Dianchi Lake with two bicycles

After saying some consoling words, Zhang Xin was in a much better mood than before, at least in Ge Jun’s view. From the geographical point of view, one was comforting his wife in the northeast, and the other was preparing for himself in the southwest. Wedding, due to the maturity of a man, Jin Ling had an easier time than anyone who was going to be a bride, but the easier it was, the easier it was to think of every detail of her beloved man. For women, even Hawking said that there was no way. The animals I studied are really hard to figure out. I am preparing for the wedding with someone I don’t know whether I like it or not, but I am thinking of the first love thousands of miles away who is comforting my beautiful wife, and I still don’t notice him at all. What are you doing, are you also missing yourself, just blindly miss the other person, if you hurt others in the name of love, women are destined to hurt the most.

It is not difficult to hold a wedding in a tourist hotspot city with a focus on ethnic minorities, and the family conditions are not too bad. According to local customs, Jin Ling has to go back to her hometown to see her parents before getting married at the end of the month , her husband-to-be had to let Jin Ling go home alone because he was busy with the marriage. In fact, they are now living together and have obtained the certificate. They are a legal couple. Now that she knows that her daughter is coming back, she is naturally very happy.

The golden father and the golden mother are very busy. This is the living habit of the older generation. It still appears in many families now. Many children are working hard outside their careers. When they are really able to buy a house or a car in the city, they will take their parents from the countryside to the city Living inside, it turned out to be wishful thinking. The old man was not used to it for a few days, talking about every plant and tree in his hometown all day long, and planned to go home early.This is understandable, so don't look at the children of some people in the countryside who are very promising in the city, but their parents still live in the countryside, so they can't arbitrarily say that they are not filial.Jin’s father and Jin’s mother got up very early, so early that the rooster didn’t even have time to crow. They had already washed up. In these southwestern places, a large part of their breakfast was spent eating rice noodles, a kind of thread made of rice, depending on the thickness. The favorite way of eating in various places, in the eyes of northerners, this is really noodles made of rice.The rice noodles were delivered one night earlier, and the whole street is the same. Those who are used to opening breakfast shops know that all the rice noodles are generally from the same shop that everyone likes to eat, which makes the business of other rice noodle shops very poor. In this regard, the requirements for rice noodles are actually not very high. Don’t be as hard as iron wire or soft as long hair. The softness and hardness are moderate. The rice noodle shop can adjust it according to the taste of customers. The hot time is used to adjust the softness and hardness.The most important thing is the pot of soup. If you walk down a street, as long as the business is good, you have put a lot of effort into the soup to make a good pot of soup. You don’t have to worry about the rice noodles being sold out, or the business is not good enough. , that's why their family got up so early.

A perfect bowl of rice noodles can determine whether people in these places can have a perfect day, which is beyond comprehension for outsiders. It is also difficult for us to understand why people in Northeast China cannot do without soybean paste, Shandong people cannot do without garlic, and Henan people cannot do without steamed buns.Here's what a perfect day should look like: an early morning bowl of delicious rice noodles.There is no need to write more about the rest. Some old customers who drive here for a long time sometimes see that the rice noodles have been sold out.In the early years, some experts came out to throw bricks, thinking that children in these places could not improve their college entrance examination results because of eating rice noodles. The analysis believed that it was actually insufficient in nutrition, poor in preparation, and insufficient in vegetables. It is recommended to eat less or not to eat.Finally, the introduction should be the same as the rice noodles they eat every morning at home. The recipe and ingredients are so-and-so, not to mention whether there are any contradictions in the expert’s words. Just looking at the rice noodles has seriously affected the college entrance examination. Seeing its power even more, isn't it that experts have also come out.

Farmers go out early and return late, and businessmen get up early and stay late. They are similar in nature. When Jin Ling arrived home, it was around [-] noon. The rice noodles in the house had already been sold out, but the gate was still open, and latecomers often came to ask if there was any more, and they did not leave the house. Expected to return disappointed, Jin's father would laugh with him at this time, saying that it was sold out early, thank you for coming, and there must be jargon like that when we come back another day.As a businessman, besides, his daughter graduated from a prestigious school, so he has to learn and improve himself. Unlike ordinary businessmen, he will not yell and curse at every turn.When my daughter comes home, it is a happy thing to cook a good meal. For happiness, sometimes it is a kind of happiness to eat delicious food, and sometimes it is a kind of happiness to cook delicious food for others. Or, when they learned that their daughter was coming back the night before, they asked Mi Nian Fang to deliver less goods that night, so that they could spare time to cook for their daughter the next day.From the beginning of the morning, almost every time I handed a bowl of rice noodles to the guests, I would look in the direction of the intersection, for fear that my daughter would not notice it when she came.

