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Lin Xiao felt that Ning Qiu's reaction was very strange. He said: "I'm not that angry. My dad used to have other women outside, and my mother had an affair with another man. It's nothing, it's just that she has bad eyesight. You can't find anyone better."

Ning Qiu knew that Lin Guohao had raised a second/third wife/milk and so on, and he heard it from Ning Zhien inadvertently, but because he hated these things, he neither took the initiative to pay attention to it nor paid too much attention to it. However, when he suddenly discussed these things about his parents with Lin Xiao, and found that Lin Xiao’s point of view was very strange, Ning Qiu realized that Lin Xiao was actually influenced a lot by his parents’ behavior in this regard, and Ning Qiu felt that these influences It's bad, but he's not sure if he needs to correct Lin Xiao's point of view.

After thinking for a while, Ning Qiu said, "Then do you think it's okay to cheat?"

"Ah?" Lin Xiao could hear the danger in Ning Qiu's words, did he think cheating was okay?Lin Xiao hadn't thought about this question seriously before, but if he didn't think about it carefully before answering Ning Qiu, Ning Qiu would definitely get angry.

Lin Xiao said, "Not really."

Ning Qiu reached out to brighten up the wall lamp in the bedroom, looked at Lin Xiao carefully in the light, and asked, "What's wrong? Is it possible?"

Lin Xiao realized what Ning Qiu meant, he hugged Ning Qiu and wanted to kiss him, "I won't cheat."

Ning Qiu blocked him, not letting him kiss.

Lin Xiao looked at him aggrievedly, and said: "I can't control my parents' affairs, right, I can only control myself. Brother, don't be angry, why are you angry with me?"

When Ning Qiu thought about it, he also felt that he was going too far. He softened his posture, looked at Lin Xiao and said, "Since the relationship is established, we must be responsible for each other, and there can be no other people."

"Well, well, I know. You are a person with high moral standards." Lin Xiao immediately responded.

However, Ning Qiu felt that his words were very careless, and said: "No matter what other people around you are doing or thinking, if they are doing something wrong, you can't allow yourself to follow them and stick to the truth and correct ideas. , is important. Just because everyone else is doing it doesn’t make it acceptable.”

Lin Xiao buried his face on the side of his neck, sniffed the light grapefruit fragrance of the shower gel on his body, nodded and said, "Well, I know."

Ning Qiu gently stroked his hair and the back of his head, Lin Xiao could feel that he was loved by him, and he liked the feeling of being smoothed by Ning Qiu.

Ning Qiu said: "Everyone's birth and growth are different, Lin Xiao, I dare not say that what I educated or told you is suitable for you, but I think I must make it clear to you. , this is my responsibility, you have listened to it, and if you agree, you are also responsible."

Lin Xiao raised his head and kissed his lips, saying, "I understand."

Ning Qiu breathed a sigh of relief, and said, "I can't say anything about your parents' affairs, but in the end, you shouldn't argue with your parents, and you shouldn't directly approve of your father's affairs, your mother It's the same thing about your mother. But about your mother, if your father finds out, I'm afraid it will be very troublesome."

Lin Xiao also thinks so, but he can't control this matter for the time being.

After thinking for a while, Ning Qiu asked, "Do you know the identity of that man surnamed Gu?"

Lin Xiao said: "I don't know. But according to my mother, the person surnamed Gu, my mother also knew his father, and after his father died, my mother paid for that man to go to school."

Ning Qiu said: "If that house is worth □□ million according to what your mother said, can ordinary people withstand this temptation?"

Lin Xiao said: "It's okay."

Ning Qiu frowned and said, "It's not good at all. Go find out who that man is. Although your mother is not right, but, as her son, you still have to care about her."

Lin Xiao nodded quickly: "Yes."

Ning Qiu added: "Your mother really thinks about you, and she will sell this house to support your career."

Lin Xiao was silent and didn't respond, but his heart was still a little turbulent.

Ning Qiu had to go to work the next day, and he had a lot of work, so he was going to sleep after turning off the lights.

Lin Xiao was in high spirits, and wanted to ask/please, but Ning Qiu pushed him away in annoyance, and said, "I'm really going to sleep, I'm very tired today. Lin Xiao, you can solve it yourself."

Lin Xiao had no choice but to stop making trouble. Lin Xiao has always been more enthusiastic about this kind of matter. He is young, has a lot of leisure time, and is more keen on physical pleasure. Ning Qiu is just the opposite. He is busy with work and has poor health, which is another restraint People don't even pursue physical pleasures.

