Dianchi Lake with two bicycles

Ge Jun in Shandong is now the child's father, husband, and son. When the three identities are added to him, the pressure cannot be underestimated. From the perspective of outsiders, life is happy, both of them have jobs, and the conditions of the two families They are all good, and they are extremely happy. This is someone else's child. The reason why his wife obeys him now is because he has a good impression of him. Another secret is only known by the two of them, and he has no intention of revealing it. Tell anyone in secret that when a man grows up, he can't say how mature he is in his heart. This kind of so-called maturity also needs to be paid for by endurance. He intends to bring these secrets to his old age and into the grave.

His wife’s name is Zhang Xin, and she is currently on maternity leave after giving birth. Ge Jun also stays at home to take care of his wife because of paternity leave. The two parents live not far away, so the old mother-in-law often comes Look at the little ones.Why do people miss the past?Most of the reasons are because the past is better than the present, and the days are getting better and better. Few people recall those pains, which is the same as the way of life of the Alin family.Although the current Ge Jun misses the life in the university from time to time, it is precisely because he never expected that the society would be so complicated. The secret brought to him by the woman he met was a watershed, and he could only choose to remain silent most of the time.To say that he is special means that he is special in these places. If it is a child from another family, the conditions are like his family. No matter what human nature tolerates each other, the two separated early. Now they are married, and his wife treats him well before the secret is revealed. Well, the difference is that when he knew the secret, his wife no longer had the willfulness that all women had before, and sometimes she was so obedient that he couldn't believe it.

Taking care of the child these days focuses on the child, so he doesn't want to think about some things, and he doesn't have time to think about it. This makes him live more comfortably, and his wife can see it, so of course she didn't say anything.When the child arrives, the family has a new member, and the previous rest time is completely disrupted. The child cries a lot in the middle of the night and stays up all night. Taking care of the child, sometimes he wakes up five or six times a night, and he suddenly becomes haggard. .Being mixed between two women, one is the mother and the other is the wife, in addition to keeping this secret secret, the relationship must be handled properly, otherwise it is easy to fall into the difficulties that many men have to face. The way he relieves himself is to recall the past and During the days when Jin Ling was together, whenever the weight in his heart got heavier, he would sneak away from his busy schedule and stand on his balcony and look thousands of kilometers away to the southwest. Reminiscing, knowing that Jin Ling is going to get married soon, I don't even have any emotion in my heart.In fact, modern communication can achieve clairvoyance and clairvoyance, that is, mobile phones, that is, video calls.Out of protection, out of misunderstanding between Jin Ling and her own husband, she didn't dare to fight.

Zhang Xin's family was surprisingly kind to Ge Jun, which made him think it was a deliberate act when he was thinking about it, but no matter what, after all, he had no experience in getting married and starting a family. bear.The father-in-law had promised to buy him a car before they got married, and the money was sent to her. Zhang Xin also knew about it and encouraged him to buy it, which seemed to be a kind of compensation, but the way he handled it was unimaginable. Tong, I gave it back to my mother-in-law when she came to see the child, but my mother-in-law didn't want it, so I had to give it back to Zhang Xin in the end.

During the vacation period, Alin left early and returned late like his mother. Lin's mother felt sorry for her daughter, and sometimes she woke up in the morning with little movements and wanted to go up the mountain by herself without Alin knowing.Going up to the mountain to pick tea is not as romantic as in the TV commercials. It doesn’t say that people are prone to sunstroke in the sun, and when it rains, they have to be protected from lightning at any time. Wet from raindrops, it is easy to get sick. The best time to pick tea is on a cloudy day without rain, cool and windless, which is already a luxury for tea pickers.

