The reborn dad is hard to be

Dignity is not God-given. ——Li Zifei

It's another Sunday, but this Sunday, Li Zifei gave all the kindergartens a holiday, and even the parents' classes were also closed, because he hasn't played with his children for a long time, so please forgive him for his selfishness!

Li Tianci was dressed in denim, Tiansheng was wearing a bear sweater, Li Tianruo was wearing a little white rabbit outfit, and Li Zifei was wearing a white casual outfit. As soon as this family appeared on the pedestrian street, they immediately attracted the attention of passers-by. It is very harmonious and beautiful...

The three boys who haven't been out for a long time are a little overjoyed. Li Tianci, who usually looks like a little adult at home, also bounces around like Tiansheng, leaving Tian Ruo stretching out his hand from time to time. He cried out loudly, he must be envious of his two older brothers.

Originally, Yuchi also planned to come together, but it seems that there is something going on in England, it is said that it is the butler's regular assessment?There was no other way for Yuchi to go there first, and he would not be able to return until tomorrow or the day after tomorrow.

I led the three of them to the zoo to see small animals first, and then went to the restaurant for lunch. In the afternoon, I took them to the mall to buy some clothes, and took them to the children's area on the top floor to play for a while. Fortunately, the three children were not It's the same size, otherwise I really don't know how to look at it!

"Principal Li!" A familiar voice made Li Zifei turn his head to look carefully.

"Ah! It's Wang's schemer!" Li Zifei laughed. He really didn't expect to see him in the children's area.

"You can just call me Wang Yi. Principal Li brings the children to play?" Wang Yi looked curiously at Tianci in Li Zifei's arms and the two little boys beside him.

"Yeah, what are you?" He couldn't be a big man here to play by himself.

"My girlfriend and I came here to eat after shopping." Wang Yi pointed to the short-haired girl standing by the bar in the catering department not far away.

"Hehe, my girlfriend is very beautiful, and you are a good match." Speaking of which, Li Zifei was about the same age as him, but for some reason, Wang Yi stood in front of him as if he was a junior, somewhat reserved, completely different from what he was in the office that day. no the same.

After a while, Wang Yi's girlfriend came over, first glanced at Li Zifei in surprise, then immediately fell in love with the three babies in Li Zifei's hands.

"Ah Yi, these three kids are so cute! I want to give birth too!" The short-haired girl is naturally cheerful.

Wang Yi scratched his head in embarrassment, patted his girlfriend next to him, and introduced Li Zifei to her.

Li Zifei had a good impression of this girl, especially her "Ah Yi", as if calling her "Auntie" again, which was very joyful.

Wang Yi's girlfriend's name is Wei Xin. As soon as he heard that Li Zifei brought three children to play, he immediately left Wang Yi and took Tianci and Tiansheng, who could walk, to play. He wanted to take Tianruo away Yes, it's a pity that if Tianruo didn't give her face very much, Li Zifei cried as soon as he let go, so he had no choice but to reluctantly part with her, and took the two children to play.

Wang Yi was a little embarrassed and kept apologizing for his girlfriend, but Li Zifei didn't mind, as long as Tianci and Tiansheng had a good time.

Li Zifei and Wang Yi found a place and sat down, each holding a cup of milk tea.

Wang Yi is still very curious about Li Zifei. He always feels that it is very strange for a real estate businessman to open a kindergarten. The kindergarten is so different, especially when he heard that there are actually many people who want to send their children there. , most of them are foreign parents, but Li Zifei refused because they were too far away to pick up their children to and from school in person. I can't wait to ask all the questions in my mind.

When the two of them were chatting, they suddenly heard the cry of a child, which was more miserable than the last, and almost everyone in this area couldn't help but look over.In the rest area, a young mother and her daughter were sitting on a bench. The little girl pointed at the play area behind and jumped on the trampoline and cried loudly, as if she wanted to play.It's just that the mother doesn't seem to let it go.

Wang Yi watched for a while and frowned, as if he couldn't get used to the mother crying over the girl.

Li Zifei looked at him and smiled, and said, "Why, don't you like it?"

