you grow up, you must learn to take responsibility for yourself and your family.

The bright little eyes stared wide open, looking at Li Zifei seriously, Tianci nodded firmly, leaned over, pecked Li Zifei's face lightly, and said in a childlike voice: "Dad, I love you !"

Li Zifei smiled, and gently and softly placed a kiss on Tianci's head, and said with the same sincerity: "Daddy loves you too!"

Immediately afterwards, Tiansheng and Tianruo fought for kisses, not to be outdone. In an instant, the whole office could hear the constant love and kisses between Li's father and son.

"You two have such a good relationship!" There was a trace of envy in the young mother's voice, and even a trace of envy in the eyes of the young teacher.

Li Zifei stood up and smiled proudly, "A child is a mirror, what you give him, he will reflect, how much love you give him, he will reflect how much love, so always tell them that he is loved , so that he will love others, and get more love from others, so that the child will be happy."

Touching Tianci's hair, Li Zifei continued: "Tianci, you have the right to protect your privacy and dignity, but if it's your friend, you should tell him why you can't lend him the pencil case, This way your friend will feel that you love him, understand?"

Li Tianci didn't know if he understood, but he nodded obediently.

Li Zifei didn't expect him to understand right away, but as long as he memorized it, teach him slowly so that he can learn to trust.

Turning his head, Li Zifei looked at the young teacher seriously, "Teacher, first of all, as a parent, I am very grateful for the importance you attach to your children. Secondly, as a parent, I still have doubts about your education methods. Please don't be angry. Listen to me. Having said that, when you were a child, did your parents tell you that children fight with adults? They are all children. Today they may fight over a pencil case, and tomorrow they may fight over a biscuit. Do you think they can fight? Stabbing the other party with a knife, can you still be paralyzed? If a child fights today, he will be fine tomorrow. He doesn’t need to find his parents at all, and I think that if a boy has never fought, it means he hasn’t grown the thing below. Same."

"You!" Li Zifei's last words were a little obscene, which made the young teacher's face turn red with anger, pointing at Li Zifei, he couldn't say a word.

well!It looks like a chick!Touching his chin, Li Zifei felt that this was "sexual harassment"?

"Pfft!" The young mother was lying on Song Zilei's shoulder this time, laughing and shaking all over.

Looking helplessly at the young mother, Li Zifei lowered his head, met Tiansheng's eyes, shrugged his shoulders, and expressed his helplessness, but unexpectedly, the little Tiansheng also imitated his movements and shrugged helplessly , this time it made Li Zifei laugh too.

The next thing was that the two sides introduced each other, and hit the young female teacher by the way. Of course, the teacher was so angry that she couldn't speak, which made the young mother laugh constantly.

Just when the two parties were about to say goodbye and leave, Song Zilei suddenly grabbed Li Tianci and shouted loudly: "Li Tianci, I love you!"

Immediately startled, Li Zifei and the young mother looked down, only to see Li Tianci desperately breaking free from Song Zilei's hand, turned his head, grabbed Li Zifei's lapel, glared at Song Zilei angrily, and said loudly: "I don't love you!" You, I love Dad!"

Plums fly with black lines all over their heads -_-.

"Haha..." The young mother laughed while patting her child's head appreciatively, "Love triangle, love triangle!"

Li Zifei has a sense of embarrassment.

Song Zilei broke free from his mother's palm, trotted to Li Zifei, grabbed the hem of his clothes, faced Li Tianci, and asked loudly, "Then I love your father, and you love me, okay?"

Tongyan Wuji... Tongyan Wuji...

Li Zifei looked up, saw a row of crows above his head, and rolled his eyes vigorously.

The young mother and teacher over there have already collapsed on the chair with laughter.