In the book, the female supporting role dreams of being an idle fish

The eldest child is born with a responsibility to protect his or her younger siblings. This responsibility is innate, which invisibly reduces a lot of burden on the family.

When the elderly have problems, they think of the eldest brother first.

After talking about the eldest brother, let’s talk about the third brother.

In a family, the youngest son must be the one who is spoiled. When he is doing work, the older and second oldest sons will take over, and his older sister will help him. When there is something delicious to eat, his parents will think of the youngest son first.

In fact, this kind of over-indulgence is wrong. We have seen too many cases where children made mistakes or even committed crimes due to over-indulgence, and even some extreme cases occurred.

When parents are young, they treat their youngest son best, but the more their parents love a child, the less filial he or she tends to be.

If there are three children in a family, the most embarrassed one is the second child. He is protected by his older brother and spoiled by his younger brother. He becomes a supporting role. He has to go to the eldest child for problems and the third child for good things. It is as if he does not exist. This awkward position makes him unwelcome.

This situation actually occurs in many families. With the development of the times, the words of the older generation are not entirely reasonable, but in some aspects they still seem to make sense.

Gu Lixia was a little stuck for a moment and didn't know how to comfort Jiang Huaibei.

But Gu Lixia knew that when people get along with each other, the most frightening thing is to be silent, to be mute, and to make people guess.

After all, no one has the ability to read minds and guess what others are thinking.

Gu Lixia made a promise, "Don't worry, grades can't determine whether you're a good kid or not. I've always thought you were a good kid. I used to lament why my brother was so unruly, and that was all because of the comparison with you."

"When you go to school, if you have any ideas, just tell me. As long as I can do it, I will definitely satisfy you. Auntie is making new clothes for you now. Next Sunday, we will go to Guangming Photo Studio to take pictures."

"Actually, I don't know if you'll be able to excel in school. It's not that important. It doesn't matter if you can't learn in school. There are so many people at home, they will definitely teach you."

"What's more, before your younger brother was born, you were the one who was given the most attention. Your elder brother Huainan also faced the same problem. You can talk to your brother before going to bed."

"To me, besides my second uncle, you are the most important. Really, believe me. But I won't treat my elder brother and younger brother poorly in other places..."

As he was speaking, Jiang Huainan came over and called him to eat.

Sitting at the dinner table, the two brothers were still angry and did not sit together. Jiang Huaibei sat next to Gu Lixia.

Gu Lixia also indulged him and kept picking food for Jiang Huaibei.

It’s actually shredded cucumber.

But Jiang Huaibei was happy.

I don’t know how they coaxed Jiang Huaixi, he was still angry.

After dinner, Jiang Wen gave the children a bath.

When taking a nap at noon, Jiang Huaixi would take it with Jiang Xiu.

Jiang Huaibei proposed to sleep with Gu Lixia and Jiang Wen, and the two naturally would not refuse.

Since there was an extra child, naturally he didn't enter the space.

Jiang Huaibei slept in the middle. He was used to taking a nap and fell asleep immediately.

Gu Lixia and Jiang Wen also fell asleep, and the system woke them up at the appointed time.

Gu Lixia called Jiang Wen and went to work.

Jiang Huaibei got up, and Gu Lixia and Jiang Wen went to work in the morning.

I pushed the door open and there was no one in the yard.

I went to their brother's house, but no one was there.

Jiang Huaibei's mood has not yet calmed down.

Naturally, I don’t want to go out and play.

So he went back to Gu Lixia and Jiang Wen's house.

After Jiang Xiu woke up, she took Jiang Huaixi out to see Jiang Huainan and the others play.

When I felt that Jiang Huaibei should have woken up, I came back, opened the door and took a look.

Jiang Huaibei is sitting.

I saw Jiang Xiu bringing Jiang Wen.

He didn't get angry with Jiang Xiu either.

Jiang Xiu reached out and handed Jiang Huaixi to Jiang Huaibei, and both of them refused to communicate.

There was no other way, Jiang Xiu forced Jiang Huaibei and Jiang Huaixi to go out and play.

But this time the two kids were really angry.

Both of them talked to Jiang Huainan, but neither of them spoke.

When Gu Lixia came home from get off work, she first asked Jiang Xiu about the situation between the two brothers and asked, "Have you reconciled?"

Jiang Xiu shook her head.

Gu Lixia drove the geese out of the goose house and took Jiang Huaibei to release them.

After releasing the geese, I came back to eat and wash up.

Ever since the two brothers got angry, they ignored each other.

At night, when it was time to go to bed, Jiang Huaixi became even more stubborn and refused to go back to their room. He wanted to sleep with Jiang Xiu.

Jiang Xiu couldn't refuse Jiang Huaixi either.

Jiang Huainan and Jiang Huaibei, who had returned to the house early, had already gone to bed.

Jiang Huaibei was still waiting for his younger brother to apologize to him, and said that as long as his younger brother apologized, he would let this matter go.

As a result, my brother didn't come in for a long time.

Jiang Huaibei thought his brother was a coward.

I also made a decision in my heart that as long as my younger brother ignored me, I would ignore him too, and see who can outlast the other.

The one who felt uncomfortable was Jiang Huainan.

I just helped my aunt to light a fire, and my two younger brothers started fighting.

Even half a day had passed and no one paid any attention to each other.

Things and phenomena that have never happened before.

This put Jiang Huainan in a dilemma.

In Jiang Huainan's own memory, he has always taken good care of his two younger brothers.

Before Jiang Huaixi came into being, my days in the staff housing complex were very happy and relaxing.

At that time, Jiang Huainan was not yet old enough to go to school.

Every day I would sit under that tree and play hopscotch with a group of kids from the housing estate.

All you need is a piece of open space, a piece of chalk or a branch, draw nine squares of hopscotch, and then play together.

Jiang Huainan had no experience fighting with his own brother, but he had experience fighting with the children in the family compound.

At that time, whenever there was a fight, the parents of other children would come over and scold Jiang Huainan.

Jiang Huainan remembered that his mother would always ask him to apologize, no matter whether he was right or wrong, because it was always his fault.

At that time, Jiang Huainan thought that it would be nice if he had a younger brother.

Isn’t it said that brothers fight tigers together and fathers and sons fight together in battle?

So after Jiang Huaibei came into being, Jiang Huainan was very happy.

With Jiang Huaixi, I was happy at first.

But later his mother passed away, and Jiang Huainan still... still hated his younger brother.

But seeing grandpa, dad, aunt and uncle, each of them carefully handling this little brother, it was not easy to pull him up.

Jiang Huainan also knew that every woman who gave birth went through the gates of hell. Some could survive, while others would die.

My younger brother is not someone I wanted, but someone my parents decided to have.

My mother gave up her young life for my younger brother.

Therefore, Jianghuai South will have a preference for Jianghuai North.

But no matter how much favoritism he shows, it will not be excessive. After all, Jiang Huaixi is also his younger brother.

It’s just that Jiang Huainan thinks Jiang Huaixi is still young, and Jiang Huaibei can forgive his younger brother on his own.