Genshin Impact: My confession was rejected, so I traveled to seven countries

"Su Mo, you've arrived just in time. Who else could it be? Zhongli," Hu Tao said reluctantly. "You don't even know how to pick clothes. If you keep doing this, my taste will be ruined and no one will want you."

Su Mo looked at Zhongli, who shook his head helplessly.

Su Mo immediately understood the trick and comforted her.

"It's okay, it's pretty. Besides, Master Hu is so cute, how could no one want her?"

Walnut snorted, "What if no one wants it? Do you want it?"

Su Mo was speechless. After thinking for a moment, he said, "The person who tied the bell must be the one to untie it. Mr. Zhongli, I think I will support you when the time comes."

When these words were spoken, everyone couldn't help laughing.

"Him?" Hu Tao glanced at Zhong Li with some disdain. "He's like that, keeping accounts every day. I could probably support him in the Hall of Rebirth."

Walnut finished complaining and then consoled herself, "Okay, then I'll just take it as you're comforting me."

Then he looked at Yun Jin and the others, "Why are you together? I waited for a long time but you didn't show up. It turns out you were secretly getting together. And the clothes you are wearing look so beautiful. Where did you buy them?" Hu Tao said with some envy.

Yun Jin was wearing a goose yellow long dress with elegant shoulder straps, bare arms, a simple and exquisite round neckline, and a skirt covered with light gauze, layered and hidden. The delicate fabric of the skirt was like clouds and mist, and was embellished with patterns. It was slightly tightened at the waist and then slowly spread out. As she walked, the skirt swayed lightly, as if a breeze was blowing.

The cuffs and hem of the skirt are decorated with a circle of lace, and paired with the exquisite makeup, a hazy feeling is created under the light, gentle and virtuous, showing the demeanor of a noble person and the beauty of tenderness.

Xiangling's orange and white dress contrasts sharply with her usual simplicity.

Hearing Hu Tao's question, Xiang Ling hurriedly said, "No, no, we just came here together. As for the clothes, we picked them out together these days." Xiang Ling explained.

Because she and Yun Jin also participated in the battle, they were also among the recipients of commendation.

Since it is a commendation and will attract everyone's attention, you must prepare a dress that is different from usual.

Otherwise, if you just wear ordinary clothes and put them on like that, others won’t know what to think.

In fact, she could guess it even without me saying it.

And I am also very concerned about this.

First, the sensory perception is not very good, which will make others feel that the individual does not attach importance to the banquet and has no manners, thus reflecting the family atmosphere and personal style.

Secondly, she actually attaches great importance to this party in her heart. Not to mention that it is the honor she has fought for, it is just the honor of the official Liyue. As a Liyue person, she should take it to heart.

As the saying goes, good things should be shared together. Especially when it comes to choosing clothes, girls are particularly particular and picky about it. I often get entangled in this and want to listen to other people's opinions.

Girls in every family love to join in the fun, and they learn from each other and play around when it comes to dressing up.

Therefore, when it comes to such a difficult matter in life as choosing clothes, having a like-minded friend or companion can make up for this shortcoming.

And Yun Jin is exactly the best candidate.

In order to avoid getting entangled in this important matter, Xiangling went to find Yunjin to go shopping together. Because of Yunjin, Su Mo naturally took on the role of their personal bodyguard and the hard labor of carrying things.

Su Mo had nothing to do these past few days, so he went to Yun Jin and went shopping with him. They had each chosen a suitable dress, and he had just been waiting at Yun Jin's house for her to get dressed, which was why he was a little late.

Talking about the experiences of the past few days, Su Mo really felt the girls' duplicity, and also understood why girls' thoughts were so hard to pursue that many male compatriots said they were difficult to pursue.

Let’s not talk about anything else, just take the matter of choosing clothes as an example.

Girls are particularly particular and picky about choosing clothes. They often get entangled in this and want to listen to other people's opinions.

