Taoyuan Farmhouse Daily
Chapter 64 Transformation
Chang Xile was very happy to hear that the martial arts test was actually carried out, but at the same time he was entangled.
Chang Yu is only about twelve or thirteen years old now. According to the information sent by Pei Qingyun, the martial arts test mainly consists of passing the pass, riding and archery, infantry and carbine.Apart from Chang Yu not being familiar with the carbine, Chang Xile was confident that he could pass the first three.As for the carbine Chang Yu, as long as he practiced hard during this period of time, Chang Xile felt that he would not be far behind.
Chang Yu has been practicing archery for more than a year, whether it is foot shooting or riding shooting, he is very accurate.Needless to say, his strength, as he grows older, his strength also becomes stronger and stronger. The most famous strongman in the village, Wang Dali, is willing to bow down to him, and he is not at the same level at all.
Although Chang Yu has already jumped up to be as tall as him, only his immature face can tell that he is still a child.
Now there is no need to have a strong identity as a support for the time being, since he has registered in front of the emperor, no one dares to provoke him easily.Chang Xile didn't know whether it was right or wrong to push Chang Yu out so early.
According to his previous experience, it is easy to die young if you are too young, but sometimes opportunities wait for no one.
Furthermore, he has been through for more than two years, and he has done too many things and produced too many new things.
Quyuan plow, fan cart, threshing machine, etc., can be described as a turning point in the agricultural process, and it is really doubtful that he managed to get it out in a very short time.
There must be a demon in the abnormal situation.
Perhaps it was the guilty conscience of the outsider, especially the attention of the upper class, that made him dare not do things too freely.
The improvement of the loom is now handed over to the craftsmen, and let them think about it slowly. It will not work in a while, and he still dare not bring up the matter of dyeing cloth.
Chang Xile had always been focused on rushing forward, but now she slowed down.Take advantage of this period of time to settle the entire Taoyuan Village, too fast development, sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing.
All in all, he didn't want Chang Yu to become famous so early in his heart.If they can win at such a young age, the shocking effect can be imagined.
And if he also passed the scientific examination two years later, one subject, two candidates, one civil and one martial arts, it would be even more eye-catching.Coupled with what he did before, Chang Xile always felt that this might not be a good thing.
For others, it may be an opportunity, but for him, it is likely to be involved in right and wrong.
What he yearns for more is a peaceful life, so he is doomed to be unable to be peaceful.
But he can't stop Chang Yu because of his selfish desires, and force the other party to follow his own ideas. Such an approach is too selfish.
However, Chang Yu trusted himself very much, as long as it was what he said, Chang Yu would do it without any objection, and he didn't know what he really wanted in his heart.
Chang Xile couldn't figure it out, so she went to look for Song Wancheng, and she went there secretly while Chang Yu was going to practice.
After listening to his analysis, Song Wancheng pondered for a moment, "Did you mention these things to Master Hu?"
Chang Xile shook her head and said, "As long as I mention it, he will definitely agree with my idea."
Song Wancheng laughed, "Brother Chang is so smart, why did he get into a dead end this time? You just need to share the pros and cons of it one by one. If you don't join your position and let him choose, how can you agree with you?" Thoughts? Lord Tiger is different from ordinary people, but he is also much smarter than ordinary people, and he is a very thoughtful person. Although he is young, but think about it, you were not so old when you passed the exam. You know what to do and what not to do, and you have your own plan, how can you not understand how to put it on others?"
After hearing this, Chang Xile was stunned.
Song Wancheng patted him on the shoulder, "You care too much about him. You are always worried that he will take a detour, and you always think that everything will be taken care of for him, so you have lost your own judgment. But no matter how close he is to you , You have to walk your own way after all. Even if you make a mistake and stumble, it is not a kind of growth, and you will have a long memory in the future. You can’t think about everything for him, otherwise it will hurt him instead. "
Chang Xile calmed down after hearing these words, and found that he had indeed become Chang Yu's controller unintentionally.Making decisions about Chang Yu's life in every detail did not allow him to think independently.
Probably because I came here and did a lot of things successfully, it is inevitable that I have a kind of blind self-confidence, thinking that I know a lot, and the decisions I make are the most sensible.Although he kept telling himself not to be blindly arrogant, subconsciously he was still lost because of the praise from the outside world.
So when something happened to him, he didn't even think about going to ask Chang Yu himself, but tangled there alone, always worried that his decision would be wrong and hurt Chang Yu.
But as Song Wancheng said, everyone has to be responsible for themselves, instead of always relying on others.He usually hates parents who don't let their children think independently, but he didn't expect that he would make this mistake now.
Chang Xile bowed her hands seriously, "Thank you Brother Song for reminding me, I almost made a big mistake."
Song Wancheng laughed, "How old are you? You are still a child, and you don't know how to teach children. Not to mention you, even I often make mistakes when teaching Brother Xi. Fortunately, with your sister-in-law, I can't help you." Not to go too far."
