Jiu Ye, your little ancestor doesn't want to take responsibility

"I'm just not willing to give in."

Lu Tian also knew that it was a bit awkward to come to An Nansheng to talk about her and Jian Muye, but apart from An Nansheng, no one else might understand her mood and situation.

She told the truth:

"I've already given him the divorce agreement, but he probably didn't take it seriously and thought I was just making trouble."

An Nansheng saw that the dark circles under her eyes were very dark, and it was obvious that she had not slept well.

The servants had already started setting up breakfast, so An Nansheng asked the servants to set up breakfast in the yard. She and Lu Tian ate and chatted.

Mu Fucheng still had to go to work, so he took the children to eat in the restaurant.

Some words are not suitable for Mu Fucheng to hear, and even less suitable for children to hear.

"If you're not willing to give in, then go ahead and make a scene," An Nansheng said angrily. "Being someone's daughter-in-law for a few years has worn away all your pride and spirit? You even had the courage to marry him and divorce him, so are you still afraid of making a scene with him?"

As time passed, An Nansheng now spoke of her marriage to Jian Muye as a farce:

"Don't compare me to yourself. We are different. He hated me at that time, so no matter how I made a fuss, it was useless."

"Just think about how much he hated me. He married such a beautiful woman like me, but he didn't touch her for over a year. Now that I think about it, I was like an idiot. Fortunately, I woke up in time."

Lu Tian sighed:

"Shouldn't I wake up in time?"

An Nansheng glanced at her:

"If you no longer love him, feel tired and disgusted with living with him, and feel sick to your stomach just by looking at him, then leave him immediately."

Lu Tian: "...I just slept with it last night, and I still feel great."

An Nansheng laughed out loud in an immoral way:

"The most direct and effective way to test whether a couple has feelings for each other is to see if their life is harmonious or not. If their life is not harmonious, it doesn't necessarily mean they have no feelings for each other, but if their life is harmonious, they definitely still have feelings for each other."

Straighten your expression:

"You definitely can't get a divorce."

Lu Tian: “…”

She knew she couldn't get a divorce, and the divorce agreement was just a test for Jian Muye.

But the result of testing is that it would be worse to just get a divorce.

"My life is stagnant and I believe that even if we have a child, nothing will change."

An Nansheng shook his head in frustration:

"You're only thirty-two, not fifty-two or sixty-two. Sisters in their forties live more passionately than you. So, is Jian Muye putting a tight ring around your neck after getting married?"

"Live your life the way you should. Learn from Jiang Li. A woman must first live her own life well and not turn herself into anyone else's appendage. You are marrying Jian Muye, not selling yourself into his family."

"Come to think of it, you can even subdue someone as difficult as Mu Yunzhu, but you can't subdue Jian Muye?"

Lu Tian: "That's different."

An Nansheng: "There's no difference, the principle is the same. In a relationship, the one who falls in love first is passive. You subconsciously cater to him and please him, thus losing yourself. After a long time, if you are not confused, who will be confused?"

Lu Tian opened his mouth, unable to refute.

The key point is that she suddenly realized that An Nansheng was right.

Since getting married, her parents have told her to be a good wife and mother. She also labeled herself Mrs. Jane and subconsciously held herself to the standards of "Jian Muye's wife."

Just like An Nansheng said, she put Jian Muye first, and even forgot that she was Lu Tian first, and then whose wife.