Quick Wear: Don't Follow the Plot and Feel Good

"Let me ask you again, are you going to get married or not? If you don't, I will jump from here!" Bai Feng, standing on the roof of a high-rise building, roared at Bai Lingling.

Bai Lingling never thought that she would be forced into such a situation just because she didn't want to get married.

She listened to the whispers of people around her, or their careless discussions.

"How old is this girl? Why hasn't she gotten married yet?"

"That's right, what woman doesn't get married?"

"If you don't get married and have children, are you still a woman?"

What’s even more disgusting is that the people who say this the most are women themselves.

Bai Lingling thought of her mother's aggressive behavior in the past.

"Lingling, what did you say to the boys in your class today? Your task now is to study hard, understand?"

"Bai Lingling, why are you wearing a skirt? You're so indecent. Who are you trying to seduce?"

"Lingling, Mom is doing this for your own good. All men are bad, don't you know that?"

After Bai Lingling graduated from university,

"Lingling, it's time for you to find a boyfriend. Xiaolin next door is getting married soon."

"Mom, didn't you say that all men are bad?" Bai Lingling was confused.

"Mom, I'm afraid you'll learn bad things. But women still have to get married." Bai Feng said embarrassedly.

"Mom, you've been married, are you happy?" Years of brainwashing have made Bai Lingling have no interest in marriage or men.

"My time was different. I already had you. Besides, if I don't get married, what will the neighbors think? Won't they all laugh at us? Where will I put my dignity?"

"So, you asked me to get married, to put it bluntly, just for your face!"

"Bang!" Bai Feng was furious. "I worked so hard to raise you, and this is how you repay me? I'm telling you, I don't care who you marry, you have to get married!"

Then there were endless blind dates. What was even more outrageous was that at most, he went on 7 blind dates in one day.

Unfortunately, Bai Lingling does not have a beautiful face or the ability to bewitch people, so she has had at least seventy or eighty blind dates, if not hundreds.

None of them succeeded.

Feeling increasingly tired and hopeless about life, she realized she could no longer listen to her mother and began to rebel.

He ran to Shenzhen alone and started working hard from the bottom.

Five or six years passed like this, and he went from being a low-level handyman who couldn't even pay the rent to a manager, and his income also improved.

During this period, she never returned home and did not contact her family except to send them living expenses.

These years were also the easiest years for her, and she gradually found herself again.

Unfortunately, the good times didn't last long. Bai Feng got her address from somewhere and ran to her company, making a big fuss.

"Bai Lingling, I think you've gone crazy! You haven't come home or gotten married in all these years! Come on, come home with me. I've introduced you to someone, and we're already engaged. Let's get married when we get home!"

As he spoke, he pulled Bai Lingling. Bai Lingling didn't move and struggled to get free.

"I'm not going back! I'm not getting married!"

"Pa!" Another slap hit her face. "What did you say? You don't want to get married? Say it again!"

Knowing that there were many people gathered at the door of the manager's office to watch the excitement, Bai Lingling felt embarrassed and anxious: "Yes, hit me! I won't get married even if you kill me!"

Bai Feng realized that Bai Lingling was no longer easy to control, so he let her go and ran to the roof, starting the scene at the beginning.

Hearing the accusations from those around her and recalling the endless depression and despair in the past, she clearly knew that even if she got married, she could not escape her mother's control.

So she ignored Bai Feng, ran to the edge of the roof before her, and jumped down.

"I just don't understand. Is there anything wrong with not getting married? Why would people look down on you?"

Jiang replied, "There's nothing wrong with not getting married. Looking down on you is just a way to force you into marriage. As for whether you'll live a good life after marriage, that's not their concern."

Maybe they themselves are in a mess after getting married, and seeing that those who have to get married have an easy life without family conflicts, they want to drag others into the same mess.”

"What about my mother? Her own marriage was unhappy. My grandmother disliked her, and her husband often cheated on her. Finally, she couldn't stand it anymore and divorced him. But now she's forcing me to get married. Why is that?"

"Didn't you see it clearly at the time? It was for her face. You are her daughter, but it seems you are not. You are something she wants to carve, and she hopes you will be obedient and not disobey her."

"How about this, it's been a while since we used soul swapping. Let her experience what she once asked you to do. How about it?" said Ginger.

"Soul swap?! It sounds fun. This time I want to be the adult!" Bai Lingling was very excited.

Soul swapping begins.

In order to avoid tongue twisters, the names are also reversed.

At this time, Bai Feng had just started kindergarten.

"Bai Feng! Who told you to wear a skirt? Take it off quickly and put on these pants!" Bai Lingling shouted at Bai Feng.

Bai Feng was bewildered. "Is she talking to me?" "Am I not an adult?" She looked down at her own small hands and feet.

I realized something was wrong, ran to the bedroom, picked up the mirror and looked at myself. Isn't this me as a child? And how did I become my daughter's daughter?

Bai Lingling looked at Bai Feng, who was still wearing her skirt, and was furious. "Bai Feng! Didn't I tell you to change your pants? Why don't you take off your skirt? Who are you planning to seduce at school?!"

Bai Feng took a moment to adjust, wondering if she had been reborn again? This time, mother and daughter were reversed. My daughter listened to me so much in her last life, so she'd definitely listen to me in this one, too.

Even though she is a child now, children all love beauty, so how can she not wear a beautiful skirt? Besides, it is still summer.

