The reborn dad is hard to be

Zi Feiyu knows the joy of fish. ——Looks like Li Zifei didn't say that everyone had fun all morning, and Li Tiansheng was also very happy, because not only did he have a father, but he also had an older brother and younger brother.

Susan and Alice are playing endlessly, which shows the difference between Chinese and foreign mothers. There are still many mothers here who still can't let go.

When it was time to eat at noon, the kindergarten set up several tables, and there was a big stool next to each small stool, obviously to let the children find their own mothers.

At this time, each parent will find the difference between their own children and other people's children. Some children are honestly sitting on the stool and preparing to eat, while some children are still noisy and not honest at all. They either look around or look around. Look, what's more, just run down and continue playing.And the parents are more interesting, either coaxing and cheating, or scolding and beating, in short, all kinds of worlds enter into it.

There are two small stools next to Li Zifei, one is for Li Tiansheng and the other is for Li Tianci, and Li Tianruo in his arms has just finished feeding the milk.Both Tianci and Tiansheng were honestly sitting beside Li Zifei at this time, looking like a puppy begging for food, they looked extremely cute.

Sitting on the left are Susan and Alice. Alice is a little girl after all, and she is sitting on the stool obediently at this time, but Li Zifei is not on the other side. Li Zifei remembers that this kid seems to be called Chen Jiaming, and his mother is I can't remember, Chen Jiaming is like a monkey without a rope, running around, making mother Chen miserable.

Seeing that Li Zifei's father disciplined his three sons so honestly, Chen's mother couldn't help enviously saying: "Your children are really sensible."

Could Li Zifei be unhappy when he heard others praise his baby? On the surface, he expressed his gratitude calmly, but in fact he was very happy in his heart.

"Hey, look at my son, he has been a big fuss since he was a child, he has never been honest when eating, and he has to be hugged when he sleeps. If he doesn't hug him, he won't sleep for you." As if she had found a bosom friend, Chen's mother grabbed Li Zi Fei began to vomit bitterness.

Li Zifei, who originally wanted to be modest, saw Chen Jiaming's monkey-like appearance, let alone flattery, and finally could only say, "Active children are smart." God knows if this is true or not.But Mother Chen couldn't be happier.

Li Zifei can be regarded as a handsome guy, especially the unique temperament is even more fascinating. Previously, it was because Li Zifei was only chatting with Susan, and these mothers felt a bit unattainable. , It seems that everyone has gotten closer. When Ms. Chen chatted like this, the mothers all talked about their children. Although the intention was to comfort those mothers whose children were dishonest, it sounded so hypocritical, it seemed like Modesty is too much.

Looking at the gap, Li Zifei greeted Susan, wondering why the talkative Susan didn't say a word, Susan curled her lips and said, "Alice is great, I am really proud of her, so I have nothing to say .”

Look at her, she showed her love for her child so directly, upon hearing Susan's words, Alice immediately threw herself on her with a smile on her face.

Li Zifei didn't say anything, but just looked at Tianci and Tiansheng encouragingly, kissed their faces respectively, and of course they couldn't miss Xiao Tianruo in his arms.

When the food came, it was a very ordinary set meal, and the kindergarten food was very good. Li Zifei had known this for a long time.

When the food was served, Li Tianci and Li Tiansheng naturally picked up the tableware and started to eat. Tianci was already very skilled, while Tiansheng was not very skilled, but it could be seen that he worked hard.

"Oh my God, your child is so good, he can eat by himself. Look at my Jiaming, he doesn't eat after feeding! Every time I eat, my head gets big." Chen's mother looked at Li Zifei in surprise of two sons.

Li Zifei smiled, isn't it? Look at Chen Jiaming turning his head away to avoid the food delivered to his mouth by Chen's mother.

"Yes, yes, Mr. Li, your family's Tiansheng is really polite, can I ask you how to teach it?" A mother feeding the child on the opposite side also answered.

Li Zifei was stunned for a moment, then nodded, put down his chopsticks and said, "Actually, it's very simple, all you need is patience and ruthlessness."

Hearing Li Zifei's words, almost all the mothers at the table looked up at him. Li Zifei, a big boss, was not afraid of such a scene. He organized his language and began to talk.

"First of all, everyone must understand that when feeding your child, don't be too impatient, because the child is too young, their teeth have not yet grown, and their ability to chew food is not very strong, so don't use our meal time to measure the child, you take one bite at a time. Feed one mouthful, the child does not want to eat, but can’t eat, this point of view must be understood.” Seeing that many parents had suddenly realized, Li Zifei went on to say: “Then you must feed the child regularly and quantitatively, I think everyone should know this, if you eat too many snacks, you won’t think about eating, so here I will talk about a food war between me and Tiansheng.”

Hearing what Li Zifei said was funny, the mothers all laughed.

