Eating melons

To be honest, she didn't want to leave a scar, not to mention that the cesarean section at that time was still performed vertically, and the technology was not mature enough, so there were too many sequelae.

But if she gave birth naturally, she was afraid of episiotomy, tearing and difficult labor.

If the birth is difficult, switching from vaginal delivery to cesarean section will be even more dangerous.

Jiang Qi was very hesitant and couldn't make up her mind for a moment, and wanted Wei Wei to give her some advice.

"Weiwei, what do you think about my natural birth?"

Wei Wei was a little confused about this. "Didn't you say you wanted a C-section? Why do you want a natural birth now?"

Before, Jiang Qi was determined to have a caesarean section because she was afraid of the dangers of a natural birth.

And when I knew she wanted a natural birth, I did some ideological work on her, saying that a caesarean section would be safer.

Jiang Qi sighed, "I don't want to leave a scar, and there are still many disadvantages of caesarean section. The technology is not so mature now."

Wei Wei was not sure what to say about this. "Both natural births and caesarean sections have their drawbacks. It's hard to say which is better or worse. Neither is good.

There is another issue you have to consider. If you want a smooth natural birth, it is not enough for the baby to be small. The most important thing is the baby's head circumference.

I dared to have a natural birth because Xiao Xuemu and I didn't have a big head circumference, our stomachs weren't big at the time, and we hadn't gained much weight, so I took a gamble."

In fact, she was able to give birth naturally because the examination showed that the baby's head circumference was not large, her pelvic condition was good, and the baby's fetal position was correct.

“There’s also the issue of fetal position. Natural childbirth also depends on the conditions. You should consider it carefully.

But I have to remind you of one thing, there is no pain relief now, I opened my fingers very quickly, even so, I dare not do it again, the pain is indescribable. "

After saying this, Wei Wei shuddered. She really didn't want to experience that kind of pain that went deep into her bones again.

Hearing this, Jiang Qi gave up immediately and said, "Forget it, let's have a caesarean section. Li Zhibin's head circumference is too big, and mine is not small either."

The doctor also said that my fetal position wasn't particularly correct, and that if I went through labor, I'd have to get it in the correct position, which would be too painful. I didn't hesitate and decided to have a cesarean section."

Wei Wei did not comment after hearing this, because no matter which choice was made, it would cause great harm to the mother. If she wanted to avoid harm to the mother, the only option was not to give birth.

And no matter which one you choose, you will suffer, the only difference is whether you suffer first or later.

Mu Qing and Cheng Yan didn't know that Wei Wei had taken medicine. They thought that Wei Wei had no milk. They felt helpless that no matter how they supplemented it, there was no milk.

I felt a little relieved to see that Xiao Xuemu and Wei Wei were able to get enough milk powder.

But the Xiao family members did not just stand by and watch. They tried their best to use their connections to get more milk powder and nutritional supplements, for fear that the child would not have enough milk.

Xiao Xuemu only had a one-month vacation, and during this month he did something big, which was to get a sterilization. He said he didn't want to have any more children.

Mu Qing and Xiao Bai didn't say anything about this. One reason was that they felt that having one child was enough, because no one could guarantee that the child they gave birth to would be a good child.

Furthermore, we are now implementing family planning, so we can’t have another child even if we want to.

Wei Wei didn't know what to say when she saw Xiao Xuemu's anxious look.

She, who had both given birth and suffered, hadn't said anything yet, but Xiao Xuemu, who had never given birth, was so afraid that he ended up like this, which didn't fit his personality at all.

Mu Qing and Xiao Bai can't stay here all the time, they have to go back to the laboratory.

Therefore, after a full month, we will plan to move back to the yard next to the school.

However, before going back, they have to go to the old house to hold a full-moon banquet for the child. Xiao Aiguo and Cheng Yan have been preparing for this for a long time.

On the way back, Wei Wei was wrapped like a dumpling again and stuffed into the back seat of the jeep.

In this regard, Xiao Xuemu was on high alert and didn't let Wei Wei get any exposure.

Wei Wei and Xiao Xuemu's wedding was not a grand one because the situation was just getting better at that time and they didn't dare to stand out too much.

But things are different now. There hasn’t been a lively atmosphere at home for a long time. The last time was when Xiao Xuemu and Wei Wei got married four years ago.

So the Xiao family held the full moon banquet in a grand manner, and a lot of people came that day.

Looking at the crowd coming and going, Wei Wei thought of the jokes on the Internet. Fearing that something unexpected might happen, she quickly reminded Xiao Xuemu.

