walk across the bridge of fog

42.

He Ren's boldness and directness once again surprised Duanmu.Such a direct expression is a difficult problem for Duanmu.But from another point of view, He Ren has indeed begun to change. She has become more active and able to speak out her ideas bravely.Isn't this exactly what Duanmu wants He Ren to change?

In addition, judging from the situation described by Qin Yue, He Ren's mentality has indeed become more positive and friendly in the process of interpersonal communication.

Duanmu still needs to pour cold water on He Ren to see if He Ren is bluffing. "However, you don't like Las Vegas. At least when you started discussing this topic, you clearly expressed your dislike. Your so-called soul fit is not thorough, it's only a partial or temporary fit."

"I haven't been to Las Vegas, so it's no surprise that I'm biased against it. But I can understand what you said, the symbolism you said, maybe, you can experience living in the moment there Philosophy." When He Ren expressed this understanding, he was very sure and confident.

Duanmu nodded, He Ren's understanding is in place, and Duanmu really admires that he can analyze to this step with only one sentence of his own.He Ren is not bluffing, she is very confident.

"He Ren, are you sure that you have a tacit understanding with my soul, not that you are easier to be persuaded by me?" Duanmu asked.

"I'm sure, we have a tacit understanding." He Ren replied firmly, "I am easily persuaded by you because you make sense."

At this moment, Duanmu has confirmed that He Ren's psychological problem is not very serious, and has already improved considerably.What Duanmu is worried about is that He Ren's progress is due to the effect of empathy, which is a kind of unreliable progress based on the illusory cognition of the psychiatrist.Such progress would disappear as the therapist withdrew from her life.

Duanmu needs to make He Ren realize the fact that it is He Ren himself who helps her progress.

"Actually, it's not entirely because I'm always right. I have a very personal interest in Las Vegas, for example, and you never like it enough to approve of it just because I quote an ad that doesn't make sense .You easily changed your position. But He Ren, you are a very assertive person. According to your description, you are not usually easy to be persuaded."

He Ren wanted to argue, but Duanmu signaled her to let herself finish.

"The reason is that our relationship is the same as any other relationship that involves power differences, such as superior-subordinate relationships, teacher-student relationships, etc. The psychiatrist is on the stronger side of the relationship, which is not The factors that include the use of power to intimidate and intimidate are simply unbalanced forces between the two. This is why there are strict restrictions in many professional ethics."

He Ren looked at Duanmu vigilantly, and she understood the warning in Duanmu's words.

"Do you think you persuaded me because I was afraid of you? Do you want to deny what you said?" He Ren drove in the direction of nonsense again.

Duanmu was used to He Ren's trick, so he ignored her and continued to finish his speech.

"Sitting in front of you as an expert and authoritative image, a psychiatrist already has an aura stronger than you. More importantly, the requirement of our profession is to care about your pain, listen to your troubles, and accompany you Find a solution. The understanding you can’t get elsewhere may be found here. So, you will think that we are the people who understand you best and are in harmony with your soul.”

He Ren was not happy anymore, he wanted to interrupt Duanmuqian several times, but was stopped by Duanmu, Duanmu had to explain the meaning completely.

"In the relationship between the two of us, many experiences are actually constructed by you yourself, and I did not participate in it. For example, this kind of soul connection. It can be explained more simply. I don't only understand you. My professional training It requires me to care about all my clients and understand most of them, otherwise I would not be a competent psychiatrist. And it is impossible for me to fit in with so many people.”

Duanmu classifies his love as fraternity, in order to distance himself from the type of emotion that He Ren expects psychologically.

He Ren understood Duanmu's meaning, this is a very cruel statement.Duanmu is rejecting his love and his confession.

He Ren was furious, and what was even more absurd was that her anger turned to that woman named Xiaobu.After returning from a trip with this woman, Duanmu became direct and ruthless.While being ruthless to He Ren, Duanmu also defended the clown, and even thanked the clown for his company.

"Ha, Dr. Duanmu, you said I was your client, but you didn't say I was your patient." He Ren's dry laugh was enough to express her anger.

"I've said it from the first time, what I'm giving you is counseling, we're not really treating you. You're not very serious. And you've improved dramatically. I don't think you're a patient."

"Then why did your companion call me a patient so rudely?" He Ren blurted out this sentence.

Duanmu was stunned.First of all, He Ren suddenly changed the subject.What made Duanmu even more unresponsive was that He Ren was talking about Yu Xiaobu calling her a patient.

Duanmu's mind was quickly recalling the situation of Yu Xiaobu in his office.Of course she noticed that Yu Xiaobu used the word "patient". What puzzled her was, how could He Ren hear Yu Xiaobu's speech?

Duanmu Leng didn't answer the conversation there, she was trying to recall the conversation between Duanmu and Yu Xiaobu when He Ren pushed open the office door.