When Song Wancheng mentioned Wanniang, the joy in his eyes could not be hidden.
"Sister-in-law is about to give birth now, right? Brother Song should go home early. I will support you in school, so you can spend more time with sister-in-law at home."
Mrs. Ding San's belly is also very big, and she will give birth in a while.
Although it's not the first child, this is the first child after Chang's family got better. For some reason, it always feels that the meaning is different, and they are taken care of very meticulously.Now the entire Chang family is very nervous, everything is ready, and the doctors and midwives are also in touch. As long as there is any movement, they can respond quickly, and they are not afraid of being in a hurry.
Wan Niang and Ding Sansao are about the same time. She left Taoyuan Village for the county seat two months ago, leaving Song Wancheng alone in Taoyuan Village.
Although Song Wancheng would go back to have a look from time to time, it was not very convenient for the husband and wife to separate.
The women here are tolerant and magnanimous, and they don't think there is anything wrong, but this is the time when they are most vulnerable, and they always hope to have their husbands by their side, which cannot be replaced by others.
So Chang Xile made a plan early in the morning to give Song Wancheng a paternity leave and take the lead first.
He is not in a hurry to come up with new things now, and the original ones are already on the right track and have a special person in charge. He only needs to visit and supervise occasionally, and he doesn't have to worry about it usually.So I can spare time to manage school affairs without delaying my homework.
Song Wancheng did not refuse. It is very dangerous for a woman to have a child. He, a husband, is not around. He can't justify it. After thinking for a while, he said: "Then I won't be polite to you. I will leave the day after tomorrow, and wait for your sister-in-law to give birth to me. return."
Chang Xile waved her hand and said, "A woman is most vulnerable when she just gave birth. Don't rush to come back, at least stay with her after confinement. It doesn't matter if it takes longer, I'm here."
"Then I'll come here when he's confinement. If I don't want to come later, I will be kicked out."
The atmosphere here is also the same, men should not be too attached to their families, they must put their minds on their careers, otherwise, if they fail to do something, the unlucky ones will be women in the end.It is said that women make her husband too obsessed with women, which delays his future.
Chang Xile felt that such a thought was very fucking, but it was not something he could change by himself, not to mention that there was no lack of malice towards women in this world or in future generations, but it was relatively subtle.
Chang Xile nodded, "It's up to you to decide, but you don't have to worry about this place. When the children are older, take the sister-in-law and the others over. I think the sister-in-law and the others liked this place quite a bit before."
When Chang Xile came out of Song Wancheng's house, she saw Chang Yu was already guarding the door.
Chang Xile went up to greet her, "Xiao Miao, why are you here? Why don't you go in?"
Chang Yu now has to practice, so he doesn't stick to Chang Xile all the time, but once the practice is over, he will stick to him. Seeing that he came over but didn't go in, he couldn't help being a little curious.
It took Chang Yu a long time to speak slowly, "Lele has something to say to Mr. Song."
The tone was obviously low, full of grievances.
Chang Xile understood immediately, he thought it was normal for him to run over to talk to Song Wancheng, but Chang Yu understood what he was thinking and was avoiding him.
In fact, Chang Xile had noticed it before, as soon as he talked to Song Wancheng, Chang Yu seemed very depressed.
At first, I thought it was jealousy, because every time he talked with Song Wancheng, he would talk eloquently and forget the time, and often ignored Chang Yu.But later he discovered that this was not the case. The reason why Chang Yu was unhappy was because he was angry with himself, because he couldn't understand what he and Song Wancheng were saying, and felt that he couldn't keep up with the rhythm.
So he worked harder in his studies than before, but no matter how smart Chang Yu was, this was not a temporary achievement, and he still couldn't understand what they said.
But this kind of thing can't be accommodated. He asked Song Wancheng to talk about scientific research, and they were discussing problems with each other.It would take too much effort if it had to be said so that Chang Yu could understand.
But now that he went to Song Wancheng and kept it from Chang Yu, Chang Yu couldn't help thinking wildly, thinking that he thought he was redundant, so he went to talk to someone while he was away.
Looking at Chang Yu who was almost as tall as herself, Chang Xile felt that she should correct her mentality and not always treat him as a child who didn't understand anything.
"I'm looking for Mr. Song to discuss something about you."
Chang Yu blinked, "My business? Why didn't you tell me?"
Chang Yu is now able to express himself clearly, as long as the sentences are not too long, he will rarely stumble.The shadow of the tiger boy in the past is getting weaker and weaker, and he is no different from ordinary people. At most, his temper is a little weird.
Hearing this, Chang Xile felt that she was so wrong, "This is my fault. I have always treated you as a child, so I didn't think to discuss things with you."
Chang Yu frowned, and said sonorously: "I am an adult!"
