I stole your luck and caused my wife's death, making you regret being a human being.

And the other side.

Su Ying went out.

Dong Hua asked, "Brother, this is the case. I want to ask if you can lend me some money."

Zheng Wendong said, "No, I do have some money, but I won't lend it to you."

He is so sincere.

Dong Hua was stunned.

He didn't expect his elder brother to refuse.

I thought I could borrow some money, or even better, 15,000.

This caught him off guard.

I couldn't say the rest of the words.

Zheng Wendong didn't speak on his own initiative, nor did he ask him why he wanted to borrow money.

In the end, Dong Hua changed the topic and after chatting for a while, Zheng Wendong sent him downstairs and left.

Before leaving, Dong Hua said, "Brother, I was so abrupt. Just pretend I wasn't here today. Don't create a rift between you and me because of this loan."

Zheng Wendong could tell that the third brother was sincere in what he said.

He didn't blame himself for not lending the money.

I'm even afraid that this will create a rift between brothers.

But he still didn't change his mind, just nodded, "Okay."

Didn't say much.

Watching Dong Hua leave.

He went to the park to pick up Su Ying and her daughter.

Dabao had a mosquito bite on her hand, and she felt wronged. When she saw Zheng Wendong, she immediately screamed "Ahhhh".

Zheng Wendong took a look and saw a bump on the white, plump little hand.

Go back and apply medicine to her.

After applying the medicine, the little guy stretched out his other chubby little arm. This arm was not bitten, it was just because he was addicted to the medicine.

Zheng Wendong was surprised. "Su Ying, she seems to have her own little thoughts."

New parents.

I am interested in every change in the child, from looking at people, crying, feeling wronged, to having little thoughts.

Zheng Wendong pretended to apply the medicine to her other hand and said, "It's done."

Dabao raised his two little arms and kicked his legs with satisfaction.

Put her on the bed to play, and the fan shook its head and blew towards her.

Zheng Wendong took the initiative to speak, "The third brother came here to borrow money."

Su Ying guessed it.

Zheng Wendong lay beside his daughter, his hands resting on the back of his head: "I didn't lend it to him."

I borrowed it in my previous life, but not in this life.

But I have to say that the third brother has a good attitude.

There was no borrowing, no falling out, and no gossip behind people's backs.

Even apologized.

This made Zheng Wendong realize a truth.

If you don't lend money, nothing will happen. Others may even feel guilty about asking you for a loan. Just have normal dealings with you.

You borrow money and can't get it back. If you ask someone to pay it back, they will complain that you are rushing them and they will hold a grudge against you.

So to summarize.

Don’t borrow, nothing will happen. If you borrow, a lot of trouble will happen.

Zheng Wendong thought to himself, it turns out that people are always learning throughout their lives.

Su Ying lay down beside him, leaning on his chest and chatting with the couple, "Are you worried that they will say you are unkind?"

After all, brothers and sisters grew up together.

But the environment of the Dong family is really...

Having one child might be less troublesome.

Zheng Wendong looked at the ceiling. "I'm poor. I have to support my wife and children, and I can barely make ends meet. If you think I'm being unkind, then they're just being unreasonable. It's better to have less contact with us than more. I have nothing to worry about."

When brothers and sisters get married, they each have their own family.

Everyone has something that they put first in their hearts, but this first thing will never be brothers and sisters.

The first person in Zheng Wendong's heart now is Su Ying, and the second is Dabao.

Su Ying sighed and said as she listened to his heartbeat.

"In fact, parents give birth to brothers and sisters because they hope that they can help each other..."

"It's not that I don't want you to help the family."

"It's just that your parents are not fair, and we can't get involved, otherwise..."

Zheng Wendong hugged her and responded, "Yes."

If the biological mother and stepfather must say which of their children they love more, it would definitely be the third child.

But if you ask them who they think is sensible, it must be Dong Si.

Not because they love someone.

Rather, it was the third child who gave them the ability to win face in front of their relatives and friends.

Dong Sihui helped them with many tasks, such as selling tofu. Dong Sihui felt sorry for his parents and was afraid that they would be tired, so he worked hard himself and did the most.

The ones they pamper and love are the children who can benefit them.

Su Ying said, "If my parents-in-law had a little consideration for their children, they should have stopped my third and second brothers from borrowing money."

If you don't treat your children equally, do you think that when this one becomes successful, he will drag his brothers down? I don't know whether he will drag his brothers down or not, but the brothers' wives will definitely feel alienated.

Su Ying didn't need to think to guess that Ma Xiaoyan would definitely have a quarrel with Dong Cai.

However, I'm afraid the Dong family will only think that Ma Xiaoyan has no vision and is unreasonable. It's normal for brothers to help each other.

Zheng Wendong listened to Su Ying's words carefully.

These little tricks.

It took him a lifetime to understand.

Su Ying was only in his twenties, but he could see things clearly.

When I was young, I thought siblings were more important than my wife.

When I grew up, I realized that in an environment like the Dong family, brothers and sisters compete with each other for their parents' resources.

Zheng Wendong murmured, "I used to think that children shouldn't worry about their parents' things. They should get them themselves and give them to whoever they want."

Su Ying looked up and saw his chin. "People are all made of flesh and blood. Don't say that you brothers haven't reached the point where you can ignore money. Even if you really have, you won't compete for money, but you will compete for fairness in your parents' hearts."

"My father once said..."

"Parents should either give nothing to anyone and keep the money to themselves, or give it evenly. Don't give it to whoever you want under the pretense that it's yours. If the family is in turmoil in their old age, they will be the culprit."

Zheng Wendong nodded.

What my father-in-law said makes sense.

Just like Dong Si.

In her previous life, she worked hard to buy a house and didn't care about her parents' property. When her parents asked her brothers for help, she still had to take care of them. She was the one who contributed the most and took care of her parents the most.

Seeing her parents relying on her brothers, she had to work hard for everything, and she did not miss out on the promised support from her brothers in their old age.

The contrast of disappointment is almost there.

Zheng Wendong held Su Ying in his arms, staring at the ceiling and muttering, "Brothers and sisters compete for resources... Having too many children is really useless."

He himself is a son.

Doesn’t he know whether having a son can provide for his old age?

The person in the Dong family who is best equipped for elderly care and does the best job is Dong Si.

Su Ying yawned, patted Dabao, who had turned over and had his face pressed against the bamboo mat, and said, "Not really. It depends on the family. Having a head patriarch who can pull the family together and is absolutely objective is beneficial. There are also true brothers and sisters in the world who have the best relationships."

"Just like my biological father and my second uncle."

"My dad took my mom away from my second uncle, but my second uncle didn't turn against me. My dad took over the family power, but he didn't try to hinder my second uncle in private. We worked together very well."

Zheng Wendong found it amazing.

And this story.

His sincere words

"The brotherhood between my father-in-law and I is truly strong."