Farming and reading family

Gao E is not made of clay. She just doesn't care about some things, but that doesn't mean she has no temper at all.

She will remember how the old man of the Chen family treated her.

It's fine if you know you're in the wrong and don't cause trouble for her, but if you dare to cause trouble in front of her in the future, I will not be polite.

"So you have to know that women should rely on what they can, and forget about it if they can't." Gao E said with a smile, "Things are only real when they are in your own hands."

Chen Hanyue seemed to understand what he said: "Things are only real when they are in your own hands?"

"For example, the wages your third aunt gives you and the dowry your family prepares for you when you get married, you can completely control them and won't be influenced by anyone," Gao E gave an example.

"My mother always wants me to take out my wages, saying that she wants to buy me a dowry." Chen Hanyue started to go off the topic.

"Then will you give it to me?" Gao E joked.

Chen Hanyue was a little conflicted: "She always said that raising me was not easy, so I... should respect her."

"You should respect her. That's because you are filial, not because she can control you all the time." Gao E said slowly.

She understood Chen Hanyue's feelings too well. Perhaps before she traveled through time, her family was more mean, so she could easily see through and let go of those feelings.

Although Yang was cowardly and selfish, she was quite good to her children.

It's just the right level of distress.

It's just that she is that kind of person and doesn't think she has done anything wrong.

"Now you think it is your duty to respect your mother, so you give your mother the money you earn. When you get married, others will say that it is your duty to respect your parents-in-law and it is your duty to listen to your husband at home. What do you want to do?" Gao E suddenly asked.

Chen Hanyue, who was pondering this question, immediately became dissatisfied: "Why? Then I will have nothing."

"Then think about what women have?" Gao E looked at Chen Hanyue's reaction.

She is not married yet and can still think about these things rationally, so she would have such a reaction.

"Then... I..." Chen Hanyue couldn't think of anything else. "Like my elder sister, I'll find a man without parents, so I can be the head of the family myself."

"Other people think it's pitiful to have no parents-in-law, but you want to find someone without parents-in-law."

"People can't have everything," Chen Hanyue said contentedly. "Some parents-in-law say they're helping, but most of them are being bullied."

"I just want to tell you that you can respect your mother, you can respect your parents-in-law, and you can discuss things with your man when you encounter problems, but it has to be your own initiative, not being coerced by others," Gao E concluded.

Chen Hanyue nodded: "Then forget it. I don't think my mother will be satisfied no matter what I do."

Gao E didn't say anything more. Yang was a person with a lot of internal conflicts. If it weren't for her eldest brother being sensible and listening to him, her life would have been even more difficult.

She could get rid of the Duan family, but she couldn't get rid of the old couple in the Chen family.

Not long after, Master Xie and Luo Qing'er came back together. Seeing Gao E come back was like finding their backbone.

Gao E soon found out what was going on. The beach on which she built her house was formed during a flood, and the ground underneath was full of sand and gravel.

The sand and gravel were deposited in a short period of time, and when the water level rose in the summer, there would still be water underneath. The flow of sand and gravel caused the foundation to become unstable, and the newly built wall collapsed.

"I'm glad everyone's okay." Gao E hadn't thought of this question before. "Is the pond okay?"

"The pond is fine," Master Xie suggested. "There's really no need to build so many houses there."

Gao E thought that if this was the case, then they would have to move the location. "Then please, Master Xie, decide where to build it, and try to get it closer to the pond."

Master Xie nodded, and suddenly remembered the Chen family: "Is Chen Tao okay now?"

"It's okay, his family affairs have been dealt with." Gao E replied.

Everyone was relieved to hear that the Chen family's affairs had been dealt with. Before, Gao E was put in jail, and everyone in Baotou Village was very worried.

"There is another question." Master Xie suddenly remembered.

"What's wrong?" Gao E's heart was worried.

"The water level at the entrance to the mountain at Bawei Village has also risen. We can only wait until winter to build a bridge or a plank road." Master Xie suddenly remembered.

Gao E knew that places like that were greatly affected by the seasons. If there was a lot of rain in the summer, the bridge and plank road might be flooded. "I'll ask Master An to find someone to build two small boats. The place isn't big anyway, and there aren't many people coming in or out."

"Okay." Master Xie also felt that this was more convenient.

When they heard that Gao E had returned, many people in the village came to visit her, and the Chen family's house was full of people in the evening.

Yang also came out to take a look, but finally went back.

Chen Qing was sitting in the side room reading a book. Once he got into it, he couldn't stop. He was startled when Yang pushed open the door.

"Why didn't you knock on the door?" Chen Qing was a little dissatisfied.

Yang went straight over and sat next to Chen Qing: "You're starting to be picky. I heard that the second son's wife kept the third son in the Chen family, so there must be a lot of benefits. But you, as the eldest brother, you ran around for her when she was in prison, and now that there are benefits, you've completely forgotten about you."

Chen Qing put the book on the table: "What are you talking about? You know I like those."

"Then she should have said it too. If you don't want to go, it's your turn." Yang felt uncomfortable.

In the past, everyone was the same and ate from the same pot, but now the third family has opened a shop and works for the richest man. As the gap between them grows, the gap in Yang's heart becomes greater.

She also felt that it was only after Lei gave birth to a son that Gao treated Lei better than before. Gao felt that their eldest wife only had one son, and the family was too small.

Chen Qing knew that Yang had something on her mind. He had tried to persuade her several times but failed. He thought that she would get over it over time, but who would have thought that she would become more and more obsessed with it.

"I've already told my second sister-in-law that I'll stay at home to farm and take care of my parents. Besides, my second sister-in-law has so many things to do every day, we shouldn't cause her any trouble," Chen Qing advised.

"Then why doesn't she find it troublesome to help the third family?" Yang raised her voice unconsciously.

Chen Qing frowned and looked at Yang.

Yang also felt that she had lost her composure a little, so she lowered her eyes and said nothing.

"If you envy your third sister-in-law for opening a shop, I will talk to your second sister-in-law and ask her to help you open a shop as well." Chen Qing knew that his second sister-in-law had said this.

"I don't want to open a shop." Yang said immediately. Unless Chen Qing was willing to open a shop with her, she couldn't do it alone.

"It's you who doesn't want to open it, not your second brother and sister-in-law who don't want to help you." Chen Qing didn't know how to say this. "Don't always care about these things."

Yang felt that she didn't care, but she felt uncomfortable.

By the time everyone who came to see Gao E had left, Que'er had already fallen into a deep sleep, and Gao E finally had time to look at the account book for that period.

Luo Qing'er was already prepared and stood by to watch with Sister Gao.

"Why did the grafting of zelkova trees stop?" Gao E looked through the recent records.