Chang Xile laughed, "Yes, that's why I didn't understand."
After finishing speaking, he told about the martial arts exam, but only talked about the advantages and disadvantages of Chang Yu taking the martial arts exam at such a young age, and did not tell the fact that Taoyuan Village was developing too fast. He didn't want to put pressure on him, which led to the wrong judge.
After hearing this, Chang Yu didn't even think about it and said, "I won't take the test this time."
He deserved it too soon, as if he had thought about it a long time ago, Chang Xi was not happy and curious, "Why?"
"I want to take the exam with Lele." After finishing speaking, Chang Yu paused, and then asked: "I don't need to pass the exam now, do I?"
Chang Yu was with Chang Xile all day, so he naturally knew why Chang Xile was doing scientific research.I also know that Taoyuan Village is not so anxious to have power to support it now, so as not to be bullied by people like the Qian family.
Chang Xi laughed, thankfully he had thought so much, in fact Chang Yu already had his own thoughts, but he never thought of asking.I always think that I am very enlightened, but in fact I am not.It seems that he is really not suitable for teaching children. He will be as self-righteous as many bear parents without knowing it.
"No need, everything will follow your ideas."
Chang Yu nodded, and said seriously: "I am an adult, if Lele has something to do in the future, please discuss it with me."
Chang Xile laughed, "Okay. But I don't know what will happen to the martial arts exam two years later, maybe it will be canceled or it will be more difficult, won't Xiao Miao regret it?"
Chang Yu felt baffled, "Why do you regret it?"
Chang Xile was even more sure that she was mediocre before, and Chang Yu never cared about the outside world, so why worry about her future.His happiness comes very simply, and he doesn't have too many desires.
This incident made Chang Xile and Chang Yu more aware of respecting each other when they get along, no longer treating him as a child who is subordinate to him, but an 'adult' who can think independently and have his own ideas.Sometimes when I encounter something that I don't know how to decide, I won't just complain like before, at most, but I will put Chang Yu in an equal position to discuss.
Chang Xile usually paid close attention to school affairs, so Song Wancheng quickly handed over to him and left.
Unexpectedly, the person who sent him back to the county came back and told him that Song Wancheng not only failed to move Wanniang when he got home, but was scolded instead.
Chang's family admired Wanniang's virtuousness, but Chang Xile felt helpless.If it weren't for the atmosphere, why would Wanniang be like this.This is all because of the thoughts instilled in him since he was a child. Although he can't understand the feeling of having a child and having a child, seeing Ding Sansao is not a pleasant thing.
The morning sickness at the beginning, and then a huge belly, looked a little scary.However, this is something that most women will experience. Some people seem to be as normal as eating, and they think it is no big deal.Not everyone is born like this, what's so delicate about it.To say one more thing is like taking advantage of one's belly.It is not ruled out that there are such people, but it is always inappropriate to knock them down with a single blow.
Ding Sansao didn't forget to work even after she became pregnant. At the beginning, she couldn't support her body.But when the reaction was not so strong, after the first three months, I started to work hard again.
Although Chang Xile didn't feel that she had to confess if she was pregnant and didn't have to do anything, but seeing Ding Sansao with her belly upright and trying to lift heavy objects, he was so frightened that she stopped her immediately.
Unexpectedly, Mrs. Ding San laughed at him and said that he was too nervous, but just happened to see the helping hand, so why not.
She also said that she was about to become a lazy woman now, and many pregnant women in the village worked as usual until the time of giving birth, and started working in the fields again on the third day after giving birth.She is idle all day now, and she is almost laughed to death.
Chang Xile doesn't care about these things, if there are no conditions, then forget it, now life is better, and any heavy work has to be done by a pregnant woman.
But it's not easy for him as an uncle to say such things. He is too nervous and it is easy to cause trouble.It was to hint to Chang Xiwang, telling him how easy it would be to hurt his body, and even the child might be lost.
Chang Xiwang loved his wife, and he was looking forward to this child. After hearing Chang Xile's words, he went to ask Mrs. Ding San to take care of her more.
Although Mrs. Sun thought it was no big deal to have a child, she had a very good reputation since her family life was good. She hoped that people outside would spread the word about how good she was to her daughter-in-law, so she complied.
Mrs. Ding San's stomach attack occurred in the middle of the night, and Chang Xile was falling asleep when she heard the sound of ping-pong-pong in the main room, and the lights came on after a while.As soon as I came out to inquire, I knew that Mrs. Ding San was about to give birth.
The Chang family members are all up, because of their rich experience, everything is in order.
Grandma Sun saw Chang Xile and said, "Did you bother me? It's okay. It's your third sister-in-law who is about to give birth. She is the second child. The baby comes out quickly, and it will be born at dawn at the latest."
As soon as he finished speaking, he heard the sound of the baby crying in the delivery room.A group of people waiting outside stood up, stretching their heads to see the situation inside.