"You must keep your child within your sight at all times and avoid letting others hold him. There are too many germs there.

And if he is not someone you absolutely trust, never let him hold the child, understand?"

It is impossible to prevent them from hugging. After all, everyone who came today is either rich or noble, and most of them are in high positions, so it is not easy to offend them.

But not everyone can come and hold the child. Who knows what these people are thinking? Wei Wei dare not underestimate people's evil intentions.

“Also, those who like to feed children food, especially alcohol, must not be allowed to feed children.

When it’s time to eat, be sure to bring your children back and show them around.

After the child is held by someone, you should sneak a look at the child to see if there is anything wrapped inside the blanket."

Looking at Wei Wei's anxious look, Xiao Xuemu took it to heart.

He knew that Wei Wei was not the kind of person who would speak without a purpose. She must have seen something like this in later life, which was why she was so alert.

He also believed that human nature was evil, so Xiao Xuemu remembered it seriously.

When Xiao Xuemu took the child out to see a child, he was always very cautious. No matter who came to hold the child, he would stare at that person, for fear that the other person would snatch the child away.

If anyone made a louder noise, he would immediately take the child away for fear of scaring the child.

Seeing how cautious Xiao Xuemu was, holding it in his mouth for fear that it would melt, and holding it in his hands for fear that it would fall, everyone laughed at him.

It is said that people become mature and stable after getting married and having children, and now it seems to be true.

Even Xiao Xuemu, such a tough and mixed-up man, became obedient after becoming a father.

Xiao Xuemu didn't say anything about being misunderstood. He never cared about the opinions of outsiders.

This attracted a wave of pressure on other young people in the compound to get married, especially those little bullies and rebellious ones who were urged the most, and Xiao Xuemu also took care of it.

Seeing how Xiao Xuemu, the most rebellious and chaotic person, changed so much after getting married and having children, they felt that marriage and having children were still very effective.

Since I can't control them anymore, I thought about letting them get married and have children to see if things can get better.

Wei Wei and Xiao Xuemu knew nothing about all this. After the full-moon banquet, they took their child back to the yard next to the school.

Although Xiao Xuemu was very considerate and reliable in taking care of Wei Wei, the Xiao family was still very worried about the two new parents taking care of the child alone.

And although Wei Wei still has a month of vacation, she still has to go back to work after a month.

Since one of them was at work and the other was at school, they became even more worried, so they introduced two aunties who were good at taking care of children to look after their lives.

Wei Wei and Xiao Xuemu did not refuse the Xiao family's kindness.

Anyway, they also need to find people, and they are definitely not as good as Cheng Yan and others in finding experienced veterans.

In fact, the Xiao family's worries were completely unnecessary. Wei Wei and Xiao Xuemu, the two new parents, got the hang of things very quickly.

The couple, one child and two aunts live a very carefree life.

Wei Wei still has a month of vacation left, and her favorite thing to do now is to play with Xiaotuanzi.

Xiaotuanzi's nickname was given by Wei Wei, and his real name, Xiao Wei, was given by Xiao Xuemu.

In fact, there were several battles in the family over naming the little dumpling.

Old man Xiao Aiguo named a child Xiao Jing, and Xiao Bai also took the initiative to fight for the right to name the child Xiao Heng.

However, when Xiao Aiguo and Xiao Bai were still arguing, Xiao Xuemu had already registered the child's household registration and named him Xiao Wei.

For this, Xiao Xuemu was beaten with a feather duster again, but Xiao Xuemu did not allow any room for negotiation on this matter and just acted first and reported later.

In his eyes, it was his and Wei Wei's child, so naturally they could give it whatever name they wanted.

He originally wanted Wei Wei to take it, but Wei Wei felt that she was unable to bear such a heavy responsibility.

Because no matter whether it is good or bad, she feels that the child will complain about it in the future, so it is better to take on the task of the nickname and give the real name to Xiao Xuemu.

When the Xiao family saw the name Xiao Xuemu gave to the child, they didn't know what to say. This man probably has nothing else in his mind except his wife.

Because Xiao Xuemu acted without authorization, the child's name was decided. After beating him up, the Xiao family didn't say anything else.

Only Wei Wei would complain occasionally. Wei Wei felt that Xiao Xuemu would definitely be ridiculed to death by Xiaotuanzi in the future. God knows what a nightmare the word "Wei" would be for a kindergarten kid.

Wei Wei touched the little boy's pink cheek. The little guy opened his big black eyes, not crying or making a fuss, but just looking around curiously.