So she started to act coquettishly, "Mom, I don't want to wear pants. Can I wear a skirt to school?"

Bai Lingling had a blank expression on her face. "No way. She's so young, and she already knows how to wear skirts. She's going to be a slut when she grows up!" Then she started to act roughly.

Bai Feng was frightened and burst into tears.

"Cry, cry, cry! Why are you crying? Are you mourning? Be careful or I won't want you anymore and will throw you to your dead father!" Bai Lingling yelled.

Bai Feng thought of her ex-husband who would beat people at any time. She was so scared that she shuddered and didn't dare to say a word. She changed her clothes obediently.

At the same time, I began to wonder: Why has my daughter become like this? Wasn't she always my obedient daughter? Now that the roles have been reversed, she doesn't care about me anymore? She told me to observe for a while.

Bai Lingling felt very happy. She experienced all this when she first went to kindergarten as a child.

Bai Feng took out all the frustrations in life on herself. She blamed all her misfortunes on her young children. The funny thing was, she still had to make excuses, saying it was all for her own good.

When she was young and didn't understand, she felt sorry for her mother and often sympathized with her. She secretly vowed to be good to her, listen to her, and be filial to her.

The end result was that I was forced into a dead end. I suffered daily mental torture and became depressed. If I hadn't finally made up my mind to leave this small city and move to a more inclusive city thousands of miles away, I might not have been able to find my way out.

Bai Feng went to the kindergarten, and not long after, the kindergarten teacher called Bai Lingling and said, "Your daughter got into a fight at school. Come over here."

Bai Lingling arrived at the school and learned the reason for the fight. She took Bai Feng home without saying anything.

"Bai Feng, how can you fight? What did I teach you? You just cause trouble for me every day."

Bai Feng felt wronged: "They scolded me"

"Okay, they're not wrong. You never had a father anyway. No more fighting, you hear me?!"

Bai Feng: ...What's wrong with this daughter? She really doesn't listen to me?

Now it’s elementary school.

"Bai Feng, what have you learned in school every day? Others can get 100 points, but you only get 98 points? You really embarrassed me!"

Bai Feng felt wronged: "Mom, I have tried my best. I promise to get 100 points next time."

"Promise? How many times have you promised? Every time you're just a little short. Do the test paper again later. You're not allowed to eat if you don't finish it!" Bai Lingling roared.

after awhile,

Bai Feng: "Mom, I'm hungry. Can I finish my meal first and then do the test paper?"

"no!"

"Mom" Bai Feng pulled Bai Lingling's clothes and acted coquettishly.

"Let go! I said no and it means no! If you don't do it now, you won't be able to eat tomorrow!"

Bai Feng finally determined that her daughter no longer listened to her. She vaguely remembered that she had said these words to Bai Lingling in the past.

Even now, she doesn't think there is anything wrong: I gave birth to my daughter, so shouldn't she listen to me?

This kind of thinking is really suffocating. It completely does not regard children as independent individuals, but as their own vassals.

Bai Feng wanted to blurt out the truth to Bai Lingling and switch roles.

But she couldn't say it because of the consciousness imposed on her by Jiang, that is, even though she knew she was the mother, she would still unconsciously regard Bai Lingling as her mother, so she would unconsciously call Bai Lingling "Mom".

Now she could only soberly endure the pain she had inflicted on Bai Lingling.

Bai Feng didn't finish her paper and she fell asleep because she was too tired.

Bai Lingling ran over and took a look. She was so angry that she took the clothes hanger and started beating him.

Bai Feng was beaten so hard that he screamed in pain, and his back was covered with marks from the clothes hanger.

Some of the neighbors couldn't stand it anymore and started to persuade Bai Lingling.

Bai Lingling began to complain, "I have such a miserable life. I married a husband who spends his days drinking and partying and never comes home. After the divorce, I raised my daughter by myself, and she's still disobedient."

Now that she's in school, she's even more daring to go against me! She doesn't do her homework, and her test scores aren't good. I just asked her to do the test again, and she actually fell asleep. Isn't that infuriating?

When the people in the group heard this, they fell silent.

Everyone knows what their children are like: when they are good, they are really good and can warm your heart; when they are bad, they are really annoying and can even cure your own low blood pressure.

If you hit him too lightly, he won't learn his lesson; if you hit him too hard, he'll feel bad. Anyway, you can never teach him a lesson.

Someone in the group tagged Bai Lingling and said, "Big sister, if your child gets beaten again, tell me and I'll send my child over. You can beat him together, right? I'll pay for your labor."

Bai Lingling: "...Why?"

"My child always gets into trouble. In the past, they were minor offenses, so I couldn't bear to spank him, and would just give him a verbal warning. But today, he broke the school window while playing football. The school is asking him to pay for it.

I put caterpillars in the teacher's textbook again today! I'm so pissed. I've already given him a good beating, but I don't know if he'll change.

When I heard you educating your child, he cried so hard, it was heartbreaking. He must have known he was wrong. So I think if my child makes a mistake again in the future, I will send him to you and ask you to help educate him."

Others in the homeowners group said, "Yes, yes, my child needs to be disciplined too."

"My child is the same. If I don't spank him for a day, he'll tear the roof off the house. It hurts to spank my own child. Why don't we take turns spanking each other's children?"

"Huh? That's a good idea."