Wang Yi was stunned for a moment, and then said a little embarrassedly: "A bit, I always feel that mother is a little too much, even if she doesn't want the child to play, at least don't let her cry like this, not only disturbing others, but also what if the child cries to death? "

"Hehe, don't forget what this place is. It's the children's area. It's nothing for a child to cry here. I think that mother did the right thing, very right." Seeing Wang Yi's strange look, Li Zifei explained: "Children cry when they are born, cry when they are hungry, cry when they wake up, and cry when they cannot sleep. There are so many crying. Have you ever seen a child who cries badly? Children have the right to cry. Why do you think crying is not right? Well, it also increases lung capacity! It’s like you want to marry your girlfriend, but your parents won’t let you. If you could cry, you would cry, but you can’t. Children are actually like this! Children are wronged, they have to If you are not satisfied, don’t let your child cry, and want your child to calmly face problems, disappointment, setbacks and other negative emotions. For a child of a few years old, don’t you think the requirements are a bit too much? What you call disturbing others is actually Let's take into account the parents' face, but how old are the children, what do they know, and they rely on their nature to solve the problem, so what's wrong with that? Don't always impose the views of adults on the children, even though the children are born to their parents. Yes, but they are not appendages of their parents, the so-called respect is not tight or superficial, and she has the right to cry."

What Li Zifei said made Wang Yi speechless, he had never heard such an argument.Wang Yi has also planned many magazines. In fact, many people don't understand why he likes women's magazines so much. Wang Yi also has his own ideas. He believes that this aspect will definitely become popular in the future. As family conditions get better and better, more attention will be paid to children, and more investment will be made, so the magazines he focuses on will also become a trend.But he has handled so many magazines, it can be said that everyone just discussed why children cry, and what is more in-depth is how to stop children from crying. This is the first time I have heard of letting children cry, because they have this Right, maybe when you grow up you won't be able to cry.

Li Zifei didn't know what Wang Yi was thinking. Once he started talking, Li Zifei couldn't help it, especially when the column next to him was planned by him.He patted Wang Yi on the shoulder, pointed to another mother and the little boy beside him in the rest area, and asked Wang Yi to pay attention.

Wang Yi took advantage of the situation and looked over, but he didn't see any difference after looking at it for a long time. He could only say that the little boy was more obedient and remained motionless.

"What do you think of that kid?"

Wang Yi was stunned for a moment, and replied, "Very good."

"Hehe, he's quite obedient. Do you think he's that mother's son?"

Li Zifei's words almost scared Wang Yi. Could it be that this principal Li can not only educate the children, but also tell whether they are parent-child?This is too amazing!

Seeing Wang Yi's expression, Li Zifei's hair was blackened, and he hurriedly added: "Do you think that's her son or his dog?"

"Ah?" Wang Yi was even more puzzled.

"Hey!" Li Zifei sighed regretfully, why is this person not so smart at this time? "When it comes to educating children, every parent knows the importance. When it comes to love, there is no pair of parents who don't love their children, but it's not the same thing when it comes to specific things. Let's take this parent as an example. I just saw them. Her son is really obedient. She told him to play ocean ball, and he went to play, and told him to see pets, and he went. From a human point of view, this mother is really wonderful. She not only takes the children to play, but also plays with so many things so generously. But in my opinion, this is the most failed mother. If she continues to educate like this, her children will be useless. gone."

Wang Yi was really terrified this time. How could this person judge other people's life so confidently?

"Don't believe it, this mother doesn't regard the child as an individual at all, but just treats him as her own pet. Think about it, is a person who raises a dog just like this, just train the dog to do this and that at home when he has nothing to do? , it’s best to send a password to the dog to execute it. Sometimes the dog can’t do it, and you can help. I once said that when a child learns to say no, it means that the child has started Learn to think, then when a person learns to think, it shows that he has his own thoughts and becomes an independent individual. Then in front of this individual, you have the right to care for her, but you have no right to control him, because He is also an individual. If the mother keeps on like this, deciding what the child will do next and how to do it, then the child will gradually learn not to think for himself, cannot learn to choose by himself, and will have no sense of responsibility. When a person has no sense of responsibility , then he has no foundation to gain a foothold in society, what do you think a person like this can do?"

Seeing Wang Yi was speechless in surprise, Li Zifei finally sighed: "Children are not parents' toys, they are our future, we should treat them with respect like a living person, remember, We are raising people, not dogs!"

Li Zifei's last few words were sonorous and forceful, which gave Wang Yi an urge to start writing. It was the first time he had such a close contact with Li Zifei's educational philosophy, which completely subverted the parenting scriptures in everyone's minds. If this was published, it would definitely It was a sensation, no wonder he was so confident in asking for a column instead of an interview.

As soon as he finished talking here, Wang Yi's cell phone rang. It turned out to be Wei Xin calling, saying that Tiansheng couldn't say anything at the rocking horse. She was in a hurry, so she had to call.

