The leader is my girlfriend

"It's very unexpected, but I can accept it. After all, children and grandchildren have their own blessings. It's hard for me to refuse something Wanwan likes."

This sentence affirmed Wang Yiming.

Hearing this, Wang Yiming quickly replied, "Since Grandpa Lu is already like this, maybe you can only think more positively."

Mr. Lu narrowed his eyes slightly and asked with interest, "Then tell me, how should I think about this matter?"

Wang Yiming replied seriously, "Since your granddaughter has made up her mind and has chosen me, why don't you look for my shining points and see if I have any advantages that would make you accept me. Of course, you can also think about whether your ideal partner, Wanwan, has any shortcomings that you cannot accept?"

"Your strengths are still waiting to be explored, but the weaknesses I'm interested in... I've been a soldier my whole life! So I've been thinking about finding a soldier for Wanwan. Tell me, what weaknesses could there be?"

"That's hard to say. If I say something wrong and anger you, you might kick me out of the Lu family right then and there. Then my trip today would be in vain!"

When Mr. Lu heard this, he immediately laughed, "You little brat, then feel free to speak boldly. I am not that petty."

With the old man's permission, Wang Yiming began his bold output.

"Okay, then I'll boldly report my thoughts to Grandpa Lu.

As a soldier, you naturally hope that Wanwan can find an equally outstanding military partner. There is nothing wrong with that.

But the problem is that you only consider the matter from the perspective of a soldier, but have never looked at it from the perspective of a military wife.

You know, an excellent soldier will certainly be loyal to the country and the people, but we cannot be sure that he will treat love wholeheartedly.

In life, there is such a phenomenon: those who treat their parents with great care and dedication may not be able to treat their wives and children with the same kindness. They may show filial piety and respect to their parents, but they may lack patience or care when facing their spouses and children.

Conversely, some men consider their wives and children the most important things in their lives, caring for them with utmost care and consideration. However, when it comes to brotherhood, they may not be as loyal and righteous as they thought. While they may be exemplary husbands and fathers at home, they may not truly demonstrate that deep sense of loyalty among their friends.

Furthermore, even those who value brotherhood might not necessarily be very filial to their parents. They might risk everything for their brothers, but they might neglect or fail to show sufficient respect and gratitude to their parents who gave birth to them.

As the saying goes, "No gold is pure, and no man is perfect." Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses. Even if someone has a firm belief in their country and is willing to sacrifice everything for it, this does not mean that they are flawless in other aspects and worthy of complete trust and reliance. After all, human character and behavior are multifaceted and complex, and one cannot judge a person's entire character based on a single factor.

Those young officers without a strong background, once they marry the granddaughter of a military leader like the Lu family, will surely rise to prominence in the future. I wonder how many people will yearn for such a situation!

If it weren't for the wrong timing, Liu Miaomiao would have loved to applaud Wang Yiming. He's definitely an excellent copy editor!

After a pause, Wang Yiming continued speaking.

"Of course, under the watchful eyes of someone as powerful as you, if Wanwan finally chooses a soldier as her partner, he will certainly not and dare not treat her badly. He may even be doubly nice to Wanwan because of your prominent status.

But how good can this kind of goodness be? Also, can you really bear to let Wanwan endure all the pain and hardships that a military wife has to endure? "

"That's complete nonsense! There's no such thing as pain. Being a military wife is an honor."

"Yes, it is indeed very glorious. But behind this glory lies endless bitterness and suffering. Military wives are always worried about the safety of their husbands who are away on missions. This is a disguised separation. In order to allow their husbands, who are soldiers, to serve without worries, military wives not only have to take good care of their own and their children's daily lives, but also serve their parents-in-law wholeheartedly and protect the family, which is the rear base.

Before they meet the requirements to accompany the troops, most wives of military personnel are forced to stay in their hometowns, fulfilling their filial duties and caring for their elderly parents. As a result, the couple's time together each year is limited, often less than a month. While military allowances may provide a comfortable material life, have you ever wondered what life is like when you're alone?

In their youth, they had no one to talk to, no one to share their joys and sorrows, and they had to experience all their happiness and sorrow alone. Even if they were sick, there was no one to lean on. Have you ever really considered living like this?

No, no, Liu Miaomiao had to secretly give a thumbs-up to the sister sitting next to her. This one of yours is amazing. She spoke at length, with solid arguments, and kept talking and talking…

"Even if their husbands' positions have been promoted to the level where they can accompany the army, as soldiers, they still have to go on missions every day. They are often away for months or even half a year. During this time, there is no news from them, and those wives can only guard their own small families alone.

Perhaps the views I just stated may seem a bit biased, but please allow me to say this: if you are willing to spend some time and energy to do an additional detailed statistics, you will be surprised to find that how many military wives are without their beloved partners during the life-and-death, extremely dangerous and painful moment of childbirth.

Shouldn't having a child be something a couple faces together? But the reality is that many military wives don't have their husbands by their side at that critical moment when they need support and dependence the most."

"You are talking nonsense."

"If it's a fallacy, then why are you angry? It's undeniable that military wives are indeed an extremely glorious existence. They silently dedicate themselves, stick to the rear, and give so much to the country and the army. But military wives are not necessarily happy, because their glory is built on sacrifice. So, in summary, marrying a soldier does not necessarily lead to happiness. Report completed."

"Oh, after all this talk, do you think you can make Wanwan happy?"

Wang Yiming suddenly stood up, his eyes firm and his words decisive, "I will do my best."

"Hmph, that sounds nice."

Classic Green Tea Quotes - I am here to join this family, not to break it up.

Xiao Ming used...

"It's nothing to say nice things, it's to do things well that counts. I know you're worried about leaving Wanwan to me, but it doesn't matter. I can leave myself to Wanwan.

I swear..."

Wang Yiming raised three fingers.

"If one day I let Lu Wanwan down, hurt Lu Wanwan's heart, and betray Lu Wanwan, then let me...

There will be no paper when going to the toilet, forgetting to bring keys when going out, no umbrella when it rains, choking when eating, choking when drinking water, burning the pot when cooking, and getting a stiff neck when sleeping.

I'll have pus on my face, sores on my feet, get hit by a car when I go out, and never have any money in my life. Please rest assured, I'm serious."

“……” For the first time, Mr. Lu was speechless. What a “vicious” oath!

At this moment, everyone at the dinner table was shocked. It sounded really miserable, much more real than being struck by lightning. No one expected that swearing an oath could be done in this way?

[Liu Miaomiao: No wonder he's the man her sister likes. His train of thought is truly extraordinary!]