God please don't procrastinate

Gu Liang was surprised to receive a message from Zhong Jingyu, not to mention that Zhong Jingyu had basically cut off contact with the outside world in the past two years, even two years ago, he rarely took the initiative to make appointments like this.

Originally, I wanted to talk to Li Xinlan first, but when I thought that Zhong Jingyu didn't look for his wife first but went to him directly, there must be something I couldn't tell her.

After thinking twice, he sent Zhong Jingyu the address of the Jingba he often visits.Put away the phone, put on the jacket, explain to Li Xinlan, and drive out.

The quiet bar that Gu Liang chose was opened by a friend, and the overall atmosphere is clean and tidy. It is very suitable for people like them who have a family and a family, and occasionally meet friends here for a small gathering.

When he arrived at the bar, Zhong Jingyu just arrived.She wore a coat over her home clothes, and her hair was stuck up in a few sticks. It was obvious that she had rushed over from home, and she didn't even pay attention to her appearance.

Looking at this brother-in-law who has recently been regarded as a new generation of Internet male gods, Gu Liang really wants to know, if those little girls on the Internet see him like this, will they confess their love one by one.

In order to protect the image of his wife and brother, Gu Liang deliberately chose a booth in the corner. There are some tall plants around the periphery to block the line of sight, so the concealment is relatively better.

Before taking a seat, he went to the bar to say hello to his friends, ordered two drinks, and sat down directly.

Pushing a cup of signature mixed fruit juice in front of Zhong Jingyu, took a sip of the iced orange juice himself, and then asked Zhong Jingyu, "Tell me, what questions do you want to ask me?"

Zhong Jingyu took a sip of the juice through the straw, thought for a while with his head down, and then replied: "You Xian and I had a fight."

"Why are you arguing?"

"He wanted to go out and work, he didn't want to be my assistant."

"He is your employee, not your slave. He wants to resign, this is his freedom." Of course, this is based on the relationship between the pure |superior and the subordinate. |Jie's relationship...ahem...Gu Liang said that he would never pierce a certain layer of window paper first.

"No, Youxian is not..." Zhong Jingyu took a breath and said frankly, "Youxian is not an employee or an assistant, he is my lover, the person I want to spend my whole life with."

Although Li Xinlan and he had already had such a guess, Gu Liang was a little shocked to hear Zhong Jingyu say such a result in person.At this time, he also understood a little why Zhong Jingyu didn't go to Li Xinlan directly but went to him. It is indeed not a wise choice to surprise a pregnant woman.

Fortunately, Zhong Jingyu is a smart person, and fortunately, neither Gu Liang nor Li Xinlan are dull.

After the initial silence, Gu Liang sighed helplessly, and said with emotion: "Jingyu, you don't distinguish between public and private."

Zhong Jingyu lowered his eyes and didn't make a sound, which seemed a little tacit.

"Since you regard Xiao Xian as your lover, you should respect his wishes even more. Did he say why he wants to go out to work?" So Gu Liang is worthy of being someone who has experienced it, and he hit the nail on the head and hit the point right away.

Zhong Jingyu was so focused on getting angry with Sun Youxian before, but he forgot to ask the most important point—why did Sun Youxian want to find a job?

Seeing that he didn't say a word, Gu Liang guessed that he was probably overwhelmed by emotions and never talked to Sun Youxian: "There will always be some quarrels and quarrels between couples in this world. Yes, you must calm down after the quarrel. If it's a trivial matter, be a man and let the woman be more generous... Oh, yes, you are all men, but the reason is the same.

If it is an important event, it needs to be clarified and explained clearly. Two people together are a whole. If there are contradictions that cannot be unified between you, how can you work hand in hand to resist the possible future? More questions on the right?

Xiaoxian's work problem is also a major issue. How to persuade him or how you are persuaded by him is your own business, but you must remember that no matter what you decide in the end, it must be the two of you from the bottom of your heart. It is recognized by all insiders that if it is only a reluctant compromise by one party, it will only treat the symptoms but not the root cause.

When a contradiction is firmly buried, it is only preparing for a bigger contradiction in the future. "

Zhong Jingyu nodded after being taught. To be honest, he probably only started dating after being with Sun Youxian. For a person who has no real experience in love, arguing with the other half is simply the first thing to do. once.

"Brother Liang, have you and Sister Lan ever quarreled?"

"I quarreled, why didn't I quarrel?" Gu Liang replied as a matter of course, "When we first got married, it was about whether to have children? When did we quarrel more than once about the question of having children. You know, Xiaolan and I married At that time, it happened to be the rising period of her career. If she had children at that time, she would definitely not be able to be promoted.

But you also know that my parents have a more traditional concept, and they hope that we will have children immediately after we get married, and they will take care of them after giving birth.On the point of taking care of children, Xiaolan and I have the same point of view, we both insist that we must take care of the children by ourselves.

But at that time, I also couldn't stand the nagging of my parents, and I would persuade Xiaolan to give up the promotion and give birth to the child first.

You see, just like this, there are already many conflicting points, between our husband and wife and my parents, between Xiaolan's career and family, between me and Xiaolan, not to mention other aspects.Under such circumstances, how could Xiaolan and I not quarrel? "

"Then, how did you solve it in the end?"

