The Rise of the Youth in the War of Resistance

Why are you afraid of conflict with others?

As long as others are a little bit mean to you or speak to you in a harsh tone, you will think it is an unfriendly behavior.

This shows that in your opinion, your relationship with others should be harmonious, and it is best to always be friendly and harmonious.

If you behave in such an extreme way, you must be a submissive person.

The submissive personality is very afraid of conflict. Because conflict will destroy the harmonious relationship between him and others.

It seems that a harmonious relationship is very important because it means that the other party recognizes himself, and only in such an atmosphere can he feel safe.

Any minor conflict will break this absolute harmony. His pursuit of security is so urgent that he cannot allow the relationship to suffer any damage.

To this end, they will deliberately suppress their aggressiveness and dare not say a word even if their interests are harmed. This is what people often call "good guys."

Ultimately, you attach too much importance to relationships. This is because of the lack of security, which makes you regard relationships as a life-saving straw, and try to ensure your sense of security through the love and acceptance of others.

But this requirement is too high. There are no friends who don’t have arguments or conflicts, and even your closest relatives cannot always be enthusiastic towards you.

Because you are mentally castrated.

Compete more and conflict with others more often, and you will generate tremendous energy.

You have to know that strong people and weak people have completely different values ​​​​about the world.

People who have fought before, or who often engage in vicious competition, have a completely different understanding of the world.

A soldier who has been to the battlefield and a student who has never been to a fight cannot possibly share any common values. (The conflict I'm talking about is like an argument. It's not about attacking someone, but about engaging in some kind of mental conflict and fighting, which can strengthen your willpower.)

A person who has never competed, fought, or perhaps won since childhood, actually has a twisted and cowardly mentality.

Because they are escaping from the real world, they are escaping from competition, they are escaping from conflict, they are escaping from fighting...

Therefore, they have no real understanding of this world. They are always complaining about this world and denying this real world.

There is a saying that goes, you must go through the beatings of society before you can face reality.

But they have never had any conflicts since they were young. They either despise authority or argue violently, or even dare not argue with others, dare not curse at others, and dare not fight with others... These people have a very low understanding of the world.

You are weak inside because you have not faced the real world. It is not just you, most people are like this.

They live in their own fantasy, believing that people should live in peace with each other and there should be no conflicts. When faced with any conflict, they always escape, give in, and surrender.

I like warriors, because only warriors, who are brutal and confrontational, are true comrades and friends.

Because such people will truly understand what human nature is like.

There are many people who have come out of the greenhouse, or the tamed students who have come out of school or are still in school. They always criticize competition and fighting. They will criticize things that are courageous and bloody... but they don’t know that their own cowardice is the cause of their disaster.

Because he didn't face reality, he could only continue to suffer disasters.

Maybe this is not called facing it. You have to integrate into this life-and-death struggle and competition, because this is a jungle.

Those who are truly corrupt and exude a rotten smell are precisely those kind-hearted people and those with weak characters.

Many people think that corruption refers to the strong, but you are wrong. The weak are those who are spiritually corrupt.

Do you know that many people, once they get older, start to smell like old people? That old smell is incredibly unpleasant. It's a kind of spiritual corruption.

I can tell you: powerful people and nobles of high status do not have the smell of old people.

Only people with rotten spirits can give off the smell of old age.

At a certain age, their spirit decays, which leads to the decay of their cells and nerves.

This smell of spiritual decay is the smell of death of human nerves and cells, the foul smell emitted after death.

It just happened in advance.

Therefore, the essence of life lies in fighting, in happiness, in being strong and powerful.

The more concentrated your vitality is, the more vigorous you will be.

This kind of conflict also includes a kind of sports ability, that is, a kind of confrontational sports ability. No matter what sport you are into, exercise more and maintain positive values, and your spirit will become more and more energetic.

But remember that anyone who wants to put pressure on you or causes trouble for no reason must be eliminated, and the other party's spiritual energy must be plundered and suppressed, no matter whether this person is your relative, a blood relative, a classmate, colleague, a bad person, or a stranger. As long as they deliberately cause trouble, you must do this.

Heaven and earth are unkind and treat all things as straw dogs. Sages are unkind and treat the people as straw dogs.

Since I can't avoid the problem, I will face it head-on, grasp the core, and finally struggle hard with my own abilities. I don't believe that I really have to be weak all my life.

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This is my personal opinion, which I saw on Zhihu, for reference only.

Maybe we are really weak, and this is the reality.

We are tortured by illnesses big and small, but what about it?

But your body hasn't given up yet, so how can you give up so easily?

If you give up, are you worthy of the immune cells that fight the virus, and the body cells that die like warriors?

Think carefully about what you said:

“If…if…”

Do you want to let them become fantasies and bubbles?

So, you have to hold on, you!

?(o?o)??(o?o)??(o?o)?

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