The rural daughter-in-law of the bank president

At Tunghai University, the wind in September is cool.

The 20-year-old Lin Xiangyu was in the prime of her life, with a pair of captivating peach blossom eyes.

This was not her first time traveling far away. Her father had taken her to Xijing and southern Hunan.

But she was traveling alone.

The reason I chose Donghai is because of "A Farewell to Cambridge", "Rainy Alley", "Half a Lifelong Romance"...

The northwest where Lin Xiangyu lives is dry and rainy.

The adolescent girl is confused and melancholy. She often immerses herself in the artistic conception of "Rainy Alley" and fantasizes about the girl holding an oil-paper umbrella.

Fortunately, she caught up and the college entrance examination was resumed. She took the exam as she wished and came to this dream city as she wished.

The youngest child in the family is always particularly favored.

They often do not need to make special sacrifices for their families. As long as they work hard enough, they can always choose the life they want.

In the second semester of my sophomore year, the rainy season finally arrived.

Lin Xiangyu took out the oil-paper umbrella she had prepared long ago and strolled around the campus.

She was wearing a lilac long dress, the same color and fragrance as lilac, and had two pigtails.

She walked silently, indifferent, desolate, and melancholy...

Just when she was completely immersed in her own world, there was a sharp horn sound, and a car whizzed past, splashing large amounts of water from its wheels, splashing all over her!

Lin Xiangyu was furious.

Who is so uncultured as to drive on campus? It would be fine if he just drove, but he also drove so fast.

She stopped and looked at her beautiful skirt, which was splashed with dirty rain water, and sighed.

Just as I was thinking about what to do, the car that was speeding past slowly backed away.

The right passenger window was opened and the man in the driver's seat looked at her.

"I'm sorry, classmate!"

Lin Xiangyu pouted and glared at the man.

"Get in the car, I'll take you back. Your clothes are wet, don't catch a cold!" said the man.

Lin Xiangyu thought for a moment, put away her umbrella, opened the car door and sat in the back seat, "Building 16!"

"I'm sorry, I was a little anxious just now and didn't notice that there was water here!" the man continued to explain.

"My name is Ren Tianqi, what's your name, classmate?"

Lin Xiangyu ignored the other party and sat in the back row with a cold face.

"Hehe." The man didn't get a reply, but he didn't get angry. He sent Lin Xiangyu to Building 16.

Lin Xiangyu got out of the car and walked into the dormitory building without looking back.

The next day at noon, Lin Xiangyu went to class. As soon as she walked out of the dormitory building, Ren Tianqi was waiting at the door.

It was not raining, but the sun was shining brightly. Ren Tianqi was wearing a pair of sunglasses and holding a bouquet of flowers.

Lin Xiangyu took a look and ignored him. She was not familiar with him!

Ren Tianqi quickly caught up, "Classmate, I'm waiting for you."

Lin Xiangyu looked at the classmates passing by, all looking at her in surprise. Her face turned red with embarrassment and she ran away.

Ren Tianqi scratched his head, feeling helpless.

On the third day, Ren Tianqi came again, and this continued for three days.

Lin Xiangyu was so panicked. This was too ostentatious. There were already all kinds of rumors in the class, and the counselor also criticized her indirectly.

On the fourth day, Lin Xiangyu decided to respond positively.

She came out very early today, and as soon as the Toyota Crown stopped, she ran over and got in.

"Don't come to me again, people will gossip about you."

Ren Tianqi frowned. There was a bouquet of roses on the passenger seat and a box of chocolates next to the flowers. He picked up the chocolates, took out a piece and handed it to Lin Xiangyu.

"Don't you understand what people are saying?" Lin Xiangyu was a little angry.

“Try it, it’s delicious!”

The rich aroma of cocoa wafted into Lin Xiangyu's nose, and she caught it as if possessed.

The moment the chocolate melts in your mouth, the rich flavor explodes instantly.

The bitter taste of caramel and cocoa is intertwined, giving a wonderful feeling. Even after the chocolate has been swallowed, the rich cocoa aroma still lingers in the mouth, leaving a lasting aftertaste.

