The leader is my girlfriend

Liu Miaomiao was furious. "But then he told me that these were the basic rules of conduct for a good wife and mother, like washing clothes and cooking, wiping the table and sweeping the floor. He even told me what brand of shoe polish he used on his leather shoes. Bah, does he still have any shame? Or did someone give him some shameless face, and he became a double-faced person."

The first one was so awesome, Wang Yiming was looking forward to the other one, "What about the other one?"

Liu Miaomiao's anger turned into a sneer.

"There was another one. Before the food even arrived, he came up to me and told me that after we got married, I couldn't spend money so lavishly. He told me that I had to do my best to take good care of his father, mother, and brother. He also kept telling me how difficult his mother's life was and asked me to be a good daughter-in-law and sister-in-law.

What I find most ridiculous is that he also said his sister would help me with the housework. It seems that the men in his family are just sitting around doing nothing! Who doesn't have a job? Who doesn't have a salary? I don't rely on him for support. Who is he to make arrangements for me? Even if I didn't have a job and had to rely on others for support, I wouldn't consider someone like him.

"Wow!" It's been a while since I heard Pu Xinnan's story.

Wang Yiming had heard an analysis of women's consciousness before.

Over the past 100 years, three generations of women have undergone tremendous changes and awakenings in their concepts and lifestyles:

The first generation, the grandmothers in their 40s and 50s, had no salary or income, but they were able to work, endure hardships, and work tirelessly, without complaint, and took care of the family as their natural duty;

The second generation, the mothers in their 60s and 70s, have a salary, an income, can work, endure hardships, go to work, take care of children, and take care of the elderly. They can balance work and family, a perfect match, shining with gold, taking things out and taking them home;

The third generation is those born in the 80s, 90s, and 00s... They have wages and incomes, and they are the first to fight for gender equality. They require their partners to share the housework, or they can do extra work but get corresponding reasonable financial compensation.

At the same time, the word "raise" has become more concrete and diversified. It is no longer about having enough food to keep from being hungry or warm to keep from being cold, but about consumption, maintenance, free time, and independent space.

What about good wife and mother, virtuous and virtuous, chaste and good wife... What about selfless dedication, sacrificing oneself for the family, and not asking for anything in return... Female comrades simply don't want to take advantage of such pie, don't wear small shoes, don't wear flattery, and all the words that are said for your own good go in one ear and out the other.

Originally, there was no road in the world. But as more people walked on it, a road appeared, and thus the road to women's awakening began...

Correspondingly, some men in the male group cannot accept this and try to use various methods to transform the third-generation women into second-generation women. This is because they can neither tolerate the overly independent third-generation women nor look down on the relatively traditional first-generation women. The second-generation women are the most cost-effective choice, and marrying them home can save them a lot of internal and external troubles.

As for how to change? We are still exploring...

(Why are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law becoming more and more common? Because the daughter-in-law no longer wants to eat the grievances of the mother-in-law's generation, and no longer wants to do the hard labor of the mother-in-law's generation. There is no one to inherit the dirty and hard work of the family, and the mother-in-law has no hope, so the family is in chaos.)

Liu Miaomiao is a typical third-generation woman, but she was born in the era of second-generation women. Her ideas and views are extremely abrupt. Although she has ideas, they are not widely recognized.

Liu Miaomiao grew increasingly irritated as she spoke. "His mother had it hard? What does this have to do with me? Who do I know his mother? It must have been hard for his mother all these years. He was blind and couldn't see. But now he can see again when he wants to go on a blind date? And then he asks his partner to make up for his mother's hardship. And he's giving me serious targets, asking me to have two children in three years, three in five years, and the first one has to be a boy. Bah, am I a pig?"

Liu Miaomiao noticed the look from her sister Lu Wanwan again and quickly explained,

"Sister, I'm not talking about you. I'm talking about that arrogant, self-righteous man. He treated having children as a task target. He had the nerve to ask others for it on the first meeting. What era is it now? He should have died long ago."

Wang Yiming nodded to show his understanding. Since there was such a sharp contrast in the beginning, the latter part should be well received.

"What about those soldiers I introduced to you? Is there no one you like?"

Liu Miaomiao shook her head again. "I'm not discriminating against people from different regions. Five out of eight people speak dialects. After I get married, I'll probably have to join the army. If I don't, then staying in Beijing will be like... a left-behind child."

"No, you are an elderly widower." Wang Yiming changed her words.

...Liu Miaomiao reacted,

"Pooh, pooh, pooh, you almost led me astray. That's called a widowhood marriage."

"It's really trendy. This word exists now." Xiao Ming gave a thumbs up.

"So you said this relationship... It's hard to describe in a few words, and I'm speechless." Finally, Liu Miaomiao summed up her tragic experience.

"Then take your time. Why are you in such a hurry? You are only in your early 20s. As the saying goes, good food is never too late, and a good woman will never have trouble finding a husband. If you don't want to marry, then don't marry. It's better to have one fresh peach than a basket of rotten apricots. If we are destined to meet, we will meet even if we are thousands of miles apart. If we are not destined to meet, we will not meet even if we are face to face. Drink today and tomorrow...ah, wife, pinch me." Lu Wanwan stopped Wang Yiming from talking.

Liu Miaomiao immediately applauded, saying, "Well said! That's exactly what I think!" Then she quickly shared the words she had heard so many times that her ears were callused.

"My mom said it was her mission, and if I didn't get married, her mission wouldn't be complete. My dad said I was his face, and if I didn't get married, he would feel embarrassed."

"What about your brother?" If you want to urge someone, you should urge your son first. After all, they are not a family that needs to exchange their daughter for a betrothal gift. Wang Yiming raised his question.

"He is fine, his mind is pure and he continues to be out of contact." Liu Miaomiao really envied this big brother who was wandering around the world.

"What about my uncle? He's single too. If you want to go on a blind date, let's have a companion!" Wang Yiming joined in the fun and made a fuss.

"We are in the same boat. He doesn't live at home anymore. He's gone to the company dormitory under the pretext of a business trip and asked me to keep it a secret. He took a leave of absence today to help me move things, fearing he'd be discovered."

"...So you just hid away like this, but hiding alone is useless, it's only treating the symptoms and not the root cause." The eternal proposition of urging marriage, where there are people, there are rivers and lakes, where there are families, there are urging marriage.

Liu Miaomiao spread her hands. She was no longer afraid of the scalding water.

"Then let's just take it one step at a time. The longer we can delay, the better. Anyway, their family visit leave is only a month long. If they leave on the appointed day, who knows when we'll see each other again. By then, no one will be bothering me anymore, and I can start a new life and be liberated."

However, what no one expected was that Liu Miaomiao's escape from the pressure to get married only lasted less than a day. When she got off work the next day, not to mention Liu Miaomiao, even Wang Yiming was shocked by the scene before them.