After returning to the wealthy family, I was abused by my biological parents

Raising children is a way to provide for your old age. This saying is outdated, but it is also in line with the real needs. It’s just that no one really does it now.

Because the whole society is in a state of internal competition, young people are under too much pressure to start a family and build a career.

They do not have the qualifications or capital to choose to provide for their parents in their old age, but you do not have these problems.

The significance of family is now reflected.

You just need to be outstanding and excellent, and then the resources that belong to you will be given to you, instead of having to fight for them like others, or even competing with countless people for a job.

You asked me what you should do. I am not you, but the advice I can give you is...

Think clearly about what you want to do after you become the head of the family.

What do you need to do to become a householder?

What can you do to successfully become the head of the family?

Only by working backwards can you understand at your current age what your future path will be.

You are not Chen Xiaolong. He grew up in this environment since he was a child. He knows many things and understands how to do them without being taught.

You don't have this innate foundation, so you need to work harder to surpass all your competitors in the future.

Whether you are fighting for the position of the head of the family or fighting for anything else you want after becoming the head of the family, it requires you to put in a lot of effort and continuous efforts.

Do you have confidence?

Chen Pingan still remained silent.

Chen Shaohua continued, "From today on, you don't need to ask me anything.

If you need my help with anything, just tell me what you need.

Your family will give you whatever they can, or provide help.

But the consequences, like Xiaolong, must be borne by you alone.

Standing in the position of the head of the family, I will neither stop you nor push you.

Make your own choices and take your own responsibility.”

Chen Pingan asked, "Since we want to fight, I want to know how many people are my opponents."

Chen Shaohua nodded, "Any other requests?"

“If I want to study abroad, how much help can my family give me?”

“Material help, for everything else, you have to fight for it yourself!

Do you really want to study abroad?"

Chen Pingan smiled and said, "No, I'm just asking.

Didn’t you say that?

I need to build up my network of contacts in China, so I don't plan to study abroad.

If I leave for more than two years, there's a high probability that people here will almost forget about me.

I want to be the person that other people go to for help, rather than me going to them for help.”

He recalled the conversation between Fang Hongjun and Fang Junhong, added his own understanding, and did not feel it was inappropriate at all when he said this.

Chen Shaohua nodded and said, "The direction is not wrong, but it is not pleasing.

Read more books, spend all your time and energy reading.

Don't fall in love in college, it's a waste of time.

If you grew up in the Chen family, I would not give you this advice.

In terms of character, you are born with deficiencies.

Do you understand what I mean?"

“What I understand is that I suddenly realized there was so much to learn.

This makes me feel a lot more stressed.

Competition is one thing, but I think learning always takes time. It’s impossible for me to know everything suddenly!

Besides, didn’t you and my mother also graduate from Beijing University? "

He asked a little embarrassedly.

Chen Shaohua pointed at himself and said, "Think about why I took your mother to the south instead of staying in Beijing?

Because at that time my father thought that my refusal to marry was a betrayal of family interests.

Your third uncle is not much worse than me, and I am unwilling to give in, so I have no choice but to leave.

It's actually pretty good now.

At least, I won't use you and Huihui to marry into other noble families.

Why don't you try it a few decades ago?"

Chen Pingan quickly waved his hands, "No, no, no, goodbye, I'd better go read a book.