When his daughter's figure flashed at the intersection, Jin's father showed a kind of excitement on his face that seemed to be able to sell tens of millions of bowls of rice noodles in the morning. The tall figure stood up from the chair at the gate and walked towards the intersection. Mother was upstairs preparing The dishes are prepared and warmed up to wait for their daughter. They don't cook when people arrive, for fear that the child will be hungry.A kind of happiness that fathers only have when they see their daughters whom they haven’t seen for a long time. It can be seen from the footsteps that Jin’s father is a cheerful and slightly humorous person. Grab my daughter's trolley suitcase:

"Why did you arrive here? Is it because the shuttle bus didn't eat breakfast, and didn't eat the rice noodles made by your father, haha

Dad, I miss you, come and see you

Well, I got it, you don't have to come when you don't want to, so you think we still have very little time

Don't say it, I can't say it to you, did it sell out earlier?

Guess, guess, guess, guess...

I can't guess, Dad, you are always so happy no matter what happens, how can I guess?

My baby seems to have something on his mind, let's go, talk slowly after dinner, Dad's private radio station today will be broadcast live exclusively for you."

When the daughter comes home, a table of meals can test the love of her parents. A table of dishes is all the daughter likes to eat. The father of the ingredients has already contacted each family to prepare the ingredients when he received the call from his daughter yesterday. It’s like this: “My daughter is coming home, old XX, prepare me the freshest XX fish in the world” “Aunt Wang, my daughter is coming home, leave me a chicken that can scream well, I'll make beggar's chicken for my daughter to eat." It's right to say that father's love is like a mountain, and it's right to say that father's love is like Tang Seng's nagging, judging from Jin's father.

When the daughter came back, Jin's father took the suitcase and closed the door and went upstairs. The mother upstairs saw her daughter coming home, and she was going to get married soon. The old nagging was gone, and she said lightly: "I'm back, wash your hands quickly." Have a meal".Jin's father took the daughter's bag and put it away. Jin Ling glanced at the dining table. The eight dishes were all made by her father, and they were all her favorite dishes. In a daze, an extravagant thought flashed in her mind: If Ge Jun was like his father How good should it be to me? !Just such a slight distraction, the mother may not pay attention to cooking, but the father noticed it.

Meals are eaten casually, so casually that the family looks like a family again. However, the mother seldom talks, at least today, and she inserts a sentence from time to time, mostly to tell her to be filial and obedient in her husband's house. Let my father say that my father also played a lot of roles by himself, cooking, chatting with Jin Ling, serving her vegetables, and warming up the scene. It's not that my mother doesn't care about her, or who cares about her more. Parents are the same all over the world. , especially when a daughter is married, she has mixed feelings in her heart, and the person who raises her daughter knows best that it is sad for her to marry you, and it is also sad for her to be married if she is not young, and this kind of sadness has surpassed the ones in the dictionary. significance.Eight dishes, three people, of course, can't finish it, I will eat some in the evening, when I was cleaning up the dishes, my father said again:

"Baby, what do you want to eat tonight?

Dad, I don’t have anything to eat. Put the morning dishes in the refrigerator and eat them hot at night.

This is absolutely unacceptable, with your dad and me here, I guarantee that the dishes you eat at night are not the same, and you like to eat, you don’t need to wash the dishes, you are tired from the car, go to sleep for a while, and say hello to Duke Zhou one time

Dad, I'm not tired

That's it, how about you go into the room to rest for a while, Dad will come when he's done working, let's talk."

Jin Ling let out a "hmm" and didn't listen to her father. After cleaning up with her parents, she went back to her room alone. Jin's mother could see clearly from the side, but she didn't expect her daughter to be worried. Maybe her daughter was tired. When she said, "There is no father who knows a daughter better than her father", Jin's mother felt the most deeply about this. She rarely talked to herself about her worries since she was a child, and talked to her super dad a lot, and she got used to it over time. Jin's father saw that the kitchen was almost cleaned up. After washing her hands, she didn't take off her apron, and went to Jin Ling's room door and knocked.

"Dad come in

Dear listeners and friends, it's Dad's radio time now, we will answer the call from my dearest baby, what's on your mind, baby?

Dad, don't be funny, I'm getting married, I'm too happy

Pretend, keep pretending, your mom didn’t see it, your dad didn’t see it, I still can’t see it, let’s talk about it during dinner.”

Seeing that his daughter’s expression didn’t reveal any displeasure, he just lowered his head. Father Jin felt that it was time to talk to his daughter about some things. It’s just that he was used to being an old naughty boy, and now he suddenly wanted to talk about something serious. Fortunately, it's my own daughter, so a father should still say it. As for the way of saying it, you don't have to stick to it at this point:

"Then that's fine, Dad asks, you answer, it's okay now, right? Hmm...? Work?