Grandma Sun crossed her hands and prayed, "It's a boy, it's a boy..."
After a while, the midwife finally came out, holding a crumpled baby in her arms, Grandma Sun rushed forward, "Is it a boy or a girl?"
The midwife smiled and said, "Congratulations, you are a beautiful little daughter."
Grandma Sun's face immediately collapsed, "Why are you losing money again!"
Although Father Chang was also a little disappointed, he scolded directly when he heard this: "What are you talking about! Both men and women are the flesh and blood of our Chang family, don't let me hear such words again. Also, you will go in later Don't talk nonsense, the female dolls of our Chang family are also extremely precious."
Grandma Sun was embarrassed, but couldn't help but said: "It's hard to wait for the second child, and it's another girl..."
Chang Xiwang felt happy holding his child, because it was not the first time he became a father, and his posture was very standard.Whether it's a man or a woman, he feels pain, but when he hears his mother say that, he immediately turns down.
Seeing this, Chang Xile hurriedly said: "Third brother, hurry up and go in and see sister-in-law. She must be flustered after giving birth, and wants to see you and the child."
Chang Xiwang didn't say a word, and led Niu Niu in with the baby in his arms.
Chang Xile turned to look at Grandma Sun, "Mother, the children are all here. What you said just now not only hurt the hearts of the third brother and the third sister-in-law, but also chilled the hearts of the children."
Zao'er and Xing'er huddled in the corner and pursed their lips without saying a word. They already knew what happened, so they naturally understood what Grandma Sun said.
Grandma Sun also couldn't understand, didn't everyone think so, why it was her turn to make a mistake.
Chang Xile knew what she was thinking at a glance, and said sternly, "Mother, what do other people think? It's other people's business. How can we treat our children differently? Boys and girls are not chosen by themselves. Besides If there are no girls, where did the children come from? If it weren’t for the better life in our village, many foreign women are willing to marry here, otherwise many men would have to be single. Not to mention that girls are not from their own family when they marry, and they don’t look at their sister-in-law The fourth sister, the mother-in-law's family and the mother-in-law's family can take care of it, and the two sides are tied together to live a better life."
Everyone understands the truth, but the environment creates it, and it is difficult to change the concept for a while.Fortunately, Mrs. Sun was not unreasonable. Although she still disagreed in her heart, she didn't say anything more.
"I won't say anything for a while, won't I? I'm worried that your third brother doesn't have a son to support the family."
Chang Xile said with a smile: "But now the third brother's family is not in charge, is it not his sister-in-law? If the third brother manages the oil workshop, we will all laugh if we don't pay. So it doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, the important thing is how to teach Children. Otherwise, there is a son of a village, all of whom are lazy to cook, not to mention supporting the door, it would be good if you don’t tear down the door frame and sell it for money.”
"But if there is no son, what will happen to the family property in the future?"
"Don't you have a daughter?"
Now it's not just Grandma Sun, everyone else's eyes widened.
"But that's not our Chang's." Mrs. Cao couldn't help but said.
"Isn't our ultimate goal of earning this family business is to live a good life for ourselves and our children and grandchildren? Whether male or female, they are our descendants and will not change because of their surnames. Instead of caring about this, we might as well worry about choosing a husband for our daughter." Keep your eyes open when you are your son-in-law."
Now everyone stopped talking, and always felt that there was something wrong with the words, but when they heard such a statement suddenly, it was inevitable that they couldn't react.Moreover, they are used to obeying Chang Xile's everything, and they don't know how to justify it, they just subconsciously feel that something is wrong.
Chang Xile didn't expect people to figure it out in just a few words, as many people in previous lives couldn't figure it out.
He didn't even dare to hope to change this society. He naturally didn't have such great ability and energy, but at least he had to ensure that men and women in Chang's family were the same.It would be best if the entire Taoyuan Village could also achieve equality between men and women.If not, at least a certain degree of improvement is required.
Taoyuan Village was originally relatively open-minded, and with the establishment of workshops, the women's economic status will become more prominent, which is not difficult to realize.
Ding Sansao was originally depressed because she gave birth to another daughter, so it can be seen that the family did not complain about it, and took good care of her during the confinement period. After hearing Cao Ersao talk about what Chang Xile said that day, she was relieved from the bottom of her heart.I am very fortunate to have married into the Chang family. If I were in another family, I would definitely be scorned by everyone.
Although Mrs. Sun is still not very happy, there is still a lot to do.
Ding San's sister-in-law sat well during confinement, and when she was confinement, her whole face was radiant and her complexion was very good.And the baby named Rui'er is much more beautiful than just born, with a round and cute face.
Daoxiang County does not have the habit of washing the three, and generally only the birth of a boy will serve the full moon wine, and the birth of a girl is mostly celebrated at home and then finished.
