Reborn in 2014, getting rich from the World Cup

There was no such encounter in the previous life.

Yang Zheng has no contact with Yang Yahan either.

So he didn't know Yang Yahan's college entrance examination results.

But later he heard that Yang Yahan did go to a university in Chudong and stayed in Chudong to develop after graduation.

Chu Nan and Chu Dong are adjacent to each other.

Chudong is located in the southernmost part of Xia State, close to the sea. It opened up to the outside world early and its economic development far exceeded that of Chunan.

So in Chunan, it is a trend to go south to Chudong to work.

There is even a saying that the coming-of-age ceremony for people in southern Chun is a ticket to eastern Chun.

In his previous life, Yang Zheng’s first choice was also a college in Chudong.

But...I wasn't accepted.

He was admitted to Chunan First Normal University, his second choice.

His goal in this life is Zhongchu University and Chunan University, which are also located in Xingcheng.

Because in Xingcheng, the advantages of his rebirth can be maximized.

This is the city where he has lived for 10 years and knows a lot of opportunities.

"Brother Sanpang, you can start cooking the packed bowl now."

After Yang Zheng finished eating, he saw that Yang Yahan had almost finished eating, so he called out to her.

"Good Le!"

Brother Sanpang responded loudly.

Yang Zheng stood up, scanned the code and paid.

A dull female voice sounded:

"WeChat payment, 48 yuan."

Hearing the voice, Yang Yahan looked up at Yang Zheng with a slightly complaining tone:

"It's so expensive! I told you I only want regular fish meal."

After she finished speaking, she paused and said, "Will you come to climb Pagoda Mountain again tomorrow? I'll treat you tomorrow."

Yang Zheng shook his head: "Tomorrow I will accompany my girlfriend to Changlong for a few days."

"Longlong Amusement Park?" Yang Yahan's eyes lit up: "I've always wanted to go there!"

"Then invite some classmates to go together."

Yang Zheng casually said, "It's not far anyway. The high-speed rail will take you there in an hour and a half. Now that I've graduated from high school, I have to go out and have a look."

Yang Yahan shook her head, her tone dejected: "My mother won't agree to me going on a trip with my classmates."

Looking at her dejected face, Yang Zheng's mind flashed with the black and white photo, and he said earnestly:

"In the eyes of parents, children are always children, no matter whether they are 18 or 28."

“And the children have no say.”

"If you don't let them realize you've grown up."

"Then they will never take your words seriously or value your ideas."

He and Yang Yahan have the same mother.

It is very clear what Yang Yahan's state of mind was when she reached extremes in her previous life.

Three feet frozen, not a cold day.

Yang Yahan wouldn't suddenly collapse just because Zhou Lan forced her to break up with her boyfriend.

This incident was just the last straw that broke the camel's back.

She seemed to collapse suddenly.

In fact, it is the accumulation of things from childhood to adulthood.

It was Zhou Lan who kept putting pressure on her.

These pressures enveloped Yang Yahan completely.

She didn't dare to resist, nor did she know how to resist, and she was powerless to resist.

So when she really couldn't bear the pressure, she chose to self-destruct.

"Then I..."

Yang Yahan stared at Yang Zheng in a daze: "How can I make my mother realize that I have grown up?"

Yang Zheng thought for a moment and then said, "Independence includes financial independence, ideological independence, and behavioral independence."

"Forehead……"

Yang Yahan paused for a moment and said, "I understand financial independence, it means earning your own money. But independence of thought and action...how can I show them that?"

Yang Zheng organized his words:

"Being independent-minded means expressing your own ideas to them. Don't just stop communicating because you think you can't communicate with them or there's a generation gap."

"If one explanation doesn't work, explain it twice. If two explanations don't work, explain it a third time. Express yourself more and communicate more."

"Even if they don't agree with your ideas, they will gradually realize that you have your own ideas."

"And if your ideas are proven to be correct, then no matter how old-fashioned they are, they will be speechless when the facts are before their eyes."

He paused and continued:

"Behavioral independence means completing things on your own and showing them to others."

"The size of the matter is not important; what matters is the word 'independence'."

“You need to let them see themselves making decisions and taking the initiative to do things.”

"For example, after dinner, don't wait for your mother to tell you to wipe the table or wash the dishes; take the initiative to do it."

"If you see something dirty in the house, clean it up yourself. Don't wait for your mother to call you."

"These are all small things, and you must have done them frequently."

"But if you take the initiative to do something, and do it only when your mother tells you to, it will give her a completely different feeling."

"You must have had this experience before: when you take the initiative to do something, your mother praises you for being sensible and grown up."

Yang Yahan stared at him blankly, nodding blankly: "It seems so."

There was a pause.

"Wow! You are amazing!"

Yang Yahan exclaimed in surprise, looking at Yang Zheng with shining eyes.

At this moment, Yang Zheng in her eyes was truly shining.

She has always suffered from her mother's high-pressure discipline.

I want to resist but I dare not.

Or I don’t know how to resist.

quarrel?

runaway?

She can't do it...

One is due to personality;

Secondly, she actually understood that her mother was doing this for her own good...

How can a person go against his parents who are only concerned about him?

So, in her opinion, this matter is completely unsolvable.

But what Yang Zheng said today opened a new door for her.

She inexplicably thought of a saying: Store up food and slowly become king.

Seeing her excited little expression.

Yang Zheng hesitated for a while, but didn't say anything more.

In fact, the so-called method of independent thinking and independent behavior is indeed very effective for ordinary parents.

But it certainly won't be that useful if you have extremely controlling parents.

What these parents say and even think in their hearts may indeed be for the good of their children.

But they are actually just satisfying their own desire for control.

It's just that maybe they themselves don't realize it.

And for parents like this, no matter how independent you are, it will be useless.

On the contrary, this may even further stimulate their desire for control.

There is only one way to deal with such parents – prove that you are better than them.

To put it more bluntly, it means being richer than them.

After all, in this economic age, money is enough to measure 99% of things in the world.

Whether you are strong or not depends on money.

Family love, love, friendship, all kinds of love are invisible and intangible.

But you can prove it with money.

No one can show others their sincerity, love and ambition.

But you can prove it with money.

So you have the ability? Then why can't you make money?

So it’s no wonder that there are so many money-worshipping people in this world.

Everyone is just being more realistic.

Zhou Lan, who could force Yang Yahan to the point of suicide, must be the type with a strong desire for control.

So in fact, the methods that Yang Zheng taught Yang Yahan may not be very useful.

but.

If Yang Yahan really did that.

Even if it can't change Zhou Lan's desire to control her.

It can also strengthen her own heart.

And people who are truly independent in thought and action.

It is impossible to give up your life for others.