But in fact, sometimes girls have already chosen the answer in their hearts when asking, and asking others is just to confirm their own ideas. What others think is not important, what is important is that others agree with it, and the main thing is a sense of participation.

Sometimes they will deliberately only point out the shortcomings of a piece of clothing without mentioning its advantages, clearly revealing that they don't want to buy it. But in fact, it's just the opposite. They like the clothes in their hearts, otherwise they wouldn't take it so seriously and ask such a question.

Because for them, if they are really not interested in something, they will not ask or mention it.

However, some newbies, when they hear that the girl doesn't want to buy the item, they will just give up and agree, or even spill the beans and list all the shortcomings of the item in one go, just to show that they have the same point of view as the girl, so that the other party will think that they have the same aesthetic values ​​as the other party, and thus gain further favor.

In fact, this is not the case. Sometimes, this approach will not only cause girls to be disgusted, but also make them think that the other party's values ​​and aesthetics are inconsistent with their own, and that they have too many ideas, which will lower their status in the girls' hearts.

This is fatal for some newbies.

If you think about it, it's really not their fault. Most boys are straightforward and say what they think. When they get along with each other, the main feature is honesty and directness. Naturally, they do things decisively and can solve problems with just a few words.

But for girls who are as invisible and formless as water, they may find it a little unpredictable. They don't understand why the other party is sometimes gentle and tender like a trickle of water, and sometimes like a whirlwind and a huge wave. They really can't grasp it. Those veterans in the love field will naturally be successful, but for newbies, it will be a storm.

Therefore, for male compatriots, when things are unclear and you are not sure, the best way is to have mixed feelings.

When a girl asks for advice, if you really don't know the deeper meaning behind it, you won't be able to figure out what she's thinking.

Then you can have half of each emotion, you can first evaluate the shortcomings of the item and agree with the girl, but!

Remember!

Don't be too absolute in anything! Learn to leave a way out!

You can talk about shortcomings, but you cannot directly point out the most important and fatal flaws. Instead, you can only talk about those obvious flaws that are not serious or itchy and can be seen by anyone.

This way girls will feel that you mentioned the flaws but didn't say anything. At most, they will think that you don't have too many ideas, rather than thinking that you have too many ideas and are disgusting.

After you finish speaking, you should immediately change the tone and praise the advantages of this item.

Let her fully see the advantages of this item, so that you appear to be impartial and avoid irreversible flattery.

After the mixed feelings, it’s best to have one last sentence.

(Give an example)

Overall, I think this is okay. This dress not only highlights the baby's appearance, but also highlights the baby's appearance.

We can also take another look, but no matter which one you choose, I will like it, because in my eyes you are a clothes rack and you look the most beautiful in whatever you wear.

Whatever you say.

But in the end, you must praise! Praise! Praise!

Important things should be said three times, even if it seems a little inappropriate, but you must praise it!

This way, she will feel that in your eyes, clothes and other things are not the most important, your thoughts are not the most important, but in your eyes...

Her thoughts are what counts!!!

After you compliment her, even if she doesn't say anything, or laughs and scolds you for being chatty, or looks stern and says you're talking nonsense and being glib, it's okay, just don't take it to heart.

Although she said this, she must have felt a small moment of joy in her heart. After all, who would feel uncomfortable being coaxed and cared for?

Everyone likes to be praised, it’s just a matter of how much.

In this way, you answered her question with mixed feelings and impeccable results. And your final compliment also satisfied her emotional value, and she felt very happy to be with you. Once there is one, there will be two, and then there will be infinity!

But these are not the main points. The most important thing is, by answering like this, are you subtly throwing this question back to her?

We can also take a look at it again, but no matter which one you choose, I like it. Does this sentence allow her to make her own choice?

Even if she suddenly becomes dissatisfied in the future, generally speaking, you have given her a thorough analysis, so she won't be able to blame you then! At most, she might be a little bit rude, but the problem is not on your side after all.

After you finish praising it, she will think about it again and ask you, so we want this one?

Here comes the point!

