Genshin Impact: My confession was rejected, so I traveled to seven countries

Yes, why?

Su Mo was stunned for a moment. It seemed that he had never studied this question in detail. When he asked Yun Jin, Yun Jin said it was a secret, but the other party did not say what it was exactly.

This is not only a response to Keqing's question, but also a concern about the judgment of the memory of this matter.

Su Mo thought about it, if it were him, not to mention the previous experiences, just taking the most recent contact as an example, would he really muster up the courage to confess just because he had three experiences with the other person?

The answer is, yes!

But that is based on the premise that you particularly like the other person, already know each other well enough, and are ready to spend the future with the other person. Otherwise, you generally won't be so impulsive.

Although he knew Yun Jin, he hadn't reached the point of knowing her thoroughly, let alone asking her to confess her feelings. Even with Ke Qing, he had waited for a long time before making up his mind...

Sensing Su Mo's inner turmoil, Zhen hurriedly said, "Su Mo, don't overthink it. From my observation, Yun Jin will definitely not harm you."

Su Mo responded, "I know she won't hurt me, but why? I can't figure it out."

"So your doubt is that you don't believe she likes you? Or are you not sure about her feelings?" I am really confused. Since I think the other person will not do anything to me, why do I think so much?

Su Mo denied it and said seriously in his heart, "No, I never doubted her, and I believed her! But I also want to know why it was me."

Those involved are often confused, but those who are watching can see things more clearly. He was previously deeply involved in the matter and didn't investigate further because Yun Jin had fooled him with a secret. Now that he thinks about it, it seems to be true.

Who is she? It's Yunjin, a famous actress in Liyue, the heir of a family of opera performers. She's so beautiful, so tall. Why would someone like her like me?

Just like what Keqing said, love at first sight? Regardless of whether Keqing believed it or not, he himself was a little bit unconvinced.

Most of those were just based on lust or a sense of wonder. But when it came to expressing his feelings, Su Mo knew his own limitations and wasn't going to that extent.

But if you count the experiences before those three, I wouldn’t like it that much.

As for Yun Jin harming him, he knew that he would never do that.

But it is indeed a bit unbelievable.

After listening to Su Mo's words, Zhen thought for a moment, "Generally speaking, in this kind of situation, if the girl takes the initiative, it seems like you won't suffer any loss!"

Su Mo rolled his eyes. "That's a matter of whether I suffer a loss or not. I certainly won't suffer too much loss, but nothing happens without a reason."

Just as there is no like or love without reason, there is no dislike or hatred without reason.

Everything in the world has a source, which may be a very small thing, or sometimes just a feeling or a sentence.

It’s not that he didn’t believe in Yun Jin’s feelings, he just wanted to know where the turning point was that made her make up her mind.

Zhen counseled, "Could it be because of feelings? The feeling you give her makes her feel that you are someone she can entrust her life to, and it also meets her inner expectations of love. After all, it is said that if you like someone, your feelings for them are the best, and it is because of that feeling that you like them."

There are so many men and women in the world who decide to be with each other because of the feeling they have when getting along with each other, and this feeling has become one of the signs of mate selection, just as a person will definitely not get into a relationship with someone he or she dislikes.

After hearing Zhen's words, Su Mo did not feel relieved, but sighed, "If that's the case, then I'm even more worried." There was a hint of inexplicable loss and sadness in his tone.

"Why?" I really don't understand.

Su Mo said calmly, "A feeling can make you like someone, but it can also make you hate someone. If you're with someone because of a feeling, what do you do when that feeling disappears? Do you just break up?"

I was a little confused, “Isn’t this right?”

Su Mo shook his head and asked, "So when you're with someone, is it a feeling you have? Or do you simply like them as a person? And your love and liking are so cheap, you just say it's there and then you say it's not there?"

Shin was lost in thought for a moment.

Some people might say that liking someone is a feeling, and if you can express it, then it's still liking them. The implication is that you should guide your actions and words based on your feelings.

But Su Mo felt that it was just a feeling, not true love. Feelings come quickly and naturally go away quickly. So when the feeling of love dissipates, can the remaining love still be called love?

Or, if this feeling of liking someone is suddenly suppressed by a feeling of dislike in the future, and the other person says they don’t like him or her anymore, can you say that you liked this person before?

That can't be calculated that way. That feeling of liking someone only refers to liking the feeling at that moment, not liking the person. In other words, if it's just because of the emotion, then even if it's someone else, in the right situation and place, the other person will still like this person.

Therefore, we cannot rely solely on intuition when doing things and being a person. Even if the intuition is clear, it does not mean that it is right. Sometimes we need to think more about it.

Besides, a person has advantages and disadvantages.

If you like someone, there must be something about that person that touches you or you have had long-term contact with him or her, and there must be something about that person that you admire.

This is the kind of place that can be described, not just intuitively.

Su Mo knows what he is pursuing in his heart, including the standards of love.

What he needs is someone who firmly chooses him to spend the rest of his life with, someone who feels good about him at first and expresses his love for him, but after getting to know him later, discovers all his strengths and weaknesses and still firmly chooses him.

If the other party is determined to choose him and he is really interested in her, then he will definitely choose the other party no matter what.

If you don't let me down, I will never let you down.

