In the book, the female supporting role dreams of being an idle fish

Because I don't want to raise someone else's child.

Ruined his own life.

Gu Lixia didn't know how to teach this girl to love herself.

……

When Gu Lixia was a child, she only loved herself and her brother, and even hated her parents who went out to work.

Because my brother and I have to take care of our father and his family.

Anyone in this family can bully these two siblings.

Gu Lixia was even forced by her cousins ​​to drink her cousin's urine.

At first, only children knew about this.

But the little kids will go out and show off.

Later, the other adults in the family found out.

That's it.

No one will stand up for Lixia.

Gu Lixia learned to protect herself.

Later, after I went out, I never talked about my family with my classmates and friends.

It is the obligation of parents to provide them with food, clothing, shelter and transportation, and they will also support them according to their contributions.

As for the three blood-related strangers who were brought out, they didn't have to be raised by themselves anyway.

It's just verbal filial piety.

Gu Lixia only likes her brother who depends on her for everything, but later on, because of the aborted child and the choice of heir to the family business, she discovered.

It turns out that siblings can become rivals.

But after my brother inherited the family business, he got more. I didn't have to work, had no responsibilities, and had money to spend, so I was very happy.

So when it comes to leaving, I just feel like the person is gone but the money is not spent.

……

Gu Lixia conducted a survey and all the women in the company participated.

In fact, most women love their children, husbands, and parents throughout their lives, but forget to love themselves.

After marriage, apart from work, all my time and energy were given to my children and family, and I almost never went out shopping or sightseeing.

Perhaps many people think that marriage is a watershed in a woman’s life.

In fact, the real dividing line is when a woman becomes a mother. Her previous desire for beauty and travel with friends will disappear and she will no longer think of them.

Someone said: A woman's life can be summarized as "one day queen, ten months concubine, a lifetime nanny."

If you think about it carefully, it is really like this. On the wedding day, you will be admired by everyone.

Carrying you for ten months, holding you in my palm;

After giving birth, I took care of the child, cared for my husband, and looked after my parents, but I forgot about my own tired self.

Buying things: belts, shirts, rice, noodles, grains, oil, meat, eggs, milk...

Look at those cold data.

Gu Lixia really wanted to ask these women loudly.

You bought so many things for your family, but what did you buy for yourself?

Yet, these women will say.

I didn’t buy anything because I felt like I didn’t need anything, and there was nothing I liked.

Yes!

Thoughts like these seem to be the common voice of most mothers.

As the child grows up under the mother's earnest advice and teachings, his academic performance is among the best.

With the increasing care from his wife, the husband has changed from a handsome and elegant man to a lazy man with big shoulders and waist who enjoys the fruits of his wife's labor.

Under the careful care of their daughter, the parents also leisurely danced square dance and played chess.

how about you?

Woman, how long has it been since you took a good look at yourself in the mirror?

Gu Lixia follows a blogger who, before she got married, really lived paycheck to paycheck. She wore the most expensive clothes, bought all kinds of bags, and paid attention to taking care of herself.

However, after getting married, she often told her fans that the total amount of clothes she wears now is less than 200 yuan, and she even wears a pair of shoes or a piece of clothing for two to three years.

But she doesn't blink an eye when buying clothes for her children, but she is so stingy with herself that she feels it is a waste to spend even a penny more.

In real life, how many women, when buying clothes for themselves, after choosing left and right for half a day, say: Forget it, I don’t like it very much.

However, is it that you don’t like it or that you can’t bear to give it up?

Perhaps they have forgotten that in the trivial life, there are oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, but no love for beauty, freedom and life...

Love yourself, love your children, love your man. Some people may say it is selfish, but this is the order and state a woman should have.

No husband likes a wife who is unkempt and listless.

No child likes a mother who looks like a shrew.

Because the blogger went to pick up her child from kindergarten without wearing lipstick, her child angrily ordered her to go home and put on lipstick before picking her up.

Life is both complex and simple.

So, what is the purpose of life?

Gu Lixia started living another life, but still couldn't figure it out.

There are still four years before Jiang Xiu graduates and takes over.

Four years is enough time.

Gu Lixia planned to order Jiang Wen around as much as possible every day.

Let Jiang Xiu take a look at her perfect brother.

Will she still be attracted to those yellow-haired guys outside?

……

Gu Lixia waited and looked at the watch on her wrist. It was already half an hour before work.

Then he spoke again, "I'll go wake up your brother and the other two brothers. You take care of Huaixi."

After that, he went out.

After being called, Gu Lixia went to the main room and poured out half of the hot water in the thermos. She also drew some cold water from the space.

Pretend that he fell down before going to Xiu'er's room.

Each family member should drink a bowl of warm water.

They are all completely awake.

Lock the door, leave the family compound, and go separately.

In the afternoon, some go to work, and some go to school.

I waited until the end of get off work and went home.

Gu Lixia cooked red bean and vegetable rice again.

After dinner, Jiang Xiu took the children out.

Jiang Wen and Gu Lixia began to prepare for digging the cellar.

"Lixia, where should we put the dug-out soil?" Jiang Wen was worrying about the small pile of soil he had dug out.

Gu Lixia directly put it into the open space in the space yard.

Jiang Wen looked at the pile of soil that disappeared in the blink of an eye. It took him a long time to realize where the soil had gone.

The main task was to dig a cellar downwards. Gu Lixia had no other handy tools except the two shovels in the space.

So it took two hours.

The two men worked hard to dig a square hole that was one meter deep.

Jiang Huaibei, who was out playing, was the happiest. He first performed two tongue twisters he had learned to the uncles, aunts, and other sisters in the family compound.

Also in hopscotch, one person left all the kids of the same age behind and walked to the front, and was the first person to successfully get the number nine.

The hopscotch organization broke up on bad terms.

The children started playing tag again.

It's not just one eagle and dozens of chickens.

But it is half eagle and half chicken.

The chicken failed miserably.

The game of eagle catches chickens is over.

So we started playing 123 Stone Man again.

Jiang Huaibei is the one who catches the wooden man.

As long as Jiang Huaibei looks back a little to the left and right, he can catch 2 to 3 people.