And the Chang family decided to do a big job for Rui'er.
Chang Yu is only about twelve or thirteen years old now. According to the information sent by Pei Qingyun, the martial arts test mainly consists of passing the pass, riding and archery, infantry and carbine.Apart from Chang Yu not being familiar with the carbine, Chang Xile was confident that he could pass the first three.As for the carbine Chang Yu, as long as he practiced hard during this period of time, Chang Xile felt that he would not be far behind.
Chang Yu has been practicing archery for more than a year, whether it is foot shooting or riding shooting, he is very accurate.Needless to say, his strength, as he grows older, his strength also becomes stronger and stronger. The most famous strongman in the village, Wang Dali, is willing to bow down to him, and he is not at the same level at all.
Although Chang Yu has already jumped up to be as tall as him, only his immature face can tell that he is still a child.
Now there is no need to have a strong identity as a support for the time being, since he has registered in front of the emperor, no one dares to provoke him easily.Chang Xile didn't know whether it was right or wrong to push Chang Yu out so early.
According to his previous experience, it is easy to die young if you are too young, but sometimes opportunities wait for no one.
Furthermore, he has been through for more than two years, and he has done too many things and produced too many new things.
Quyuan plow, fan cart, threshing machine, etc., can be described as a turning point in the agricultural process, and it is really doubtful that he managed to get it out in a very short time.
There must be a demon in the abnormal situation.
Perhaps it was the guilty conscience of the outsider, especially the attention of the upper class, that made him dare not do things too freely.
The improvement of the loom is now handed over to the craftsmen, and let them think about it slowly. It will not work in a while, and he still dare not bring up the matter of dyeing cloth.
Chang Xile had always been focused on rushing forward, but now she slowed down.Take advantage of this period of time to settle the entire Taoyuan Village, too fast development, sometimes it is not necessarily a good thing.
All in all, he didn't want Chang Yu to become famous so early in his heart.If they can win at such a young age, the shocking effect can be imagined.
And if he also passed the scientific examination two years later, one subject, two candidates, one civil and one martial arts, it would be even more eye-catching.Coupled with what he did before, Chang Xile always felt that this might not be a good thing.
For others, it may be an opportunity, but for him, it is likely to be involved in right and wrong.
What he yearns for more is a peaceful life, so he is doomed to be unable to be peaceful.
But he can't stop Chang Yu because of his selfish desires, and force the other party to follow his own ideas. Such an approach is too selfish.
However, Chang Yu trusted himself very much, as long as it was what he said, Chang Yu would do it without any objection, and he didn't know what he really wanted in his heart.
Chang Xile couldn't figure it out, so she went to look for Song Wancheng, and she went there secretly while Chang Yu was going to practice.
After listening to his analysis, Song Wancheng pondered for a moment, "Did you mention these things to Master Hu?"
Chang Xile shook her head and said, "As long as I mention it, he will definitely agree with my idea."
Song Wancheng laughed, "Brother Chang is so smart, why did he get into a dead end this time? You just need to share the pros and cons of it one by one. If you don't join your position and let him choose, how can you agree with you?" Thoughts? Lord Tiger is different from ordinary people, but he is also much smarter than ordinary people, and he is a very thoughtful person. Although he is young, but think about it, you were not so old when you passed the exam. You know what to do and what not to do, and you have your own plan, how can you not understand how to put it on others?"
After hearing this, Chang Xile was stunned.
Song Wancheng patted him on the shoulder, "You care too much about him. You are always worried that he will take a detour, and you always think that everything will be taken care of for him, so you have lost your own judgment. But no matter how close he is to you , You have to walk your own way after all. Even if you make a mistake and stumble, it is not a kind of growth, and you will have a long memory in the future. You can’t think about everything for him, otherwise it will hurt him instead. "
Chang Xile calmed down after hearing these words, and found that he had indeed become Chang Yu's controller unintentionally.Making decisions about Chang Yu's life in every detail did not allow him to think independently.
Probably because I came here and did a lot of things successfully, it is inevitable that I have a kind of blind self-confidence, thinking that I know a lot, and the decisions I make are the most sensible.Although he kept telling himself not to be blindly arrogant, subconsciously he was still lost because of the praise from the outside world.
So when something happened to him, he didn't even think about going to ask Chang Yu himself, but tangled there alone, always worried that his decision would be wrong and hurt Chang Yu.
But as Song Wancheng said, everyone has to be responsible for themselves, instead of always relying on others.He usually hates parents who don't let their children think independently, but he didn't expect that he would make this mistake now.
Chang Xile bowed her hands seriously, "Thank you Brother Song for reminding me, I almost made a big mistake."
Song Wancheng laughed, "How old are you? You are still a child, and you don't know how to teach children. Not to mention you, even I often make mistakes when teaching Brother Xi. Fortunately, with your sister-in-law, I can't help you." Not to go too far."