That person doesn't need to be too beautiful or outstanding, an ordinary woman will do. They can go through difficulties together and both parties work hard for a common future. Instead of hesitating and repeatedly saying no, and relying on a feeling to maintain the relationship.

If both parties try their best to get along, but find that they cannot go on because of their different values, they can break up peacefully. He can accept it and he will not say too much, because some things cannot be changed by force. This is a personal reason between both parties.

But if a breakup or liking someone is caused solely by one person's feelings, then Su Mo will not accept this relationship.

Especially when someone expresses their love based on their feelings, only to find that they can come and go as they please, it is even more infuriating. This is not only an insult to him personally, but also an insult to the relationship.

He was deeply involved in it at the beginning and did not delve into it too much. Now that Keqing said this, he also wanted to know the source and development.

Actually, it's okay to be muddle-headed and let things take their course. It's fine. But you can't just do things half-heartedly. You have to do it from the heart, with a clear mind. Sometimes you have to ask why...

Seeing Su Mo silent, Keqing tactfully said nothing more. She rested her head on his shoulder and looked at his thoughtful profile quietly. She felt an inexplicable throbbing in her heart.

How do you say that?

Serious men are the most handsome, especially those who are thinking seriously. This is what Keqing thinks.

However, regarding the matter between Su Mo and Keqing, she just put herself in the shoes of a woman. She felt that the entire three stages were important, but not particularly important either.

It is important to quickly improve the favorability of both parties and get to know each other better.

It doesn't matter because although the favorability increases, it is far from enough to make the other person muster up the courage to confess.

But things happened so strangely and happily?

Is this reasonable?

This is unreasonable! ?

Take her and Su Mo's years of getting along as an example. She was also confused by the other party's sudden confession at the beginning. She didn't know whether to accept or reject it for a while. She hesitated and was at a loss. Only later did she sort out her true thoughts.

If it is true as Su Mo said, three experiences can give a girl who has very little interaction with him the courage to do something completely different from her usual behavior?

She doesn't believe it!

What's more, when you haven't given anything, no gifts, no expression of love, why should you expect the other person to confess to you?

Based on how the other person feels about you after going out with you for a while?

Just kidding, if it were really that simple, wouldn't all those infatuated people in the world who yearn for love finally get married? And there wouldn't be so many pitiful people who failed in love.

Just as men understand men best, women understand women best.

Even if a girl is cheerful and outgoing by nature, it is impossible for her to confess her feelings to the other person just because of three experiences when there is nothing going on. After all, girls are cautious, especially in such emotional matters. When they really want to be with the other person and entrust their life to him, they will have many worries.

Even if she has a great affection for the other person and hears your feelings, she wants to agree immediately, but when the words come to her lips, her inner restraint about the future and her womanly reserve will immediately stop her, putting her in a dilemma.

The moment you express your opinion, they have already thought about the future and have a rough outline, including but not limited to family circumstances, the status of the two and married life... They will weigh the pros and cons and thus hesitate.

There are concerns about the future, as well as a search for self-respect and one's own feelings.

To avoid being deceived and defrauded of their innocence and affection by those with ulterior motives, they will use all sorts of probing tactics, half-truths, hoping to uncover their true intentions over time. However, they will never overreach, leaving you completely disappointed, or feeling like you're acting hot and cold. Throughout this process, you treat them the same, and their status in their hearts continues to rise until they truly feel you're someone they can rely on, at which point they'll unreservedly and proactively express their love.

Girls are so emotional sometimes.

Of course, the above is based on the assumption that both parties understand each other and the woman has genuine feelings for you. If not, don't even think about it.

Not to mention those who confess their love directly after knowing each other for a few days and going out shopping a few times.

There are only two ways this can happen.

One is that the other person doesn't care about you at all, but is just bored and happens to meet a pure-hearted person, so she takes the initiative to control the other person, being hot and cold, confusing the other person and making him/her lose their way. She keeps the other person hanging and gives some warmth so that the other person mistakenly thinks that she is interested in you, so that she can watch the gains and losses from the other side and satisfy her own special hobby.

The second one means that you have liked someone for a long time and have made mental preparations, and you are determined that you must be with you for the rest of your life. Otherwise, you would not have taken the initiative to confess your feelings, let alone cross the line.

"Do you think it might be love at first sight?" Before Su Mo could answer, Keqing asked herself, "I don't think so. If you two are like this, it can't even be considered love over time. Or you two must have known each other before, otherwise she would be a little weird..."

Su Mo shook his head and answered the question casually, "I have discussed this issue with her. Some things are not easy to say out loud. Besides, she is my girlfriend now. It seems that you are an outsider in terms of feelings."

"You!" Keqing was speechless for a moment. She gritted her teeth and punched Su Mo's shoulder in anger. "If you don't want to talk about it, forget it!"

Keqing was sulking, her cheeks puffed up, looking like a little hamster with nuts hidden in its mouth.

One of these two people is indecisive, and the other one is stabbing her ally. Neither of them is a good person to her, and it makes her upset. If she didn't feel something was wrong, would she really think she was willing to care about such a sad thing that made her sad?

Su Mo continued to carry Keqing on his back on the way back, but his mood was a little complicated at the moment. It was not heavy, but it was not as pure as before.