Eating melons

After hearing this, Wei Wei fell silent. She actually agreed with what Zhu Ying said.

Regardless of other things, she strongly agreed with Zhu Ying's statement that since she was going to get married anyway, she might as well marry the best.

Not to mention anything else, at least Xiao Xuemu has a good family background, is rich and handsome, so it would not be a loss if it really works out.

Since Zhu Ying didn't seem so hopeless, she was still willing to give some advice.

If Zhu Ying was the kind of person who would risk her life for a man, she wouldn't bother with him. After all, if she got too close to a love-brained person, she would easily be implicated.

"In fact, if you want to change your life, you don't have to be tied to a man.

If you want to make a way for yourself, you can do it with your own hands.

Don’t say you can’t do it, after all, there are examples around you.

Wu Mei's family conditions are also those of an ordinary family, but she has never thought of kidnapping a man to achieve her goals. She does everything with her own hands.

You must know one thing: relying on others will make you walk, relying on mountains will make them fall. No matter who you rely on, it is not as good as relying on yourself. Relying on yourself is better than relying on others.

Don't attribute all your ignorance and mistakes to your original family and external factors.

As for your bad luck, I think you're already much luckier than most people."

Hearing this, Zhu Ying sneered, "Oh, you're talking without any pain in your waist. How can my luck be any better?"

She had heard the rumors in the brigade, saying how much Wei Wei, Jiang Qi and Liu Jiaojiao's parents loved them and were so good to them.

Especially Wei Wei and Jiang Qi, what they said on the ox cart has always irritated her.

She has always envied these two people for having parents who love them so much, care about them so much, and do not look down on their status as girls at all.

As for her, her parents would just wish she was dead after she made a little mistake.

But Wei Wei believed what she said before: you can't rely on anyone but yourself, you can only rely on others and the mountain will fall.

But being born in such a family, I had nothing to rely on.

As for the rest of the words, she didn't admit it. How could she be so lucky?

If I were lucky, why would I meet such terrible parents?

After something like this happened, she knew that she would be blamed by her parents. After all, she had done something wrong, and she would not complain about her family's blame.

She also knew that her brother, sister-in-law and father might want her to die, but she still had a glimmer of hope for her mother.

So when Zhu Ying saw her mother's ferocious look as if she wished her dead, her heart sank to the extreme.

To be honest, in her memory, even her grandparents who hated her the most had never shown her such a fierce expression.

She didn't expect that the person who hated her most was her mother who loved her the most.

She thought, if Jiang Qi, Wei Wei or even Liu Jiaojiao encountered such a thing, even if their parents and family members held such high positions, their parents would be angry, blame them, or even beat them, but they would definitely not wish them dead.

So she never thought that she was lucky. If a person is unlucky when he is born or reincarnated, then the rest of his life will be almost wasted.

"You said you were unlucky, let's not talk about anything else, just talk about going to the countryside.

Look at all of us here, except you and Wu Mei, who else hasn’t been greeted by their families?

If it weren't for our parents' ability, we wouldn't have been assigned to a remote corner, but you were assigned here entirely by luck.

As for the difference between the Red Star Brigade and other places, you know it all even if I don’t tell you.”

Upon hearing this, Zhu Ying was stunned. She had never thought of this before. Not only Zhu Ying was stunned, but even Liu Jiaojiao and Wu Mei were stunned.

“I don’t know about other places, but I do know a little about the South.

For example, in our Hunan Province, we really have no time to stop working all year round, and we work in the fields almost every day.

There is work to do even when it rains. If it is the rice planting season, you have to wear a straw raincoat and a hat to plant the rice seedlings even when it rains heavily.

In winter, the wind is really biting, but even so, we still have to go to the fields to work.

Because potatoes must be planted and the soil turned over in winter, otherwise we will be too busy in the spring of the following year.

I am busy all year round without any rest. Even though I am so busy, the work points I earn may not be as much as those in the north.

Even though the work points for doing the same amount of work were paid, the Red Star Brigade could sometimes earn only one cent per work point.

In the south, most work points were worth even five cents.

So you're saying it's not your luck?

Look at the life those country girls lead and what kind of life you lived before.

Even if your parents were not good to you, at least they let you finish high school.

Look at this countryside. There are only a handful of girls in other brigades who have attended high school.

Even in the Red Star Brigade, with such a large population, there were no more than twenty girls who had attended high school.

In the countryside, most girls have to work in the fields when they are three or four years old.

When they were four or five years old, they had to carry a backpack as tall as theirs to go up the mountain to collect grass for pigs. The pigs in the family almost belonged to them.

When I grew up a little, I would stay around the house, around the stove, and also work in the fields.

When they are fifteen or sixteen years old, they get married and give a dowry to their family.

After getting married, you live a life that is even more tiring than before marriage because you have to take care of children. Do you know how tiring it is to take care of children?

Moreover, even if you work hard to take care of the children, you may not necessarily get a word of praise. If you do something wrong even a little bit, you will be blamed endlessly.

Compared with them, you are much luckier.

Although people should look up, when you compare yourself with others, you should not only look up, but also look down.

So compared to most people, you are still very lucky.

Once you come here, you can support yourself with your own hands. Even without the support of your family, you can still find a way out for yourself.

Here, even if there is no support, as long as you are not lazy, you are hands-on and hardworking, you will not starve to death.

But in the city, if your family doesn’t support you and you don’t have the ability, you will only starve to death.

But you just took the wrong path. That’s not right, but it can’t be said that you took the wrong path.

As you said, if you are going to marry someone, you might as well find a good one, who can at least give you money and satisfy you in terms of material and life.

This is a good idea. After all, a poor couple has many worries. Although money is not everything, it is something that cannot be lived without. Having money can solve more than 90% of the troubles in life.

But you can't get the focus wrong. Just like when you fall in love with Xiao Xuemu, you have to focus your attention on him, let him discover the shining points in you and like you.

Instead of focusing on me and looking for trouble with me, you are looking in the wrong direction from the beginning.

Also, no matter how you look for Xiao Xuemu, I have never said anything or done anything to you.

But you came here to cause trouble for me, am I innocent?"

In Wei Wei's heart, this is the most important thing. She thinks that snatching men is not a big deal. After all, men are also one of the resources, and snatching resources is normal.

But when Zhu Ying was grabbing resources, she never stopped her or put any obstacles in her way.

As soon as Zhu Ying came up, he directed his attacks at her, which made Wei Wei feel very angry.

Really, if you want to grab a man, just grab him, conquer him, why do you have to engage in female competition?

Upon hearing these words, Zhu Ying was stunned. To be honest, she had never thought about these things before.

She had always felt that she was unlucky and that the world was unfair, so she felt resentful about everything she did.

When did she become like this? Actually, he wasn't like this at the beginning.

Because at that time she felt that she was very lucky, because she had a mother who protected her, her father did not beat her, and although her two brothers did not like her that much, they never bullied her.

Therefore, compared with many girls in the tube-shaped building, she is still very lucky.

When did this all change? When she saw her classmates all had new dresses, she could only wear her old clothes.

When she saw others could buy hairpins, she didn't even dare to mention buying one or wanting one.

From then on, she felt that it was unfair for her. Why could others have such good parents while she didn't?