When Song Wancheng mentioned Wanniang, the joy in his eyes could not be hidden.
"Sister-in-law is about to give birth now, right? Brother Song should go home early. I will support you in school, so you can spend more time with sister-in-law at home."
Mrs. Ding San's belly is also very big, and she will give birth in a while.
Although it's not the first child, this is the first child after Chang's family got better. For some reason, it always feels that the meaning is different, and they are taken care of very meticulously.Now the entire Chang family is very nervous, everything is ready, and the doctors and midwives are also in touch. As long as there is any movement, they can respond quickly, and they are not afraid of being in a hurry.
Wan Niang and Ding Sansao are about the same time. She left Taoyuan Village for the county seat two months ago, leaving Song Wancheng alone in Taoyuan Village.
Although Song Wancheng would go back to have a look from time to time, it was not very convenient for the husband and wife to separate.
The women here are tolerant and magnanimous, and they don't think there is anything wrong, but this is the time when they are most vulnerable, and they always hope to have their husbands by their side, which cannot be replaced by others.
So Chang Xile made a plan early in the morning to give Song Wancheng a paternity leave and take the lead first.
He is not in a hurry to come up with new things now, and the original ones are already on the right track and have a special person in charge. He only needs to visit and supervise occasionally, and he doesn't have to worry about it usually.So I can spare time to manage school affairs without delaying my homework.
Song Wancheng did not refuse. It is very dangerous for a woman to have a child. He, a husband, is not around. He can't justify it. After thinking for a while, he said: "Then I won't be polite to you. I will leave the day after tomorrow, and wait for your sister-in-law to give birth to me. return."
Chang Xile waved her hand and said, "A woman is most vulnerable when she just gave birth. Don't rush to come back, at least stay with her after confinement. It doesn't matter if it takes longer, I'm here."
"Then I'll come here when he's confinement. If I don't want to come later, I will be kicked out."
The atmosphere here is also the same, men should not be too attached to their families, they must put their minds on their careers, otherwise, if they fail to do something, the unlucky ones will be women in the end.It is said that women make her husband too obsessed with women, which delays his future.
Chang Xile felt that such a thought was very fucking, but it was not something he could change by himself, not to mention that there was no lack of malice towards women in this world or in future generations, but it was relatively subtle.
Chang Xile nodded, "It's up to you to decide, but you don't have to worry about this place. When the children are older, take the sister-in-law and the others over. I think the sister-in-law and the others liked this place quite a bit before."
When Chang Xile came out of Song Wancheng's house, she saw Chang Yu was already guarding the door.
Chang Xile went up to greet her, "Xiao Miao, why are you here? Why don't you go in?"
Chang Yu now has to practice, so he doesn't stick to Chang Xile all the time, but once the practice is over, he will stick to him. Seeing that he came over but didn't go in, he couldn't help being a little curious.
It took Chang Yu a long time to speak slowly, "Lele has something to say to Mr. Song."
The tone was obviously low, full of grievances.
Chang Xile understood immediately, he thought it was normal for him to run over to talk to Song Wancheng, but Chang Yu understood what he was thinking and was avoiding him.
In fact, Chang Xile had noticed it before, as soon as he talked to Song Wancheng, Chang Yu seemed very depressed.
At first, I thought it was jealousy, because every time he talked with Song Wancheng, he would talk eloquently and forget the time, and often ignored Chang Yu.But later he discovered that this was not the case. The reason why Chang Yu was unhappy was because he was angry with himself, because he couldn't understand what he and Song Wancheng were saying, and felt that he couldn't keep up with the rhythm.
So he worked harder in his studies than before, but no matter how smart Chang Yu was, this was not a temporary achievement, and he still couldn't understand what they said.
But this kind of thing can't be accommodated. He asked Song Wancheng to talk about scientific research, and they were discussing problems with each other.It would take too much effort if it had to be said so that Chang Yu could understand.
But now that he went to Song Wancheng and kept it from Chang Yu, Chang Yu couldn't help thinking wildly, thinking that he thought he was redundant, so he went to talk to someone while he was away.
Looking at Chang Yu who was almost as tall as herself, Chang Xile felt that she should correct her mentality and not always treat him as a child who didn't understand anything.
"I'm looking for Mr. Song to discuss something about you."
Chang Yu blinked, "My business? Why didn't you tell me?"
Chang Yu is now able to express himself clearly, as long as the sentences are not too long, he will rarely stumble.The shadow of the tiger boy in the past is getting weaker and weaker, and he is no different from ordinary people. At most, his temper is a little weird.
Hearing this, Chang Xile felt that she was so wrong, "This is my fault. I have always treated you as a child, so I didn't think to discuss things with you."
Chang Yu frowned, and said sonorously: "I am an adult!"
Chang Xile laughed, "Yes, that's why I didn't understand."