In such a place, it is easy to understand that it is difficult to open one's mind. Mother Lin is the same. She rarely goes out. She has only been to the county once or twice in her life, and even less to the city. She only visited Alin once. If I go, I won’t go there no matter if I’m sick or I miss my daughter, and I’m prone to motion sickness. Every time I go up, I’ll be seriously ill.It is said that her thinking is limited because she wants her daughter to marry in the village. Firstly, it will be convenient for her to come and go, and secondly, it will be easier to find the right family. Now her daughter is working in the city, and those who come into contact with each other are likely to marry later. When the family conditions are good, but their own strength is not so good, they are easy to be bullied.That's why her parents insisted on buying her her own house in the city. She was really going to get married and had a fight, so she didn't even have a place to live.Alin has his own ideas. When his parents are older, he buys a house in the city and takes them there for the elderly. The family can finally be together.As for finding a partner in her hometown, she has never thought about it. The only people she contacts at home are classmates who studied together in elementary and junior high schools. At least, it's not like she hasn't thought about the mountainous forest land, cultivated land and homestead at home. When her parents are old, they will live together in the city and deal with them together.

Of course, there are many people who come to A Lin's house to propose marriage, but Lin's mother may not be satisfied. The difficulty of marrying a daughter-in-law in the current countryside is no less than that of going to the moon, the bride price, the house, and some people even ask to buy a car. Don’t worry about getting married. The problem is that a graduate from a prestigious university and a job as a civil servant find it difficult to find the right person. At least one has to be a graduate student, a job in an institution or a small business, and Alin has to look at it You have to get on it.

The library on the campus is called "Yangzhi Building", which means that the mountains stand upright, and it covers a large area. For the only [-] engineering school in this province, it must have this kind of momentum. The school's plan is from freshmen to juniors All freshmen are in this campus, and seniors, graduate students, and doctoral students all move to the headquarters. Students are dating, and juniors are preparing to review for postgraduate entrance examinations or find jobs.Others include staff, work-study students, etc. Many times some teachers will come to look for books. The area is large, there are a lot of books, and the system is also advanced. When entering the library, you have to swipe your card, which is the student card issued by the school.Speaking of the student card of the university, it has many uses. It is used for entering and leaving the school gate, for entering and exiting the library, and for borrowing books. You can borrow five books for the first time, with a period of one month. If the time is up, you can renew it for one month. To buy hot water, to eat, to buy things in the school supermarket, it can be said that the student card is the ID card of the student during the school period, and the real ID card is basically useless in the school.

Jin Ling really likes the feeling of being alone in the library, with so many books, she found two work-study jobs at school, one was on duty in the dormitory, and the other was an administrator in the library. There were many public classes in the freshman year. Only at the beginning of the sophomore year will there be elective courses. Anyway, the credit system is implemented. If you take enough credits, you can graduate. This is not a problem for students with good academic performance, and it is not a problem for students who normally attend classes. For those who often skip classes Students are very problematic. Sometimes they have to make up for failing a class. The credits include ordinary points, specialty points, and even two points for the driver's license test in school. Many people learn to drive in their freshman year. Apart from fun, the tuition fee is low, and there is no such thing as In addition to the corruption in society, it is largely to earn enough credits.The real test only accounts for [-]% of the score, so it is usually very important, but the test is not important. The teacher will give the key points before the test, so everyone came up with a way to find the test papers of the seniors from the previous year. Reviewing, or looking for the notebooks of girls with good grades in the class to memorize, are good ways to pass the exam.Therefore, the first semester of the freshman year is basically public and professional courses. The military training that everyone fears the most is arranged in the summer vacation when the freshman ends and the sophomore begins.

In fact, curiosity is paramount in the freshman year. It is often said that skipping classes, failing classes, and falling in love usually happen in the sophomore year. Learning to be bad also requires a process. One of Jin Ling's part-time work-study programs is to be on duty to check the dormitory. Every day in the middle or afternoon, as long as you have time, if it is your turn to be on duty at night, you will go to the floor of your college to check the number of people according to the requirements of the dormitory aunt, and hand over the number to the dormitory. You can end your day’s work. The main purpose of being on duty at the door of the dormitory is to prevent boys from entering. To stop this, if parents come to visit, you must register, clean the first floor, and that’s basically it. You can read books in your spare time. Of course, you can work in the library. It's another thing, cleaning is the same, another job is to help students find books, return books and so on.

