Daily life of female supporting actresses in the 1970s

Jiang Yanqiu still looked very Buddhist and said: "It will rain when it rains, and my mother will get married when she gets married. If he really wants to cheat, then let him do as he wishes. If he doesn't want a divorce, I'll break my legs."

Although Jiang Yanqiu is a Buddhist, this is also the confidence given to her by Chu Tingnan.

Chu Tingnan usually looks unreliable. He is in his thirties and has nothing to do so he plays pranks on Jiang Yanqiu.

Sometimes the two of them play around like children who have not grown up, doing things that are so childish that they cannot be more childish.

But when it comes to Jiang Yanqiu, he is more nervous than anyone else. He will arrange everything early and never let Jiang Yanqiu worry.

This is very similar to Gu Qingshi, but I feel like there is always something missing between me and Gu Qingshi.

Zhao Lanlan did not express her opinion. She was a conservative person in the group.

In addition, she was in a military marriage, so she probably never thought that her husband would cheat on her. If her husband was found to be cheating, it would ruin her future.

I asked them again: "What if your partner is secretly cheating on you and you don't know?"

Jiang Yanqiu said cheerfully, "If he had that ability and I didn't discover it, I can only blame myself."

Xu Yan also agreed, "Yeah, if he cheated and wasn't discovered, it's either because I don't care and gave him a chance, or because I'm not as skilled as him. It's fine if he never knew about it. So, did Gu Qingshi cheat?"

Before I could say anything, Tian Mi jokingly said, "What a joke! Everyone in the world has cheated, and Gu Qingshi couldn't have cheated. Everyone we know knows that Gu Qingshi would even risk his life for her."

I was also stunned. Everyone thought so. No one would have thought that Gu Qingshi would cheat.

I smiled awkwardly and said, "No, I was just saying it casually. I feel like a lot of men are cheating nowadays. Even if you have to eat peanuts for being a hooligan, there are still some who dare to cheat, and many couples have very good relationships."

Jiang Yanqiu seemed to have heard something and said slowly, "If a couple has a good relationship but still cheats, there must be communication problems. In life, all problems should be brought to the surface and dealt with. Don't let one party give blindly. Over time, it is easy to become psychologically unbalanced."

I didn't show anything, but I knew what she was talking about. My marriage with Gu Qingshi, wasn't it just that he always gave in to me?

Although Gu Qingshi never said anything, I really don’t know whether he has any complaints in his heart.

When I got home that day, I asked Gu Qingshi directly, "Do you feel like something is missing in our marriage?"

Gu Qingshi said without thinking: "No, what's wrong?"

Gu Qingqing said directly: "It's nothing, I just feel that in our marriage, it seems that life revolves around me. Don't you have anything you want to do?"

Gu Qingshi said in a formulaic way: "Taking good care of you and making you happy is what I want to do most."

I was inexplicably angry, and I also thought about getting a divorce when Gu Qingshi cheated on me.

Will I be happy if I get divorced? Can I be sure that the next one I find will be a good one?

So even though I was angry, I still said seriously: "Gu Qingshi, the marriage I want is not for you to revolve around me blindly. I also hope that you can do what you want to do and not give up everything for the sake of support. Also, if one day in the future you don't like me anymore and you do the same thing again, then our family will fall apart."

Gu Qingshi then said seriously: "Why are you suddenly saying this? Did someone tell you something nonsense?"

"No one said anything. I just always felt that there was something wrong with our marriage, but I couldn't figure it out. Today, when I was chatting with his family, I suddenly realized that you have always lived around me and have no life of your own. This is unfair to you. That's why I had a good talk with you. I don't want our marriage to end because of such a small thing. I think you should have your own life."

I think if I told him about his infidelity, he probably wouldn't believe that he would cheat, let alone have an illegitimate child.