After finishing speaking, he told about the martial arts exam, but only talked about the advantages and disadvantages of Chang Yu taking the martial arts exam at such a young age, and did not tell the fact that Taoyuan Village was developing too fast. He didn't want to put pressure on him, which led to the wrong judge.
After hearing this, Chang Yu didn't even think about it and said, "I won't take the test this time."
He deserved it too soon, as if he had thought about it a long time ago, Chang Xi was not happy and curious, "Why?"
"I want to take the exam with Lele." After finishing speaking, Chang Yu paused, and then asked: "I don't need to pass the exam now, do I?"
Chang Yu was with Chang Xile all day, so he naturally knew why Chang Xile was doing scientific research.I also know that Taoyuan Village is not so anxious to have power to support it now, so as not to be bullied by people like the Qian family.
Chang Xi laughed, thankfully he had thought so much, in fact Chang Yu already had his own thoughts, but he never thought of asking.I always think that I am very enlightened, but in fact I am not.It seems that he is really not suitable for teaching children. He will be as self-righteous as many bear parents without knowing it.
"No need, everything will follow your ideas."
Chang Yu nodded, and said seriously: "I am an adult, if Lele has something to do in the future, please discuss it with me."
Chang Xile laughed, "Okay. But I don't know what will happen to the martial arts exam two years later, maybe it will be canceled or it will be more difficult, won't Xiao Miao regret it?"
Chang Yu felt baffled, "Why do you regret it?"
Chang Xile was even more sure that she was mediocre before, and Chang Yu never cared about the outside world, so why worry about her future.His happiness comes very simply, and he doesn't have too many desires.
This incident made Chang Xile and Chang Yu more aware of respecting each other when they get along, no longer treating him as a child who is subordinate to him, but an 'adult' who can think independently and have his own ideas.Sometimes when I encounter something that I don't know how to decide, I won't just complain like before, at most, but I will put Chang Yu in an equal position to discuss.
Chang Xile usually paid close attention to school affairs, so Song Wancheng quickly handed over to him and left.
Unexpectedly, the person who sent him back to the county came back and told him that Song Wancheng not only failed to move Wanniang when he got home, but was scolded instead.
Chang's family admired Wanniang's virtuousness, but Chang Xile felt helpless.If it weren't for the atmosphere, why would Wanniang be like this.This is all because of the thoughts instilled in him since he was a child. Although he can't understand the feeling of having a child and having a child, seeing Ding Sansao is not a pleasant thing.
The morning sickness at the beginning, and then a huge belly, looked a little scary.However, this is something that most women will experience. Some people seem to be as normal as eating, and they think it is no big deal.Not everyone is born like this, what's so delicate about it.To say one more thing is like taking advantage of one's belly.It is not ruled out that there are such people, but it is always inappropriate to knock them down with a single blow.
Ding Sansao didn't forget to work even after she became pregnant. At the beginning, she couldn't support her body.But when the reaction was not so strong, after the first three months, I started to work hard again.
Although Chang Xile didn't feel that she had to confess if she was pregnant and didn't have to do anything, but seeing Ding Sansao with her belly upright and trying to lift heavy objects, he was so frightened that she stopped her immediately.
Unexpectedly, Mrs. Ding San laughed at him and said that he was too nervous, but just happened to see the helping hand, so why not.
She also said that she was about to become a lazy woman now, and many pregnant women in the village worked as usual until the time of giving birth, and started working in the fields again on the third day after giving birth.She is idle all day now, and she is almost laughed to death.
Chang Xile doesn't care about these things, if there are no conditions, then forget it, now life is better, and any heavy work has to be done by a pregnant woman.
But it's not easy for him as an uncle to say such things. He is too nervous and it is easy to cause trouble.It was to hint to Chang Xiwang, telling him how easy it would be to hurt his body, and even the child might be lost.
Chang Xiwang loved his wife, and he was looking forward to this child. After hearing Chang Xile's words, he went to ask Mrs. Ding San to take care of her more.
Although Mrs. Sun thought it was no big deal to have a child, she had a very good reputation since her family life was good. She hoped that people outside would spread the word about how good she was to her daughter-in-law, so she complied.
Mrs. Ding San's stomach attack occurred in the middle of the night, and Chang Xile was falling asleep when she heard the sound of ping-pong-pong in the main room, and the lights came on after a while.As soon as I came out to inquire, I knew that Mrs. Ding San was about to give birth.
The Chang family members are all up, because of their rich experience, everything is in order.
Grandma Sun saw Chang Xile and said, "Did you bother me? It's okay. It's your third sister-in-law who is about to give birth. She is the second child. The baby comes out quickly, and it will be born at dawn at the latest."
As soon as he finished speaking, he heard the sound of the baby crying in the delivery room.A group of people waiting outside stood up, stretching their heads to see the situation inside.