"At that time, because of my negligence, I forgot to put away Tiansheng's snacks. As a result, Tiansheng ate a lot in the morning, and he couldn't eat lunch at noon. I was very angry at the beginning, but this can Do you blame others? But I thought about it, it’s not only my fault, but also the child’s lack of self-control, so I didn’t scold him or beat him, I just told him that it’s okay not to eat at noon, but I’m hungry in the afternoon Don't make trouble. Thinking about it, Tiansheng agreed to eat snacks when he felt hungry. Unexpectedly, I put away all the snacks in the afternoon, and within a few hours Tiansheng was hungry, crying and clamoring for something to eat. I just refused to give it, but Tiansheng ignored me that afternoon. When I gave him another meal in the evening, he ate it honestly. Since then, Tiansheng has known that our meals are scheduled Yes, don't wait for the time."

Maybe Li Tiansheng smiled foolishly when he heard Li Zifei talking about himself.

Hearing Li Zifei talk about himself, these mothers admired him very much.

Li Zifei smiled modestly, and continued: "In the end, if you want to be cruel, you must give the child an inducement. For example, a fixed time, a fixed place, everyone has their own place in our family, and the alarm clock will ring when the time comes. , which means it’s time to eat. At the beginning, it was troublesome and no one was obedient, but I was able to hold my ground and never give in. After a long time, the child will know it, and now it has formed a habit. Of course, I have also tempted, such as what Let's go out to play after dinner, see how delicious the food is, and threaten them that I will eat it if they don't eat it, ah yes, you can really eat their food at this time, otherwise they will eat it after a long time I won't listen to your threats."

After Li Zifei finished speaking, some mothers nodded violently, while others shook their heads in disapproval.

Li Zifei wasn't annoyed either, after all each family had its own rules, and each mother had its own standards.

But Susan next to him gave Li Zifei a thumbs up and praised him.

In the afternoon, the two parties just communicated with each other before announcing the end. Li Zifei and Susan exchanged business cards and then left separately.

Back home, Li Tiansheng ran directly to the TV, because Li Zifei said that he could watch cartoons during the holidays.Li Tianci, on the other hand, sat on the sofa with a pensive expression.

Li Zifei is embarrassed, he really doesn't know what words to use to describe Tianci's appearance at this time, he can only use "meditation".

"What's wrong? What can't be solved?" Li Zifei also sat beside Tianci, Tianruo had already fallen asleep and was placed in his bed.

"Father, I want to skip a grade." Li Zifei couldn't react to what Li Tianci said.

"Skip a grade? Why skip a grade?" Li Zifei had no doubts about Li Tianci's academic performance, but why did he think of skipping a grade?It seems that Tianci only skipped to elementary school, so why should he still jump?

"Father, the teacher knows about this matter, he asked me to come back and ask your opinion." Li Tianci looked serious.

Li Zifei was taken aback by Li Tianci's sudden question, and leaned back on the sofa silently. He just didn't understand why Li Tianci wanted to skip a grade.

"Dad is not worried about your grades, but Dad wants to know why you skipped a grade. Is your current class not good? You have to know that if you skip a grade, you will leave your current friends. No matter where you go, no one will immediately Accept you, and you'll be lonely."

Hearing Li Zifei's warning, Li Tianci just curled his lips chicly, and said like an adult, "Of course I am capable of skipping a grade. As for my current friends, I'm sorry, I don't have any friends, so you don't have to worry about it at all."

Li Zifei was really surprised this time. He thought that if he was as smart as a godsend, he should be a child king, but he didn't expect him to have no friends?Is this a typical case of high IQ and low EQ?

"No friends? Why? Are they bullying you, or are you bullying them?"

Hearing Li Zifei's question, Li Tianci gave him a disdainful look and said, "They are too naive."

This sentence choked Li Zifei, and he almost couldn't catch his breath.

In the end, I could only say earnestly: "Tianci, you have to know that Dad doesn't have too many demands on you. He just hopes that you can grow up healthily and happily, so I don't care if you skip a grade. But for you, this is undoubtedly to encourage the growth of the seedlings." , By the way, do you know what is to grow seedlings? Do you know? No way, you even know this, it’s too exciting. Well, go on, you don’t even have friends now, which is something Dad can’t think of. Do you think they Childish, but you have to know that making friends has nothing to do with being childish or not. You are not childish, but can you say that you don’t envy their happiness when they play games together, or don’t envy their fights without barriers? Although you are Brother, but you are only a six-year-old child, don't forget that you have a father above you, and you have the right to be happy as a child should be." Holding Li Tianci in his arms, Li Zifei said more and more sadly, he did not expect to be reborn in this life Be careful in every possible way, but finally ignore Li Tianci's current situation, how can he not make him feel annoyed.

Reaching out to hug Li Zifei back, Tianci said sullenly: "Dad, don't be sad, I am very happy now. I have no friends because none of them can keep up with me. I have my own ideals and My own goal, I work hard for it is my happiness. So Dad, you are not trying to encourage growth, you are following the destiny."

Well, even obeying the destiny came out.Li Zifei's head is full of black lines. There is such a smart child in the family, and it is quite a test of the heart.

In the end, Li Zifei showed his generosity as a father and agreed to Li Tianci's proposal, and he would go to talk to his teacher on Monday.

With a sigh, Li Zifei suddenly remembered a sentence: Zi Feiyu knows the joy of fish.Hope he didn't go wrong with this step.