Wei Wei hardly needs to get involved in taking care of the children. The family hired an experienced aunt, Aunt Zhang, who is responsible for washing clothes and cooking, and Aunt Wang is responsible for taking care of the children.

Xiao Xuemu was the one who mostly got up at night to prepare milk powder and change diapers, and Wei Wei only took care of the baby when Xiao Xuemu was unable to return home due to some matters.

But she will only take care of the baby when it is easy to take care of. If it is difficult to take care of, she will directly hand it over to Aunt Wang.

Just as Wei Wei was about to go back to school to work, Jiang Qi was also about to have a cesarean section.

Because it was a caesarean section, I could choose the time myself, and the timing was a little better, so I didn't have to be as rushed as Wei Wei.

Jiang Qi was very grateful when she saw the baby. She was grateful that she had a cesarean section because the baby was much heavier than Wei Wei's baby. It was a boy weighing 6.62 catties and had a relatively large head circumference.

If it was a natural birth, it would be extremely painful. Seeing the child like this, Jiang Qi no longer felt sorry for the scar on her belly.

Wei Wei was also very lucky that both she and Xiao Xuemu had small heads, otherwise she would have had to take that blow.

Wei Wei took a look at the wound on Jiang Qi's body, which was really big.

Seeing Wei Wei like this, Jiang Qi's face was pale, but his tone was full of relief for surviving the disaster.

"Luckily I had the surgery, otherwise I don't know how painful it would have been. And it's okay, I wasn't planning on breastfeeding anyway."

Knowing that Wei Wei did not breastfeed, the little girl was still very healthy and lively, and Jiang Qi did not plan to breastfeed either.

You know, breastfeeding is not an easy job.

Wei Wei nodded in understanding. She chose to feed her baby with formula more out of Xiao Xuemu's support and personal convenience.

Jiang Qi, on the other hand, suffered a mixture of physical trauma and psychological factors.

"Big Fool and your mother-in-law... have no objection, right?" Wei Wei asked softly.

If Jiang Qi chose not to breastfeed, it would be impossible to hide it, because Jiang Qi was not like her. It was mainly Xiao Xuemu who took care of her personally, and Xiao Xuemu helped her to hide it.

Jiang Qi's mother is taking care of her during the confinement period. If she says there is no milk at all, Jiang Qi's mother will not believe it. After all, with good nutrition and good conditions, it is impossible for her to have no milk.

Jiang Qi rolled her eyes. "He's fine. I'm the one who makes the decisions. He follows my advice. My mother-in-law is fine too. Little Tuanzi mostly drinks milk and is still very healthy, so she didn't say anything.

You don’t know, the one who opposed it the most was actually my mother, who kept whispering in my ear every day.

Of course, it was mainly because of those people outside who kept gossiping about her, plus some old-fashioned ideas..."

Li Zhibin and Xiao Xuemu can help get milk powder, and Wu Lichun and Li Jing have many connections and can also get it, so the Li family has no objection to Jiang Qi not breastfeeding. As long as they can get milk powder, the child has something to eat.

But there are a lot of rumors outside, and people don’t understand Jiang Qi’s decision.

Before Jiang Qi was out of confinement, people outside started talking about her. Gradually, neighbors and even some less close relatives came to her house to express their "concern" in various ways.

"Hey, if you don't breastfeed, the baby won't kiss you!"

"How can formula be as nutritious as breast milk? For the sake of my child, what's a mother's weight in enduring a little hardship?"

"A cesarean section isn't a major surgery, and recovery is quick. Don't spoil me too much..."

This made Jiang Qi very angry, and Wu Lichun directly took a broom and chased the man out.

Wu Lichun and Ning Lanzhen were battling with neighbors and relatives in the compound, and Wei Wei also returned to school.

The old professor in the department saw her, adjusted his glasses, smiled and nodded.

"Teacher Wei is back! Good, good. Is everything settled at home?"

The tone of her voice showed the concern of an elder for a younger person, and there was no contempt for her temporary absence due to childbirth.

Wei Wei smiled and said, "I've settled down and found a relative to help take care of the child."

Everyone knows what this relative means. Although no one cares about it now, everyone is still used to the habits of those years.

Whether you are looking for a nanny or hiring someone else, they always say that they are relatives helping them and pay them privately.

Xiao Xuemu and Wei Wei go to work or school during the day, and when they meet at night, they go home together to play with the little dumpling.

Since having a child, Xiao Xuemu has not been as hardworking as before and tries to squeeze in time to come back every day.

I didn't get involved in so many experiments anymore. I just followed Xiao Bai and Li Shiyuan, so there was less work to do.