What this sentence means is, after listening to your description, I am a little moved, please confirm it for me as soon as possible!

At this point, her general thoughts are already very clear, and you must speed up, keep adding to her, praise her for her good vision, etc.

If after you praise her, she nods without saying anything and continues to look at other clothes, don't be discouraged. It only means that she has some ideas about this dress in her mind, but it doesn't really suit her taste. This has nothing to do with you.

I asked again later, and the same routine applies, with a comprehensive and specific analysis, but remember not to use too much force, just be normal.

If you, a male compatriot, personally like the set just now, but she has no choice and you want her to buy it, when she asks you to comment, the same routine is used, but you can also add at the end: I don’t think it’s as good-looking as the one just now, you see...

Then compare the advantages and disadvantages of the two, half true and half false, and highlight the advantages of the first set.

Of course! It’s possible that after you compliment her, she will say you’re talking nonsense, but don’t worry about it.

Because she must have felt a small moment of joy in her heart. After all, who would feel uncomfortable being coaxed and cared for? Everyone likes to hear others praise, it’s just a matter of how big the compliments are.

When a girl faces an object, she only reveals all its shortcomings and does not mention any of its advantages. This is because she wants to hear the advantages of the object from others, so as to satisfy her inner pride and superiority and prove her unique vision.

Asking others is just to confirm your own ideas. What others think is not important, what is important is that they agree with you. The main thing is a sense of participation.

Asking is just asking, and adopting is adopting. Asking does not necessarily mean adopting, and adopting does not necessarily mean true agreement.

In fact, even if others really disagree, they will still "argue with reason", and then argue with the other party for a long time, and finally choose that item.

So Su Mo was a little exhausted these days. Fortunately, Zhen was there to assist him, otherwise he really wouldn't be able to react alone. Fortunately, both of them were quite satisfied in the end, which was a good ending.

After listening to the story, Hu Tao felt a little jealous of the changes in Yun Jin and Xiang Ling.

Especially when she knew that it was Su Mo who helped pick out the clothes, she looked at their clothes and then at her own, and felt that her clothes did not highlight her intellectual beauty, so she looked at Zhongli strangely for no reason.

That expression seemed to be saying, we are both choosing clothes, but look at other people's aesthetic taste.

"Guest, what do you say?" Hu Tao looked at Zhongli while weighing her dress.

Zhongli disagreed with this and said lightly, "Master, you should do things that suit your age. I think it's better for you to be a little conservative." As he said this, he looked at Su Mo with an ambiguous meaning.

Su Mo suddenly had a bad feeling.

What kind of look is this?

Why does it feel like I was the one who led his daughter astray?

The Zhen in Su Mo also teased from time to time, "Hey, that's a look that suggests someone's daughter is being led astray. Xiao Su, what do you think?"

Su Mo was speechless.

After hearing Zhongli's words, Hu Tao snorted, "Why be so reserved on such an important occasion? If you do this again next time, I'll just go find Su Mo."

Girls love beauty, why are you so conservative?

It feels like being controlled when others watch it.

Seeing the flames of war coming towards him, Su Mo hurriedly dissuaded himself, "Hu Tao, it's better for you to listen to Mr. Zhongli. Mr. Zhongli has good taste. If it were me, I would probably choose this one for you. Because relatively speaking, this set is more suitable for you!"

"Ah?" Walnut was a little surprised, then looked at the hem of her skirt.

Su Mo nodded. "Look, this dress not only fits you well, but also highlights your cuteness and the lively feeling of the girl next door. Besides, Mr. Zhongli is very knowledgeable. Don't you still believe in his vision?"

"Huh? So that's true." Hu Tao was delighted as she listened. "Guest, it seems I was wrong about you."

Hearing this, Zhongli withdrew his gaze.

Just as everyone was discussing, a voice broke the atmosphere.

"Everyone, now that you're all here, what are you still doing here? The celebration is about to begin."

Everyone looked and saw that it was Keqing.