Urban Film and Television: Jiang Lai is the Top Choice
Chapter 167 Yang Chu's Interpretation
Yang Chu stepped forward and said it was Xu Li's fault, but Xu Li calmly looked at Yang Chu and let him explain.
If her perspective were reversed with Xu Li's, she definitely wouldn't be able to remain as calm as Xu Li.
This made Gu Jia see the differences between the group.
Those present naturally had no idea what Gu Jia was thinking, but Yang Chu smiled and explained to Gu Jia, "You just said that your ex-husband likes to drink some red wine and do some romantic things."
"That's right! My ex-husband really liked these things. He would occasionally surprise me with little things, take me out for Western food and wine, and create a romantic atmosphere. But in my opinion, he wasted that time and would have been better off reading more books on psychology!"
"That's the problem! You usually do things in a very methodical and calm way, without any dramatic moments, and you don't need any romantic surprises or anything like that. But your ex-husband wants more romance and surprises in your married life, and he often tries to create little romantic surprises for you. But the results are always unsatisfactory. Over time, do you think your ex-husband will become disappointed?"
After listening, Xu Li lowered her head thoughtfully.
Yang Chu continued to say to Xu Li, "You are a psychologist, so you naturally know more about many things than ordinary people. You can see at a glance why your ex-husband did those things. Although you may feel happy and satisfied inside, you appear rather indifferent. This gives your ex-husband the illusion that he has done something futile, and over time he will feel that you don't care about him. So that's the crux of your divorce."
After listening to Yang Chu's explanation, Xu Li picked up her red wine, took a sip, and said, "You're right! Actually, I noticed all of this a long time ago, but I didn't know how to express it to my ex-husband. Before I could think of a solution, my ex-husband had an affair, and we got divorced."
Yang Chu laughed and said, "If you treat your ex-husband the way you treat me, I don't think your ex-husband will have any complaints about you."
Hearing Yang Chu's words, Xu Li said with some confusion, "How could that be! What husband would want his wife to be so...uninhibited?"
What Xu Li actually meant was promiscuity. (To express another meaning using a different word)
But seeing so many people around, Xu Li had to be more tactful in her words.
Yang Chu smiled and said to Xu Li, "You must have heard the saying, 'She can grace the hall, cook in the kitchen, and sleep in bed with anyone.'"
Xu Li nodded and said, "Isn't this the kind of woman every man hopes his girlfriend is?"
Yang Chu shook his head and said, "You misunderstood. It's not that we men want our girlfriends to be like this, but that our life partners should be like this."
None of the women present understood the meaning behind Yang Chu's words. Some were deep in thought, while others waited for Yang Chu to continue.
Gu Jia looked at Yang Chu anxiously and said, "Stop keeping me in suspense, just tell me already!"
"Alright, then I'll explain it to you sentence by sentence. Being presentable in public doesn't mean that men expect you to achieve great things, but rather that when a man takes you out, you can make him proud."
"Long face?" X3
Xu Li, Zhong Xiaoqin, and Gu Jia all exclaimed in surprise at the same time.
"That's right, it's about saving face! Men are generally quite concerned about their image in public. If their partner can make them look good without them even realizing it, it satisfies a man's vanity and gives him face in front of his friends and colleagues. What man wouldn't like a woman like that?"
The women all glanced at Yang Chu, speechless.
However, Zhong Xiaoqin, Gu Jia, and Xu Li began to ponder it carefully.
Andy looked at Yang Chu with interest and said, "You've explained 'being presentable in public' very clearly. Now explain 'being able to cook.' Does a woman's ability to cook satisfy your vanity as men?"
Yang Chu raised his right hand, extended his index finger, and said, "No, no, no! Being able to cook doesn't mean that a woman can actually cook. It means that a woman can manage the household well and not let her husband worry. In short, it means that when a man works hard outside, he can come home to find the house neat and clean, and his wife respects his parents and teaches the children, so he doesn't have to worry about the trivial matters at home."
After hearing this, the women also lowered their heads and began to ponder.
After a while, Zhong Xiaoqin looked at Yang Chu and said, "What does 'being able to roll around on the big bed' mean?"
Yang Chu looked at Zhong Xiaoqin with a smile and said, "In everyone's simple understanding, 'being able to roll around in the big bed' means the sexual intercourse between husband and wife. But men are a special species with a strong sense of curiosity, so they like some novel things, or to put it bluntly, they like more variety."
After hearing this, Xu Li said disdainfully, "Let's not even talk about women like that abroad, just tell me how many you can find in China."
Yang Chu laughed and said, "That's why most married men think that other people's women are better than their own. The reason they will go out and have affairs is that if the quality is not good enough, they will make up for it with quantity."
"That's just an excuse for being a womanizer."
The other women also looked at Yang Chu with disdain, as if to say that no man is any good.
Jiang Lai then placed her hand on Yang Chu's waist and whispered, "Do you also think I'm not good enough? That's why you've been with so many women."
Yang Chu grinned and grabbed Jiang Lai's hand, saying, "Even if I have many other women, I will still keep you in my heart."
Jiang Lai wasn't an ungrateful woman. She leaned her head against Yang Chu's chest and said, "Okay, I know! I won't think nonsense anymore. As long as you don't go looking for those shady women, I won't blame you."
In fact, Jiang Lai had also thought about what Yang Chu had just said. She didn't think she could do what Yang Chu said, that she could be presentable in public, good at cooking, and good in bed. So she tacitly agreed with Yang Chu's idea that if the quality wasn't good enough, quantity would make up for it.
Gu Jia shook her head with a wry smile and looked at Yang Chu, saying, "The kind of woman you portray is something we certainly can't do, but do you think you men can do what we women want?"
Yang Chu shook his head and said, "You said it yourself, if women can't do it, then men naturally can't either. It's just that most women urge their men to become the way they imagine them to be. This inadvertently becomes a one-sided effort, and problems will inevitably arise sooner or later."
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