"How else can we solve it? Talk about it." Recalling those days, Gu Liang laughed himself first, "Every time we quarrel, we talk about it, and once we talk about it, we will have more unified opinions. While talking and grinding, we get along with each other and get along with each other. Our parents worked hard and finally got a result that everyone can accept.”

"What if... can't be unified?" Zhong Jingyu hesitated, and asked the situation that he was most afraid of seeing.

Gu Liang sat up straight, changed his gentleness before, and said seriously: "That may mean that you are not suitable to be together at all, because if you really love someone, you will be willing to restrain your temper and bottom line for the other person. Make a certain compromise. When two people who love |each|each|love|are willing to make concessions for each other, how can there be no unanimity?"

Hearing this, Zhong Jingyu was deeply shocked.

For him, the word "love" means domination and possession; but for Gu Liang, it means respect and equality.There are thousands of forms of love, and there are many ways to love someone, but the feeling of loving someone is mostly the same, as long as you look at the other person's smile, you feel like you have the whole world.

And he, because of his narrowness and paranoia, almost deprived himself of the whole world by hand!

"Brother Liang, I probably understand something, thank you."

"Since you call me brother, it's not a big deal for a brother to chat with a younger brother, so why should you be so polite?" Gu Liang smiled, and the original awe-inspiring spirit melted away, and he regained his former peace Look, "There is something serious, I have been forgetting to tell you.

Although your self-enclosed situation seems to us to be all right, after all, we don't want to say whether you are fully recovered or not, we still need to listen to the doctor's diagnosis.When do you have time, how about meeting Dr. Song? "

Gu Liang didn't mention it, but Zhong Jingyu really forgot about it.Mental illnesses are not like trauma, they are visible to the naked eye, okay?How good is it?It's always memorable when you see it.

Mental illnesses, sometimes it doesn’t mean that the patients themselves feel better or they are really better. The disease itself may have mild symptoms or the possibility of recurrence. It really needs to be based on the doctor’s diagnosis.

Fortunately, Zhong Jingyu no longer resists this matter. He nodded after thinking for a while and agreed: "Okay, but I want to go back and talk to Youxian first, and then make an appointment with Dr. Song. Youxian , come with me."

"Okay, okay, it's good if you're willing to go to the doctor." At this time, Gu Liang really felt the sadness of "a daughter-in-law who has been a wife for many years". Two years ago, he and Li Xinlan tried their best to persuade him to go to the doctor. Jingyu no longer rejects talking about this matter with him, and is willing to take the initiative to see Dr. Song, how can he not let him be moved?

"Brother Liang, I'm sorry, before... you and Sister Lan have worked hard." Gu Liang's words also brought back memories of Zhong Jingyu. At that time, he knew that some behaviors were wrong, but for some reason, there was always an unknown feeling. The power driving him to choose to do that wrong behavior.

Gu Liang shook his head, and said sincerely: "You don't need to apologize to us, it's not your fault, it's all caused by illness, Xiaolan and I didn't mean to blame you at all, on the contrary, we will only do it for you now happy with his recovery.”

Zhong Jingyu gave a rare shy smile, and used the action of drinking juice to cover up his inner gratitude.

The two chatted for a while about Li Xinlan's baby, and then drove home.

Back home, it was late, except for the soft light from the small lamp in the entrance, there was silence upstairs and downstairs.

Zhong Jingyu first ran to Zhaocai Jinbao's nest to take a look. The two pets slept soundly squeezed into Jinbao's big nest.Take out the phone to take the difficult "bed | photo", put it away and share it with Sun Youxian another day.

Imagining Sun Youxian's appearance after seeing the photo, Zhong Jingyu went upstairs while laughing, and pushed open the door of his room. The room without the lights was deserted, and there was no one who slept with him on the big bed. Zhong Jingyu's heart sank to the bottom of the valley as the bed was still the same as it had just been made in the morning.

He closed the door without hesitation and pushed Sun Youxian's door. The unlocked door was easily pushed open. With the moonlight shining in through the curtains, he waited to see him lying on the bed and rolling himself into "sushi" Sun Youxian's uneasy heart instantly settled down.

Closed the door softly, took off his coat and put it on the chair, Zhong Jingyu walked over, lay down on the bed, hugged him together with the quilt, and pressed his body tightly against Sun Youxian's back, in his ear He said softly: "Youxian, I'm sorry, I really know I was wrong, let's talk about it tomorrow, okay?"

Sun Youxian, who was already in a deep sleep, didn't hear a word at all, but Zhong Jingyu involuntarily appeared in his dream.

"Young Master Zhong...Jing Yu..." He was talking in his sleep in a daze, slurring Zhong Jingyu's name, which made the hearts of those attached to him burst into joy.

Letting go of the "sushi" he was holding tightly, Zhong Jingyu took off his clothes and socks, simply pulled the quilt away and lay down, put his arm through Sun Youxian's neck and hooked him back, and brought him into his arms and hugged him contentedly. sleep.

And Sun Youxian, who was completely unaware that there was an extra person on his bed, moved his body to find a more comfortable position for himself, and continued to "fight to the top of Huashan Mountain" with Zhong Jingyu in his dream.