The leader is my girlfriend

Looking at the large number of students and some female workers who had taken leave to come, Wang Yiming continued to speak.

"I asked myself the question and answered it myself. That is... because for a very long time, men believed that women were not capable of joining the army. They even issued an order that women were not allowed to enter the barracks and would be subject to military law if they violated it.

Are there any exceptions? Yes, except for military prostitutes in the past and comfort women from many years ago.

So, who assigned them there?

Answer: For men who can make decisions, the former treat women as rewards to soldiers, while the latter use women as shields or as a way to provide peace for a period of time.

In other words, men discriminate against women first, treating them alongside gold, silver, treasures, antiques, calligraphy, and paintings as objects of enjoyment and consumables. Then, once women truly become independent, men begin to express dissatisfaction with the loss of control, essentially believing they are being subjected to reverse discrimination.

There is a hat called "This Woman is Restless". It roughly means that she is disobedient, does not listen to being manipulated, and even resists.

In the past, there was an idiom called "Men farm and women weave", which means the small peasant economy in feudal society, where each family runs the business, men farm and women weave, and the whole family divides the work.

But obviously, times have changed, and this is no longer the case... For example:

Men go to the fields and earn 10 work points, but these 10 work points cannot support the food supply of a family. At this time, female comrades also have to go to the fields with them. They can earn 6 work points, and the better ones can get 8-10 work points. Female comrades begin to share the workload that men need to do to support the family.

But, in addition to this... lesbians also have to take on, and it's not an exaggeration to say, all the housework. Of course, there's a very good reason for this, which is that it has always been like this since ancient times... right!

So I personally think that sometimes borrowing is not necessarily correct, and it may be used to cover up some false truth. "

Wang Yiming tapped a few words on the blackboard and said, "Let's get back to the main topic:

In the social division of labor, gay men often shoulder most of the high-risk jobs, such as joining the army to defend the country, mining resources in mines, and engaging in arduous logging operations.

But this phenomenon does not seem to be accidental, but rather results from the long-standing tendency of men to impose weak attributes on women, which is a subjective belief that - I don't think you can do it, so I refuse you to do it.

These so-called work customs are actually the result of men placing women at a long-standing economic disadvantage.

Is it really impossible? Can all women be said to be unable to do it? No way! "

He looked at Wang Huaichun who wanted to speak, and said with a smile, "Don't be impatient, let me finish explaining first." Then, Wang Yiming continued to look at everyone in the venue.

"Why do we now say 'women hold up half the sky'? Besides the fact that my country's population is relatively small compared to history, the more important reason is that during World War II, many women comrades actively participated in it and made great contributions.

Not only did they participate in thrilling underground missions, they also bravely formed a female squadron to charge into battle.

Some served as medical personnel in the rear, saving lives and providing medical support to soldiers on the front lines;

Some are dedicated to the manufacture and production of weapons and ammunition to ensure adequate supplies for the troops;

At the same time, they worked tirelessly to make military uniforms and shoes to meet the soldiers' living needs.

In addition, even in such a difficult war environment, women still shoulder the responsibility of reproducing offspring for men. Apart from the fact that there are no means of contraception, how many male comrades are repeatedly reminded by their elders before going to the battlefield not to cut off the roots and to leave behind the incense, so women must complete the task of giving birth.

This defense battle belongs to the entire ZG people. It is precisely because of the hard work and dedication of countless female predecessors that we have the resounding saying "Women hold up half the sky".

Time flies. Are those brave and fearless figures, the fruits of their hard work, now so quickly gone? Are we going to return to the ancient and established conventions?

That shouldn't be the case! Then...

Let’s get back to the original topic. I always get off track while talking.

Although lesbians possess their own abilities, they face various restrictions and discrimination, which significantly reduces their social contributions and, in turn, reduces social welfare. So, how can this problem be solved?

The answer is that it is solved by having men take on more work and fulfill more obligations, which is exactly the essence of what many gay men believe to be so-called "reverse discrimination."

To understand this, we might as well go back to history. Before the founding of New China, polygamy was practiced. Many gay men liked it very much. No matter what they themselves felt, most of them had a yearning for it.

But in fact, men have paid a heavy price for discrimination since ancient times. Polygamy occurs without exception in a patriarchal social environment, where men almost monopolize all social resources.

Those ladies from prominent families were strictly required to follow the ancient precept of "never step out of the boudoir after three steps". Even women who became prostitutes had to be carried all the way by pimps to ensure that their feet never touched the ground.

In such a social atmosphere, it is impossible for women to achieve economic independence. It is indeed extremely difficult. They have to rely on the economic resources owned by men to survive.

So, the final result is... there will be multiple women who rely on a male individual who has an advantage in economic resources. This is the background of polygamy.

What price do men have to pay? Let's take another example:

If one man has 10 women at the same time, what will the situation be like for the corresponding 9 men?

If we infer based on this correspondence, does it mean that the vast majority of men actually belong to one of these nine groups? So what about us ordinary gay men?

Whether it is you or me, we are not abandoned by polygamy, but protected by monogamy, which gives us the opportunity to marry and have children.