When Ning Qiu was about to fall asleep, he thought in a daze that the bed between himself and Lin Xiao was not really compatible. Before he was with Lin Xiao, his energy and thoughts were all on work. It is rare to be able to think of the word sex once. When I am with Lin Xiao, I feel that sex/love is a waste of his time most of the time. Although it is true that there are no times when I feel bad, I don’t pursue it anyway. aspects of fun.

I don't know how other lovers or husbands and wives deal with this kind of thing. How to solve this kind of conflict, or just leave it alone?For those who have a partner, sex life should be regarded as an important thing in life. I don’t know if there is a monograph on this aspect to discuss it, and how to solve problems in this aspect.

Ning Qiu is good at work, but many things outside of work make Ning Qiu feel powerless, especially emotional matters, not only the relationship between him and Lin Xiao, but also the relationship between him and Lin Xiao. The mother-child relationship between Ning Zhien, he sometimes feels powerless, he actually doesn't need his mother to be so considerate and caring for him, but he can't refuse, or accept it, and sometimes he feels unfilial because he didn't return the courtesy.

Although he had no father since he was a child, and his mother didn't take care of him when he was young, Ning Qiu didn't feel particularly troubled before, because his grandmother loved him, and at least he didn't have any material shortages since he was a child. The schools are all the best in the local area, and there is no problem with the atmosphere of the students around him. The teachers have always taken care of him and loved him. He has grown up normally, confidently and happily.

In comparison, the situation in Lin Xiao's family may be much more complicated. It's not about how rich the material is, so you will definitely feel more happy and satisfied.

Ning Qiu reached out to touch Lin Xiao's hand. Lin Xiao was rejected by Ning Qiu just now, and he didn't dare to make trouble with him anymore, and he didn't dare to touch him too much. Qiu clenched his hands tightly and called him, "Ning Qiu?"

Ning Qiu said: "Lin Xiao, do you feel very unhappy?"

Lin Xiao was stunned for a moment, and it took two seconds to understand what Ning Qiu meant, and asked, "You said I want to have sex with you, don't you want it?"

Ning Qiu doesn't let Lin Xiao do everything, because he feels that it is his responsibility to educate Lin Xiao and make him better, so in this kind of matter, Lin Xiao's courtship is at least most of the time rejected.

Lin Xiao was used to being rejected, so Lin Xiao naturally didn't care that much.

Ning Qiu let out a "hmm".

Lin Xiao rubbed Ning Qiu's chin with a smile, only a slight feeling, and he said, "Ah, brother, you actually asked me this question."

Ning Qiu: "Should I not ask?"

Lin Xiao: "Not really. Actually, I think it's fine for you to follow your preferences. If you bear with me, I'd like to think, brother, just bear with me. I shouldn't do this. It's a waste of time." Spirit. If you want it, you want it, if you don’t want it, don’t want it, just let me know, I don’t have to think so much. If you like it, tell me, I feel very encouraged, if you If you don't like it, tell me, and I will change it next time. This... should be positive feedback."

Ning Qiu: "..."

Ning Qiu said, "It's fine if you think about it that way."

Lin Xiao hugged him with a smile, "Actually, there is a lot to discuss, brother, there are actually many positions..."

Ning Qiu pushed him away, "I don't have time to talk to you today, I'm going to sleep."

Lin Xiao: "...Oh, okay."

**

The two of them hadn't slept long when Ning Qiu's cell phone rang.

Because Ning Qiu has to be on duty 24 hours a day, she never turns off her mobile phone at work.

Lin Xiao fell into a deep sleep, and Ning Qiu started to answer the phone, and he woke up in a daze, thinking painfully, Ning Qiu wouldn't have to go to work so late.

Unexpectedly, after answering the phone, Ning Qiu called Lin Xiao and said, "Lin Xiao, get up quickly."

Lin Xiao opened his eyes helplessly, "Brother, what's the matter?"

Ning Qiu said: "Is your cell phone in the living room? You can't get through when you call at home. My mother called me just now."

Lin Xiao: "Huh? Oh."

Ning Qiu: "I don't know how your father knew about your mother's cheating. We need to go back and check the situation."

Lin Xiao: "..."

Lin Xiao woke up instantly.

It should have been several years ago that her mother cheated. Before that, his father didn't know about it. How could his father know about it as soon as the house was about to be sold?

Although Ning Qiu had to go to work the next day, he also went home with Lin Xiao. He was afraid that Lin Xiao would be irrational in dealing with his parents' affairs at a young age, and would instead fight in the middle, making things even more difficult. untie.

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