Lin Xiangyu felt much calmer.

After a while, she sighed, "Which department are you from?"

"I'm not a student. I came to the school to discuss something." Ren Tianqi did not hide it.

"I'm just a freshman. You're making me feel embarrassed. People will gossip about me and the counselor will criticize me." Lin Xiangyu has never been in a relationship, but she still appreciates flowers and chocolates.

"Oh, don't pay attention to what others say. You don't have to worry about the school." Ren Tianqi turned around and looked at Lin Xiangyu gently.

Ren Tianqi was very outgoing and, as always, came to send flowers whenever he had time. But what surprised Lin Xiangyu was that the counselor didn't mention it again.

Ren Tianqi is eight years older than Lin Xiangyu and is the third child in the family. At that time, he had already started to take charge of family affairs on his own.

The Ren family's businesses are involved in real estate, communications, education, banking, insurance, and transportation, making them a truly wealthy family.

As soon as Lin Xiangyu graduated, the Ren family came to propose marriage and she got married.

After Lin Xiangyu and Ren Tianqi got married, she never worked and became a full-time housewife.

However, the couple had no children. After several years of treatment, they were about to give up. Finally, they decided to give it a try and found the right Chinese medicine doctor. After taking a few doses of medicine, she became pregnant with Xiao Min.

......

Back to the present.

Ren Tianqi and his family returned to Donghai early, just in time for the family dinner on the first night of the new year. The old man lived in the Ren family's large villa in the suburbs.

Ren Tianqi doesn't live here usually, he lives in the city center. Xiao Min has to go to school, so it is more convenient for Ren Tianqi to work.

Xiao Min attends an international middle school and adapts to the foreign university education environment in advance.

Xiao Min chatted with Le Le about love, and Le Le told her about the physiological mechanism of love:

Love is nothing but a bunch of hormones!

When you meet someone and fall in love at first sight, with your heart pounding, you must have been poisoned by the first poison of love: phenylethylamine.

It is a neurostimulant.

It only takes 0.33 seconds to fall in love at first sight. In this 0.33 seconds, the phenylethylamine in your body increases rapidly, making you full of energy, confidence, and courage.

When phenylethylamine reaches a high enough concentration, no matter what the other person thinks, you have already fallen in love!

If both parties have feelings for each other, they will enter the second level of love.

At this time, you will secrete a large amount of dopamine. This neurohormone can control emotions and desires and is easily addictive. This stage will make you particularly excited and happy.

When sending messages or making phone calls to each other, or even thinking about each other, the corners of their mouths will turn up and their faces will be filled with happiness.

At this time, you will ignore all the shortcomings of each other, become infatuated and lose your rationality.

You will become closer and closer, care more and more about each other, and become extremely nervous about everything about each other, and then you will enter the third stage of love.

At this time, a third hormone is produced: norepinephrine.

It has a strong vasoconstriction and nerve conduction ability, which will increase your blood pressure and heart rate. At this time, you will always try to please each other, and boys can easily become lick dogs and girls can become love-brained.

But love has a time limit, because your threshold for hormone demand increases, and the concentration of hormones will decrease with body metabolism.

The hormone peak can last from 6 months to 4 years, but on average no more than 30 months.

When one day you discover that your partner has more shortcomings and you no longer feel attracted to him or her, it means that the hormone concentration has begun to decrease.

If you want to maintain a long-term stable relationship, even leading to marriage, another hormone comes into play - oxytocin, which can make people loyal.

It is precisely because the human body secretes different amounts of oxytocin that some people are bad and some are loyal.

Women usually have higher oxytocin levels than men, which is one of the reasons why women are more likely to be loyal!

How to stimulate the production of oxytocin? Kiss, hug, and make love!

If the two people do not end up together, the pain of breaking up will stimulate the VTA area of ​​the brain.

You will be eager to get all the information about your ex, but it will only take about three months for your body's hormone levels to return to normal, and you will get out of the pain of a broken heart!

After a while, Xiao Min replied: I hate psychology!