There are so many clubs in the university. New students are of course very curious. After recruiting many clubs, many people will choose one or two clubs. They listen to most people boasting how training they are, so freshmen are curious to join, and most of them will join in The sophomore felt bored and quit the group. Jin Ling also came to Nanyuan to find a club to join this day, so that she could get exercise as she heard from others. She was looking for a volunteer club, which was A Lin, whom she met , It’s a volunteer club. Most of the time, the work is to help move some tables and chairs when the school holds parties. On weekends, I have time to organize bus queues in crowded places near the campus. During holidays, I go to Cuihu to pick up garbage. It was very interesting at the beginning, and I also found it very useful, at least much more useful than some Tai Chi clubs and Go clubs.

University is actually a society. Because there are so many people, you can buy everything to survive in it. Some slacker students have not even been out of school for a year. At most, they only know when the school starts or vacations, oh!The original school is still so big!It is called society, but it is different from society in that at least it is not as naked as society. The fragility of human nature is revealed every year when it comes to awarding scholarships. Everyone wants money, because everyone needs it , this is different from the high school evaluation system and standards in that the grades have the final say in high school, not only in college, in addition to your test scores, there are also ordinary scores, and there are factors such as relationships with classmates, relationships with class teachers, and relationships with counselors , even has something to do with my own personality, and I didn’t say that it must be wrong. At least be honest and obedient. There is no problem with getting scholarships with excellent grades, but it is relatively flexible. This makes students who come from the college entrance examination somewhat uncomfortable. Because I have to go to a franchise and have to consider many things, it has made it hard to be a class monitor in a university. As long as someone thinks it is unfair, it doesn't matter what I say, and interpersonal relationships are inexplicably difficult.

So the college entrance examination system is better, not because it is excellent, at least in the current situation in China, it can best reflect the fairness, if you still play this system in high school, and those who study blindly have excellent grades, then you can get 60 points Yes, in fact, some people who scored 40 or 60 points in the test can get the remaining 40 points through relationships, and those who let you get a full score of [-] can’t get the remaining [-] points. People who have relationships recently If you go up, your academic performance will be good, but you will fall down.It’s not that if you get a high score in the college entrance examination, you just use the good over the bad to evaluate it. The real fairness can only be like this, because right now everyone can’t think of many ways to deal with the so-called fairness, which may always be with human beings.

Speaking of the library, it is a wonderful place, even beyond the meaning of its name itself. Many people also regard these places as good places for dating. It is also a hotbed. It can be said arbitrarily that many The couple got acquainted through the library. This is what Jin Ling feels the most, because her subsequent love also happened in this place. When she was working and studying, she saw many couples going in and out. Because she was a freshman The opinion is a bit disdainful. After a long time, couples come to find books, read books, and study like normal people, and only then have a slight change in their algorithm.There are bad horses, this is undeniable. I saw some students occupying seats, especially some beauties, there are many bad horses next to their seats, and there are people occupying seats all around. It’s not like reading a book, but it’s not like reading a book all night, hoping to have some contact with the beauty. Some students just came to see the beauty. The reason why they dare to make such a judgment is that when the beauty leaves, the surrounding immediately looks like an empty city, leaving some The books that were too late to collect were waiting for Jin Ling to collect them.Some people are more daring, just use it as a dating place, fall in love all night, feel like they haven't spoken in centuries, regardless of the pain of those single people, so kiss, touch, sneak to the bathroom, It's just that Jin Ling didn't know what to do.No matter how bad it is, there are only Kong Yiji's students. Because of Kong Yiji's preface of "stealing books is not stealing", these people are not ambiguous in their business of stealing books. This makes Jin Ling very headache. Some books are not missing or are disabled, or they disappear completely, which is hard to understand.

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