I suspect my boyfriend is playing missing

After two years:

"Xu Tianji, do you love me?"

"If you go to clear the cat litter for Xu Latu and Xia Benhua now, I will consider loving you."

Five years later:

"Xu Tianji, you fucking give me this shit-yellow sponge uncle's underwear, you just don't love me!"

"I do not love you."

Ten years later:

"Xu Tianji, don't buy the duck from the shop on the east side of Xinjiekou. Dad said it was too salty last time I ate it."

"I knew it earlier, I changed a house."

"Hey, I love you so much, frog."

"Ha ha."

After 20 years:

"Xia Zhi, I love you, all my life."

"I know, my old frog prince."