Grandma Sun crossed her hands and prayed, "It's a boy, it's a boy..."
After a while, the midwife finally came out, holding a crumpled baby in her arms, Grandma Sun rushed forward, "Is it a boy or a girl?"
The midwife smiled and said, "Congratulations, you are a beautiful little daughter."
Grandma Sun's face immediately collapsed, "Why are you losing money again!"
Although Father Chang was also a little disappointed, he scolded directly when he heard this: "What are you talking about! Both men and women are the flesh and blood of our Chang family, don't let me hear such words again. Also, you will go in later Don't talk nonsense, the female dolls of our Chang family are also extremely precious."
Grandma Sun was embarrassed, but couldn't help but said: "It's hard to wait for the second child, and it's another girl..."
Chang Xiwang felt happy holding his child, because it was not the first time he became a father, and his posture was very standard.Whether it's a man or a woman, he feels pain, but when he hears his mother say that, he immediately turns down.
Seeing this, Chang Xile hurriedly said: "Third brother, hurry up and go in and see sister-in-law. She must be flustered after giving birth, and wants to see you and the child."
Chang Xiwang didn't say a word, and led Niu Niu in with the baby in his arms.
Chang Xile turned to look at Grandma Sun, "Mother, the children are all here. What you said just now not only hurt the hearts of the third brother and the third sister-in-law, but also chilled the hearts of the children."
Zao'er and Xing'er huddled in the corner and pursed their lips without saying a word. They already knew what happened, so they naturally understood what Grandma Sun said.
Grandma Sun also couldn't understand, didn't everyone think so, why it was her turn to make a mistake.
Chang Xile knew what she was thinking at a glance, and said sternly, "Mother, what do other people think? It's other people's business. How can we treat our children differently? Boys and girls are not chosen by themselves. Besides If there are no girls, where did the children come from? If it weren’t for the better life in our village, many foreign women are willing to marry here, otherwise many men would have to be single. Not to mention that girls are not from their own family when they marry, and they don’t look at their sister-in-law The fourth sister, the mother-in-law's family and the mother-in-law's family can take care of it, and the two sides are tied together to live a better life."
Everyone understands the truth, but the environment creates it, and it is difficult to change the concept for a while.Fortunately, Mrs. Sun was not unreasonable. Although she still disagreed in her heart, she didn't say anything more.
"I won't say anything for a while, won't I? I'm worried that your third brother doesn't have a son to support the family."
Chang Xile said with a smile: "But now the third brother's family is not in charge, is it not his sister-in-law? If the third brother manages the oil workshop, we will all laugh if we don't pay. So it doesn't matter whether you are a man or a woman, the important thing is how to teach Children. Otherwise, there is a son of a village, all of whom are lazy to cook, not to mention supporting the door, it would be good if you don’t tear down the door frame and sell it for money.”
"But if there is no son, what will happen to the family property in the future?"
"Don't you have a daughter?"
Now it's not just Grandma Sun, everyone else's eyes widened.
"But that's not our Chang's." Mrs. Cao couldn't help but said.
"Isn't our ultimate goal of earning this family business is to live a good life for ourselves and our children and grandchildren? Whether male or female, they are our descendants and will not change because of their surnames. Instead of caring about this, we might as well worry about choosing a husband for our daughter." Keep your eyes open when you are your son-in-law."
Now everyone stopped talking, and always felt that there was something wrong with the words, but when they heard such a statement suddenly, it was inevitable that they couldn't react.Moreover, they are used to obeying Chang Xile's everything, and they don't know how to justify it, they just subconsciously feel that something is wrong.
Chang Xile didn't expect people to figure it out in just a few words, as many people in previous lives couldn't figure it out.
He didn't even dare to hope to change this society. He naturally didn't have such great ability and energy, but at least he had to ensure that men and women in Chang's family were the same.It would be best if the entire Taoyuan Village could also achieve equality between men and women.If not, at least a certain degree of improvement is required.
Taoyuan Village was originally relatively open-minded, and with the establishment of workshops, the women's economic status will become more prominent, which is not difficult to realize.
Ding Sansao was originally depressed because she gave birth to another daughter, so it can be seen that the family did not complain about it, and took good care of her during the confinement period. After hearing Cao Ersao talk about what Chang Xile said that day, she was relieved from the bottom of her heart.I am very fortunate to have married into the Chang family. If I were in another family, I would definitely be scorned by everyone.
Although Mrs. Sun is still not very happy, there is still a lot to do.
Ding San's sister-in-law sat well during confinement, and when she was confinement, her whole face was radiant and her complexion was very good.And the baby named Rui'er is much more beautiful than just born, with a round and cute face.
Daoxiang County does not have the habit of washing the three, and generally only the birth of a boy will serve the full moon wine, and the birth of a girl is mostly celebrated at home and then finished.
And the Chang family decided to do a big job for Rui'er.
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