He has the green hills to go alone

Li Xiangzhi sometimes complains about Xu Qingshan.

Xu Qingshan seemed to have introverted into his bones during the process of growing up, and he had to subtract seven or eight points from the expression of joy, anger, sorrow and joy, and it was difficult to see his true emotions.So once the two have disagreements, it will be difficult for Li Xiangzhi to know Xu Qingshan's intentions.

When the two first got together, what he tried to do was to make the two differences blend, change, and finally achieve coexistence without wronging either party, but the other party was used to keeping silent and bearing it silently, so sometimes a small thing Small things can lead to infinite troubles.

This is like an uncooperative patient who can see the condition but not the cause.But what can he do, the first half of his life has been like this, and Li Xiangzhi participated late, so naturally he can't complain.

So most of the time, Li Xiangzhi would say such a sentence.

"Just say what you have to say, don't always keep it in your heart, what's the use of just thinking about it?"

Xu Qingshan nodded after listening.

"What Dr. Li said is true." Afterwards, he was unmoved at all.

Dr. Li really had nowhere to start, and he suppressed all the good words.

Of course, this is just the beginning.

Things in the world have various appearances and various interpretations, and only when time goes by, from the beginning to the end, can the experience be comprehensive.

At least after Li Xiangzhi spent a few years with Xu Qingshan, his previous thoughts gradually changed.

People are different from each other, and because they are different, it is difficult to understand each other.

Li Xiangzhi originally thought that he was more open-minded than Xu Qingshan, so he unconsciously had an advantage psychologically. What he thought was to make a difference. Even if he made concessions, he always wanted to reform the other party anyway. mean.

In other words, there are places where Xu Qingshan disagrees.

And this small intention is subtle and imperceptible, and there is no trace of it.

It was only after Li Xiangzhi looked at Xu Qingshan for a long time that he compared his little thoughts, and gained a little new understanding of himself and Xu Qingshan.

Xu Qingshan seems to have no intention of reforming him.

This may seem normal, but it is surprising.It can be said that he doesn't care about himself so much that he has no intention of changing, or it can be said that he has completely accepted himself and there is no need to change.

Li Xiangzhi firmly believed that it was the latter, so from scratch, this was the first time he truly realized the fact that Xu Qingshan was older than him.

Of course, it may also be that he thinks too well of the other party.

But they met by fate and luck, and decided to live together. If they are picking and picking and criticizing each other's faults, why should they be so.

Although he is different from him, luckily they both have a good temper, and they can live comfortably.

Besides, Xu Qingshan is not always one sided.

Take an incident in the year before last as an example.Wang Weiqing set up a swing in the school, so from morning to night, the swing never stopped.When it was time to let the hall go, each one of them rushed to the swings without even caring about their meals.At the beginning, there were some small and big troubles. Wang Weiqing wanted to simply remove the swing frame, but Xu Qingshan intervened and divided the students into groups. They came in order, one pushed and one swinged, so that seven or eight monkeys would not catch a swing. The root vine was broken.

Rattans are few and monkeys are many, and the ones close to home are still unwilling to leave after they are released, and they will not let go until dusk.

Li Xiangzhi sometimes went to the school to find someone, and several times he saw Xu Qingshan standing in front of the window, looking at the students seriously.

At first he thought it was Xu Qingshan who was worried about the safety of the students, but after a few times, he found that Xu Qingshan's eyes were not all on the students, and after staring at them for a while, he would purse his lips and feel a little disappointed .

Finally, when it was too late and had to chase people away, I stood outside the door and looked at the swing before locking it.

This situation lasted for a period of time until the school had a long holiday and the students all went home, and no one was occupying the swing. Li Xiangzhi thought he understood Xu Qingshan's intentions, so one day he dragged Xu Qingshan to sit on the swing On the shelf, after pushing and pulling a few times, Xu Qingshan called to stop.

"What's wrong?" Li Xiangzhi asked, holding the dangling rope.

Xu Qingshan said it a little shyly, as if he was talking to himself: "It's too naive..."

Li Xiangzhi suddenly became serious after hearing this: "It is indeed."

"Then let's stop playing..." Xu Qingshan waved his hands and was about to get up.

Li Xiangzhi quickly added another sentence.

"I heard that this person can be so young just by swinging a few times on the swing."

Xu Qingshan said: "Then there is such a thing."

Li Xiangzhi said seriously: "Otherwise, let's try."

With a serious face, it seems that what he said is not nonsense.

Seeing Li Xiangzhi's serious expression, Xu Qingshan could only sit down slowly again.

The swing rope swings and swings, each time getting higher and higher.

"Doctor Li, what you just said is nonsense..."

"It's not nonsense, let me see, this looks really small."

"Li Xiangzhi, do you think I will believe..."

"Ah, everything is fine..."

Small is naturally small, but not in appearance.

Looking at Xu Qingshan's cheerful look, Li Xiangzhi felt that what he said was right.