Jin Ling shook her head

"The marriage is not going well?"

Jin Ling still shook her head

"I miss my parents, don't want to get married?"

"Um"

"Well, actually dad knows, you don't want to say it, dad will stay with you quietly for a while, let's not say anything"

The room suddenly became quiet, and Jin Ling understood what her father meant. To put it bluntly in the whole world, only the man sitting across from her knew her best. The man she thought she knew before was just that she thought he would understand. Think about it with her father. Staying together is so relaxing, no pressure, no cranky thoughts, and slowly began to want to chat with my father:

"Dad, can I ask you a question?

"Are you ready? Always be ready, Didi Da Didi Da Didi Da Dida" sang Father Kim

"Please ask questions"

"If you didn't marry my mother back then, who would you be with now?

This question is a bit difficult. It seems to be a secret. It seems that I can’t say it.

what i asked is true

What Dad said is also true, but because my daughter is about to get married, I can tell you about amnesty, but please don’t tell your mother afterwards, can you agree?

Ok

It is said that a long, long time ago, there was a handsome, tall and handsome male god who came across a beautiful woman while carrying water by the river, and pursued her crazily.

That male god is you, this story won't be too clichéd

In fact, when you were in college, your father probably knew something happened, but some people are destined to live in the past. Life is full of countless passers-by. When the passers-by end, we should go where we came from.Dad has stories that he doesn’t want to tell your mother. Of course, your husband will also hide things from you in the future.Isn’t there a popular saying now: Parents will die before us one day, and children will leave us when they grow up and start their own families. The only person who can accompany us to old age is our partner. Do you understand what Dad means? ?

Dad, don't say that

Dad knows that when his daughter grows up, she will eventually get married. No matter how reluctant she is, the only thing Dad doesn't want to see is that you are not happy. As for your mother and me, you don't have to worry, your happiness is The greatest filial piety to us, remember what your father said

Um"

The matter of Bao Da and Ah San collecting the water trucks has been put on hold for the time being. Seeing that the interview time for civil servants is getting closer, and the calls from parents at home are getting more and more frequent. There are two choices: one is not to take the exam directly, and the other is not to pass the exam. Although the result is the same, the level shown is completely opposite. The latter is more powerful anyway.The current job is like this. Almost everyone is complaining about all kinds of problems in their work, but those who really leave are often those who seem to love their work and never complain. Therefore, a boss who is not used to hearing employees’ complaints is not a good boss. , At least he won't leave you when he complains.As for jobs like civil servants, many people in the society are always brazen and feel like they have resigned after being a civil servant. It’s just a profession, out of respect for the profession, a job that supports oneself, whether it’s a civil servant, a plumber, or a sanitation worker, you can’t favor one over the other. It’s true that occupations don’t distinguish between high and low. It's a waste of words.

Ah San has already explained what she means to Bao Da. Anyway, this is also Bao Da's suggestion after drinking. Naturally, it's hard to say anything. You can't persuade people to fall in love. When they really fall in love, they object, saying that people value sex over friends. It is not such a person, but encourage him to take the exam again.Bao Da contacted a friend who owns a repair shop, and temporarily stored the three water trucks in his warehouse for a period of time, and then sold them in the second-hand car market when everyone's attention shifted.

It can be seen from the preparations for the civil servant interview that Ah San is too extreme. He always believed that overcoming nervousness can almost get a tenth of the interview results. Facts have proved that he is right. My own nervousness and too many methods in the book suddenly made me have the sequelae of too many choices, that is, too many choices are worse than no choices.Turn off the computer, turn off the mobile phone, turn off the lights, and lie on the cold floor alone, telling myself not to sleep if I can't think of a way, but I just want to sleep until noon the next day, and I can't remember what happened before. How to crawl into bed one night.The method was finally figured out by Ah San. During this time, he talked a lot to himself, thinking it was a way to decompress, so he went to the graphic store and printed out the pictures of several standing committee members of the Central Committee and pasted them on the wall. Talk to them when you have nothing to do, greet them one by one in the morning, tell them what's on your mind, and say goodnight to them one by one at night.He prepared the recording himself, and the effect is getting better and better after several times. He believes that if a person can even communicate with the top leaders of the country calmly, the instructors in the examination room will naturally be nothing to worry about. There is nothing to be nervous about. There is another way It is Facing Fear Law.It is said that this method was used by Hitler in Germany in the past. Hitler was timid and not good at expressing. In order to overcome this shortcoming, he will do more in the future. In the middle of the night, he will go to the cemetery alone to read aloud.The same goes for Ah San, who took the interview materials in his hand and went to the top of the building to review, learning while being afraid. From a distance, he looked exactly like whether he was fluent in reading the suicide note before committing suicide by jumping off the building.

☆、Northeast and southwest