As soon as Li Zifei heard this, he immediately walked over with Tianruo in his arms, with a gloomy expression on his face, no joy could be seen.

When Li Zifei saw Tiansheng, it turned out that the kid was sitting on the rocking horse and didn't say anything. He cried so loudly that Wei Xin next to him wanted to cry.

Li Zifei went up and patted the little girl's shoulder to tell her not to worry, so he came directly to Tiansheng's side. Tianci was also standing beside Tiansheng at this time, trying to persuade Li Tiansheng not to cry. Unfortunately, Tiansheng was like It was like eating a powerful pill, and the crying was one after another, one after another (囧)...

"Our family, Tiansheng, cries very well! We cry very rhythmically and with a very temperament. Most people can't cry, so we should speak louder, cry louder!" Li Zifei said these words with a smile, Li Tianci There was a cold war, only Tiansheng was still crying louder stupidly.

"Then Tiansheng, tell Dad, how long do you want to play?" He pointed to the rocking horse under him.

"I... suck... play again... suck... once... suck..." Tiansheng looked at Li Zifei carefully while sobbing.

"Okay, then play again. But after this time, you can't play again." Li Zifei paid the money and let him play again.

This time Li Zifei has been watching him by his side, stroking his head, and praising him for crying just now, which made the surrounding parents embarrassed, and it was the first time I saw someone praise a child crying.

After a while, the music stopped, and so did the rocking horse.

Li Zifei stretched out his hand and was about to hug Li Tiansheng down, but the boy lay on the rocking horse again, saying nothing, and wanted to play again.

This time Li Zifei didn't appease him, and said with a cold face: "You said you only played this once, and I agreed, but now you don't come down after the game is over, you have violated the relationship between us men. promise, you are not a man."

In Li Zifei's family, the word "manly" can be said to be the highest honor. Now that Li Zifei said that, Li Tiansheng was even more wronged, and cried again with a wow.

It's a pity that Li Zifei was determined not to let him continue this time, so he directly grabbed him by the back of his neck, picked him up at once, greeted Li Tianci, and the family left in full view. children's area.

Wang Yi and Wei Xin looked at each other worriedly, and hurriedly followed.Only the parents in the children's area who were pointing were left.

Li Zifei just hugged Li Tianruo in one hand and Li Tiansheng in the other, followed Li Tianci to the stairs behind him, Wang Yi kept persuading him from behind.

Seeing Li Tiansheng who was crying and apologizing, Li Zifei stopped, put him down, squatted down, Tianruo in his arms stretched out his hand and touched Tiansheng's face, the little face was wrinkled together. He said angrily, "No no, no no."

Li Tiansheng carefully peeked at Li Zifei, sobbing, this was the first time he saw his father so angry.

"Children of our Li family, you don't have to be smart, you don't have to have lofty ideals, but you must not be irresponsible, spit on a nail, and splash water on what you say. Since you have promised, you must do it. If you If you can't do it, don't say it! Do you remember?"

Seeing that Li Zifei was somewhat relaxed, Li Tiansheng nodded hurriedly. It doesn't matter even if he doesn't understand, as long as he remembers, Dad won't be angry.

Here Li Zifei is educating his son, while Wei Xin is holding Wang Yi's arm and said enviously, "Master Li is so handsome! If I were younger, I would want to marry his son!"

Wang Yi has black hair... Are you an old cow eating tender grass?

He suddenly remembered the mother and her son that Li Zifei mentioned just now, and thinking of what Li Zifei said to educate his son, Wang Yi suddenly understood why so many parents were looking forward to sending their children to Sunshine Kindergarten, because there You learn how to be a human being, not how to be raised.

The two parties parted ways when they came out of the building because of different purposes. Li Zifei continued to play with his sons. Wang Yi originally said that he would take Wei Xin to the movies, but suddenly he was inspired and left his girlfriend and went back to the office. , I rushed out a manuscript overnight, and the title was "Are We Educating People or Raising Dogs?"

When this article implementing Li Zifei's educational philosophy was placed on the editor-in-chief's desk, it caused quite a stir in the entire magazine, because everyone knew that their magazine had signed a strange contract with Sunshine Kindergarten. They were all curious as to why this Sunshine Kindergarten could decide on such a column. When Wang Yi’s article appeared, these people were shocked. It was the first time they saw such a different educational method, and at the same time gave The editor-in-chief brought a lot of pressure, because it was too rebellious and too different.

Can this be published at all?This is a gamble!

If they win, they will reach the sky, and if they lose, they will close their doors. So should they bet or not?