walk across the bridge of fog

20.

"Now you know what I said is right, so how can you help me?" He Ren often used this kind of half-joking and half-serious attitude towards Duanmu.

Duanmu found that it was very difficult for He Ren to directly express his views to others, and he refuted them fiercely.But Duanmu is completely different, she can easily provoke, easily question, and even ridicule.In the initial consultation, he even showed boastfulness.

"I can't help you with unjust parents, incompetent bosses, uninteresting jobs. I'm not saying these problems don't exist. But you can't always blame someone else and do nothing yourself. You can't Trapped in such a vicious circle. I think what I can do is to help you find a way to break this vicious circle. We need to focus on you, what kind of character is it that aggravates these troubles, or , what kind of personality and emotions prevent you from solving these problems in an effective way. I don’t know if I have expressed it clearly.”

Duanmu knew that many patients had difficulty understanding the meaning of this passage.She was pestered and questioned many times by patients, "Don't tell me so many useless things, just tell me what to do!"

He Ren can fully understand, this is one of the reasons why Duanmu likes He Ren, she is very smart and has insight. "You made it very clear. You told me that when I was a child, they believed that the son was more important from the bottom of their bones. What can I do? What kind of personality can I have to change this state?"

"Let's not discuss this first, I want to know, what is your relationship with your parents like now?"

"What else? They're busy enough taking care of their baby boy. I'm rarely home."

"How do they feel about your accomplishments?"

"What have I achieved! In their eyes, I am still worthless. Just because I don't get married, they conclude that my life is a failure, and I am no better than my brother. Oh, yes, my brother I can’t find a girlfriend, I can’t find a job, it’s all my fault in their eyes. I can’t find a job because I’m famous, so it causes him a lot of pressure and low self-esteem. I can’t find a girlfriend because of me. Being a sister who is alone and a widow has set a bad example."

"Do you long for their approval?"

"It used to be, but not now. I don't care about their attitude."

"After you got Wenxin's admiration, you don't care about their attitude? You said that Wenxin is your reader, your fan, and you met at the book signing place. You signed for her , she begged for a group photo, and then silently waited for your signing event to end."

There was a radiance on He Ren's face, that was the happiest moment in her life, the sweetest memory.She was also happy, Duanmu clearly remembered what he had said.He Ren can imagine that Duanmu has many patients, and even sees many patients every day. However, Duanmu remembers his own affairs.He Ren knew that Duanmu took notes, but it was impossible to write down everything in the notes.

"Will you think of me during the period between the two consultations?" He Ren asked suddenly.

Unprepared for the difficult problem, Duanmu could only ask, "Will you think of me during this time?"

Duanmu generally doesn't answer questions like "remember me" with some kind of emotional hint, especially when male patients ask such ambiguous questions.

When He Ren asked this question, Duanmu slyly asked back.Intuition made her choose not to answer.

"I will think of you. Of course I will. I'm just curious, will you think of me?" He Ren said.

"Why are you curious about this matter? Is there anything special?" Duanmu could only continue to delay time with rhetorical questions.

"Because you have many patients, and I only have one psychiatrist." What He Ren said was serious.

Duanmu smiled, she likes He Ren as he is today.

"I will think about your things during this time, what you said, and your performance in the diagnosis and treatment, I will think about it again."

"I'm always complaining, always babbling a lot of nonsense, my performance is bad, isn't it?" He Ren looked at Duanmu, eagerly waiting for her response.

"No, you behaved well most of the time, sometimes angry, sometimes impatient, sometimes vexatious, but in general, you behaved well. You haven't answered my question yet, you are from Wenxin After that, don't care about your parents' approval?"

"Yeah, those don't matter to me anymore."

"You transferred your desire for approval and approval from your loved ones to Wenxin because she adores you, because she is obsessed with you. Your biggest childhood flaw has been fulfilled, so you can't bear to leave Wenxin?"

He Ren stared blankly at Duanmu, she had been thinking about how Duanmu would transfer to Wenxin just now.Now that the topic has changed, He Ren is speechless.

Yu Xiaobu's swimming culture class is really extraordinary.The class starts after the meal is full.

Duanmu asked for a glass of wine anyway, because she was very happy.The consultation with He Ren this afternoon was the best one.Both parties were candid and productive.

So Duanmu listened to the cultural class with red wine.

And Yu Xiaobu is holding a cup of yogurt, and the tall and powerful woman is holding a small pot of yogurt, the scene is a bit funny.But Yu Xiaobu is content with himself.

"Watch the video!" Yu Xiaobu connected his phone to the TV.

Duanmu was surprised to find that it was a video of three sets of pictures spliced ​​together. From left to right, they were all videos of Duanmu swimming.

"Look, the video on the far left is when you hadn't learned how to swim with me. It was the time when you had cramps. You didn't have cramps at that time. The video in the middle is from your first swimming lesson. The far right is the last time. , you acted like a baby and refused to practice this time."

"Hey, hey, stop, first of all, make it clear, you secretly filmed me swimming? Then, what do you mean I'm acting like a baby?"