I want to ruin the country

It is different in modern times, the focus of learning is different.

There are very few great scholars who have truly read the ancient classics, history, and literature, so the level of poetry is getting lower and lower.

In later life, one day in a certain year, Yining saw a poem written by the daughter of a great writer.

"You pee in a line, I pee in a pit",

“When you’re lonely, cucumbers are undoubtedly the best!”

He almost vomited. What a nonsense! It was totally disgraceful!

If this is also called poetry, I wonder if Li Bai, Du Fu, Bai Juyi, Su Dongpo and others would lift the coffin lid and find that Jia something to beat her up!

Let’s get back to the topic!

Beneath the painting "Such a Beautiful Countryside" lies a large carpet.

This carpet can be said to be the largest in the world. It is 23 meters long, 16 meters wide, and weighs more than 6000 kilograms. It took more than a hundred workers more than two months to weave it.

The banquet hall on the second floor is 99 meters long from east to west, 39 meters wide from north to south, and 12 meters high, covering an area of ​​4000 square meters, and can hold banquets for more than 3000 people.

This banquet hall can be said to be the largest banquet hall in the world today!

On the ceiling of the hall is a large painting of Nuwa flying in the sky, and not far away is a crystal glass ceiling lamp!

Yes, you read that right, it is a ceiling lamp, but it contains an incandescent bulb.

Current technology cannot produce fluorescent lamps, let alone LED lamps.

Zhang Xiang installed two huge wind turbines on the roofs of the front and back buildings.

This can basically solve the electricity problems of the two buildings.

The walls are cream-yellow, and the huge circular columns are decorated with gilded floral ornaments.

At the east end of the hall is a rostrum. In the middle is not a traditional octagonal table but a round table covered with a red tablecloth. There are ten chairs around each round table.

Zhang Xiang and Wu Meiling became the first consumers of the Royal Hotel.

Most of his guests were invited by Yining. Almost all officials of the fifth rank and above in Beijing came, as well as hundreds of celebrities from all walks of life in the capital.

The second is Zhang Xiang’s team. When the boss got married, all the subordinates came to congratulate him.

Of course, this includes Li Shanlan, Chen Shou, Hua Hengfang, Ding Gongchen and others.

Lin Zexu officiated their wedding and Du Shoutian witnessed it. His wedding was very grand.

The bride wore a traditional red dress, and Zhang Xiang also wore a red wedding dress.

Yining feels that this is the mystery and happiness of marriage.

In later generations, when getting married, women would wear white wedding dresses, which was said to symbolize purity.

What does purity have to do with clothes?

Two thousand years later, people's values ​​and marriage principles have changed dramatically.

In the past, both the bride and groom considered innocence as an advantage and were proud of being a virgin.

If a man or woman in a unit or a village gets engaged and breaks off the engagement many times, they will be laughed at by everyone.

Some will even say that you have a character problem, or directly say that you are a hooligan.

If people hear that a man is cheating on someone else's wife or that a woman is having an affair with another man, let alone legal sanctions, public opinion alone will make you unable to hold your head up.

But starting from 2000, things gradually changed.

The bride and groom had no idea how many times they had been in love before they got married.

Moreover, living together before marriage has become a fashionable thing!

It's just that they have never had a marriage certificate, a child, or a wedding banquet.

In our time (before the 1990s), if a bride had sex before marriage, it was considered a very shameful thing.

They feel guilty in their hearts!

To put it bluntly, I'm afraid that second-married brides before the 1990s were much purer than first-married brides after 2000.

There was a saying in the past that if you want to find a virgin, you may have to go to kindergarten.

Although this statement is somewhat absolute, it also represents a phenomenon.

You may say that people of our generation were conservative and feudal, but please look at the divorce rate of that era.

If a couple in a village gets a divorce, people in the surrounding villages will spread the news as a new story.

Why? Because of a sense of responsibility.

You get married, I get married, and we become a family, so we have to be responsible for each other.

You heard it right, it’s responsibility!

Responsibility is greater than heaven!

In those days, couples also had disagreements, but divorce was rare.

Most of the parents on both sides will not allow it!

But now, parents have no say in front of their children. After one or two years of marriage, when the passion fades, the first thing they think of when they have a quarrel is divorce.

I don't feel any burden or pressure in my heart, and I don't feel any guilt towards my children. I just want to be happy.

The author once watched a blind date TV program.

There was a very outstanding little boy in the show, but the reason he failed to hold hands with the female guests in the end was that the female guests disliked him for having never been in a relationship.

It has become a shameful thing for a man to remain a virgin!

Is it a distortion of thought or a decline in morality?

The things that we Chinese people used to admire have gradually been replaced by the foreigners' ideas.

Isn’t this naked cultural invasion?

What happened to the promise of knowing shame and promoting etiquette?

I’m afraid that young couples today will never be able to experience the feelings of our generation.

The mystery between each other, the shy charm, the anticipation of wanting to accept but not reject, the sweetness of the collision of souls and the trembling of the collision of bodies, that is what marriage is.

The feeling at that time will make me feel extremely happy whenever I think about it for the rest of my life.

But in modern marriages, both parties are so familiar with each other that they can even know each other’s hairs on the body. Where is the mystery?

Without the sense of mystery, the sense of responsibility will also be greatly reduced. You are half a catty and I am eight ounces. Let's both talk nonsense and neither of us should say anything!

So, no matter how white the wedding dress is, it cannot stop a woman from cheating, and no matter how strong the oath is, it cannot stop a man from finding a lover or a mistress. What does clothes have to do with it?

That's too far!

After paying homage to heaven and earth, Zhang Xiang and Wu Meiling entered the bridal chamber. Zhang Xiang used a weighing rod to lift Wu Meiling's veil, and the two drank wedding wine.

Then they both came out to toast everyone!

Everyone found it very strange. Why didn't the bride stay in the bridal chamber? Isn't this against the rules?

This was also Yining's idea. It was a new wedding, so why leave such a delicate girl alone at home? Wouldn't it be better to come out together and have some fun?

People don’t get married only twice or three times in their lifetime, so wouldn’t it be nice to leave more beautiful memories?

Wu Meiling did not object. Everything has a beginning, right? Besides, it was the emperor who said so. Since the emperor said it was okay, it must be right.

The emperor? He is a god-like being!